We got to talk to one of our idols, DB from the podcast Sex Ed with DB . Already 5 seasons in to her podcast, DB is an inspiration who works tirelessly to educate people with comprehensive sex ed not only on her show, but also on TikTok , Instagram , and more . She shares how a job teaching English in Israel inspired her to start Sex Ed with DB, how she uses her platform to help amplify the voices of many different kinds of people, and how reproductive justice is a critical element of comprehens...
Jul 09, 2021•42 min•Season 2Ep. 18
This week we're joined by Chara, owner of theblackbisexual Instagram account, to talk about all things bisexuality. Talking points include kissing girls in bathrooms at school, how straight-passing privilege is just bi-erasure, and biphobia from within the LGBTQ+ community.
Jun 25, 2021•46 min•Season 2Ep. 17
Sex education in schools is incredibly heteronormative. Most of the time, the only topics that are covered are safe sex protocols for PIV (penis-in-vagina) sex. Even though many young people identify as LGBTQ+, the ways that they experience their sexuality are never covered. Ignoring queer-inclusive sex ed stigmatizes being LGBTQ+ and can lead to bullying, harassment, and even assault. If sex education were changed to be more comprehensive and inclusive of LGBTQ+ kids, a whole spectrum of sexual...
Jun 19, 2021•37 min•Season 2Ep. 16
Meet Nat, a gender and sex educator, and the wonderful person behind the transfats3xedu Instagram account . In this episode, we cover trans masculine identities, fat liberation, and a whole bunch of queerness. Also hey mom, what is a carpet muncher?
Jun 11, 2021•41 min•Season 2Ep. 15
This week, we talked to the freaking AUTHOR of the The Ethical Slut : Dossie Easton ! If you haven't heard of it before, The Ethical Slut is a comprehensive book on ethical non-monogamy that's a must-read for anyone considering the lifestyle. Dossie is not only a writer, sex educator, and psychotherapist, she's also a wealth of useful knowledge and intriguing stories. Our conversation covers topics such as life-changing acid trips, vows to never be monogamous again, the benefits of sex-positivit...
May 21, 2021•49 min•Season 2Ep. 13
In this episode, we talk to Michelle, the creator of Polyamorous While Asian and the coolest solo polyamorist in Portland. Talking points include the book Sex at Dawn , learning about sex and ethical non-monogamy at the same time, and working towards a more inclusive poly community.
May 14, 2021•43 min•Season 2Ep. 12
What is ethical non-monogamy? Is it the same thing as polyamory? What about open relationships? This week, Kaylee and Jen talk about all things non-monogamy–from term definitions to personal experiences, and even how some ethical non-monogamy concepts can greatly improve sex education.
May 07, 2021•40 min•Season 2Ep. 11
We're joined by Chloe from the Stripper Stories Podcast for an episode packed with anecdotes that will shock and awe. Learn all about how Chloe started stripping at the suggestion of her douchey boyfriend and then metamorphosed her way into camming, which she says is way better. We also discussed body confidence, kinks, and OnlyFans (including the way that Bella Thorne screwed over sex workers on the platform). All in all, Chloe is an absolute wizard and you should definitely check out the Strip...
Mar 26, 2021•33 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Remember when we talked to TDo in season 1 about discovering her queerness and coming out to her mom? Well, she's back and better than ever. This week, we're chatting with TDo all about kink, specifically impact play, edging, and Shibari (a form of Japanese rope bondage). Talking points include giant tubs of Crisco, suspension, and aftercare for tops. If you're interested in learning more about kink, you can check out the resources that TDo and Jen mentioned in the episode here: Vox Body , Twist...
Mar 19, 2021•39 min•Season 2Ep. 9
This week, Jen takes us on a journey through the history of kink and BDSM. It's a broad overview, but we cover ancient history all the way up to modern movements. Talking points include vagina worship, consent concepts in the Kama Sutra, the ickiness of Marquis de Sade, leather daddies, Tom of Finland, and Dykes on Bikes.
Mar 12, 2021•34 min•Season 2Ep. 8
This week we talked to Emerson, the person behind The Kink Educator Instagram account that serves up bite-sized informative tidbits all about how to engage in safe and healthy kink. We discuss the four main pillars of kink: negotiation, consent, communication, and aftercare. Emerson believes that these concepts can be used not only in kinky sex, but also in vanilla sex and even non-sexual situations. Of course, it wouldn't be an episode on kink if we didn't discuss the problematic Mr. Christian ...
Mar 05, 2021•40 min•Season 2Ep. 7
In this week's episode, Kaylee and Jen do a deep dive into sex ed policy around the United States. First, Kaylee covers the variations of rules for sex ed content on a state-by-state level. Then, we go through the history of abstinence-only sex ed funding in the US, particularly looking at the Adolescent Family Life Act (AFLA), Title V of the Social Security Act, and Community Based Abstinence Education (CBAE). After covering these federal grants, Kaylee makes the case that abstinence-only sex e...
Feb 26, 2021•39 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Content warning : This episode contains discussion of sexual assault and child pornography. This week, Kaylee opens up about a revenge porn experience she had when she was a teenager. While this story does involve some ridiculous things like MySpace and victim-blaming cops, we also dig into the harsh aftermath of the incident⏤from having one's sexual privacy violated to being treated as a spectacle of men's sexual entertainment. Jen and Kaylee also discuss how legislation for revenge porn has ch...
