Situationships + Catching Feelings

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Alright guys, so you know that I host this podcast with Araba and unfortunately Araba is MIA. She's not available to join us on this episode. While she's not here, we miss you, Aruba. Stay sexy wherever you are. I have in the studio. Hello, what should I call you? Stryker. Stryker. I should call you striker. Okay guys. I have an Yeah, so I think you're cool most than uh I restricted. Yeah. Striker is interesting guys, you see. What what other thing what what else do you think?

Not as much as I used to be. Um Jenner you get you get me. It's all mixed up with a couple of gennes. So if you hear my music, you know definitely is m is different from the usual thing you you used to hear it. Your voice is now Sounds sexy, it'll be nice to I mean, do you talk your partner through her nuts? Okay, yeah, is that okay, all right. So um with our first segment.

to ask our guest a few questions just to get to know him. All right. So the first question I have for you is what is your relationship status in case somebody likes you? And I'm seeing you know like nobody would be mad Nobody will be mad like if they see you like out Like, can I listen? I'm single. And how did you say single single? Well, when I was ترجمة نانسي قنقر Like, I'm not in that relationship. Okay guys, last question. Name of your penis.

Listen, we like to tell our guests to personalize the relationship they have with their Veganitals. I have an is name for my vagina. What is it? You are not interviewing me anyway, nose candy. Nose candy. Well Nose Candy. Because she's addictive as well. Can I say everything? Anything. This is a podcast. What the fuck does that mean? No scandy. It just means she's addictive as hell.

Nose candy is uh the slang name for a very hard drug. Okay. Yes, it's just addictive. So that's why they I just learned the new word lie, nose candy. Yeah, nose candy. Yes, what's the name of your dick? Give your dick a name. Pretty strong strong. Pretty strong. Right. It's pretty. And strong. Yeah, of course. Okay. Alright. What did you have to say for it? A safe forward? A safe word. Um I don't. You don't have a safe word, so

Basically a safe word is a word that like when you're having sex with someone you know that you just don't have. Okay. Okay. So um next one. What are no no's for you, things you would never do when it comes to sex? Like there's nothing even if you're giving them a million dollars, you never do it. A girl and a guy or a legend of a girl pee on me and feel like that's not going to happen. That's golden shower is your pet pee. Oh yeah. نحن نحن نحن نحن نحن نحن نحن نحن

We've run in the train. I don't call that a threesome. I think threesome should be me and two other girls. I think a train I think a train should be when it's like two or more guys like they are like cueing to fuck. Regardless, even if it's a half guy, I still call it a train. I don't I don't want to be a part of it.

Okay. I don't see no penny stone, nothing like that. Nothing like that. Alright, alright. Last one. What is on your sexual back at least? One thing on your sexual one thing you can't wait to do sexually. Um Oh maybe do it with twins. Together. Of course. What do you mean? I went around, Adrian's. I hope he gets to do it. I really hope he gets to do it. Alright, guys, before we move to the main segments.

This week, someone told me something I want to ask you about. Yeah, yeah. So he told me that when um men are receiving hit. from anybody. Sometimes or mostly if they need to come, because a lot of men don't come from oral sex, fellatio. If they need to come, they have to think about somebody else. No. How? What do you can you relate? Have you ever thought about somebody else during while receiving head to come? No, I thought it was somebody else in the room.

in a wha how you call it a session but not in oral sex because some girls are good, some girls are not good. So let's just So if it's not good you you just tell it to Oh I just find a way to let her stop because I don't like no teeth on my Pretty strong thing. Yeah, it's uh I just I just I just You understand some girls are really good like talking about they've put so many years and they're really Okay, yeah.'Cause what they were telling me was that'cause it was a number of guys that

They said it's true. Unless the girl is no good. That one idea can maybe some girls are devils. Like don't play with them. you don't want to have it with anybody else but them some uh so that's what you have to think about. Yeah like so but if the girl is really bad you'd you're not even thinking straight. Like you are trying to prevent yourself from coming. I feel like instead of thinking about somebody else like let's just like just

Get me together so we do something else you enjoy instead of thinking about somebody else. Some girls love giving head. So it's like stopping her and makes it feel like she's in her zone and you're trying to stop her from doing her thing. Yeah, yeah. So that makes sense. Yeah.

