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School Of Attraction Podcast

Damien Dieckeschoolofattraction.com

A place for men to learn about everything from approaching and attracting beautiful women, to men's personal development, the politics of sex and much much more. There's no topic Damien won't discuss as we dive down the rabbit hole of learned seduction and men's health. 

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Cure Your Premature Ejaculation - Bonus 'Mystery Box' Technique

Stop feeling the shame of premature ejaculations and learn to last longer in bed - Here are 3 strategies for curing your premature ejaculation. I'm also going to teach you how to have women see you as being amazing in bed without even curing your PE first. As a bonus, I'm going to share my mystery box technique which creates a massive amount of sexual tension and arouses women into hyper-horny state without even engaging in penetration. There is a lot of shame for men around how long you last in...

Feb 10, 202122 minSeason 13Ep. 13

Attraction Isn't A Choice! Or Is It...... The Truth About Female Attraction

David De-Angelo famously sadi that attraction wasn't a choice - That women can't decide what guys they are attracted to - it is just a primal and sub-conscious process, and there's nothing us guys can do to change that fact. In truth, I agree with the basic idea that most women are on autopilot when it comes to what kinds of men they choose to date. But the truth is also more complicated than most men realise because they come from a scarcity mindset rather than an abundance mindset. I'm going t...

Feb 04, 202113 minSeason 13Ep. 12

Why Dating Is (Probably) the Most Important Skill You'll Ever Learn

Most of the success I've had in my life I attribute to the skills I learned trying to become more successful with women. From my relationship success to my business success, I've used these critical life skills in every part of my world. We often don't realise that we learn ego strength, self-esteem, sales skills, networking abilities when we work on our seduction and attraction skillset. The dating advice you have to learn to attract high-quality women are the same skills you'll use everywhere ...

Jan 28, 202115 minSeason 13Ep. 11

Your Seduction Demons - And How They're Holding You Back

Do you know What Your Attraction Demons Are? Did you know they're responsible for a lot of the pain you've suffered in dating and your relationships? Our attraction demons lead to the relationship dynamics we create in our romantic lives, whether we're just looking for something casual, or something more long time. It's very easy to feel that women are all untrustworthy or gold diggers, or just out to hurt men - but most of the time we create these dynamics ourselves as a result of our templates...

Jan 21, 202122 minSeason 13Ep. 10

Your Locus Of Attraction - Stop Dating The Same Women

Are you in the trap of constantly meeting the same kinds of women? Do you feel like all women all have the same negative behaviours? Did you know that your taste in women, and the kinds of women you are drawn to are largely not related to attractiveness? Instead, we choose the women we tend to talk to based on our locus of attraction. Your locus of attraction is a way of choosing romantic partners that frequently leads men to choose the wrong women to date....

Jan 14, 202115 minSeason 13Ep. 9

Develop Your Dark Masculine Sexuality

How can you get deeply connected with your dark masculine sexuality? How would women behave differently around you? Today I'm going to share an exercise to start getting you connected with this long forgotten part of who you are as a man. Can you believe that being better connected with this part of ourselves as men, that we will feel more confident, more sexual, more deserving of amazing women. More than that, women will start to take notice of us and see us for the men we really are. Most men ...

Jan 07, 202110 minSeason 13Ep. 8

What Is The Difference Between Charming And Creepy?

Have you ever wondered what the difference is between a man looking charming and a man looking creepy? Many men avoid approaching women because they're anxious of coming across as creepy - but often they're not even sure how to avoid looking creepy to their crush. There's a lot of scientific research into the experience of creepiness and as it turns out - it's not so hard to avoid looking creepy around women.

Dec 31, 202011 minSeason 13Ep. 7

Is Online Dating Unfair? How Dating Apps Really Work

There is plenty to complain about online dating apps - You get ranked based on looks, Women are flakey, There are shady business practices. But are these unfair aspects of online dating really worth getting focussed on and obsessed with? Whether you use Tinder, or Bumble, Hinge, or Some other dating app - You're going to get frustrated at times. But I'd argue that there's a healthier mental approach to trying to meet women online, one that will give you the absolute best chance of meeting the mo...

Dec 24, 202024 minSeason 13Ep. 6

Why Being Yourself Is The Hardest Thing To Do

If I have to hear another woman tell a guy to "just be himself" around women, and he'll have lots of dating success, I think I might have a conniption! But actually - there's much deeper wisdom in this statement than I think the women saying it realise. The simplicity of the statement makes it sound like it has a simple answer - but actually... Being yourself is one of the hardest things a man or woman can possibly hope to accomplish. It's a lifelong journey to work out what and who you really a...

Dec 16, 202010 minSeason 13Ep. 5

The Next Dating Revolution - What The Future Holds

While the whole world is jumping to online dating as a way to keep meeting dating partners, there's no denying that online dating is not an ideal way to meet people. Today I'm going to explore alternate ways that we may soon be meeting our dating partners in the near future - Because the world is always changing, and it's up to us to keep up. Why do you want to keep up with dating trends? Because just like Tinder was an incredibly easy way to meet women back in 2014, new dating trends offer the ...

