It is with gratitude that I approach the season Finale of #SexandSativawithAlex. This episode is a quick recap of every episode this season from conception to publishing, a glimpse of the hijinks I got into while putting together this season as well as plans for the next season.I do hope you enjoy this episode and it encourages you to share the podcast with people in your life. Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode. Love and Light from Your Favorite Sex Positive Goddess
Jul 17, 2024•29 min•Season 6Ep. 12
Earlier in the season I asked listeners of the podcast to send me their version of erotica that would feature on the erotica episode this season, Well this particular erotica sent to me by an avid podcast listener inspired me to tap into writing taboo erotica. I do hope you enjoy Britney's story. Light one up or pour yourself a drink while you enjoy this episode ( It's also encouraged to use the erotica episode as you please)
Jul 04, 2024•16 min•Season 6Ep. 11
Finally an episode update. The last time Nudes were tackled on this podcast the climate felt so different from today, on this episode I discuss how cynical the climate is towards nudes exchange in relationships, revenge porn and an uptick in Anti Revenge porn laws. I tackled how difficult it is with the rise of AI and deep fake nudes, as well as life after viral revenge porn scenerios. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode. Please share with your people and have fun
May 31, 2024•28 min•Season 6Ep. 10
On this episode, Jessica our Locked Sissy discusses the intricacies of Sissification as a Nigerian living in Nigeria, cages and keyholders, safety in the online BDSM community and everything under the Sissy sun. This episode is incredibly informative, fun yet eye opening and assuaged my curiosity. So light one up, pour yourself a drink and stay Locked in for the ride
May 06, 2024•1 hr•Season 6Ep. 9
Happy 4:20!!! I do hope you enjoy this amazing teaser episode while you light one up and spend some good quality time with yourself...... If you're not 420 compliant it's still your favorite podcasters holiday so celebrate it by listening and sharing this teaser with your people. Love and Light from Your Favorite Sex Positive Goddess 💜💜💜
Apr 20, 2024•5 min
A true and tried method where couples escape while tapping into a sexual fantasy world they can successfully bring to life, as elaborate or tame as they may choose. Welcome to the world of Role playing. This episode provides great insight into how couples may broach the idea of exploring this kink as well as how best to plan for an eventual role playing scenario. So light one up, pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode
Apr 16, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Season 6Ep. 8
Celebrating International Women's Day in 2024 I decided to delve into a fantasy universe where I run a Brothel. The Sex Positive Goddess and Madame Boujee team up on this episode to share their vastly different Brothel and management styles. We also discussed the growing lack of community, different fronts and specialized services these fictional Brothels offer as well as our very unique Madame Aesthetic. Madame Boujee and I delved into reasons for lack of sexual Intimacy as well as sacrifices m...
Mar 08, 2024•1 hr 30 min•Season 6Ep. 7
Another Fun yet slightly unhinged debunking episode that has me so excited to share this episode with you listening. Wrong opinions or assumptions about birth control options led me down a not so healthy road which is why I am passionate about debunking the ludicrous, concerning and eye raising myths surrounding contraceptives. I do hope you find a bit of comfort and lots of humor with this episode. TW: SA, Rape. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
Feb 20, 2024•1 hr 13 min•Season 6Ep. 6
A little vulnerability, a dash of personal stories, a bunch of tips/tricks and a whole lot of humor: What better way to kick off the first episode in 2024. Happy New Year!!! On this episode I discuss ways one can broach the topic of introducing another player to your partnered sex life: The Toy. I also go into detail the steps partners should take note of so as to ensure mutually guaranteed sexual pleasure while using a sex toy. I really do love playing with toys and I hope you will too after li...
Jan 28, 2024•48 min•Season 6Ep. 5
I spent a bit of holidays putting together my sexual bucket list and decided to make an episode of the experience. This episode will serve as a sort of guide for anyone interested in putting together their own sexual bucket list. I share tips on how to create a fun yet sex positive Bucket list as well as the FAQs regarding this list. A little of my own bucket list items made it's way to the episode as well. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
Dec 31, 2023•45 min•Season 6Ep. 4
To leaving you wanting more!!!. Happy Holidays from Your Favorite Sex Positive Goddess
Dec 29, 2023•5 min
This season I plan on sharing the Joys of Kink and bringing my kinky friends along with me but this would be premature without a solid background in Kink. On this episode I approach kink from the basics, a little peek behind the vast curtain that kink hides behind. I talk about the huge role that RACK plays in the enjoyment of kink, the benefits of introducing kink into your sex life as well as the various types of kink that exists in today's modern world. I also highlight the differences Fetish...
Nov 30, 2023•1 hr 16 min•Season 6Ep. 3
... "then they came together" When your partner's pleasure is truly a priority for you then this is the episode catered for you. Welcome to the world of self stimulating mutual pleasure guaranteed, such a roundabout way of letting you know that on this fun episode of Sex and Sativa with Alex I address right to your partner's pleasure, ways to initiate this wonderful intimacy building tool with a partner. I also share fun tips to be more present during this fun exercise as well as the benefits of...
Nov 14, 2023•45 min•Season 6Ep. 2
It's Scorpio Season!!! My gift to you? Welcome to Season 6 of Sex and Sativa with Alex, in this episode I identify Sexual Routines/Habits. Go on a journey where I tell the difference between Sexual Habits and Sexual Routines, I also highlight how to tell the difference between positive and negative sexual habits, benefits of developing healthy sexual habits and how hygiene plays a huge role in the utmost enjoyment of sexual pleasure. Hard truths, Fun laughs and some lessons all packed into this ...