Like it yeah, obviously we'll do what you said, yeah. Exactly Yeah, let's get up, let's do something let's try something else. Like'cause I don't know how I'd feel knowing that like while I was psyching your dick, you're thinking about somebody else and that's what made you come. What they said was that we're not sure. I am just saying my ex like personally I wouldn't like knowing that.

Because they they uh the guys that told me that one of them mentioned to me that they see that women really like knowing that they can make you come from head. So then if they have to think about somebody else to be able to give you that satisfaction, they do it. Which is interesting. I never have to be a little bit more. I'm not gonna read my head name. I love this is what I'm saying. This is what people I love seconds.

Like so read your your your I'm not a matter I'd be sa I'd be sucking, I'd be telling niggas sing up sit on my face and slap me. That's my king. Like I just tell you, come sit on my face and slap me while I tick. I like being to a minida whilst I can see.

I'm a freak hole, I I admit it. Like I you like when busting a knot on your face or your throat? Which is which? Do do I like what? When the butts are not on your face or your throat? I mean the face is fine'cause it's sexy and um apparently seeming facials. It prevents acne. Aside from that, in the throat too, it's nice. I like to swallow babies. Най-най-най-най-най-най-най!

Okay guys, we're gonna move on to the main segment. Gotcha. So on the TL this week is a lot of talks about situationships. Okay. And a lot of us have been in situationships. I've been in personally I've been in more situationships than I've been in relationships. Yeah. And

It comes with a lot of issues. So I got this question from somebody. I was once asking for question uh like topics for us to talk about on the podcast. And the person said we should talk about situationships. I want to know when is the right time to tell the person you are. You are catching feelings for him or if you want to check in if it feels the way the same way. When is the right time? When is the right time to like let's say'cause

The thing is I would define a situation as like when you're seeing somebody like let's say sex has happened, you've been hanging, you've been doing a lot together, but there's just no label. You can't say that's my boyfriend. You can't say that's my girlfriend. you can just say, okay, that's my partner or that's the person I'm seeing.

There's just no label. Like there's no like you can't you you can't say that, oh, you you're not sure. Like it comes with a lot of uncertainties and a lot of like not knowing whether this is appropriate to do because well, is he my man anyway?

Yeah. I think situationships are toxic, but I also think situationships can be fun. Because if I'm not trying to do a relationship with you, there are some people that I have my type when it comes to relationships, but there are some people that you like that you want to enjoy. You want to experience them.

but you don't want to attach a label to it. I think that's okay. So I think there are times that some people actually flourish. Like they say situationships don't benefit women, but I feel like there are times that women actually want it and they flourish better in situationships. So what do you think? Have you

Tell us about have you ever been in situations? If you were in it. Okay. I've actually had uh how you explained it, I've been in such a situation. No, at first it was this is a one time thing. Yeah, that's a one-time thing. That was a one-time thing. Yeah, that was a one-time thing. type of situation has happened once. I've never been with a girl and not knowing what we're doing.

So wait, wa wait, what you just said, right? You said you've never been with a girl and not known what you're doing. Yes. Do you always let them know? Hundred percent. So they always know what you're doing with them. I tell you, like if I a yo, listen. I will tell you. You tell me.

But you're supposed to know some things. I will tell you from the beginning. Yeah, not the beginning, but you will know. You would know. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Because if I'm interested, you will so know because hey, listen. You will use your words. Are you saying your words? Okay. He goes on listen, there's a lot of ways to communicate to people. body language you're still not paying attention I don't have to say A B C D but I might be doing some things

Uh with the actions, no present. Uh actually speak louder than words. Let's not get it twisted. Me or you could be sitting here right now and I could do like this. What do I That's exactly I didn't have to say a word. You get it. So if I do But what if you th you are scratching your nose? No, no, I didn't do this. I did uh uh act like they don't know exactly what you're doing. We have science.

the red lights it doesn't speak but you know you see what what signs will let you know that okay this person wants me wants me like maybe for a relationship or this person just doesn't care what they are just okay well the other person or me what like let's For a man, like let's say for a man who sees women, like Um what what are the signs? Like what should uh cause personally personally not

I was in a situation ship. I really love the stories. I can't wait to listen to you. I have a lot of stories. I was in a situation ship. For me, I am very I can I'm I'm somewhere, I'm very intense. Okay. I don't care what label it is. If I'm with you, I'm a man. I I can I'm very possessive, I'm touchy. If I'm hanging with you, I'm like all over you and guessing. I will get you. I did that with somebody I was doing a situation with'cause it wasn't a relationship.

