On today's episode I'm joined by a 25 year old man who recently went through a breakup when his ex-girlfriend's parents found out that he has Aspergers Syndrome. He shares what having Aspergers is like, how it does and doesn’t impact his daily life and relationships, and what common misconceptions are of those with this disability. We hear about what his relationship was like, how the breakup unfolded, and how painful it is to be discriminated against because of a disability. Are you ready to ch...
Jan 20, 2022•57 min
On today’s episode, I’m joined by Blaine Anderson, aka Dating by Blaine, who is a dating coach for men. We hear about the biggest challenges men face in modern dating, ways men are misunderstood in dating, and how Blaine ended up helping men with their dating lives. Blaine shares tips for dating apps profiles, approaching a woman IRL, sliding into her DMs, and texting etiquette. We answer listener questions about exclusivity, having needs vs. being needy, burnout, and sifting through matches. Ar...
Jan 18, 2022•1 hr 3 min
On this episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with two individuals who recently took 'Date Smarter' – Logan Ury's six-week interactive bootcamp designed to transform your love life. We discuss the stigma surrounding "learning" how to date, even though dating is a relatively new concept. They share their hesitations about signing up for the class, what they thought the other students would be like vs. what they were actually like, how it felt to learn about dating with a group of strangers, what what...
Jan 13, 2022•56 min
On Today’s episode I’m joined by behavioral scientist, dating coach, author, and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury. We discuss how Logan helped me change my bad dating habits, how she initially friendzoned her now-husband for years until a dating coach helped her realize he was what she was looking for, why you need accountability partners to achieve your dating goals, the importance of having “Other Significant Others," and why our partner can’t be our go-to person for everyth...
Jan 11, 2022•53 min
On this Unfiltered episode, I sit down with Zoe Scurletis, host of the podcast Solace and the City, to talk about how our traumatic experiences impact who we are and how we date. Zoe walks us through what it was like developing an eating disorder, losing a friend to suicide, and spiraling into depression. We discuss if, when and how to communicate your past traumas when seeing someone new, if you should date while battling an eating disorder, finding the balance between vulnerability and oversha...
Jan 06, 2022•52 min
In this episode, I sit down with Mia and Carleigh, hosts of Mostly Balanced. We discuss healthier dating habits we should develop, our predictions for dating trends this year, red flags you should avoid, and how to prioritize dating. Mia shares the important conversations that she and her fiancé are having to ensure their marriage will have a strong foundation, and Carleigh opens up about is embracing singlehood and navigating dating burnout. Finally, we discuss how we stay mentally and physical...
Jan 04, 2022•1 hr 6 min
On this year’s final episode, I sit down with my producer, Camila Vola, to celebrate Seeing Other People's 1st birthday by reflecting on everything that happened in 2021. I open up about how this was one of the hardest years of my life, my fears and hesitations around losing my co host and doing the show solo, the biggest accomplishments and the scariest challenges I faced, where I am in my career vs. where I want to be, what the future of Seeing Other People looks like, and the biggest takeaway...
Dec 28, 2021•1 hr 13 min
On todays episode I sit down with a 26 year old man from London. We hear about his recent transcontinental whirlwind romance, what it's been like dating during covid, dating while living at home with his parents, the struggles of being a hopeless romantic in today’s dating world, and more. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dec 23, 2021•1 hr 8 min
I’m joined by the amazing Katie Dombrowski and Victoria Bruno, hosts of The Moral Hangover Podcast, to break down everything that happened in dating in 2021. We dive into how the pandemic changed our dating lives for the better, what really happened with #shotgirlsummer, and our biggest red flags and green flags when going on dates. We look back on the many surprising celebrity couples and dating trends that have consumed our year. Finally, we discuss how the pandemic changed our dating lives fo...
Dec 21, 2021•1 hr 19 min
This episode may be triggering for those who sensitive to suicidal thoughts. On today’s episode, I sit down with a man who shares his story of being blindsided with a breakup six years into a relationship with his girlfriend who he lived with. This happened during covid while he was already going through a challenging time in his life. He shares had a break up impacted his mental health and what his recovery journey has been like, including seeking therapy and psychiatry for the first time, expe...
