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Relationship Reminders

Brie Schmidtbrieschmidt.com
Welcome to Relationship Reminders (formerly Bad Girlfriend Radio)! Host and coach/educator Brie Schmidt walks you through topics on navigating dating troubles, healthy relationship habits, self-love, mental health, and so much more. And each episode focuses on one relationship reminder or self-improvement concept in a quick 10 minutes or less. Listen now to upgrade your relationship with yourself and the people in your life.
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Episodes

Ep.100: Endings Aren't Failures

Beginnings can't come without endings. And though it feels bittersweet to say, this episode, episode 100, marks the final episode of Relationship Reminders. For now, the podcast is coming to an end, but it's a beginning in many other ways. I'll still be creating content about relationships/self-development (and hopefully more resources, tools, and products in the future!). For now, find me on Instagram (handle below). Thanks for listening as always! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAG...

Dec 15, 20218 min

Ep.99: The Problem With Being the Bigger Person

Is there a downside to being the "bigger person" in arguments? Sometimes, it might be better to skip taking the high road when dealing with difficult people. Listen now to find out why! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com

Dec 08, 20217 min

Ep.98: Is the Passion Gone? Why That Might Be a Good Thing

Are you afraid that the passion will die out, or does it feel like it already has? If your relationship has become a little boring, that might actually be a good sign! Listen now to find out why passion isn't everything and why it's okay if the spark is gone. ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Dec 01, 20217 min

Ep.97: What Love Is and Isn't

Love isn't all you need, though it's still important in relationships. But are your feelings for others actually love, or something else? Listen to this episode where I talk about what really makes love love, plus a surprising (though cute and relatable) example of love to model your relationships after. ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Nov 24, 20217 min

Ep.96: Starting a New Relationship (Without Breaking Up)

When your relationship is at a crossroads, the answer is always to start a new relationship—but that doesn't have to involve breaking up. In this episode, I talk about the big changes that can help renew your relationship and how to avoid repeating the same relationship problems over and over. Tune in now! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Nov 17, 20217 min

Ep.95: What Actually IS Gaslighting?

Gaslighting is a popular buzzword these days, but it's more than just that: it's a toxic and manipulative relationship behavior. Listen now to learn about what gaslighting really is, what it looks like, and how to know if you're gaslighting yourself! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Nov 10, 20217 min

Ep.94: How to Avoid Being Drained by Energy Vampires

Are there people in your life who always drain your energy? Do you know someone who seems to trigger you every time you interact? You may have energy vampires in your life! But there is one major tip that can help you protect your energy. Listen now to find out what it is! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Nov 03, 20217 min

Ep.93: Protection vs Experience in Relationships and Life

Saying no is important, but sometimes saying yes is equally valuable. But if you're struggling to say yes to things outside of your comfort zone, you might be overprotecting yourself. Listen now for more on balancing protection, vulnerability, and experience in relationships and life in general. ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Oct 27, 202110 min

Ep.92: The Gender Stereotypes That Silence Us

Are you still struggling with clear communication? Gender roles and norms might be the reason why. For hetero couples in particular, this episode is for you. Men and women are taught to stay quiet or avoid direct communication in different ways. But you can start rewriting the rules and norms in your own relationship. Tune in now to start learning how! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Oct 20, 20218 min

Ep.91: Control in Relationships

Healthy relationships are NOT built on control. But if you find yourself sometimes craving control, you're not alone. Find out what causes us to seek control in relationships and what you can do instead to start letting go. Tune in now! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com

Oct 13, 20219 min

Ep.90: Are Your Relationships Inside-Out or Outside-In?

It's time to log off of social media. In this episode, I talk about the difference between inside-out and outside-in relationships. When we focus on how our lives and relationships look on the outside, they may suffer more on the inside. Listen now for this quick-yet-essential relationship reminder! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Oct 06, 20219 min

Ep.89: Overcoming Fearful Avoidant Attachment

Do you struggle with both anxiety and avoidance in relationships? Do your relationships feel like a rollercoaster, and it seems like your needs are never getting met? You may be struggling with a fearful avoidant attachment style. Use my tips in this episode to start overcoming insecure attachment and start building healthier thoughts and habits. Tune in now! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Sep 29, 202111 min

Ep.88: Clear Communication, Revisited

I've talked a lot about the importance of clear communication, but what does clear communication actually look like in relationships? The last time I devoted an entire episode to talking about relationship communication skills was two years ago, back in episode 3 (when the podcast was still called "Bad Girlfriend Radio"!). So I'm revisiting the topic today with a few updates and new tips to try. Listen now to start practicing healthier communication in your relationships! ACCESS FREEBIES: briesc...

Sep 22, 202110 min

Ep.87: Why You're Missing Red Flags

You know the feeling: you ditched that friend or broke up with that ex, and later, you realize there were so many red flags you missed! In this episode, I talk about five common reasons why people ignore red flags. Listen now to get to know these five reasons so you can stop being colorblind and start seeing the red flags! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Sep 15, 20218 min

Ep.86: Are You Delaying the Truth?