Nov 08, 2023•57 min•Season 6Ep. 1
Another Fun Bonus episode that teases the return of Sex and Sativa with Alex Season 6. I do hope you enjoy.
Sep 30, 2023•39 min
May has been so wonderful for me Self Pleasure wise and I decided to share those wonderful experiences on this podcast. I do hope you also enjoy the Bonus erotica I put together quickly. I'm excited for the new season but until then please enjoy this Bonus episode. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy 💜
May 28, 2023•34 min
I just finished an intense cannabis cleanse and decided to celebrate 4:20 by sharing a raunchy erotica story I wrote recently. I do hope you enjoy this 4:20 themed erotica. Light one up and enjoy this Bonus episode
Apr 20, 2023•23 min
Welcome to the Season Finale on this wonderful podcast and to round things up I went in a soft but well meaning route with Sexual Intimacy. This episode was quite a learning curve for me and I am so excited to share this with you. In this episode we talk about what sexual Intimacy means in a relationship and to individuals, I also talk about establishing sexual Intimacy while celibate as well as how to achieve sexual Intimacy when it's lacking in a relationship, as a bonus I also briefly discuss...
Mar 09, 2023•55 min•Season 5Ep. 13
I am so thankful that this podcast reached this milestone. Thank you for listening to my wacky life stories, thank you for playing each episode, thank you for sharing and recommending this podcast to your people. I am so grateful. Love and Light from Your Favorite Sex Positive Goddess 💜💜
Feb 19, 2023•28 min•Season 5Ep. 12
Introverts Assemble!!! This episode is packed with so much for the very first #AskAlex series. From Tips to navigate sex for introverts, how to increase one's body count and approaching a person for sex without coming off as disrespectful. This was sort of daunting initially but as always I had fun putting this episode together. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this week's episode.
Feb 12, 2023•1 hr 5 min•Season 5Ep. 11
With the amount of ease this episode brought me it is actually hilarious that I was remotely nervous to approach the topic of "CONTRACEPTIVES". I have to admit that having one of my favorite persons "Boujee" with me to tackle this topic made it seamless. Boujee and I discussed; Spanking men's butt, The lack of advancement in male contraceptives, "Fucking Rich", while also deftly navigating Religion and Faith Clashing with Contraception. Thank you Boujee for an interesting episode with your uniqu...
Jan 25, 2023•1 hr 37 min•Season 5Ep. 10
Welcome to 2023! In this episode I discuss Orgasms in the new year, my eventful first day of the year, grace and leeway. I also touch on the upcoming Giveaway to celebrate 3 years of podcasting as well as a new section on the podcast called "Ask Alex" Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode. I hope the rest of the year is positive to you 💜
Jan 15, 2023•52 min•Season 5Ep. 9
In a different universe there's a version of Alex that has a thriving custom lingerie store. On this episode join me as I delve into the different facets of Lingerie,fun fact; I have a slight obsession with pretty lingerie so putting together this episode was a no brainer. With the holiday spirit Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode, also do not hesitate to share it with your favorite people this holiday season.
Dec 24, 2022•41 min•Season 5Ep. 8
The idea that the older one gets the less sex one should experience because with age comes a certain asexuality has always rubbed me the wrong way. With my birthday approaching I discuss how age can affect our sexual choices and how embracing that can be a good thing. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
Nov 12, 2022•39 min•Season 5Ep. 7
From Childhood I've lived in a world where shame rules the vagina and as a child It seemed ridiculous but as an adult I find it maddening. On this episode I discuss the unspoken rules that vulva owners have to go through, the weird fads and trends as well as the maintenance culture that we seemingly have to uphold when it comes to perfecting the Vagina/Vulva. So light one up or pour yourself a drink as we delve into Pussy Problems
Oct 09, 2022•45 min•Season 5Ep. 6
Even with my microphone breaking down mid record, rain falling expectedly I still decided to put out this episode. Sexual Health Awareness is incredibly important and in this episode I share some personal experiences with STI's. This is quite a vulnerable and not so fun episode so definitely light one up or pour yourself a drink
Sep 23, 2022•30 min•Season 5Ep. 5
Sexual fantasies can sometimes feel like a taboo or some sort of cheat code, on this episode of #SexandSativawithAlex I tackle sexual fantasies, the guilt and how to deal with that as well as introducing sexual fantasies to your partner. It can get somewhat nerve wracking trying to get your partner to help make your fantasies a reality do I added a little guide to help as well. This episode was really interesting to work on so light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
Sep 11, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Season 5Ep. 4
It's a wonderful time in existence where we have so much options to explore in term of sexual aids so it's sort of baffling to me when I meet people who are ashamed, embarrassed or angry that they need lube with their partners to enjoy sex. If you enjoyed a previous episode of #SexandSativawithAlex titled "WAP: A DISSERTATION ON A BLACK WOMAN'S SEXUALITY" then think of this episode as an extension with a different point of view. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
Aug 21, 2022•43 min•Season 5Ep. 3
Debunking myths relating to sex is one of my favorite things to do on this podcast and it was interesting to dive into Biases I previously held regarding oral sex. On this episode I explore the basic, absurd and somewhat thought provoking notions that one might just believe about oral sex. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
Aug 07, 2022•58 min•Season 5Ep. 2
Welcome to Season 5 and I'm kicking things off by discussing sexual Expectations and how holding on to those expectations leave one having mediocre if not bad sexual experiences, unlearning these expectations also made its way into this episode and I do hope those solutions help. Season 5 is going to be amazing, so light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
Jul 10, 2022•50 min•Season 5Ep. 1