At the time we were fucking, I was enjoying him. exclusive it was great I was seeing him weekly like It was tending to my sexual needs and I appreciated it. But I didn't let the fact that it wasn't a relationship relationship. get him like I I think I remember getting him like a huge breakfast basket uh was it what did I get I got him um cupcakes I love He lived with his friends so I'll take it and they were all like so they all started saying I was in love.

Yeah, you were. Because I was buying him gifts. Yeah, please have a close up on her. You were. Look at you. No, I well, I wasn't in love. Like'cause I wasn't in love. That's how I act. You see, you see, this is why relations uh situationships are so confusing because There's a lot of things that you might end up doing that people will now read meanings and say that they're not supposed to be doing that. I think you only have control on how you feel.

The you are digmatized. What the fuck? Why would you say I'm digmatized? Because I gave him gifts. No, no. How your your your your voice No, no, even how you spoke about him, it was so Terima kasih kerana menonton! It's not about a situation, right? It's how they people kept attaching meaning and they were like you were in love with things. You didn't know how to put a stop to it. You were fucking this guy and you started buying

Cupcake say I love your dick. That is too extra. But when I see that it's a red flag. You think it's a red so uh huh, so you see, so you see You're trying to say that if it's not a relationship, you shouldn't be buying gifts. I love your dick. I love your dick. Want to give mom and dad their dream retirement? Or do your younger relatives need something small to keep going in this economy? Do you need a fast,

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I personally think Okay, okay. Let's fast forward, let's forget about that story. Um, how did you end that situation ship? I stopped talking to you, I moved on. What happened? Because I was ready to move on. I want to yeah. Okay, cool. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. That don't like cause in the end I'm very intense. So if I'm with you and I'm doing things like that and you attach meanings to it, well, I let go. Do you get it? I was going to really say you didn't attach no feelings to it.

I I was fucking with him because I liked him in a way, but not that I was in love with him, in love with him. Does that make sense? Doesn't, but uh I feel like it c it it happens. Uh situationships happen like that where you might like the person, fancy them, but you don't see yourself relationship with them. Let me tell you about mine. So There was this girl. Then we're talking now you don't make her feel fresh on her. Listen, there was this girl we're talking and

She liked being in a way. I like her vibe in a way. We started talking, you know, we started with And for some reason I liked it. But she had a boyfriend. Okay. That's a clear example of a situation ship. I know you can't be my girlfriend, I can't be your man, but you But what do you was ready to leave her man for you? I'm never gonna that' uh that was where I was. ¡Suscríbete al canal! Don't do that because you're gonna do that to me too. Okay.

Every time you clear some work, Don't you want me to watch them before you go sleep? You know people be doing that, like they go from one person. I just had to back off because I No matter how much I like, it's still gonna end up. I'm not I'm not dumb to that doing it to me I don't know. You didn't do it to another person. Okay. Okay, so now this lady is saying, let's say you are like l okay, let's let's start with a classic situation ship. Right. There was crazy sexual chemistry.

sex now the sex has been happening you've been spending a lot of time like your person now. And you think that When is the right time to bring up? The first minute you feel something. I'm very strong for the person you should tell them how she The Fest Mini. Listen, yeah, the Fest Mini. No say join six. Some girls you have sex with them the first time you like it, but the second time you still like it. It's not now it's not just six anymore.

You know, like you like you for real for real. So what we doing? Are we actually doing this and she'd be like uh so like it has the set. Then you know say okay now you have need to talk Or you pull away. I'm not pulling away from no good perspective. Because I feel like because you know, okay, you are saying that we should we should. Say it immediately.

What is a right setting?'Cause a lot of men Not like the But the place ready to They will tell you what you need to hear I've been asked to be a girlfriend four sex before. When I was in union, I was like, I can't have sex to do if you know my boyfriend. I was very young. Like they end up telling you'cause he was horny. I said it's up. Virginizing girl, is that the right word?

type of shit. And she's like, you're not gonna leave after this right. I'm like setting my head. So you just saw that what'cause in in that setting dear he just is gonna tell you what he thinks you No actual man in the middle of sex or right after before sex like what are we? You understand? Because me I've done it in the process, that means I mean it.

