SC 38 - How Circling Can Deepen Your Relationships – Decker Cunov

In this podcast, I interview Decker Cunov, a leader who has deeply impacted how I show up personally and professionally. For over 10 years, he's been one of the pioneers in a fast-growing transformational practice known as "Circling." As usual Decker packs a punch in his own funky style. Pay special attention to our dynamic near the end.

SHOWNOTES

• Why does Decker care about relationships so much? [4:17]
• What was it like growing up as a sensitive kid. [7:15]
• What IS “circling”? [11:36]
• How circling is and isn’t like meditation. [15:05]
• Why does circling matter in relationships. [15:58]
• A quick way to play “intersubjective tennis” with your partner. [31:34]
• Decker breaks down the steps of circling. [23:35]
• What’s it like to “feel another person” in circling. [29:32]
• Some of the traps of circling. [33:15]
• Decker starts circling Jayson [43:36]
• Jayson’s big aha from circling [50:10]
• What Decker’s son said that blew him away [52:33]
• The one thing that Decker said that personally impacted Jayson [57:01]