Feb 12, 2021•37 min•Season 2Ep. 5
This week we talked to Kate Isaacs , founder of the Not Your Porn campaign and host of the Let's Talk About Porn, Baby podcast (find it on Spotify and Apple Podcasts ) about all things porn-related. First, we share our experiences with porn when we were growing up, including "fit blonde chicks" and blowjob POVs. Then, we discuss how porn can act as a sex educator for kids and how to address those problems as a parent. Finally, Kate tells us all about the horrors of tube sites (like Pornhub) for ...
Feb 05, 2021•41 min•Season 2Ep. 4
In this episode, Jen and Kaylee take a look into how spiritual practices––like tarot card reading, morning pages, and self care rituals––can help with connecting to our sexuality. Jen shares about how their spiritual practices helped them overcome the shame brought on by their religious upbringing, while Kaylee refuses to admit she might actually be a spiritual being. Also...ghost sex?
Jan 29, 2021•34 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Kaylee and Jen talk all the time about how growing up religious filled them with shame and warped their outlook on sex. But what if it didn't have to be that way? This week, we talked to Kaylee's friend Christal about how she maintains a sex-positive and LGBTQ+ affirming outlook with her Christian faith. We discuss the Kinsey scale, "slippery slopes" when interpreting scripture, and how to go about finding your people when your beliefs aren't mainstream.
Jan 22, 2021•41 min•Season 2Ep. 2
The words "sex education" might at first stir up memories of an awkward class you had in high school, probably involving putting condoms on bananas. But really, we think sex education is so much more than that. We learn about sex in so many different ways and as we grow, we internalize those teachings. Join hosts Kaylee and Jen as they kick off season 2 of the Sex Ed Podcast by discussing what sex education is, outside of a school setting...and also sexy men lumberjacks in maid costumes on Tik T...
Jan 15, 2021•28 min•Season 2Ep. 1
This week, Kaylee and Jen wrap up season 1 with a discussion of learnings, favorite moments, and plans for season 2. What were some of your favorite moments? What do you want us to cover next season? Let us know!
Sep 18, 2020•31 min•Season 1Ep. 10
In this episode, we talk to Gokce, who grew up in Turkey. She tells us about odd advice her mother gave her, avoiding boys in order to get good grades in school, and the dreaded "elderlies" who gossip about sex lives of teenagers. Don't worry, this one finishes on the most heart-warming note about doing what feels right to you (and no one else).
Sep 01, 2020•41 min•Season 1Ep. 9
This week, we talked to future sex ed curriculum creator Lindsay Michelle about her vision of comprehensive sex education in schools. We also discussed butt.com, hula hooping MILFs, and queer allies. This one will leave you feeling positive about future generations and give you concrete tips on what you can do to help! Check out more of Lindsay's work at sexedwithlindsay.com.
Aug 07, 2020•41 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Meet Madison, the host of Swiped Out Podcast (a podcast about love and dating in New York) and also Jen’s neighbor from childhood! Is it a coincidence that we are all starting podcasts at the same time or is it the pandemic? Put on your nostalgia pants because in this one, we cover American Doll puberty books, Glee, virginity, and starter boyfriends that get consolation scarves.
Jul 24, 2020•39 min•Season 1Ep. 7
Laugh through the pain of growing up to be a "tragically straight" comedian with Austin Blaylock. Learn all about horny squirrels, slut phases, and how Austin got the best advice of his life: Go one inch higher.
Jul 10, 2020•37 min•Season 1Ep. 6
Our friend Bill talks to us about growing up queer in small-town Missouri (that's pronounced "Missour-ah" thank you very much), finding lesbian fan fiction in the deepest corners of the internet, and...Tim Allen? Tune in to hear his touching coming out story and that one time he was inspired by Janine Brito's standup comedy.
Jun 26, 2020•40 min•Season 1Ep. 5
In celebration of Pride Month, we have a conversation with our friend TDo. She's active in the queer community, helping to increase LGBTQ+ visibility as well as teach and befriend allies through PFLAG. TDo also shares how she came to terms with her queerness, met her first girlfriend, and came out to her mom. It's touching, sincere, and has more than a few good laughs.
Jun 19, 2020•36 min•Season 1Ep. 4
This week, Jen interviews her friend Melissa Lee who grew up in many countries around the world, including Singapore and Saudi Arabia. Melissa shares stories about media censorship, not being allowed to be alone with a man outside of the family, and being taught to feel shame about her body and desires. This one is fascinating, although the content does get heavy at times and contain discussion of sexual assault.
May 29, 2020•35 min•Season 1Ep. 3
Learn all about how Jen came to terms with their gender and sexuality as they were growing up. Hosts Kaylee and Jen discuss school courses on healthy relationships, Christian summer camps with "demonstrations", and one particularly steamy movie scene that solidified Jen as a bisexual. This is a really fun episode, we hope you enjoy!
May 22, 2020•35 min•Season 1Ep. 2
Deep dive into the sex education that Kaylee experienced growing up in religious schools that focused on abstinence-only teaching. Topics covered include how Kaylee found her sexual identity, the difference in sex ed for boys versus girls, and the ways abstinence-only sex education fails to prepare students to navigate difficult situations, like consent. Trigger warning: Sexual assault, rape
May 15, 2020•29 min•Season 1Ep. 1
Meet hosts Kaylee and Jen as they describe what you can expect from episodes of Sex Ed Podcast. Fun fact, Jen's dad walks in the room mid-recording!
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