Episode 342: The Secret To Cultivating Passion

How do you create a lasting connection with a partner and sustain passion in a relationship over time? In today’s show, we’re going to discuss the secrets you need to know for cultivating hotter and healthier sex lives. By following these tips, you can learn to have the kind of sex that we all really want to be having, which is where it feels almost effortless because you’re totally in synch with your partner.

I am joined once again by Dr. Emily Jamea, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in Houston, Texas. Dr. Jamea hosts the popular Love & Libido Podcast and is author of the new book Anatomy of Desire: Five Secrets to Create Connection and Cultivate Passion.

Some of the specific topics we discuss include:

• Why is curiosity an important element of great sex?
• How do you build up the courage to try something new if that sounds a little scary or stressful to you?
• How can you learn to become more adaptable in the bedroom?
• Why is vulnerability important for having great sex?
• What is attunement, and how can we become more attuned to our partners during sex?

You can check out Emily’s website to learn more about her work and follow her on the socials at @DrEmilyJamea.

Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology.

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