I promised an erotica themed episode in Season 4 and The Sex Positive Goddess is here to deliver. Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode. Please don't hesitate to tell me how much you enjoyed it.
The Boujee Bitch and I continue our discussion on romance episode and in this concluding episode we disect most of the popular tropes that are heavily used and repeated in romance novels. We also delved deeper to discuss how the lack of representation skewers our idea on what romance should look like. This was such a fun episode and I really do hope you enjoy it. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
On this episode I am joined by my favorite person (The Boujee Bitch) and we discuss Romance novels, do we love them, hate them or hate that we love them. In the first part of this 2 part episode, Boujee and I delve into our shared history with romance novels, how we both used romance novels as a great way to escape from the woes of growing up in a Nigerian household. We also discussed the various genres of Romance novels and the sometimes unrealistic nature of these novels. So light one up or po...
The term "Hoe Phase" always rubs me the wrong way and with this episode, I'm able to finally put words to why I feel like it's a term used to mock women for choosing to explore their sexuality. It's a new year, let's not be eager to pigeon hole ourselves into situations that might not favor one sexually. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
Can a relationship work with more than 2 people involved? On this episode I discuss Polygamy, Polyamory, Open Relationships and Reverse harems. I'm challenging my notion of what healthy relationships look like rather than the optics of said relationships. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy This episode. Please listen to pt 1 to fully enjoy this episode.
Can a relationship work with more than 2 people involved? On this episode I discuss Polygamy, Polyamory, Open Relationships and Reverse harems. I'm challenging my notion of what healthy relationships look like rather than the optics of said relationships. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy This episode
It's actually frustrating to see how dirty talking(something that can actually help your sexual experiences) is viewed as cheesy, corny or cringe. On this episode of my podcast I give tips on how to make Dirty Talking less awkward and more personalized. Interested in Initiating Dirty talking for the first time? it's all in this fun episode, so light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
On this episode I delved into Aftercare and how our complete disregard of the inclusion of Aftercare impacts the enjoyment of our sex lives. This episode highlights the Importance of Aftercare in our regular sexual relationships as well as how best we can include aftercare in our sexual practices. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
I had so much fun Tackling the most ridiculous and Misleading Myths surrounding the Female Orgasm, here is the continuation of the Previous episode. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode
The Elusive O, for so long there has been a ton of confusion regarding the Female Orgasm and why it cannot be achieved and honestly I was surprised by the fact that some people still hold on to these untrue beliefs. On this episode I have fun tackling a lot of Myths Surrounding the Female Orgasm as well as my experiences unlearning some of them I held as Facts. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode
On this episode, I talk about the fun benefits of consuming ethical porn and the differences between Mainstream Porn easily available on the internet and Ethical porn. I also talk a little bit about my contribution so far to ethical porn. For more insight, check out Porn Culture in season 1 of my podcast. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
With a lot of stigma and unfair Stereotypes attached to BDSM it is important to note that Abuse has no correlation while practicing the lifestyle. Healthy BDSM relationships revolve around Consensual Play, infact enthusiastic consent is encouraged in BDSM. In this episode I talk about the responsibility that practitioners of the lifestyle owe each other as well as a few mistakes that I've seen be repeated in a D/S relationships. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
Welcome back to #SexandSativawithAlex. Kicking things off this season by talking about sexual pleasure and how the lack of visibility regarding sexual pleasure has the sexual experience feeling incomplete. In this episode I talk about how the lack of comprehensive sex education plays a huge role in how we view the importance/need for sexually pleasurable relationships. I also note how most times we view sexual pleasure =indecency and immorality. I do hope you enjoy this week's episode as it's a ...
