Episode description

Research finds that up to 25% of men experience sexual performance anxiety, which is just one of many types of anxiety that affect men in the bedroom. In this episode, we’re diving into men’s anxiety around sex and relationships, and how to deal with it.

I am joined once again by David Khalili, a licensed marriage and family therapist, board-certified sexologist, and founder of Rouse Relational Wellness, a boutique couples and sex therapy center in San Francisco. He is author of the Mental Health Workbook for Men and Sex Worriers: A Mindfully Queer Guide to Men’s Anxiety Around Sex and Dating.

Some of the topics we explore include:

• How does anxiety manifest in men’s sexual and romantic lives?
• How can men’s anxiety lead to boundary violations?
• How can men cope with anxiety about their own performance during sex?
• What are some ways men can learn to be more present during sex?
• How do you deal with anxiety around masculinity issues?

You can check out David’s website to learn more.

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