Miles is a sober leather kink man in his 50s from San Francisco California. Currently living in Los Angeles. He has been clean and sober since 1991. He has been part of the queer sober community and Leather communities in both cities since the 80s. While growing up in San Francisco, he was mentored by many gay men who are no longer with us due to the aids epidemic. Being an artist, he has been able to contribute to the sober queer community through fundraisers stage and set design. He also belie...
Mar 12, 2023•58 min•Season 5Ep. 8
Jim is a queer leatherman, musician, and athlete living in Memphis, TN, USA. He's practices sobriety from all alcohol for 2 years, and through sobriety, he's found a more genuine expression of himself. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 24 February 2023 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Y8rc3OlUwFE Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Feb 26, 2023•47 min•Season 5Ep. 7
FJ has navigated the gay, kink, club, bar, gym, online, and hookup cultures on two continents for the last thirty years without drugs or alcohol. Known as RuffTankTop in the kink scene, he is notorious for both his voracious appetites and his direct observations, including on what chems bring to our culture. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 17 February 2023 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/FxBw8fY51Tg Hosted ...
Feb 19, 2023•58 min•Season 5Ep. 6
Hagen is a sober kink pig from Berlin, Germany. He is clean and sober from chemsex for about 5 years. After a recovery break of several years, he started his journey into clearheaded kink, fetish, and pigginess in 2022. Involvement in Berlin's queer 12-step-community, fetish socials as well as community work have been the base of his recovery, today he experiments with adult content. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 10 February 2023 on Instag...
Feb 12, 2023•54 min•Season 5Ep. 5
Lez is 12 years clean in march and he found the kink scene after he got sober. He is lucky enough to work in the treatment services and this has helped him build a strong recovery. Picture by N Z Page #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 3 February 2023 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/lw5cQn7_U0w Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Feb 05, 2023•57 min•Season 5Ep. 4
UK based Rubber and Leather Daddy, just marked his 1st anniversary clean from recreational drugs, after losing his drug sobriety back in 2021, but now back on track. Non active advocate for non consensual Image Abuse/Revenge Porn in the LGBTQ community and founder of the LGBTQ Image Abuse Survivors website. For more information about Image Abuse Survivors - Homepages: www.lgbtqimageabusesurvivors.org www.survivorsuk.org #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] R...
Jan 29, 2023•57 min•Season 5Ep. 3
Chris is a UK based reformed pig, (some may call him SPAM!). He has been clean and sober over 4 years. His recovery journey has moved him further away from the fetish scene, but he still has an interest in FF and Role Play. He is an active member of Sober Gay Socials bringing the sober LGBTQ+ community together in Manchester. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 20 January 2023 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/v0...
Jan 22, 2023•51 min•Season 5Ep. 2
Special Q&A episode with me as the one being asked the questions, so you can lean a little bit about me. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 14 January 2023 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SoPd_gq6wZA Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jan 15, 2023•58 min•Season 5Ep. 1
Race Bannon has been an organizer, writer, educator, speaker, and activist in the LGBTQ, leather/kink, polyamory, and HIV/STI prevention realms since 1973. He is an author, widely published writer, active speaker, community organizer and project leader, and has received numerous national and local awards, the most recent being the Palm Springs Pride 2021 Spirit of Stonewall Lifetime Achievement Award. Currently you can watch him in On Guard Cigar Salon, OnGuardSalon.com / @OnGuardSalon. You can ...
Aug 28, 2022•57 min•Season 4Ep. 8
Edge is a sober leatherman and educator with a long and storied life in both the online and offline leather communities. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 13 August 2022 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/V_WhEFZuJLE Check out his podcast Full Cow - https://open.spotify.com/show/5r5fHW4o8dtPXiNquTGcXP?si=iJKXKHqnT9SuDdM2wf2ZZg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Aug 14, 2022•52 min•Season 4Ep. 7
Christophergullick is not your a average kinkster to moat. He is not known to be any part of any “scene” but he has been part of the “scene” for over 25 years now. He tries to shatter this “kink” stereotypes as well as bringing mental health awareness to the forefront of his follow kinksters as well as his ”sphere of influence”. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 31 July 2022 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/-4...
Aug 01, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Season 4Ep. 6
phrygian_monk is a bdsm and leather practitioner, presenter and all around lover. With around five years of community involvement, they have had many amazing experiences centering on community, education, and the furthering of acceptance for all in the leather and kink communities. They have also been honored to meet amazing individuals from all over the world, having a personal community that stretches to all corners of the globe. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NC...
Jul 24, 2022•50 min•Season 4Ep. 5
Sparky is a content creator, sex worker, porn actor, and servant leader in his community. After growing up in large Texas cities & experiencing a good well rounded life, it was flipped over due to a struggle with addiction. Now following hardship, he’s hustled his way into a new life; which puts sexual freedom, confidence, and sobriety on the forefront. He’s an exhibitionist, alpha pup, non-monogamist, with a kink for everything. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [...
Jul 10, 2022•1 hr•Season 4Ep. 4
“Q/Darkqwolf’s the producer & host of fetish, social and community-focused events in NYC (Jockstrap Happy Hour, Rough Sex NY, K!NK, DarkTea). Daddy Wolf and native New Yorker, he also heads the bord of directors for Folsom Street East, Inc. Q’s been active in both the sober and fetish communities since 2003. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 22 June 2022 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/CiPDeOg2y-4 Hosted ...
