Today we dive into topics that are sensitive + complex in nature- discussing the black male brute archetype, how it came about + perpetuates across history and how it impacts sexual expression, tenderness, + platonic touch for men. THIS episode depicts the impact to us + the culture at large when we don’t take the time to understand nuance. Let’s change the cultural narrative by inspiring conversation. If you resonate with this episode be sure to share the podcast or leave me a review. In this e...
Sep 28, 2023•53 min•Season 4Ep. 149
Have different desires than your lover? Does this mean that you're not compatible? Does this mean you can’t have the sex life that we desire? Worry not, my lovers. I really believe in the power of all of us having the sex life of our dreams. ....And I also understand how threatening it can feel when our partner doesn't have the same desires that we do… Tune into this ep to hear the strategies for negotiating for threesomes and sex fantasies. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL HEAR: The dynamics that emerge ...
Sep 22, 2023•34 min•Season 4Ep. 148
The maestro of play party ceremonies, Yossef Sagi joins me to share about the healing + evolution that occurs in the nuance of love, of sex. Tantra and BDSM help us discover our personal patterns, desires, + fantasies. Starting the first week of October, Yossef will be one of my guest teachers for my course: Sex Love Psychedelics: Alchemy. In this episode you’ll see these ways that we apply spiritual theory into practical applications. In this episode, you’ll hear: Maintaining integrity in the f...
Sep 15, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 4Ep. 147
I'm here to debunk myths about ketamine and reveal its healing potential within couples' therapy. This episode offers a peek into what it's really like to work with me in a couples’ session, guiding you through the full journey's arc – from preparation to integration. It's more than just the dose; it's a holistic experience. In this episode, you’ll hear: Dr. Cat's personal experience with ketamine The role of ketamine in nurturing closeness among couples and its capacity to heighten empathy A lo...
Aug 17, 2023•33 min•Season 4Ep. 146
Energetic lovemaking guide + Sex and Relationship coach Bibi Brzoka joins me explore the concept of energy + how it affects our body, our love, + even the vibrance on our life. My life changed when I realized that sex was energy. No longer was it just this experience of friction between body parts, but that we could penetrate with the invisible, yet palpable extension of energy. There’s some juicy energetic practices + practical tips within this conversation. All of which highlight truly how sex...
Jul 20, 2023•54 min•Season 4Ep. 143
Dr. Melissa Barker is an advocate for psychedelics + the improvement of protocols for complex PTSD. In this episode, you’ll hear our personal experiences with trauma, therapy + how psychedelics helped. If you have a loved one experiencing the pain of trauma + sexual assault, perhaps this will provide the words they need to hear. In this episode, you’ll hear: The embodied practices that can support a trauma survivor How the word “trauma” can become an excuse to remain disempowered Pop psychology ...
Jul 06, 2023•58 min•Season 4Ep. 144
Whether you're in a non-monogamous relationship, or if you’re just curious, this episode is for you. Irene Morning, MS (she/her) is a somatic pleasure coach, intimacy educator, and bestselling author of The Polyamory Paradox: Finding Your Confidence in Consensual Non-Monogamy. We get into the nuances of non-monogamous relating and how you can support yourself + your loves with compassion + care. In this episode, you’ll hear: Creating security in non-monogamous relationships Irene’s inspiration a...
Jun 08, 2023•52 min•Season 4Ep. 143
Indigenously trained shaman, CFA charterholder, + chief investment officer for a billion-dollar portfolio, Sylvia Benito joins me to connect the consciousness to capital. We dive into psychedelic tourism and some of the questions + considerations we need to have as we both build out psychedelic companies, but also change the relationships we have with money (and sex) for ourselves. ...It's juicy. You'll love it. In this episode you’ll hear: The difference between an independent psychedelic exper...
May 25, 2023•1 hr•Season 4Ep. 142
Microdosing. It’s hot. It’s trendy. You might hear that you neighbor or daughter started doing it. But what is it good for + how do we do it in the most effective way? Paul Austin, one of the most prominent voices in the world of psychedelics joins me on the show to cover our microdosing foundations. Paul is the founder of Third Wave + author of Mastering Microdosing: How to Use Sub Perceptual Psychedelics to Heal Trauma, Improve Performance, and Transform Your Life. If you’re passionate about p...
Apr 27, 2023•58 min•Season 4Ep. 141
Can you make your cock bigger naturally? That’s one of the questions Jackson Hightower and I get to answer in this new episode. Jackson Hightower is a biohacker and men’s sexual health expert + founder of Natural Jackson--providing natural solutions for men’s sexual vitality. But even more than that, we talk about the cultural pressure around what it means to be masculine, who gets to be it, + what changing levels of testosterone are affecting the health + functioning of men, and what we can do ...
