Kell W Farshéa is an intersex nobinary trans femme dominant sadist. They have been an BDSMer for 40 years. In 1992 they founded the SM activist group Countdown on Spanner (1992-97) and the annual SMPride March (1992-2003). For 5 years they wrote a regular column for the pan-european tri-lingual SM-Fetish magazine Projet X. They have been sober for 36 years. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Instagram: auntie_kell Recon: MxPervert X (Twitter) @Auntie_Kell ...
Aug 16, 2025•1 hr 29 min•Season 9Ep. 7
Beau has been in the kink and fetish community for over 5 years; coming from a background where group environments felt scary or threatening, his journey into the community had been transformational. This has coincided with a reduction in drinking, and predominantly sober kink and fetish nights out. This, paired with being able to navigate new social groups, finding ways to feel safe, has given him a collective community he never thought he would experience. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Mu...
Aug 02, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 9Ep. 6
Some info about Chris - 35+ years sober leatherman and pup/handler; prostate cancer survivor and 2nd runner-up for Mr Fetish World 2025. His MFW project is a kink-inclusive healthcare program to show that we as fetishists and kinksters can have major health issues and still lead a fulfilling kink life. It is his hope to develop resources that we can use to educate and work with our healthcare providers when we have kink & fetish related health issues and injuries. #RealClearFetishTalksRealCl...
Jul 19, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 9Ep. 5
Meet Max, some call him boy and/or puppy, He was born in Ukraine and was adopted by his wonderful Swedish parents when he was almost 3 years old, which meant he moved to Sweden. He finished high school in 2016, then got his first apartment and started his job that same year, working with dogs (the animal kind). He started his kink journey when he was around 16 and now has a daddy/partner in the US. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Instagram: @leather_max...
Jul 05, 2025•32 min•Season 9Ep. 4
BLUFOfficer is a kinkster who has been part of the kink scene since 2013. His main gear preferences are uniform and leather and is always recognisable by the khaki uniform and riding boots at events. He is also autistic, having been diagnosed with Autism when he was young and in recent years, he has been determined to show that you can be both autistic and have a good time on the kink scene. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Instagram: @blufofficer Record...
Jun 21, 2025•55 min•Season 9Ep. 3
For nearly a decade, Moshiel has commanded stages across the leather and drag worlds—entertaining, emceeing, and fundraising. A proud Sober Leatherman, he has also made his mark Off-Broadway as a writer and producer of the political spoof Five. He founded Punch, an inclusive fisting space, and played a key role in opening SoCal Leather to all by removing its gender honorific. Whether dazzling in drag as Lady SinAGaga or earning a spot in the IML Class of 46’s Top 20 as Mr. SoCal Leather 2023, on...
Jun 07, 2025•57 min•Season 9Ep. 2
LTJ Reads is a leatherman, who was the first Mr. Austin Eagle in 2024 and part of IML Class 46. He is a writer/model/teacher who absolutely hates throwing shade in the LGBTQIA+ community. LTJ is a muscle stud who emphasizes good mental health and the use of brain power. He is most notable for his show, Throwing Light, which is an interview series that sheds light on tough topics and new ways of thinking. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Instagram: @ltjis...
May 24, 2025•1 hr•Season 9Ep. 1
From the Emmy award winning season of RuPaul‘s drag race season 15 Selena S titties has been hustling ever since her season, while also becoming the first drag queen to ever step foot into the American big Brother house. She has traveled the world, released an EP called homegirl and is now launched her own podcast called the Homegirl Hotline. She just celebrated 13 years of sobriety and is a pillar in the southern California sober community and is so very grateful for the life. She lives today a...
Feb 22, 2025•45 min•Season 8Ep. 8
Rock (Stage name) has been sober for a year and three quarters - new year's 2023 was the rock bottom and started attending NA meetings. The same time Rock started his porn career, and Rock Biggs was born. The two are interlinked intimately and he probably wouldn't be here today if he didn't meet the people he did through porn, including his sponsor. Isolation, shame, and anxiety had to be kicked to the side to embrace the kinks he's always felt but never acted on. The euphoria from newly discove...
Feb 08, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Season 8Ep. 7
Mark (LeatherAlphaSkin) London born and bred kinkster previous pup and pack owner. Lived in London till 2012 went out and did lots of London and European kink scenes. Been sober from chemsex since 2013. Now living in Scotland and regularly attend kink events and like to help new kinksters understand their way through kink and also advocate of safe play after the death of his first husband from solo play. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Instagram: @leath...
