Hi, everyone, and welcome to this episode of relationships rule. We're going to do things a little differently in the month of December, and I'm really excited about it, I am bringing you a solo series of four episodes in the month of December. And my title is the relationship marketing roadmap, navigating year end connections and beyond. I wanted to end the year by sharing some things with you that I think you know that I talk about these things all the
time. But I think it's a perfect opportunity to spend some time with you, my listeners, and as a gift to you, at the end of this year, give you some thoughtful considerations, and year end ideas and some things for the upcoming year that you can use going forward. You know that it's important to maintain connections. And I feel that it's important to do that all
year, all year round. But if and if you're a regular listener of my podcast, you know, I'm all about curiosity, connections and cars, I believe the best way anytime of year to grow your client base is to nurture your connections, your past clients, and referral partners. So everything I do is hinged around relationships. Now, we're just coming off the US Thanksgiving and gratitude month in general. So it's a great way to kick off
the holiday season. In these four episodes, I will share some thoughts, ideas and practical strategies for you to incorporate into your year end, and the new year two. So let's start with LinkedIn, my social media platform of choice, as you know, and explore some creative and quick ways to express gratitude on LinkedIn, from personalized messages to interactive posts. Number one, are you taking advantage of the new feature which is on your desktop and your mobile, but
it's certainly quicker to do this on your mobile. It's called celebrations, or it shows you the words grow and catch up. And this is actually in the network section of of your profile. So when you're on your, on your LinkedIn profile, the menu at the top one of them is your or mine network, it says my network. And when you see that and go to that section, you will see somewhere in there either ace, a strip that says celebrations or at the top of the the actual columns, it will
say grow and catch up. It's fairly new. And I'm not sure if everyone has it yet. And if everyone has the same version, I think they're trying two different versions because I have one and someone else I know has another anyway, it's a quick way to touch base with someone. And it's timely as they may be celebrating a birthday or an anniversary, or a new job. And that's those are the things that you can choose from. And when
you see those, push those. Notice push notifications that you have there, you can easily do what the options are to click on it and basically send a direct message to the person congratulating them. Or you can personalize it even more if you want to. Number two, when you have a video meeting with someone, you could take a quick screenshot, then post a screenshot, and even promote the person which shows that you're generous, you're a giver. And they will appreciate it as well
as their audience will then hopefully see it as well. So here's an example of something I did just the other day, I did a podcast interview with one of my guests that's coming up, you'll probably hear it in the new year. And I took a screenshot of the two of us on Zoom. And I posted that on LinkedIn tab, tagging her in it and saying that I had a delightful time interviewing her today. And also at that time because when my interview comes, goes live, it will be past the date of this
event that she's doing. I wanted to give her a little push for that. And so I said in that and you might want to check out her masterclass next week, blah, blah blah, and I know she appreciated it and it's just a nice gesture and a great post to do that. Number three it's a great time of year to reconnect with your existing LinkedIn connect Since perhaps doing a holiday campaign, how many connections do you have? When was the last time you reached out to them, taking the lead and
sending a holiday message will put you ahead of the crowd. Most people don't even bother. They're too busy chasing new connections. You can do it yourself, or you can hire someone to do it for you. I have the perfect person who did mine last year. Let me know if you need help. And I'll introduce you, we came up with a message together and looked at my list of connections sorting who I really wanted to touch. Here's a
sample message that I'm talking about. As the holiday season begins, I like to reflect and appreciate and mostly be grateful for the wonderful people in my life. I'm so glad we connected on LinkedIn, and all the possibilities that it brings. Please know I'm always here to help you succeed in any way possible. May you end 2023 on a high note, have a joyful holiday season. And a spectacular start into another year of life's awesome adventures. And happy new year
to that's just a sample. And I encourage you to make your own message in your own words and tone and give it a go. You'll be surprised how many relationships you can rekindle from just that one strategy. Timing is everything as we know. And your message may just remind someone that the time is right now to work with you. I know that happened for me, I did rekindle a few relationships, I did get new business out of it. And I had people say, hey, it might be a good time now to take a look
