Savage Lovecast Episode 1018
Summary
Dan Savage tackles listener dilemmas, advising a man whose girlfriend repeatedly takes breaks to treat them as breakups, and exploring the evolving etiquette of gay sex acts. Guest comedian Jackie Kashian joins to discuss the complexities of age-gap relationships, particularly a man interested in a much younger woman at a family Seder. The episode also delves into nipple play, finding partners in queer spaces, and responds to listener feedback.Episode description
When he was a young homo, he was expected to rim his tops. Kids today want the top to rim the bottom! What gives?
A straight man and his girlfriend keep taking "breaks" from the relationship, at her behest. They always end up getting back together, but each time he thinks it's the end. Should he continue to tolerate this exhausting cycle?
Our guest is the thoroughly delightful Midwestern comedian Jackie Kashian. She and Dan tackle a question from a man who wants to hit on a woman 30 years his junior at the Passover seder. They talk about age gap relationships in general, on sleeping with many people whilst blotto drunk, and they dish out some actionable advice on how to succeed as a stand-up comedian. A little is on the Micro, and the whole thing is on the Magnum.
And, a very female presenting non-binary person has the hots for gay bears. Are any of them bisexual enough to want to date this person?
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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From faking orgasms (which you mustn't do) to freysexuality, erectile dysfunction to ethical non-monogamy and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, in these dark times.