Dec 16, 2021•54 min
Therapist Jamie Genatt, and boyfriend, Taylor Adwar, join us to talk about how they built a successful partnership and healthy relationship over the last six years. We hear about how their movie-worthy meet-cute, the challenges they’ve overcome in their relationship, and the pros and cons of dating a therapist. They share how they navigate big life transitions, how they support each other, how they ask for space when they need it, and how they have learned to communicate effectively. Do you wish...
Dec 14, 2021•56 min
On today's episode, I sat down with a woman who recently experienced being ghosted for the first time by a man who lived a few doors down from her. We hear how she processed being ghosted, how she didn’t feel the way social media and people in her life were telling her she should feel and how she used this experience to go down a path of self healing and self discovery. Later we find out what happened when they reconnected, and where they are now, and how the way she handled this experience chan...
Dec 09, 2021•53 min
This episode is for the boys who want to be gentlemen, and for the girls who want to get inside a gentleman’s brain. I chat with James (Levon The Gent) Nichols II, founder of The Gent Code, who helps men become the best version of themselves in life, in dating, and in relationships. We discuss what it means to be a gentleman, the biggest dating pain points that men face (and how to overcome them), why genders react to breakups differently, why men seem to be afraid of commitment, and more. Are y...
Dec 07, 2021•1 hr 7 min
On today’s episode I sit down with a woman who shares her experiences being cheated on, later meeting the other women, and realizing they were not the ones to blame. We discuss how she found out she was cheated on, what it was like learning to trust again, and how she and these women helped support each other. We discuss why being cheated on has nothing to do with you, whether or not you should let someone know if you know they’re being cheated on, and more. Tis the season and Batter That Matter...
Dec 02, 2021•53 min
I’m joined by the hilarious Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier, hosts of Shooters Gotta Shoot. We’re diving into the results of the Instagram polls you’ve voted on, debating the winners, and sharing our own opinions on each. We break down what happens at the end of a date, being a guest or bringing a guest to the holidays, first date deal breakers, how much someone’s relationship history matters, if you need closure to move on, if "the one" is out there, and more. Erica runs a private virtual Herpe...
Nov 30, 2021•55 min
Krista St-Germain is a mom, grief expert and life coach for widowed moms and host of the Widowed Moms Podcast. She joins the show today to discuss sex, dating, and love after experiencing the traumatic loss of a partner or any individual in your life. We discuss the grieving process and why it isn’t linear, knowing when to start dating again, navigating the guilt around searching for a new partner, keeping their memory alive while moving on, rediscovering yourself, learning your triggers, and mo...
Nov 23, 2021•50 min
Lindsay and Emily Stetzer are sisters living with obsessive-compulsive disorder and anxiety, which led them to create Presently, a mindfulness jewelry company that helps you redirect your thoughts and return to the beauty of the present moment, wherever you are. Lindsay and Emily walk us through the different types of OCD, how their diagnoses impacted them, and how their OCD does and doesn’t affect their daily lives. They open up about how their OCD has impacted their past relationships and thei...
Nov 18, 2021•1 hr 2 min
Kate Anthony, certified divorce coach and host of The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, joins the show. We discuss how to decide if you should stay or leave your relationship, what factors lead to a divorce being amicable vs messy, and how to actually go about getting a divorce. We chat about prenups, couples therapy, the US litigation system, children of divorce, co-parenting, dating after divorce and more. Nobody goes into a relationship or marriage planning on getting divorced, which is why thi...
Nov 16, 2021•56 min
On Unfiltered, I sit down with a 26 year old social worker and therapist who practices in New York City. We hear about her dating experience in her late teens and early twenties that led to the heartbreak that shaped who she is today. She shares what it’s like to date as a therapist, what she learns from her patients, what it’s like to hear her patients be vulnerable all day long while she struggles being vulnerable and more. Im so excited to be partnering with Batter That Matters! Shop the Fall...
Nov 11, 2021•54 min
On today’s episode I’m joined by Jen Glantz, founder of Bridesmaid For Hire, 3x author, and host of You’re Not Getting Younger. Jen and I discuss how to cope with being the only one of your friends who isn’t engaged, going to weddings solo while feeling depressed about your own love life, and what you should expect if you have never been a bridesmaid before. We learn how we can best support our bride and groom friends, if/when we should offer our opinions on their wedding planning, common mistak...
