Today's special episode is a live coaching experience with Nadeen Siddiqui. Listen in as Nadeen gets coaching around feeling scared and experiencing disapproval. Where she ends up is more agency, more curious and lots of Self Kindness! We begin with talking about this feeling of having a f oot in two worlds, two identities - the old version and a new emerging version Seeing her journey as being a caterpillar going through the cocoon experience into flight of the butterfly And then noticing that ...
Jul 14, 2025•51 min•Ep. 205
I'm in conversation with friend and past client, Nadeen Siddiqui! Nadeen signed up for Self Kindness coaching during the pandemic and has gone on to have some amazing experiences, including what she calls the benefits of having relaxed shoulders and the ability to smile more easily ;-) In this conversation we talk about: The repercussions of speaking unkindly to ourselves Beginning to find solutions Her experience of going through self kindness coaching The difference between signing up for some...
Jun 24, 2025•41 min•Ep. 204
" Having fun is not just something that feels good, it’s also about trust, connection, & engaging with life! Having fun is some of the most important work you can focus on throughout your day if you desire a life you enjoy!!" I recently sent this daily reminder to my current client list b/c of the powerful impact simply focusing on having more fun in your life can have for you! In this episode: -Why it can be challenging to just have fun -How to expand that self trust -Engaging more with lif...
Jun 02, 2025•20 min•Ep. 203
Right now is the moment to experience a life you love! This episode is focusing on how to move "intellectually" understanding what you can do to FEEL better, to leaping into from wherever you are. The leap can be BIG & LOUD or quiet and internal. Today: Feel self trust, self worth and self esteem Be emotionally resilient Live alive and FREE Feeling safe to be all of you Let your life become better & better! 1:1 Life Coaching - Living Self Kindness a 1:1 coaching program built upon your u...
May 24, 2025•20 min•Ep. 202
This episode is here to plug us in! We're here to flow all the good into this physical world, open the tap and let it feel good! One Result, in Six Weeks, for a Lifetime of Benefits! Ready to transform your inner narrative to powerfully create an amazing 2025! What is it that you are wanting more of in your life right now? What would help you feel more alive, connected, at ease, expansive?! Are you ready to remove the blocks, and resistance to live FREE? This is a special group coaching program ...
Feb 26, 2025•9 min•Ep. 201
A different story will bring different results. We're all telling internal stories, are you loving yours? This episode goes right to how and why telling a new story brings different results. 2025 SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story . for all the details! Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspired about your own inner narrative! Plus a private podcast and website filled with resources 1:1 Life Coaching - Living the Self Kindness Effect Powerful ...
Feb 19, 2025•17 min•Ep. 200
You are Safe. It may not have been true at one point in your life, but right here and now, it's safe. It's SAFE to let yourself feel good, right now. It's safe to be allowing yourself feel good! 2025 SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story . for all the details! Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspired about your own inner narrative! Plus a private podcast and website filled with resources 1:1 Life Coaching - Living the Self Kindness Effect Power...
Jan 23, 2025•5 min•Ep. 199
Sitting on the beach, in central California, I ask a simple yet PROFOUND question: "Can it be alright for me to feel good w/o needing the world to change 1st?" YES! In fact that is the path to everything I desire to have, be, do, experience in my life, here's how it can work for you.... 2025 SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story . for all the details! Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspired about your own inner narrative! Plus a private podcas...
Jan 16, 2025•7 min•Ep. 198
Jan 8th Workshop Audio recording Focusing with Intention - All of Me Makes Sense! Everything is based upon your perception, and you have the ability to focus what you want to see more of. “Between the stimulus and the response, there is a space. And in that space lies our ability to choose.” Viktor Frankl, Austrian neurologist, psychologist Your ability to “choose” is your ability to focus the vibration reception - like a radio dial, on a wifi pswd - the you are receiving So once you begin to pl...
Jan 10, 2025•41 min•Ep. 197
Jan 8th workshop register here: https://forms.gle/srLedGyCoo3nQcjr9 Do you know how to create peace within yourself? This is the podcast to begin doing just that! 2025 SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story . for all the details! Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspired about your own inner narrative! Plus a private podcast and website filled with resources 1:1 Life Coaching - Living the Self Kindness Effect Powerful one to one coaching a 1:1 co...