Jan 25, 2025•48 min•Season 8Ep. 6
John (Ginger Bear John) is a 45 year old married Leatherman in Southern California. Heavily involved in the kink community, in the role of a submissive, for many years clean and sober for almost 13 years. John is an accountant. Also an aspiring bodybuilder with his first content scheduled for Fall, 2025. Spare time is volunteering as treasuer/CFO for a nonprofit specializing in the treatment of drug and alcohol addiction in the LGBTQ community. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence -...
Jan 11, 2025•45 min•Season 8Ep. 5
Cyrus (he/him) is one happy and proud leatherman. Born and raised in Calcutta, India. He currently lives near Frankfurt for the last 6.5 years and works in tech. He is a dom/top (mostly) kinky fetishist with an aficionado for leathers, rubber, and skinhead gear. He discovered his fetish at the age of 12 while watching MotoGP! Bondage, biker leathers and GOM are his kryptonite. Outside fetish life, he enjoys lifting heavy metal circles, boxing, travelling, photography and geeking out about Pokémo...
Dec 28, 2024•47 min•Season 8Ep. 4
- Hans West: Kink Aware Coach and open-minded Partner-Relationship Coach, Integrative Addiction Services for over 25 years. Both offline, and online services: information, training and therapy. Generally a nice person but allergic to BS. And.. Adalberto and me have now created over 50 online and several in-person KinkyTalks(.nl) since 2020. Quote: "Have you ever ever seen anyone... shame anybody out of an addiction? Shame is killing!!!" www.KinkAwareCoach.com - Adalberto Rubbadam: Adalberto is a...
Dec 14, 2024•58 min•Season 8Ep. 3
Meet Barney, AKA The Muckle Stoater, a fetish artist, pornographer and all-round clown porn advocate based in London! For years he thought he was the weirdest person in the world for having a clown fetish. Now he get to express himself as a kink performer and escort, available to hire for all kinds of adult events. He is the host of ‘The Big Top’ podcast, where he discuss niche kinks and paraphilias with guests from all corners of the fetish community, as well as the ups and downs on the road to...
Nov 30, 2024•1 hr 8 min•Season 8Ep. 2
Steve B has been sober since May 28th, 2021, and is the host of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show. Having isolating during his drinking, he has only begun embracing his interests in leather, fetish, and kink in sobriety- something he believes is necessary for him in order to live a full, happy, and sober life. He is forever grateful for his sober family, his podcasting community, and kinksters like you! #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Instagram: @gayapod...
Nov 16, 2024•56 min•Season 8Ep. 1
Meet Mutt (by Nature), he/him, cis-gay/queer guy. He has been clean and sober for over 12 years. He is also a sober fister and do that without poppers, although he should say chem sex was never my thing. He got sober via AA but haven’t been in a few years now, instead opting for therapy to keep him moving forwards. Therapy also played a part in establishing a sober sex life. He has lived in Berlin for 4.5 years. He has a fiancé and a handler, so he is also polyamorous. He is British, Lancastrian...
Aug 03, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 7Ep. 8
JeFF was born and raised in Colorado. He went back to school in 2013 to earn a chemical and biological engineering degree. He works in process development for a biotech pharmaceutical company. He has been part of the leather and kink community off and on for 17 years. He is Mr. Leather Colorado 2023 and will compete at IML this year. He is a proud sober leatherman with a passion for kink, fisting, kink education, and being of service to his community. He founder of Mile High Fisters and started ...
Jul 20, 2024•56 min•Season 7Ep. 7
Tyler is a kinkster living on the east coast of Canada. Kink and fetish have always been a part of his life and has evolved over the years, including the decision in 2019 to take a hard look at his use of substances in relation to sex, relationships and his life in general. Outside of kink, he loves to surf and snowboard, hiking, languages and being outside as much as possible. Instagram: @tytysurf #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 9th May 202...
Jul 06, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 7Ep. 6
Saba aka Princepunk has been sober since 2006. French American, born in France and became an American citizen after a career as a professional dancer and comedian. Was introduced to leather and bdsm over 30 years ago, and lives his kinky life sober and happy. Photo by @leatherrubber75 Homepage: princepunk.com Instagram: @princepunkmaster X (Twitter): @THEPrincePunk Snapchat: sabaprincepunk Iron Work Instagram: @ironpunkfactory #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Rel...
Jun 22, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Season 7Ep. 5
Ben is born and raised and living in Liverpool. Married to Jon, who is a writer. Ben discovered kink and leather at a young age and gradually explore it over many years. He is a dom/top and into a wide variety of kinks. His main fetishes is leather and skin gear. Ben is also an artist, He exhibits nationallly and internationally on a regular basis. His work encompasses a wide variety of techniques and processes that combine to create complex mixed media images in a distinctive visual language. H...