Jun 22, 2022•53 min•Season 4Ep. 3
Ralph is IML 2017, a psychologist in Los Angeles, an advocate for the ban on conversion therapy and clean and sober for 36 years. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 11 June 2022 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/fBc_S9QofSE Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Jun 12, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Season 4Ep. 2
Blue Bailey also know as Stephan Ferris, well know porn actor, former title holder “Mr. Friendly SF Leather”, recovering addict and now turned lawyer and podcaster with his “Reading is Fundamental” podcast with co-host Dextra. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 4 May 2022 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/dseXXZ1StYA Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
May 07, 2022•54 min•Season 4Ep. 1
Antoin is the Brand Events Producer for Recon and has helped to support parts of the global kink community for over 15 years. Being the producer of Recon’s brand and promotional events, as well as their play parties, and as a Brand Ambassador, Antoin is a well-known face on the scene. Antoin comes originally from a professional artistic, dance and performance background and is very much a people person. He’s always up for a good chat and is genuinely invested in empowering those he meets within ...
Apr 15, 2022•1 hr•Season 3Ep. 7
Yoga teacher and a massage therapist who had many encounters with chemsex in the past. Advocate of building a sober-ish relationship with drugs and alcohol. Naturist who believes that knowing ones own body is a key to happiness. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 11 December 2021 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPXLQWkBYwo&t=2721s Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Apr 12, 2022•1 hr 5 min•Season 3Ep. 6
David (punkbluf_4531) is the creator of the dominate pride flag, former mid Atlantic leatherboy 2014, American Leatherboy 1st runner up 2016, and administrator to Gear 365 group on Facebook. An artist, pup, leather switch and drug free since 2007. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 13 November 2021 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPId294-3rs&t=167s Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for ...
Apr 08, 2022•1 hr 5 min•Season 3Ep. 5
BigButtGeek - Artist, Illustrator and Podcaster with a passion for Fisting. His artistic work is to make people think and feel differently about this kink - capturing the joy and humour in what this sex act can involve. He has been fortunate enough to work with some fantastic Fisting community brags such as Topped Toys and X Lube, as well as do illustration work for Fisting icons such as HungerFF and Axel Abysse. His podcast that he does in partnership with Fisting blogger Jazzmatazz (the worlds...
Apr 05, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Season 3Ep. 4
Oskar is a sober kinkster, teacher and artist based in Manchester. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 23 October 2021 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2fdv3NjEvA&t=72s Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Apr 01, 2022•58 min•Season 3Ep. 3
Liam is a rubber sub advocating for mental health awareness on the kink scene. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 18 September 2021 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y9gtxO-7esk&t=1996s Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Mar 29, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 2
Craig is a bootblack, kink educator, fetish podcaster, body positivity advocate and service Cub #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 4 September 2021 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPId294-3rs&t=167s Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Mar 25, 2022•54 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Christo Tee is a sex/kink positive greek transplant in Berlin. A rope enthusiast (with a definite love for shibari). (The sound in the last 15-20min is a bit distorted due to some technical issues with Christo's sound) #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Published on 1 May 2021 on YouTube, see original video on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cVxMDmyYA0Y&t=10s Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Mar 22, 2022•55 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Banjo is a fetishist with a focus on body comfort, body confidence and representation within a range of kink scenes. Opinionated on what needs to be done to promote inclusivity within kink events, Banjo enjoys engaging in healthy conversations about the scene as a whole. From safe spaces, more representative advertising, sober spaces and education on consent in kink dynamics, he enjoys discussing, challenging and being challenged on all of it to help generate conversation and hopefully positive ...
Mar 18, 2022•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 6
boy Nick is a long-time recovering drug addict and alcoholic active in the LFK community. Most of his efforts are in helping other gay/bi/trans men in recovery develop a healthy sexual self image for themselves after leaving substance abuse - especially chemsex abuse - behind. He is part of a triad with two other men, and is also Boy to a Daddy in a D/s relationship. He regularly attend leather/fetish/kink events in Europea and North America, where he participates in, or helps organise, recovery...
Mar 15, 2022•58 min•Season 2Ep. 5
RJ also known as @trackiesforlife, been into gear since he was a teenager and started out loving scally gear and over time his kinks and interests have developed to include lots of different things. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Published on 6 March 2021 on YouTube, see original video on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LfikWFjzxv4&t=1156s Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Mar 11, 2022•55 min•Season 2Ep. 4
Thomas Seggie is a Sydney based kinkster who has been an active member of the Sydney kink community for three years. Throughout his time in the community he has helped out with groups such as Fetish Australia and Sydney Kink Krawl, and has been involved with The Hide where he became the Pride of The Hide in 2019. On a more personal level, Thomas has been involved with substances for most of his 20's, to which there was a huge association with drugs and sex. Over the past two years he has been ta...
Mar 08, 2022•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 3
This week we will talk to Alvis Björnolf Einarr, about his recovery journey with 3 years sober and his life in Brussels. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Published on 6 February 2021 on YouTube, see original video on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G7i1I0zJc0Q&t=40s Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Mar 04, 2022•38 min•Season 2Ep. 2
The first episode of series 2 of RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! My first guest is Robert Bowden, a very good friend of mine for 12years. Today we talk about BLM, the insurrection on the capital in DC and Covid-19, and of course kink and sober issues. Intro and Outro Music by: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Published on 23 January 2021 on YouTube, see original video on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FlGgnJRZa7U&t=3s Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more informatio...
Mar 01, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Season 2Ep. 1