Dec 10, 202021 minSeason 13Ep. 4

The Awesome Power Of Assumed Attraction

Do you regularly ask yourself how you can make a particular woman like you? Did you know that this question almost guarantees you won't get good results? How can this be? This question seems the most fundamental of all attraction conundrums. But actually focussing on trying to make women like you is the completely wrong way to meet and attract women. So what is the real secret to successfully picking up women? Assumed Attraction - and in today's video, I'm going to explain not just how it works,...

Dec 03, 202016 minSeason 13Ep. 3

All Women Are Like This! - Self-Fulfilling Dating Prophesies

Do all women seem to behave in the same way? Have you experienced the frustrating experience that women are gold diggers, or fickle, or superficial, or racist? Dating can definitely be frustrating for guys, but sometimes it's just "obvious" that women just aren't that great, and most women aren't worth dating at all. After I went on a catfish date this weekend, it made me think about how many men and women have a habit of creating dating patterns for themselves which keep creating the same painf...

Nov 26, 202018 minSeason 13Ep. 2

Navigating Open Relationships - Is It Right For You? 👉👌

Do you know what to expect from an open relationship experience? Are you comfortable with your partner being intimate with other people? When you are thinking about opening up your relationship, many men and women don't really know what to expect from the world of polyamory - Because while it can be a lot of fun, most of us will also have to face a lot of demons and insecurities along the way. You will face Jealousy and Shame and insecurity - and you need to be able to communicate that to your p...

Nov 12, 202018 minSeason 13Ep. 1

The Next Dating Revolution - What The Future Holds

While the whole world is jumping to online dating as a way to keep meeting dating partners, there's no denying that online dating is not an ideal way to meet people. Today I'm going to explore alternate ways that we may soon be meeting our dating partners in the near future - Because the world is always changing, and it's up to us to keep up. Why do you want to keep up with dating trends? Because just like Tinder was an incredibly easy way to meet women back in 2014, new dating trends offer the ...

Nov 09, 202021 minSeason 13Ep. 2

Dark Masculine Sexaulity And Masculine Shame Interview With Sarah Martin

What is the dark Masculine? How does it turn women on? How can you develop your dark masculine as a man? What shame do men typically hide from the world and why does it prevent them from having the sexually and emotionally rewarding relationships they crave. Join Sarah Martin from Sexual Craftsmanship ( http://www.sexualcraftsmanship.com) and I as we discuss these topics and much much more

Nov 05, 202055 minSeason 13Ep. 2

The Awesome Power Of Assumed Attraction

Do you regularly ask yourself how you can make a particular woman like you? Did you know that this question almost guarantees you won't get good results? How can this be? This question seems the most fundamental of all attraction conundrums. But actually focussing on trying to make women like you is the completely wrong way to meet and attract women. So what is the real secret to successfully picking up women? Assumed Attraction - and in today's podcast, I'm going to explain not just how it work...

Nov 02, 202017 minSeason 12Ep. 12

All Women Are Like This! - Self-Fulfilling Dating Prophesies

Do all women seem to behave in the same way? Have you experienced the frustrating experience that women are gold diggers, or fickle, or superficial, or racist? Dating can definitely be frustrating for guys, but sometimes it's just "obvious" that women just aren't that great, and most women aren't worth dating at all. After I went on a catfish date this weekend, it made me think about how many men and women have a habit of creating dating patterns for themselves which keep creating the same painf...

Oct 29, 202018 minSeason 12Ep. 11

What Is An Alpha Male? - Perhaps Not What You Think...

What is an alpha male really? What are the traits that women are really looking for if they're looking for an alpha male? Do alpha males always get the women? When trying to become better men and develop alpha male personality traits, it's important to recognise that we frequently aren't even 100% sure what a human alpha male is. We often try to copy animal dominance traits in the hopes that women will respond well. But in truth, the signs of an alpha male are frequently 'softer' than many peopl...

Oct 25, 202017 minSeason 12Ep. 10

What Happens To 26 Year Old Women??

There is a very curious trend that I've been seeing as a dating coach for over 12 years - And it involves 26-year-old women. It appears as though many women approach a powerful identity crisis at this age which can have catastrophic effects on relationships and radically alter a woman's personality and life direction. This mid-life crisis seems to happen at a much younger age for women than it does for men. What would be the reason for this? And how could you avoid being hurt by women as they go...

Oct 21, 202016 minSeason 12Ep. 10

Control - The Secret Killer Of Attraction and Dating Success

Did you know that most men use forms of control when they feel insecure that turns women off and ruins their chances of dating success? Turning to controlling behaviours when we feel insecure is a very common thing for both men and women to do - It's a way to try and get control back in a situation where we feel like we have none left. But that just turns women off and makes them want to get away from you. This can create a spiral of control where the less you feel in control, the more you want ...