Being dishonest isn't just about telling lies—it's also about omitting and ignoring important truths. To make the best decisions for both yourself and your relationships, you have to face the truth. Find out what it means to delay the truth, how to know if you're doing it, and why it's time to face reality. Listen in now for this no-sugarcoat episode! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Sep 08, 20216 min

Ep.85: How to Know if Your Friendships Are Toxic

Are your friendships draining you, or energizing you? In this episode, I talk about my own personal experience and realization that I was attracting the wrong type of friends in my life—and you might be too. Listen in to find out if your friendships are toxic and what it takes to build a healthy friendship instead. ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Sep 01, 20217 min

Ep.84: 5 Signs It's Time to Walk Away From an Argument

Hard conversations are necessary to build healthy relationships. But not all conversations are created equal. If you keep finding yourself in stressful arguments with a partner or loved one, these are the five signs it's time to walk away. Listen in now to find out when to leave a tense conversation and how to revisit these talks in a way that respects both the relationship and your mental health. ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Aug 25, 20219 min

Ep.83: Sensitivity and the Struggle of Being "Too Out" or "Too In"

If you're a Highly Sensitive Person, or HSP, your sensitivity isn't a problem, but the way you might cope with your sensitivity and overstimulation could be. In this episode, I talk about the concept of being "too out" or "too in" in the world and how this can impact our personal wellbeing and relationships. READ THE HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON : amazon.com READ MY ARTICLE ON DATING AS AN HSP: datingroo.com ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.co...

Aug 18, 20218 min

Ep.82: Lack of Understanding in Relationships

Fact: you and your partner won't always understand each other. And the more you think you understand about each other, the more you might be mistaken. If this is true, then, why are people often so afraid of not being understood? I unpack that and how to handle a lack of understanding in relationships in this episode. ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Aug 11, 20218 min

Ep.81: Self-Fulfilling Prophecies Are Destroying Your Relationships

Are your doubts and low expectations running your relationships? Self-fulfilling prophecies can dominate our lives, but they don’t have to. Tune in for a must-listen relationship reminder to help you check yourself and your thoughts. ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com

Aug 04, 20216 min

Ep.80: Dealing With Boundary Pushback and Violations

You probably already know the importance of setting boundaries, but our boundaries are sometimes met with resentment, anger, and pushback from others. If your boundaries are being repeatedly disrespected, crossed, or questioned, listen in to find out what to do and 3 tips to help you navigate relationships with boundary pushers. ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Jul 28, 20217 min

Ep.79: Be Your Own Safe Person

If you've experienced bad relationships or trauma in your past, learning to care for yourself is essential for your own wellbeing and future relationships. For many of us, it can be tempting to try to find safety in unsafe people. Listen in now to find out why this happens and how to become your own "safe person." ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Jul 21, 20217 min

Ep.78: Are You Responding or Reacting?

Responding vs reacting: do you know the difference? Here's a hint: one is typically more damaging, while the other is more mindful. Learn what each looks like and how to best respond, step-by-step, to difficult situations or interactions. Tune in now! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Jul 14, 20216 min

Ep.77: How to Have Better Arguments

If you keep finding yourself in arguments that go in circles, only getting bigger and uglier, then this episode is for you! I talk about a super useful tip to try during conflict and the 5 points to focus on during a fight. Ready to have better arguments and really get your point across to your partner or loved one? Listen in now! READ THE RELATIONSHIP SKILLS WORKBOOK : amazon.com ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Jul 07, 20217 min

Ep.76: Why Do Happy Couples Cheat?

Cheating is a huge betrayal and can quickly destroy a relationship. But why do people cheat, and specifically, why do people in happy relationships cheat? I discuss 5 common reasons, plus an important relationship reminder to keep in mind whether or not you're dealing with infidelity. Listen in now! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com...

Jun 30, 202110 min

Ep.75: Asking the Hard Questions

When it comes to improving your relationships, sometimes the answers don't matter as much as the questions. But are you asking your partner and loved ones the hard, necessary questions? Tune in to find out why asking the right questions is so important, why talking about hard things can make us turn against each other, and how to design a lifestyle you'll fall in love with--together. READ THE HARD QUESTIONS : amazon.com ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL conta...

Jun 23, 20218 min

Ep.74: Do I Practice What I Preach?

As a relationship educator and coach, do I actually follow everything I recommend? In this episode, I talk about defense mechanisms in relationships, making mistakes, and being toxic. Listen in for all the details! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup INSTAGRAM: @brie_schmidt EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com

Jun 16, 202110 min

Ep.73: Using Bids for Connection in Relationships

Bids for connection and how we respond (or don't respond) to them can make or break a relationship. Find out what these bids are, the three ways to respond to them, and what to look for in the bids that you make! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/brie_schmidt

Jun 09, 202110 min

Ep.72: Making Friends As an Adult

Friendships are important - but is your mindset getting in the way of forming them? Making friends in adulthood isn't as easy as it was when we were children. But a few simple tips and relationship reminders might help you to find your people. Listen in now! MAKING FRIENDS AS AN INTROVERT: shesapiens.com/make-friends-as-an-introvert ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/brie_schmidt...

Jun 02, 20219 min

Ep.71: Emotional Regulation and Relationships

What is emotional regulation, and what does healthy emotional regulation look like? In this episode, I'm talking about anxiety, emotional avoidance, and signs you might be using people to help you manage your emotions and mental health. Listen in now! ACCESS FREEBIES: brieschmidt.com/signup EMAIL contact@brieschmidt.com INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/brie_schmidt...

May 26, 20219 min
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