Apr 13, 2023•53 min•Season 4Ep. 140
Nadine Lee, founder of Tantric Alchemy + the newly released book Sex Priestess is a badass + embodies the modern experience of the tantric life. Where some of the ancient practices can feel far beyond us, or like we really need to be in an ashram or monk life to live out, Nadine shares about the integration of her inner experiences + the external happenings in a way that is beautiful + accessible. In this episode, you’ll hear: The vulnerable journey of launching Nadine’s new book: Sex Priestess ...
Mar 30, 2023•51 min
What happens when someone takes psychedelics + they experience painful memories or an overload of emotion + thoughts that they aren’t equipped to handle by themselves? Lauren Taus, psychedelics assisted therapist, educator, advocate + founder of In-bodied life, joins me to dive into the relationship of psychedelics + trauma. We get deep into some conversations about how psychedelics effect on our brain + body, which substances do we see as having a greater effect in working with trauma, what res...
Mar 23, 2023•44 min•Season 4Ep. 138
Board certified naturopathic endocrinologist, trained clinical sexologist and author of the new book “Is This Normal?” Dr. Jolene Brighten joins me to breakdown all the complex questions that come with sex, hormones and PMS. You’ll hear Dr. Jolene addresses some of what our culture has adopted as normal + the underlying hormone imbalances that may be causing it. We even get into the issue of vaginal dryness, what causes it + how we can support our bodies' natural production again. In this episod...
Mar 16, 2023•58 min•Season 4Ep. 137
Professional dominatrix Colette Pervette joins me to look at BDSM as a microcosm of the macro culture + our lives, and how you can find transformation with the intentional embracing of power roles, toys, tools, scenes--whether that’s with a partner or with a professional dom. I’ve brought many experts on to talk about BDSM, but this episode is hands down my favorite. Probably because Colette has such a brilliant + academically inclined mind, as well as, someone who is deeply devoted to spiritual...
Mar 02, 2023•58 min•Season 4Ep. 136
Sex isn’t as straightforward as we might put pressure on ourselves to believe. Great sex takes time in demystifying + reconstructing concepts, narratives, + skills. Court Vox is a Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach Surrogate Partner Intern and Sacred Intimate based coach. He’s the Founder of The Body Vox and Co-Founder of SQUIRM. Court works with individuals from all genders with somatics, teaching them to come back to the relationship with the body to understand the internal cues that make or b...
Feb 16, 2023•1 hr•Season 4Ep. 135
Rev Briana Lynn is a spiritual mentor and facilitator on the intersection of the silly, sacred and sexy. She is here to wade through the plant medicine waters to help us understand the relationship of eroticism to plant medicine. The two of us unpack the unfortunate abuse of power + sex that can occur in the psychedelic and shamanic plant medicine world and how you can move forward more informed and safe. In this episode, you’ll hear: The erotic nature of plant medicine - flora, fauna, and fungi...
Feb 02, 2023•52 min•Season 4Ep. 134
Do you identify as a slut? Or do you feel repulsed or turned off by the word? If you're ready to embody the sacred slut and harness your sexuality as a form of healing, I’ve got an edgy + intelligent conversation for you. Gabriela Herstik is the author of Sacred Sex, Inner Witch, Bewitching the Elements, and Embody Your Magick, as well as the essay series "Diary of A Sacred Slut." In this episode you’ll hear: Gabriela’s journey of embracing the world of Sex Magick, BDSM + Kink Merging the sacred...
Jan 19, 2023•59 min•Season 4Ep. 133
International sex expert and sex educator and author of the new book Beyond Satisfied, Kenneth Play joins me to give us some techniques for face sitting, oral sex, flow states, and navigating the grey zone in consent. …This whole episode is full of skills to start incorporating in your sex play NOW. There’s so much we can discover about our bodies + about sex. When we approach it not from an achievement standpoint, but from a playful exploration… “let’s see what we can learn”, it can keep sex no...
Jan 05, 2023•57 min•Season 4Ep. 132
The author of the erotic poetry book Tales of Lara + host of the podcast ‘Pussy Church” joins me to share her intimate process in writing erotica, where she’s gotten her inspiration, how she sees her work as a fight against the patriarchal social expectations around sex + dating, as well as, how this practice of erotic writing changed her love life. If you want to not only be turned on, but given drip worthy reference points of an empowered erotic life, this episode is for you, your best friend ...
Dec 22, 2022•47 min•Season 4Ep. 131
Certified Professional Sex Coach and Sexologist, and host of men, sex, pleasure podcast, Cam Fraser joins me to talk all things sex, masculinity + pleasure. Cam + I highlight the cultural assumptions that form our internal models of how masculinity + pleasure ”should” be… We also speak on how authentic masculinity can also include a touch of sensuality, play + pleasure. It’s so good. I am buzzing for you to hear it. In this episode, you’ll hear: The cultural narrative + normativity we place on g...