Thank you so much for joining me on this awesome podcast but this season has to come to an end in order to make way for a better season. On this episode I recap all the fun conversations I discussed this season and true to form, my opinions about certain stuff has changed and I give an update on the future of the podcast. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode
If you enjoyed the first episode on sexual responsibility with The Boujee B*tch, then give this episode a listen. We both talk about ways to respect your sexual partner, birth control and sexual responsibility while living with an STI. so pour yourself a drink or light one up and enjoy this episode
Sexual Responsibility is so often ignored and this episode seeks to shed light on the term "Sexual Responsibility". My guest(The Boujee B*tch) and I tackle ways we can be more sexually responsible and why sexual responsibility prepares one to fully understand and respect your own sexual choices. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
On this episode of #SexandSativawithAlex I am joined by the present Mr Globe Nigeria(Dr Uzo) and we discuss the unwillingness of some men in using sex toys with their partners as well as themselves. We also discussed the running joke of Igbo men being bad at sex, Butt plugs, Nymphomaniacs and BDSM. This was such a great episode so light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode
If you can prep for sex why can't you prep to Masturbate? I love the idea of getting ready to pleasure yourself because honestly masturbating is a form of self care. On this episode I talk about how I get ready to enjoy my orgasms and how preparing for solo play reaffirms that I have the right to enjoy my pleasure. Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode
On this episode of #SexandSativawithAlex I discuss Labiaplasty, Designer Vagina trend and why some women would pay to have the perfect looking vulva. No two Vulva is the same, let's learn to appreciate the vulva we have. Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode, it's quite informative
On this episode I tackle harmful, funny and straight up confusing myths surrounding women Masturbation. It's Masturbation May Ladies and you deserve your Orgasms. Maybe after listening to this episode you'd go into the world to close that Orgasm Gap
On this episode of #SexandSativawithAlex I talk about the annoying (dare I say) Misfortunes plaguing my life as a female Stoner who regularly indulges in consuming Cannabis. I know I'm not alone in my feelings so please don't hesitate to share with me other peeves as a female you encounter that I didn't talk about. Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode 💖💖💖
It's been a whole year podcasting, creating sex positive content, existing and nurturing Sex And Sativa With Alex. Thank you so much for listening and sharing my podcast. Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode 💖💖💖
Periods happen to be one of those icky subjects that we don't talk about or seem to be taboo of some sorts because the idea of bleeding out of the Vagina for days makes some people uncomfortable. Well it's 2021 Women bleed monthly, and aren't cast out of the camps so as not to taint the cheese. On this episode I got cranky and talked about Periods, period poverty and how silly it seems that we don't talk about these sort of issues more often. So pour yourself a drink or light one up and enjoy 💖...
On this episode of #SexandSativawithAlex I tackle the myth of Okafor's law with a guest Steavihn. We also talk about men lying about being with women they have never being previously intimate with, Curved D*cks where mentioned at some point as well as other things. Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode. Love and Light from Your Favorite Sex Positive Goddess
This episode seems to run like it has no aim but honestly it's worth it. On this episode of #SexandSativawithAlex I talk about continuing my celibacy journey, how difficult it is to self love and my non existent plans for valentine 2021. Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode
Starting the new year talking about Sex Positivity and what it Means to be Sex positive. This Episode was incredibly informative for me and I truly tried to get as much information as possible. I hope you enjoy this week's episode and take away a few details from it. Season 3 is going to be so much fun and this episode gives a little insight into that. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy your favorite Sex Positive Goddess 😘
On the season Finale of #SexandSativawithAlex Season 2 Alex recaps her memorable episode from this season and updates listeners on her celibacy journey. Alexandria is very grateful for every single person who listens and supports the podcast. Compliments of the season everyone and a kick ass New Year. Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode. Love and Light from Your Favorite Sex positive Goddess Alex ❤️❤️❤️
On this episode I talk with my most favorite person in the world about getting ready to get that D. Stuff we do, little routines that give us a little boost of confidence before we spread our legs. This episode can't even be properly explained so just listen. Light one up or pour yourself a drink and enjoy this episode.
On this episode of #SexandSativawithAlex I sit down with a queer paralegal to talk about how Queer Nigerians where excluded from the #EndSARS protests in October, homophobic laws in the country and Conversion Therapy. This episode was a heavy one for me but it is only a fraction in the intensity of homophobia that queer people face in Nigeria daily. So light one up or pour yourself a drink and listen to this episode.
Got a Boudoir shoot done and it made me feel so good about myself. On this episode I talked about the crazy journey with meeting multiple photographers, my makeup artist bailing on me and how I almost chickened out on the photoshoot itself. I hope you enjoy and listen to this episode
