This week we chat with Michael Timlin – comedian, butcher, and host of the podcast Work Sucks, I Know. We start off discussing his classic school sex ed experience (complete with P.E. teacher and all) and end the episode discussing what we've learned from people we've talked to on the pod. Does anyone anywhere ever get good sex ed?? Maybe, maybe not. You'll have to listen to find out. Follow Michael's Twitter to read more of his brain thoughts and definitely check out his podcast, Work Sucks, I ...
May 26, 2023•45 min•Season 3Ep. 28
This week we talked to Cyndi Darnell , author and sex therapist from Australia, all about her new book " Sex When You Don't Feel Like It ." She tells us about how her clients inspired her to research pleasure and desire, offers sage advice on how to talk to intimate partners, and basically gives us both a free therapy session on the pod! If you like this episode of the podcast, definitely go purchase and read a copy of Cyndi's book, "Sex When You Don't Feel Like It." For a chance to win a free c...
Dec 02, 2022•55 min•Season 3Ep. 27
In part 2 of our interview with Jeff Eaton from the Christian Rightcast , we talk through the history of the purity movement in detail. We account for how it changed over time, from AIDS being treated as a moral issue to True Love Waits. We also discuss biblical masculinity, Bill Gothard and the Duggars, and the motivations of leaders in the purity movement.
Nov 18, 2022•43 min•Season 3Ep. 26
This incredible interview with Jeff Eaton , co-host of the Christian Rightcast , is split into two episodes. In this episode, we discuss Jeff's upbringing as a Christian homeschooler in the 1980s. Jeff tells us all about his experience in purity culture, from the earnestness that he felt for the cause to his eventual deconstruction. We talk about the destructive pitfalls of purity culture and how consent is not only an avoided topic, but actually toxic to the ideology of purity culture....
Nov 11, 2022•53 min•Season 3Ep. 25
This week, we got to talk to some teens who are in the midst of their sex education in school: Disha and Sara. These two are working on an incredible program called Project AdoleSENSE. Their mission revolves around bringing better sex education to young people in India, where they both live. Disha and Sara talk to us all about what sex ed is like in India, what inspired them to start Project AdoleSENSE, and how you can help support their work. Follow them on Instagram or send them an email at pr...
Oct 31, 2022•38 min•Season 3Ep. 24
We're back for part 2 of the abortion conversation. In this episode, we talk about our experiences learning about abortion (mostly from church) in the 90s and early 2000s. Kaylee recounts her slow journey from anti-abortion to pro-choice in hopes of illuminating the path from anti-abortion to pro-choice. We end the episode by discussing what common ground there is between anti-abortion and pro-choice people. Hint: it's better sex education. If you're in need of some light and fun reading, Guttma...
Oct 21, 2022•36 min•Season 3Ep. 23
We're back from our mid-season break and finally ready to talk about all the crazy anti-abortion bullsh*t that's been going on in the United States. First, Kaylee outlines the legal history of abortion in the United States, from the national ban in 1910 to the passing of Roe v. Wade in 1973. Next, we discuss how abortion became a hot button issue for conservative Christians. Finally, Jen walks through what has changed state-by-state since the overturning of Roe v. Wade. Sources: Abortion Is Cent...
Sep 02, 2022•54 min
We had the pleasure of talking to the wonderful Melissa Fabello : sex & relationship educator, life coach, and support group aficionado. Talking points include queering your life, relationship anarchy, and Gaylor Swift . Be sure to follow Melissa on Instagram to stay up to date on all her latest and greatest work.
Jun 24, 2022•57 min•Season 3Ep. 21
It's Pride Month 2022 and folks, it is the year of the bisexual. Jen and Kaylee talk about being extremely bisexual, the difference between being bisexual vs pansexual vs queer, and all of the best bi stereotypes. The episode ends with a talk about how sex education could be more inclusive of the extremely bisexual. If you take anything away from this episode, please remember that being bisexual is an inclusive identity!
Jun 17, 2022•45 min•Season 3Ep. 20
This week we got the privilege of interviewing Alex Liu , who just released a documentary all about sex education called A Sexplanation (streaming now!). The doc covers how lacking sex ed is in America and facilitates some difficult conversations with people from across the political spectrum, as well as Liu’s parents. In our convo with Alex, we discuss our favorite moments of the documentary, why he decided to make it, and then launch into a wonderful discussion about how to help people—especia...