But you'll be mine. We should be mine. Oh, that's sexy. Like during like like I I won it's during sex. Yeah, yeah. Dear future boyfriend. Take note. You say you're in a situation Don't do that. In a situation ship, I don't have a man, please. I it's just that i don't have a boyfrienddon't do that don't let's not talk about my I just like you. You said it first. I won't know about it. You said it.

I don't attach any line. You see, I don't even want to make it a situation shift. I have some idea I'm doing, but let's leave the labels aside. That's not that deep. That's the sex that's that deep though. Okay, that sex is very inspirational. Yeah, Jesus Christ. All right, so you're saying that when right when. So perform sex is not allowed. It's not sex it may be allowed. Uh ninety out of ninety nine out of hundred it will be alive. Because

Look at this thing I'm talking about like maybe. Okay, so um after I how about after sex? Like after sex after you've had such a good time and are you sure? Yeah, because you've done that. I've come then I c I'm in my senses. So if you ask me that I'd be like Hey listen, it was just the sex, don't do that. But if it's more I'd be like, hey, I want to be killed I don't mind seeing how we can.

You can't afford to let them go. Let them go. But there are some men, right? They would tell you they don't want, like I've been told this before. The only time I ask somebody, what are we in my early twenty. He told me I'm not ready for a romantic relationship, but I want us to be there for each other, committed to each other. Like he said words. That confused me. He was scared. He wanted me in his life.

You scared because I've had um when I love I love heart. You know that okay, yeah. When I love you, yeah, I love you. I'm not trying to play with nobody, so when You trying to play with Feelings, I don't know, and I get hurt or anything like that. I don't want to go to some situations again. So when you start talking about relationship, it puts

on alert, like all my uh everything is up, like my God is up, like I'm gonna like that's yeah, sh that she really wanna be with me for real for real. She's just enjoying the moment. Mm-hmm. That's not'cause obviously Yeah, ladies love my company again. Okay, that's fair.

Striker. We're gonna say striker said that'cause me personally I think the what's um it's it's it's best to not do it before sex too. So I think it's nice when you pick a time where you are hanging outside of a sexual scenario. But right before sex, maybe a day. Then you are hanging like you can let them know. Maybe you are chilling somewhere next year. You see, what the what what kind of rules are those? Baby.

And what if you get bent, you want to be like no no no? What are you saying? We can't use such words for somebody who do we call baby? Let's be honest. Let's I call my friends babe. I call niggas I'm fucking with babe. Yeah, so like it's it's Um my female friends. I'm going to call him in. I'm like, don't do that. So you're observing for someone you're in a realistic situation? Yes. Because that's crazy. You're the craziest man. Girlfriend calling. Hello.

Uh what what is that? That's pending for people that it's a school. There was the time my ex mentioned he was like, you you call everybody babes. And I was like, I'm gonna give you a different pet name so I don't have to like I get it, it makes sense, but we end up doing it alone with our friends. Or like once you get close to somebody you call them babe or something. It's not.

I don't but I get you you attach a lot. You said you shouldn't get gifts. You said I mean this is why people give you shouldn't get Please I said don't get them gifts written on it, I love your dick. I think you should. That's so silly and sexy. I love your friendship. I love you, Jake. I love you, Percy. Oh, Jesus Christ.

All right, guys. So we just gave you advice. So if you feel like you're catching feelings, but keep an open mind because a lot of So that you manage your expectations like and if they don't want you that way, me I usually advise that if you think you're catching feelings for somebody you're having sex with and they are not on the same page with you and they tell you

It's it's okay to pull away'cause a lot of girls try to stay and like they hope they hope that they'll make the guy fall in love. Which never happens. Sometimes it happens. Or rarely happens. Sometimes it happens though. Well what what what are the tricks? What should we do if no we have necessarily gonna any any girl? Everybody have their way of loving. There's this girl I knew. She always kept on showing up.