at what we were talking about last year. So let me know if that works for you. Let us know move now from LinkedIn, to cards cards that count. One of my favorite things to do at any time of year is send cards. I love to send unexpected heartfelt cards to celebrate, appreciate, inspire, and sometimes show empathy to people in my world. There's always a
reason to send a card in my opinion. If you know me, you know that I'm affiliated with a company called promptings perfect name for this company, and use their system Send Out Cards, which makes it so easy as it is an online system. I have it on my desktop and my phone. So I can always send a card to someone. The beauty of it though, is that I send a real tangible touch card in the mail. Yes, old fashioned mail, because
it does make a difference. Now, whether you use that very convenient system, which prints stuff, stamps and sins, or still go to the store to buy cars, handwrite them and mail them yourself. You're still in the minority, and I commend you. Most people don't do it at all. A lot of people today send an email or even a text to say thank you. I appreciate you. It was nice to meet you. Now I asked you does it have the same impact when you're on the receiving end? As it does when
you receive an actual card? Trust me, you will stand out from the crowd, warm someone's heart and make their day when you send a real card. I don't know if you know this, but only 3% of mail received today is personal and who doesn't open a greeting card. In the spirit of the season, I'd like to share this perspective shift with you by using an age old character from a Christmas carol Scrooge. Bah humbug. Scrooge was not a fan of receiving holiday cards until he understood why sending
holiday greetings matters. While you may not have been an avid fan of sending holiday cards in the past, the impact of spreading joy can extend far beyond what meets the eye. And in a business. holiday greetings are a bonus hidden gem to build lasting relationships well into the new year. Do you want to remind someone of the shared moments you had this year? Send them a heartfelt holiday card. And if it includes a photo of the two of you even more of a bonus, want to add a personal
touch to the relationships you build. Extend your warm wishes and gratitude during this festive season. Do you want to beat out your competition? Some people are still pretty competitive. So if you want to do that, create and pre program your cards to go out let's say the end of November 1 week in December, you're guaranteed to be there early. And when cards are they're early, they are on display longer and therefore more people see them so keep that in mind too.
Huh Let's look at how to optimize your holiday greetings to strengthen connections and foster goodwill. Number one who deserves your holiday greetings, your clients, your colleagues, your friends and family are undoubtedly worthy recipients. But going overboard is unnecessary. Keep it genuine and heartfelt. And remember, it's about sincerity. So if it's overwhelming to you to do to send cars to everybody, pick the ones you really want to stay connected with. Number two, be
efficient. I know you're busy. But automated does work just as well in our fast paced world and saves time and money. So when I said, have your cards go out by November 29, or the beginning of December, you can actually do them today with a system like the one I use and pre programmed them to go out on the day you actually want them to go out. Number three, do send them on
time. Be prompt. The sooner you send your holiday greetings, the more you'll stand out and ensure your message is well received. holiday greetings are an excellent way to make someone's day brighter, strengthen your professional connections, and stay ahead of your competition. So don't procrastinate. And by the way, if you need any help, you know where I am. Here's one bonus thing I want to mention, though, about sending holiday cards that I often see kind of puts a sour taste in my mouth
when I've had it happened to me and I have had it happen. So when someone sends when you're sending holiday cards, be careful that you don't make it self promotional. So here's an example. I received a very, very serious Christmas card one time from somebody who is religious and it had those connotations on the card. Inside the card. She had also included a Christmas letter, which is, you know, neither here nor there. But that was an extra piece. But the thing that actually got me was
she included her business card in there as well. That really soured it. For me. It's not about business. This is about celebrating, showing you care at this time of year. So one thing you can do if you're using a system, or having cards printed is you could put a photo on the back one of your family of your kids, your pet something festive, which shows you in a completely different light than your connection may normally see you. Make it be about family be about celebrating, whatever, but
not the focus on business. So that's it for now. I hope you took something away to incorporate into your holiday rituals. We'd love to know drop me a line if something really resonated with you. My wish is that you examine the business relationships that made a difference to your journey this past year, and reach out to express gratitude and show some love. Next week we'll take a look at ways to navigate your network in the busy holiday season. And keep you top of mind
and so much more. See you then. Until then remember to stay connected and be remembered