Jun 10, 2022•58 min•Season 3Ep. 19
You might remember TDo from previous appearances on the pod, including Kissing Girls > Kissing Boys and What's This Whole Kink Thing About? You may think we've run out of topics to talk to TDo about since we've already covered sexuality and kink, but YOU'RE WRONG! This episode may be our best TDo appearance yet. What do we discuss? You've got to listen to find out....
Jun 03, 2022•40 min•Season 3Ep. 18
Did you know that on any given day, it's estimated that 1 in 5 people have a sexually transmitted infection (STI)? If it's such a common occurrence, why is there so much shame wrapped up in a positive diagnosis? In this week's episode, Kaylee and Jen talk through their experiences learning about STIs when they were in school, which included graphic images passed around the room and essentially no useful information whatsoever. Then, Kaylee talks through her research into breaking stigmas and out...
May 27, 2022•33 min•Season 3Ep. 17
We caught up with Blair, who runs all socials with the handle Talk Purity to Me, to talk about her sex ed experiences and all things purity culture. This one's got it all, folks! Abstinence-only sex ed in public schools, "radically middle" living room churches, fundamental misunderstandings of how pregnancy happens, and so much more! If you haven't yet, make sure to follow Blair on Instagram , Twitter , and TikTok for all of your purity culture shame banishment needs....
May 20, 2022•46 min•Season 3Ep. 16
In this episode, Jen walks us through the long and arduous history of birth control, from random experiments (did someone say elephant dung?) to condoms, diaphragms, and birth control pills. A good portion of the episode is dedicated to discussing Margaret Sanger, covering not only her world-changing work on birth control reform and the establishment of Planned Parenthood, but also how many of her views overlapped with eugenics, culminating in the birth control pill trials that took place in Pue...
May 13, 2022•51 min•Season 3Ep. 15
We talked to Rachel Fey , the VP of Policy and Strategic Partnerships at Power to Decide , all about her career journey working in sex ed policy. Rachel gives us an in-depth review of the current state of the law available for sex education funding and learning requirements among the different states in the US, as well as information on what we can do to help push for better sex ed. If you want to learn more, check out Power to Decide and Bedsider . Additionally, you can read up on the federal s...
May 06, 2022•52 min•Season 3Ep. 14
Dating shouldn’t suck, but more often than not, it does. In this episode, Jen, Kaylee, and a few of their friends share some of their most unbelievable and cringe-worthy sex and dating moments. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, and hopefully you’ll feel less alone. If you liked this episode and think this format is something we should do more often, please tell us! Email us at [email protected] or send us a DM on Twitter or Instagram . We'd love to hear from you <3 Also it should be noted t...
Apr 01, 2022•54 min•Season 3Ep. 13
We all probably know a lot about sex in our current culture, but have you ever wondered how sex was viewed and talked about in the past? In this episode, Kaylee and Jen dive into the ancient history of sex in India, China, and Greece. Want to learn more? Check out our sources: A graphic history of sex History of human sexuality What Was Sex Like in Ancient India? Sex and Sexuality According to the Vedas Sexual Culture in Ancient China Love, Sex, & Marriage in Ancient Greece...
Mar 25, 2022•41 min•Season 3Ep. 12
Calling all fans of feet pics, and those that are just foot-curious, this is the episode for you. Jen and Kaylee interview Kellie, a self-proclaimed semi-retired foot artist who is on OnlyFans! Talking points include white picket fences, having the “cool mom,” and...cockroaches? Want to experience some of her sexy feet pics? Subscribe to our Patreon to get an exclusive look!
Mar 18, 2022•44 min•Season 3Ep. 11
Ever heard of the relataionship escalator? In the simplest terms, it’s the expectation that a relationship take concrete steps from first date to moving in together, engagement, marriage, and finally making a family. If a relationship isn’t moving up to the next level, it’s a failure and should end. In this episode, Kaylee and Jen discuss wha the relationship escalator is, pontificate on why society is so intense about it, and then discuss why it often fails so many of us.