Jun 08, 2024•42 min•Season 7Ep. 4
Bull is a 30 y/o piggy fucker from Atlanta, GA. He has been sober for two years, and facilitate meetings for The Satanic Temple's sober faction, where he is also a Minister. He is into damn near anything piggy, and love showing off his escapades. He has been producing events for over a decade now, but navigating that world sober has been a fun new challenge these past two years. Instagram: @bull.stier X (Twitter): @bullatl #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release...
May 25, 2024•1 hr•Season 7Ep. 3
Discover the journey of Stu Fenton, a seasoned Gestalt Psychotherapist and Chemsex Specialist, on our podcast. With 18+ years in addiction treatment and a deep commitment to the LGBT+ community, Stuart shares insights from global programs and ongoing advocacy efforts. As he studies Social Work in Berlin, join us to explore Stuart’s transformative work and innovative approaches to Chemsex challenges. Experience his vision for inclusive healthcare and addiction recovery. Instagram: @stu.fenton Ins...
May 12, 2024•56 min•Season 7Ep. 2
Erik is a 37, American bred and Berlin based. Currently on his path to a PhD in educational leadership, he is also navigating a very personal journey. This weekend coincides with Berlin’s leather week, a time that’s particularly resonant for him as it marks his first anniversary of embracing a substance-free lifestyle. This milestone is significant as he delve deeper into understanding his sexuality, experimenting with kinks, and discovering what truly satisfies him. It’s a mix of trepidation an...
Apr 27, 2024•48 min•Season 7Ep. 1
Andrés is the chairman of the board of Chemfriendly Norway. A user- and peer organisation for queers and sex workers affected by illegal drug use. He is an exhibitionist publishing amateur porn and has a positive attitude towards sex. Instagram: @mitthomoeventyr Instagram: @chemfriendly_norge Facebook: www.facebook.com/Chemfriendly Homepage: Chemfriendly.no #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 7 November 2023 on Zoom, see original video on YouTub...
Nov 18, 2023•50 min•Season 6Ep. 6
Miguel was born in Madrid, Spain. He is 42 years old and is a Civil Engineer. He moved to Sweden 🇸🇪 10 years ago and work for a Fintech company. He is into sport, healthy living, cooking and travelling. You probably have seen in some cool pictures on Instagram, now it is time to meet the real person. Instagram: @leather_crossfiter #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 29 September 2023 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/718...
Oct 07, 2023•57 min•Season 6Ep. 5
Mao is 34 years old, he is happily engaged, he meet his fiancé in Berlin. He works in IT development, Mao is sport oriented, a geek and a nerd at hearth. He has been sober for 3.5 years. He is a sober pig trying to share his story, help others and continue exploring his sexual life in a city like Berlin. Instagram: @nonamefckrbln X (Twitter): @nonamefckrbln Gay Romeo: nonamefckrbln #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 21 September 2023 in-person,...
Sep 30, 2023•1 hr 23 min•Season 6Ep. 4
Guy is a leatherman, writer, mentor and certified coach in the community. He coaches people to tap into their inner resources to find powerful ways to confront their ‘demons’, so you can stomp your boots wherever you - with clarity - and pride. RealClearFetish talks RealClearLiving Instagram: @theleathercoach BLUF: 515 Email: coach@bluf.email #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 30 August 2023 on Zoom, see origi...
Sep 09, 2023•1 hr•Season 6Ep. 3
Micheal, alt name is Orson the Pig Farmer. He is 32, living in Columbus Ohio, USA. He works in a factory, and is currently in school to become a web developer. He was always on the kinkier side of things, really leaning into the try anything a few times, and he rarely just didn’t like something. But that led him into the arms of addiction with crystal meth, of which he struggled with for 6-7 years. Now he is really building back his kink foundations with people that he can trust. And without any...
Aug 26, 2023•59 min•Season 6Ep. 2
Marcus Barela is a Mexican Texan who’s ready for some sexin! He’s been a member of the Eagle LA staff for 18 years and preparing to be a UCLA student studying Spanish and Queer Studies. He is Eagle LA Mr. Leather 2023, and International Mister Leather 2023. Marcus is a proud sober leather man. He keeps centered through Tarot and Astrology and the cultivation of magic he believes we all share. Ask him about his magic beans! Instagram: @marcusmonster X (Twitter): @MarcusMonster #RealClearFetishTal...
Aug 19, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Season 6Ep. 1
M has recently gone alcohol free, two years now. Occasional drag queen, Lover of certain fetishes and singer (definitely not Pavarotti!). He is now retired and living on the north west coast of Ireland 🇮🇪. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 17 March 2023 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/kpZ9df8WPMM Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Mar 19, 2023•1 hr•Season 5Ep. 9
