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Queers In Cults

“It’s Our Turn” is a show where the hosts, Emerson and Aydan, share their stories growing up as queer people in toxic religious environments. Our hope is that it will provide education, validation, and maybe even a laugh or two for those healing from religious trauma. The more people know about how these systems affect people the better off we will all be. Now, you will hear no “religion bashing” here. Just sincere, heartfelt (and sometimes mildly irreverent) stories about how we navigated the world of religion, our own journey of healing, and what we’ve learned along the way.
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Episodes

Episode 55: Aydan and Matt - Matt's story

Aydan has their dear friend as a guest for the first time, but definitely not the last. Matthew tells his story, and only scratches the surface as to their experience with toxic religion.

Dec 24, 20241 hr 40 minEp. 67

Episode 55: Aydan and Jeff - It's Not Just Religion

Jeff is the guest this week and he shares his experience growing up under similar conditions as I have described at times, but for reasons that are quite different than mine. As we have discussed on this podcast before, it is not exclusively religion that can be toxic or used to hurt people. It is the intention and the tools that are used inappropriately against people.

Dec 05, 20241 hr 40 minEp. 66

Episode 54: Aydan and Elizabeth Hedlund

Aydan, and their good friend Elizabeth, hang out and discuss the consequences of religious trauma on a psychological level. Elizabeth Swindell Hedlund, Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (#134408), brings professional and compassionate insight to the topics in this episode.

Sep 21, 20241 hr 36 minEp. 65

Episode 53: Aydan and Tony-Can you hear me now?

I apologize for the poor sound quality. Aydan's mic is very quiet throughout the entire episode. Listen carefully and you might hear something interesting....but no guarantees

Feb 24, 20241 hr 42 minEp. 64

Episode 51: Tony’s sister joins us!

Christi, Tony's sister, joins Aydan and Tony in this episode. She discusses her experience with toxic religion and the family dynamics it can create. It is difficult, sobering and hilarious! We would expect nothing less from the sister of Tony.

Dec 16, 20231 hr 42 minEp. 62

Episode 49: Aydan & Tony - Reminiscing and Hypocrisy

*I apologize for the audio quality in this one. There were some mic issues that I wasn't aware of until I was listening to the recording to edit. Aydan and Tony talk about some memories of their time in church, the challenges that anxiety from their religious trauma creates in making life choices now, and some hypocrisy and irony of many toxic religious organizations who claim they're behaving "like Jesus"

Nov 05, 20231 hr 32 minEp. 60

Episode 48: Aydan, Tony and Emerson

Things get emotional in this episode when Aydan, Emerson, and Tony talk about self care and unconditional love that comes from our own bodies

Sep 21, 20231 hr 39 minEp. 59

Episode 45: Annelise and Aydan

Annelise's first episode as an offical co-host of the podcast! Aydan talks about a problematic class they went to. Don't miss it!

Aug 11, 20231 hr 32 minEp. 56

Episode 45: Aydan and Emerson

Aydan and Emerson's discussions are always deep, thoughtful and insightful. You won't be disappointed by their conversation in this episode!

Jul 14, 20231 hr 32 minEp. 55

Episode 43: Aydan and Tony - Is Jesus Gay?

Be prepared for your normal amount of foolishness with Aydan and Tony. The topics may include Jesus' sexuality and musical climaxes. Good luck!

Jul 14, 20231 hr 40 minEp. 53

Episode 42: Aydan and Emerson

Aydan and Emerson talked a bit about painting their nails and then a lot about religious trauma. Enjoy!

Jun 09, 20231 hr 36 minEp. 52

Episode 41: Aydan and Tony

So...we are a tad behind on episodes so the next few titles/descriptions may just be who the hosts are...but that doesn't change the fact that we talk about religious trauma, offer helpful (mostly) advice, and do it hilariously!

Jun 03, 20231 hr 40 minEp. 51

Episode 39: Aydan Tony - The”Unforgivable Sin”

Aydan and Tony catch up after the new year and discuss getting sober, manipulation, the "unforgivable sin," and the ultimate Christian "de-transition" (cue eye roll here). You'll laugh, maybe rage, and roll your eyes so hard you may not be able to get them back in place. Enjoy!

Apr 01, 20231 hr 35 minEp. 49

Episode 36: Aydan & Tony - Holiday Nonsense

We're finally catching up! In this episode, Aydan and Tony laugh, laugh harder, and sometimes talk about the challenges surrounding queer people and the holidays. But then they just laugh some more. So, enjoy this holiday nonsense with Aydan and Tony!

Feb 08, 20231 hr 34 minEp. 46

Episode 35: Facing the Cause and Effects of Religious Trauma

Tony and Aydan discuss some of the things they have experienced and some of the effects of their experiences with toxic religion. It's deep, it's shallow, serious and hilarious. Exactly what you'd expect from these two. Enjoy!

Jan 20, 20231 hr 46 minEp. 45

Episode 34: Holiday Shenanigans with Annelise

An unexpected visit with our dear friend, Annelise! We talk about holidays, gift ideas, and tell some rather hilarious but slightly embarrassing stories.

Jan 04, 202351 minEp. 44

Episode 33: Fear continued

Tony and Aydan continue their discussion of how fear is used as a manipulation tactic in toxic religion. They also discuss the fear they felt when coming out. This is also the episode with the most laughter! You are sure to enjoy it!

Oct 22, 20221 hr 35 minEp. 43

Episode 32: Holly Rae

Emerson and Aydan chat with special guest Holly Rae. They're a student, mother, professional astrologer, and all around bad-ass! Holly shares some of their history with Mormonism and gives a lot of great insight into life after and how they have come to reconcile those experiences.

Oct 21, 20221 hr 39 minEp. 42

Episode 31: Fear

Tony and Aydan talk about how toxic religion uses fear to control and manipulate people.

Oct 15, 20221 hr 26 minEp. 41

Episode 30: Family Affair

Emerson is joined by his mother and sister. Their discussion is insightful, sincere, honest, and heartwarming. Do yourself a favor and don't skip this episode.

Oct 13, 20221 hr 27 minEp. 40

Episode 29: Ooops! All hosts!

For the first time Emerson, Tony and Aydan are all together on this episode. They all do a short recap of their stories and there is a LOT of laughing and inappropriate jokes. Want to know what "Fire Hair and Ice Nipples" is about? Don't skip this episode!

Oct 08, 20221 hr 39 minEp. 39

Episode 28 Part 2: The ”Definition” of Religion

Tony and Aydan look up the definition of religion. They also discuss their experience with religious manipulation. There are the expected deviations and distractions that you have all, surely, come to love by now.

Oct 08, 202245 minEp. 38
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