Mar 11, 2022•35 min•Season 3Ep. 10
We talked to Ryan Sudhakaran—comedian, engineer, and overall joy of a human—all about his experiences in sex education and puberty. Talking points include 1960s bunker sex ed videos, boner simulators, and pick up artists. If you just couldn’t get enough of Ryan, find him on Twitter , Instagram , or if you’re in the Bay, at one of his live comedy shows.
Mar 04, 2022•45 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Anyone else think virginity as a concept is super weird? Just us? Hopefully after this episode you’ll agree, and also refuse to respect the concept of virginity any longer. Jen and Kaylee talk all about the definition of virginity through the ages, and then discuss all the reasons it makes no sense in real life. Also gay hell?
Feb 25, 2022•38 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Got questions about love and sex? You’re in luck! This week, we talked to Julia Naftulin —a writer and advice columnist for Insider. From dating apps to masturbation questions, Julia’s got it all covered. Be sure to follow Julia on Twitter , check out her writing on Insider , and her column Doing It Right ....
Feb 18, 2022•35 min•Season 3Ep. 7
We’re joined this week by the esteemed Ragean McDonald-Mosley , MD, MPH. Not only is Dr. Raegan an OBG-YN, but she’s also CEO of Power to Decide —a platform dedicated to providing information and fighting for access to birth control. In this episode, we discuss in detail all of the various types of birth control, where you can go to get it , and then talk about the problem of contraceptive deserts around the United States....
Feb 11, 2022•45 min•Season 3Ep. 6
There are just about a billion different kinds of birth control and everyone's experience with them is unique. This week, Kaylee walks through her journey to find the right blend of birth control methods that work for her. From confusing moralistic messages around the pill to pushy OB-GYNs hawking IUDs, it's a riveting tale. But at the end of it all, we're thankful birth control exists because it empowers us to make independent decisions about our bodies. Check out our blog for a written form of...
Feb 04, 2022•39 min•Season 3Ep. 5
This week, Kaylee and Jen talk about all things menstruation with Britta, co-founder of Vulvani . From cycle tracking as birth control to free bleeding as an eco-friendly alternative to period products, this episode has it all. If you don’t feel inspired to change the way you manage your time of the month after listening, you will at least be moved by Britta’s passion for normalizing periods and fighting taboos around menstruation....
Jan 28, 2022•39 min•Season 3Ep. 4
Jen and Kaylee talk an awful lot about sex education on this podcast, but this week, they take a moment to consider relationships. Should relationship education be taught in school alongside sex ed? Or should we let the youths continue to stumble into attachments blind, with only overly romanticized movies to light the way? Probably…probably the first one.
Jan 21, 2022•38 min
Have you ever had sex in a funeral home? Tim Lagman from Sex Ed with Tim has! This episode has that juicy story and more, including how Tim subtly got his parents to accept gay people, straight girls asking for anal advice, and Tim’s path to becoming the sexy sex educator he is today. Also, “Tight Hole” awards? Listennnnnn, if you want more Tim , you can check out his podcast and subscribe to his Patreon !...
Jan 14, 2022•40 min•Season 3Ep. 2
Jen and Kaylee discuss the history of the term "sex positivity" and dig into what it means to them personally. According to recent articles from BuzzFeed and the New York Times , sex positivity has fallen out of vogue in recent years, especially for Gen Z. While that thought might strike fear into Millennials who were raised in abstinence-only sex education, the roots of the departure are worth considering....
Jan 07, 2022•35 min•Season 3Ep. 1
It's season 3, baby! This trailer episode has a few exciting clips to give you a sneak peek of the season to come, plus lots of useful info about what we've got going on for this season. Make sure you stick around until the end for a...hoedown?
Jan 01, 2022•9 min
In the final episode of season 2, Jen and Kaylee discuss the major learnings they took away from this season and their favorite episodes. Special guest Kent Soliday joins for a short discussion on whatever it is he does for the Sex Ed Podcast that deserves thanking at the end of every episode, plus he gives us a special peek into what his sex education was like. Finally, this episode ends with a short talk about what to expect for season 3. Also...Kaylee doesn't know how to put a condom on??? 😳...
Jul 16, 2021•38 min•Season 2Ep. 19