Oct 18, 202019 minSeason 12Ep. 9

The Red Pill - Food For Thought

Is the Red Pill philosophy healthy for men? The answer - is yes and no. It can be very hard for men in today's society, masculinity is under fire, we aren't feeling empowered, men are being shamed in the media, suicide rates are up, depression is up, and university rates for men are down. Books like Rollo Tomasi's "the rational male" which is one of the bibles of the red pill movement propose a series of behavioural changes fo men to help them battle the changing world. But with a keen understan...

Oct 15, 202018 minSeason 12Ep. 8

No Tinder Matches? Try This Unique Advertising Strategy

This is a great marketing strategy used to dramatically increase your success on online dating apps like tinder, bumble, and hinge. It's no secret that trying to get matches, and trying to get dates online can be very difficult for average guys. But there are some really great lessons that we can learn from the world of marketing and advertising which can be brought over and applied to your online dating profile. It's called Niching, and it involves splitting your profile up into various persona...

Oct 12, 202011 minSeason 12Ep. 7

The Dark Feminine - Man's Greatest Paradox

The dark feminine is both sexy as hell and scares us to death at the same time. Many men have been hurt by the dark feminine in relationships, so they get into relationships with luke-warm women, while they cheat on the side with dangerous dark women. This is an unhealthy cycle. Just like the dark masculine, the dark feminine is a part of every woman, and it can cause great harm if a woman doesn't have a healthy relationship with her dark feminine. It's important for men to have an understanding...

Oct 08, 20208 minSeason 12Ep. 6

Can You Be Too Attractive For Tinder?

Did you know that I regularly get really attractive men reaching out because they struggle to get results on Tinder? Did you know they get most frustrated because some of their less attractive friends are doing better than they are? Online dating is definitely a superficial place - but just being good looking isn't a guarantee that you'll get women matching with you all over the place. The key to getting a swipe right is to understand how women think about the men they're considering matching wi...

Oct 05, 202016 minSeason 12Ep. 5

The Hot Crazy Matrix - Explained!

Did you know that the Hot Crazy Matrix actually has some very valuable lessons for men to learn if they understand it's deeper implications? Whether you're looking for an ideal girl to date, or to find a long term relationship and potentially a wife - there are some really big dating mistakes guy make which can lead to emotional and financial ruin. If you fully understand the implications of the hot/crazy matrix, then you can go on to make far better choices for partners. Finding the perfect gir...

Oct 01, 202017 minSeason 12Ep. 4

6 Biggest Rejections Of My Life

I'll share my biggest rejections I've ever had from women in my life - some of them are tragic and some of them are tragically funny. I think it's really important for men to realise that no matter how hard you work on your dating skills, you're always going to face rejection - so today I want to share my funny dating rejection stories so you can laugh with or at me and my experiences. It's important for men wanting to learn to be more successful with women to see that all men have to be okay wi...

Sep 28, 202020 minSeason 12Ep. 3

How Unattractive Guys Can Attract Women

Unattractive guys can still meet, attract and date women - This is your guide to making that happen. I won't sugar coat it though - dating is always harder when you're not a good looking or hot guy. But that doesn't mean all is lost. In this video, I'm going to focus on teaching you what less attractive men need to work on to still be able to meet and attract women in their lives. This is the dating advice many men have been asking me for, and I think that it's high time that I delivered and mad...

Sep 24, 202016 minSeason 12Ep. 2

First Date Red Flags - For Long Term Relationships

What are some sure signs that your date isn't' all you hoped they would be? Going on first dates can be daunting, and trying to work out if they're a good match can feel like an impossible task. But here are 6 red flags (and one bonus flag) that you should look out for which may prove that you should be proceeding with caution. Whether you're a girl or a guy going on a date and want a medium to long term serious relationship with someone, this is a video you don't want to miss....

Sep 21, 202019 minSeason 12Ep. 1

Discover Your Masculinity - 7 Critical Lessons

What were the 7 HUGE lessons I learned about masculinity that changed how I evolved and grew up as a man? Trying to work out what it means to be a man, and what masculinity really means to you can be a tricky field of self-discovery. It seems like you have some people telling you to 'man up' and other people telling you all about the evils of 'toxic masculinity'. And it can be confusing for any guys. As it turns out Men's groups which share vulnerability and integrity with a range of men can rea...

Sep 17, 202016 minSeason 11Ep. 12

Don't Hate The Tinder 20% Rule

I hear a lot of guys get really upset with online dating apps like Tinder and Bumble and Hinge because you have to be in the top 20 per cent of guys to get any results. But actually - That's a very reasonable outcome for an area where lots of guys want to be successful. It's important to realise that you have to work hard on your online dating profile if you want to stand out and get matches and dates. Tinder is in many ways a reflection of the real world dating scene - But we very often mistake...

Sep 14, 202013 minSeason 11Ep. 11
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