Nov 09, 2021•50 min
On today's episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with a woman who shares what she went through when she caught her boyfriend hooking up with a stripper. She tells us what it was like finding this out, how she reacted to it, and how it impacted her dating life for years to come. We discuss wanting to change people, not having our needs met in situationships, and lying to ourselves about what kind of relationships we’re really ready for. This month we're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically he...
Nov 04, 2021•51 min
Laura Behnke joins the Seeing Other People family today to explain why you need to throw out your timeline. After 16 years of success as an award-winning television journalist, Laura still couldn’t help but feel like she was “behind” as she was in her 30s and had never been in a relationship. We discuss how to stop worrying about where you “should” be in your life, how to not feel like there’s something wrong with you for being single for a long period of time, what to say when someone asks why ...
Nov 02, 2021•1 hr 6 min
On today’s episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with Romeo, who shares the story about his on again, off again relationship that began in college. We hear about the highs and lows of the relationship, the pressure he faced from his peers as a college athlete to have a get girls mentality, the breakups, the makeups, cheating, anxiety and more. Romeo explains how he overcame his heartbreak and worked through all of these things in order to end up in the healthy relationship that he is now in. Want he...
Oct 28, 2021•1 hr 1 min
On today's episode, I sit down with Kevin Nahai, a personal coach who focuses on helping people with anxiety, low self esteem, and finding a healthy relationship. We dive into the ins and outs of dating anxiety including: how to know if your anxiety is coming from you or from them, how to stop attracting unhealthy partners, how to not get anxious when someone doesn’t text back, why you should focus on whether or not you like them, why you should make sure your values align, when and how to share...
Oct 26, 2021•57 min
On this episode of unfiltered I sit down with a woman from Canada who shares her story of booking a flight to New York City to meet somebody who she matched with on bumble a few months earlier. We hear what their conversations were like leading up to the trip, what happened when she finally got there, and how everything was not at all what she thought it was going to be like. Cuffing season is here and it's time to focus on finding who and what you're looking for. My favorite way to focus is wit...
Oct 21, 2021•1 hr 1 min
On this episode I’m joined by Jordan and Zac Stenmark, twins, international models and entrepreneurs. We discuss their dating and relationship experiences as twins, world travelers, and businessmen. We hear about Dreamers, the company they founded to help people sleep better and stay mentally healthy so we can be our best selves in work, dating, and daily life. They share their personal dating struggles and hilarious date fails, and we discuss how looks, success and fame don’t actually lead to a...
Oct 19, 2021•1 hr 2 min
On today’s episode of Unfiltered, I talk to Jillian about dating as a little person. She shares what it’s like to live and date in a world that’s not designed for you. We discuss dating apps, common misconceptions, what she wishes people knew, and more. Jillian hosts a podcast called Always Looking Up – check it out if you want to hear honest and real stories about being a little person in an average-sized world. We’re focusing on communicating about our feelings and finding love this cuffing se...
Oct 14, 2021•48 min
David Sauvage is an empath, an expert on empathy, and a teacher of empathy and emotional intelligence. He joins us today to help us learn how to communicate more honestly, openly, and empathetically. We discuss healthy vs. unhealthy communication, how to learn healthy communication if you did not grow up witnessing it, how to encourage your partner to communicate in a healthier way, the process of shifting the way you communicate, how to be more open and honest in an empathetic way, why men are ...
Oct 12, 2021•59 min
TW: Eating disorder thoughts and behaviors. On today’s episode I sit down with Sam, a woman who is in recovery from her eating disorder. She shares how her eating disorder impacted her dating life prior to seeking treatment and how she’s been navigating it while in recovery. We’re focusing on finding love this cuffing season, and we’re turning to Mindset Wellness CBD’s focus gummies to keep us on track. Get yours today www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople at checkout for a disc...
Oct 07, 2021•48 min
Sami Wunder is a leading international relationship and dating expert who specializes in working with ambitious, high-achieving women, helping them attract lasting romantic love. Sami joins us to discuss breaking toxic relationship patterns, how to identify why you’re still single, why rotational dating might be the key to finding love, making time for dating, having both career and relationship success, and more. Exclusively for Seeing Other People listeners, Sami has offered: 1) Training on fe...
Oct 05, 2021•1 hr
