SC 194 - 3 Ways For Couples To Make Tough Decisions Together - Ellyn Bader
May 02, 2018•1 hr 2 min
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Episode description
Jayson met up with renowned couples therapy expert and author, Ellyn Bader, at this year's Interpersonal Neurobiology Conference at UCLA. WOW, was she a treasure trove of insight. Not just theories and concepts, but insight that can be used every day.
SHOWNOTES:
- Who is Ellyn Bader? [3:00]
- Anxiety vs Growth-Promoting Anxiety in Relationship [7:00]
- Three Different Decision-Making Strategies For Couples [16:00]
- Ellyn’s Insight for Therapists [21:00]
- Why Telling Your Partner What You "Need" Can be Problematic [29:00]
- The Confusion Around Differentiation vs Individuation [37:00]
- What Ellyn Means When She Asks, "Are You a Lie Invitee?" [47:00]
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