Dec 08, 2022•51 min•Season 4Ep. 130
Clinical psychiatric pharmacist Dr Ben Malcom with Spirit Pharmacist, joins me to share which medications don’t mix with which psychedelics, the process of combining the worlds of psychopharmacology + psychedelics AND his consultation practice that advocates for safe psychedelics exploration. In this episode, you’ll hear: The cultural narrative about depression, SSRIs + the combination of psychotropic meds and psychedelics. How the DSM5 diagnoses depression How psychedelics can help treat depres...
Nov 24, 2022•58 min•Season 4Ep. 129
You may have heard about the frog serum kambo as a trending deep cleanse, and honestly it’s so much more than that. I had the honor to interview the founders of Kambo International and my two master teachers, Ginny Rutherford + Steve Dumain. The two of them provide a no-bullshit approach to the benefits, experience and the facilitation of this medicine. In this episode, you’ll hear: What Kambo is + where it comes from What an experience of sitting for a ceremony with Kambo looks like Dispelling ...
Nov 10, 2022•1 hr 5 min
Ready to learn about bicuriosity, queerness, + pansexuality? In this sexy episode I break down what each identity means, how identity influences the culture and why men have a harder time being able to explore their identity. This episode may inspire you to play into your gay. ...If you want to. (Consensually, of course.) In this episode you’ll hear: -What bicuriosity, bisexuality, queerness, + pansexuality really means -Dr Cat’s personal journey in exploring sexual fluidity and attraction -The ...
Oct 27, 2022•45 min•Season 4Ep. 127
Facilitator and coach of non-traditional relationships, and the host of Open Late Podcast, Jessica Esfandiary joins me to share her insight on non-traditional relationships. The two of us talk about how to navigate the bias of people who want to tell you these types of dynamics “don’t work”, the essential qualities to making these relationships healthy and tips to thrive when falling in love with people who are not our significant other. It’s a *juicy* episode that truthfully can be applied to w...
Oct 13, 2022•57 min•Season 4Ep. 126
Feelin' like you've lost your erotic fire? it doesn’t mean you’ll be stuck in low libido forever . In this quickie episode, I’m here to highlight each stage of sexual healing, and how you can bring your sexy back. In this episode you’ll hear: What is eros? And how do you connect to it? The stages of sexual healing to transcendence: Resting Healing, Curious, Adventurous, Transformative Why your body can’t produce sex hormones and stress hormones at the same time How to navigate our experience whe...
Aug 25, 2022•31 min•Season 4Ep. 125
To help us make sense of the SCOTUS ruling on abortion rights, I have with me today Amy Merrill, the founder of Plan C, an organization here to give you the information + support necessary for you to take back the agency of your own body. This is an incredible conversation we get into, one that not only touches on what’s happening in our political system around abortion, but also what’s brought us to this point. In this episode, you’ll hear: The real process of getting an abortion. What is the p...
Aug 04, 2022•54 min•Season 4Ep. 124
In this quickie episode, you'll hear my experience working with ketamine assisted therapy as a client and a clinician. As I've studied ketamine more in a clinical setting, my reverence for this medicine has grown to be so strong. I lead this discussion with the importance of doing this work with a therapist + in the safe confines of a clinically regulated medicine. In this episode you’ll hear: What is ketamine? The unique properties What is ketamine assisted therapy How I used it after covid How...
Jul 21, 2022•35 min•Season 4Ep. 123
How do you self-identify? Do you feel in alignment with your identity? Or are you sensing the subtle dissonance? Nick Onken, identity wizard, world-renowned photographer, and creative alchemist joins me on this episode of Sex Love Psychedelics to talk about re-inventing ourselves and alchemizing old wounds can allow us to live our most authentic expression. In this episode, you’ll hear: Nick’s journey with self-identity and re-inventing the self The complexity of tying your self-worth to your id...
Jun 23, 2022•41 min•Season 4Ep. 122
We’ve done some revamping over here on the podcast transforming Eat Play Sex into Sex Love Psychedelics. Sex Love Psychedelics with Dr. Cat Meyer will stimulate + titillate your brain with all of the psycho-sexual conversations + guest experts to answer your curiosities on sex, love, and the psyche. Whether we are analyzing the complexities of love, giving tips on energetic orgasms, or getting off on the latest research in psychedelics, it’s going to be a very WILD + expansive experience for us ...
Jun 20, 2022•1 min
Are you curious about embodying a dominant role in the bedroom? My dear friend Miss Lila Sage joins me on the most recent Eat Play Sex podcast to share about her work. Lila is an international Dominatrix, certified hypnotherapist, and performance artist. Her work is a prime example of how eroticism can be an enriching and activating experience, rather than depleting. I’m honored Lila will be teaching about power play, polarity, and BDSM in the next round of Erotically Undone! In this episode you...
Apr 13, 2022•47 min•Season 3Ep. 121