Jan 07, 2025•9 min•Ep. 196
It's cool to notice that our dreams are actually WAAYYYYYY BIIIIGGGGG!!! Let them have a life! Look at how big your dreams actually want to be. This mini-episode is here to help you feel safe in noticing their breadth and depth! SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story . for all the details! Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspired about your own inner narrative! Plus a private podcast and website filled with resources 1:1 Life Coaching - Living t...
Jan 01, 2025•10 min•Ep. 195
NEW YEAR'S DAY WORKSHOP - free sign up here: https://forms.gle/Fp8G9LM9njRkSStCA 11am Pacific - Jan 1, 2025 Everything we want is b/c we believe in the having of it we will feel better Life hack - go for felling better right in this moment first - don't wait for the circumstances around you to have to change first! More Self Kindness: SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story . for all the details! Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspired about you...
Dec 30, 2024•7 min•Ep. 194
This episode: Fear is a crap motivator. When I feel fear, I rarely want to then go after what I think needs to get done. And fear as a motivator is almost always for something that I didn’t want to do in the first place or isn’t satisfying. Then why do I use it? Because other people used it on me to motivate me to do what they wanted me to do. So, I witnessed from those experiences that it was a powerful motivator…for doing things I didn’t want to do. And in doing so, losing my own personal conn...
Dec 03, 2024•22 min•Ep. 193
What do you do when you're feeling squeezed in your life? The overwhelm, the too much and not enough time feeling, not seeing anything joyful on the horizon... In this episode I talk about: 1st thing - Get out of the "trash compactor!" 2nd thing - Understand what the contrast in your life is growing within you! (spoiler - it's better than you think!) Drama happens b/c your brain loves to chew on things, so you can use this awareness to give your brain better things to chew on, things that serve ...
Oct 28, 2024•19 min•Ep. 192
How to move from where you are right now, ie: how you're feeling and what you're thinking... TO Arriving at where you want to be, ie: feeling better, thinking more capable, confident, connected thoughts! We want to be feeling better: more lightness, more powerful, more capable, more worthy, etc It's much more straight forward than you might think, it just takes being dedicated to noticing where you are, and having the desire to feel better. I give the example of how to use this process with mone...
Oct 18, 2024•22 min•Ep. 191
Every want you have is because you believe in the having of it you will FEEL better. What happens if you go to FEEL better first? Redefining old definitions that no longer serve you. Choosing to "grow" without suffering. How are you choosing? Is it by default? Fear-based? Today we explore two (2) ways to choose with intention: 1 - Choosing thoughts that FEEL a little bit better 2 - Choosing to FEEL a better feeling and moving to that "vibrational" feeling inside of you. SELF STORY group program ...
Oct 11, 2024•26 min•Ep. 190
Are you allowing good into your life? It happens moment by moment. How to make small shifts to experience RELIEF and how that adds up to a good life, a great life! Allowing things to be good and letting good into your life, bc we are so well trained to look for and expect things might good poorly. Instead we can focus on piling appreciation upon appreciation. Speaking to another who is in a challenging space w/o adding momentum to their challenges Being an energetic and vibrational beings. How m...
Oct 03, 2024•23 min•Ep. 189
Allowing the feeling of relief, enjoyment and grounding as a result of self kindness right in this moment, is something you can do intentionally. By putting attention on any emotion you help to create space and dissipate the intensity. What if you lived the belief that, "All of me makes sense!" This is the difference between indifference VS independent, being intentional with experiencing inner self kindness SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story . for all the details! 1:1 Life ...
Sep 27, 2024•19 min•Ep. 188
Life is a journey that happens RIGHT NOW! Are you enjoying the journey? Do you LOVE the journey as it unfolds? There are two (2) simple questions you can as in any moment, if you ask these questions, your life will radically shift! 1 - How am I doing right now? 2 - Do I want/ desire to reach for something different or reach for a little better feeling right now? OR am I willing to continue to feel this "good" feeling? In this episode we unpack how to do this, in your life. How to reach for a bet...
Sep 21, 2024•24 min•Ep. 187
Ready to expand your capacity to FEEL better? YES! New intentional thoughts have the power to create big shifts in our lives. However, the mind has a lot of momentum with the old, default thoughts. So in this episode I share how to begin incorporating the NEW thoughts (as I share and teach it weekly with my Self Story group members www.petesibley.com/story ) New thoughts like, "I can handle this." "All of me makes sense." Witnessing your emotions NOT a representation of who you are as a person, ...