When I say showing up, it means that I'm somebody that I care about, she likes me too, and she's trying to make me like her. So she kept showing up. I didn't see all that because I wasn't looking at that or doing whatever I was supposed to do. What do you really want? Then I started putting things together. Everything I'm trying to say for is in this girl. And she's been there, so. Started looking at her that way and I'm like, hey, I had this How long does she keep on showing up for?

İzlediğiniz için teşekkür ederim. Three months. Thank you. This is why I want you to think because three months.'Cause I feel like if it's if you're gonna like do that and try to see like show him that I can be the perfect partner for you, it th uh that's fair. But give yourself maximum six months. Yeah. So these days if a whole situation ship or whatever that you

That's beyond three months, don't play with that person because now love is really hard to find or something serious is hard to find. So if you can you people can go back to back. More than six months, don't don't take it for granted. Please. Well, I'm gonna tell the ladies also that c when you're seeing someone or everybody in general.

When you're seeing someone ends, like you're giving yourself like six months or three months and nothing is changing, nothing you're still unsure like from the beginning, it's still the same, like they're not sure. Like you even try to have a conversation, they're They seem like they are just so comfortable with what you're doing. Advise yourself better and move on.

Okay. Because some men would want to have access to that pussy and they would like just keep stringing you along. Well stringing you well, stringing you along is like they won't tell you they don't want you or like I don't want what you want. But they will just tell you the little things or like just

be make it make you think that they still want you or do things that make you think that they want you but they are not like outrightly saying it and they are not telling you that we are together together. Ladies, I think you need to pay attention a lot more. If a man wants you, it's so clear.

You're actually going to know it. Don't play yourself a fool and be like, oh, it was you saw you saw the signs. And don't read too many meanings because some some people are very sweet. See how I'm saying that I'm very intense with how I am, even if it's the first. time we are together you are gonna be feel like you are my man forever my soulmates because

I'm very like I want to do an everything and ha enjoy you to the max. You shouldn't read meanings into that, like with everybody, because that's That's just how they interact with people intimately or sexually. It can just be that you're just there for the night and tomorrow you forget something. No, how why is it like that? Why are you in test with somebody you just met? If you don't because I have to like you to a point And if I'm sharing my body with you, let's go big.

That's how I My friends be saying that it's not for me'cause I'm possessive and I'll I'll be all over you and I'm just saying that there are people like that that act like they'll do everything that you'd expect your perfect boyfriend to do. You get flowers and everything talk to you like Like you like that.

you but they are not in love with you. They don't have feelings for you. They just are fans of you. They enjoy your company. And it doesn't mean they want to marry you or they want to be your boyfriend or your girlfriend. Okay. That's fair, right? You understand that. Okay. Alright guys. Is there anything else for our time? to the situation. Yeah, if anything else you want to add, so whatever. I don't realize you're limited. and whatever situation you find yourself in a good eye.

I don't know if that conversation is like, you need to see the partner, the man or the girl down. I think I'm starting to catch a little bit of feelings. I hope you understand the situation. اشتركوا في القناة

We're not doing that. Guys, I always end the podcast with a dare. My dare for you. Something I tried not long ago. That I like trying, that I enjoy. So I want you guys to do it too. So you see, let's work with the way you like to masturbate. Okay, the way you like to masturbate that you enjoy, that you come easy. I want you to let your partner witness you masturbate that way.

So if you have the rose vibrator that you and you like using lately, that's what you've been using. Like what you're into, like masturbation-wise, that gets you to your orgasm so fast, so intensely. And like what you do, let your partner like sit back and witness you do that. You can take tense to do that with each other and even masturbate each other. So if he watches you use the rules, like do your thing, like let him just play audience, like keep quiet and do your if you wanna

smoke uh whatever you wanna smoke or drink something while watching me do it, they do it. But after they take turns, they can you can watch them do it too. Or they can use your toy or masturbate you. So if it's their hand they were stroking their their penis with you, use your hand to stroke it the same way you watch them do it.

If she was touching herself, you use your finger to touch her the same way similarly to how you watch them do it. Enjoy like exploring masturbation with each other because masturbation can be very, very healthy. Women, like I mean, getting to know your body, it helps, okay? Like it's the foundation of like very pleasurable partnered sexual activity. Striker, thanks so much for coming on my podcast. Okay. I'm seeing you tomorrow. اشتركوا في القناة

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