Aug 23, 2024•20 min•Ep. 186
How can we deliberately choose feeling good more often, without the conditions of our lives needing to change? Ask yourself what are you choosing in the moment, in this episode I discuss each of these choices: Truth or Feeling Good Go it Alone or With the Divine Past/ Future or Present Moment Victim or Hero Against me or For Me Condition or Unconditional Gain or loss The quality of your life tomorrow is based upon the decisions you make today. March 23rd - Allowing Happiness - In person workshop...
Mar 08, 2024•20 min•Ep. 185
There is wisdom and knowing that ever human is born with. Stress, worry and negative emotions are indicators of whether or not you are connecting to this within YOU. In this episode I share a way I help clients to connect with this wisdom. You are telling the story, make it a great one! FREEBIES!! click HERE 15 minute life coaching session & downloadable journaling workbook 1:1 Life Coaching - Living the Self Kindness Effect Powerful one to one coaching a 1:1 coaching program built upon your...
Feb 29, 2024•15 min•Ep. 184
We ALL were built to feel good - it's why we don't like feeling bad, and yet we seem to believe it's more responsible to feel bad more of the time than feel good!! WHAAA??!!! Once upon a time you told a beautiful story about yourself, it's time to begin telling it again!! this episode I talk about: HOW TO allow more feeling good by following the simple guidance of what hurts and what doesn't HOW TO remember your power with telling your story ** NEW SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.c...
Feb 22, 2024•12 min•Ep. 183
True self confidence is allowing good and joy into your life EVEN WHILE circumstances look they way that they do. Maybe the situation has been challenging, but YOU can allow in good regardless, And when that is TOP PRIORITY in your life, things change dramatically today's example is around allowing in more abundance, but allowing in good can be applied to all of life's situations. Every circumstance is positively affected by utilizing this natural ability ** NEW SELF STORY group program info: ww...
Feb 15, 2024•24 min•Ep. 182
In this episode I share a clip from a recent live talk I gave. What happens when you experience your power? What happens when you begin to believe a different and more empowering story about yourself? In this episode I share two stories that are very different but point to the same truth: You are the narrator in your life - don't like the story? you can change it - and these stories tell you how!! Tell it with more delight for you! more joy, more worthiness, more ease ;-) ** NEW SELF STORY group...
Feb 10, 2024•26 min•Ep. 181
The way you feel does not have to be a result of what you see. And in fact, the way you feel can radically affect what you see. What would your life look like if you were free from worry, uncertainty and even shame? That's living in the unconditional and it's so much easier than you think, in fact it's who you are!! ** NEW SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story . for all the details! 1:1 Life Coaching - Living the Self Kindness Effect Powerful one to one coaching a 1:1 coaching ...
Feb 01, 2024•23 min•Ep. 180
Self Trust is KEY to creating a beautiful and sustained life that FEELs like it's working for you. Self Trust is locked in, through the action of BEING that which you desire, in the moment. If you made it your top priority every moment to deliberately feel better , then you would experience life in a new way. As something that is here for you to create a life of your choosing. Today's episode gives a first hand account of how to begin reestablishing your inner trust with yourself - which leads t...
Jan 17, 2024•25 min•Ep. 179
You are capable of shifting your self story each moment. It is less about the zero to hero journey and more about the beautiful unfolding legacy you're creating! It IS possible to be more deliberate about feeling good and joy in your life. My new group program, Self Story , has been specifically designed to help you master those skills and DO just that (or I could say BE that!) Just a few days remaining to become a Founding Member with lifetime access!! (Or sign up for 1:1 coaching in the month ...
Jan 11, 2024•17 min•Ep. 178
We tell ourselves stories all the time, the one we are most obsessed with is our OWN story. all about: How things are working (or aren't working) in our lives. How things are going, stories about how we look and why. Stories about about our families, our career, other people, the world, etc, etc In this episode I unpack exactly how being more deliberate about your narration is such a game changer. This is coming from experience my friend, so you won't want to miss this one. 1:1 Life Coaching - L...
Jan 03, 2024•13 min•Ep. 177
We're going there today! What is behind this thing we call LIFE and even better, How do you directly connect, inform and co-create with it. Welcome to the Greatest Journey of Your Life! This might be too far out there for you, but come along if you're ready!! 1:1 Life Coaching - Living the Self Kindness Effect 6 months of powerful one to one coaching a 1:1 coaching program built upon your unique needs and desired results Imagine your life in 6 months, letting go of the blocks & living as a p...
Dec 20, 2023•10 min•Ep. 176
