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Queers In Cults

“It’s Our Turn” is a show where the hosts, Emerson and Aydan, share their stories growing up as queer people in toxic religious environments. Our hope is that it will provide education, validation, and maybe even a laugh or two for those healing from religious trauma. The more people know about how these systems affect people the better off we will all be. Now, you will hear no “religion bashing” here. Just sincere, heartfelt (and sometimes mildly irreverent) stories about how we navigated the world of religion, our own journey of healing, and what we’ve learned along the way.
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Episodes

Episode 28 Part 1: The ”Definition” of Religion

Tony and Aydan look up the definition of religion. They also discuss their experience with religious manipulation. There are the expected deviations and distractions that you have all, surely, come to love by now

Oct 06, 202249 minEp. 37

Episode 25 Part 1: Connection

Join Emerson and Aydan as they discuss "Connection" in relation to their experiences with toxic religion

Aug 20, 202249 minEp. 31

Episode 24 Part 2: Relationships Post - Coming Out

Tony and Aydan discuss non-romantic relationships post-coming out and what that looks and feels like with their experiences with toxic religion. As usual, they both lose focus, laugh a lot, and are completely irreverent. It's informative and hilarious!

Jul 23, 202246 minEp. 30

Episode 24 Part 1: Relationships post- coming out

Tony and Aydan discuss non-romantic relationships post coming out and what that looks and feels like with their experiences with toxic religion. As usual, they both lose focus, laugh a lot, and are completely irreverent. It's informative and hilarious!

Jul 23, 202248 minEp. 29

Episode 23: Emerson & Lacie

Emerson and Lacie (their partner) share about their beautiful relationship. They discuss their journey and their challenges and everything that brought them to where they are today.

Jul 16, 20221 hr 36 minEp. 28

Aydan’s Coming Out Story

It's Pride month! In celebration of Pride month our host, Aydan, is sharing their coming out story. We hope you enjoy hearing a bit about their journey

Jun 25, 202247 minEp. 27

Episode 22: Emerson’s Coming Out Story

It's Pride month! In celebration of Pride month our host, Emerson, is sharing their coming out story. We hope you enjoy hearing part of their journey

Jun 25, 202254 minEp. 26

Episode 21: Tony’s Coming Out Story

It's Pride month! To celebrate Pride, our host, Tony Reed, is telling his coming out story. We hope you enjoy hearing a little bit of Tony's journey.

Jun 25, 20221 hr 24 minEp. 25

Episode 19 Part 2: Catching Up

Emerson and Ayan take an episode to catch up and they end up on some beautiful tangents! They talk about life, relationships, and the show Heartstopper...among many other things. Buckle up and enjoy the ride!

May 26, 202251 minEp. 22

Episode 19 Part 1: Catching up

Emerson and Aydan take an episode to catch up and they end up on some beautiful tangeants! They talk about life, relationships, and the show Heartstopper...among many other things. Buckle up and enjoy the ride!

May 20, 202239 minEp. 21

Episode 18 Part 1: Language cont.

Emerson and Aydan continue their discussion about language in relation to their experience with toxic religion. They talk about the long-term effects of the toxic and abusive language often used in religious environments, their personal struggles with those long-term effects, and revelations about their inner narrative.

Apr 28, 202248 minEp. 19

Episode 17: Language Part 2

The second half of the episode recorded on April 2nd. Emerson and Aydan are discussing the nuances and power of language. They discuss how language, particularly, was used as a tool against them in their experiences with toxic religion

Apr 13, 202253 minEp. 18

Episode 17: Language Part 1

We are changing things up a bit with this episode. We will be recording less frequently and splitting our episodes into two parts. You'll still be getting the same great discussions of our experiences with toxic religion, but just in smaller chunks. In this episode, we start our discussion of the nuances of language. It's an interesting topic that is relatable on so many levels! We try to start breaking down how language was used to contribute to our experiences with toxic religion....

Apr 08, 202245 minEp. 17

Episode 16: Spiritual Health

Whoops! We had several technical difficulties and didn't record the first 30 mins of this episode. That is why the beginning of this episode picks up mid-conversation. Emerson and Aydan continues their month-long discussion of Health with a focus on Spiritual Health this week. Enjoy! -Friendly reminder: This is a live radio show that is recorded and later edited to better fit a podcast format-

Mar 31, 20221 hr 2 minEp. 16

Episode 15: Mental Health

Emerson and Aydan continue their month-long discussion of "Health" with this episode. They focus on mental health in this episode and the many ways that queerness, religion, and trauma often "collide." -Friendly reminder: This is a live radio show that is recorded and later edited to better fit a podcast format-

Mar 24, 20221 hr 34 minEp. 15

Episode 14: Health - Emotional Health

Emerson and Aydan continue their discussion on "Health" in relation to their toxic religious experiences with a focus on emotional health. -Friendly reminder: This is a live radio show that is recorded and later edited to better fit a podcast format-

Mar 17, 20221 hr 25 minEp. 14

Episode 13: Health: Physical Health

In this episode, Emerson and Aydan begin their month-long discussion of "Health." This week they focus on physical health and how that was or was not focused on in their toxic religious environments. Their different perspectives and interpretations of what "physical health" refers to makes this episode particularly intriguing! -Friendly reminder: This is a live radio show that is recorded and later edited to better fit a podcast format-

Mar 16, 20221 hr 20 minEp. 13

Episode 12: Choice (continued)/ Texas & Anti-Trans efforts

Emerson and Aydan continue their month-long discussion of choice in relation to their toxic religious experience. They also discuss the latest efforts of certain politicians in Texas trying to reinforce anti-trans efforts and legislation. Parents providing gender-affirming medical care is not child abuse! -Friendly reminder: This is a live radio show that has been edited to better fit a podcast format-

Mar 11, 20221 hr 26 minEp. 12

Episode 11: Choice (continued)

Emerson and Aydan continue their discussion on "Choice" (or lack thereof) in relation to their experience with toxic religion. They continue the discussion of choices they had, the choices they didn't have and the choices they wish they had. -Friendly reminder: This is a live radio show that has been edited to better fit a podcast format-

Mar 11, 20221 hr 26 minEp. 11

Episode 10: Tony Reed

In this episode, special guest, Tony Reed, shares his story and experience with toxic religion. It's sincere, sad, heartfelt and funny. -Friendly reminder: This is a live radio show that has been edited to better fit a podcast format-

Mar 11, 20221 hr 32 minEp. 10

Episode 9: Choice

Emerson and Aydan discuss the choices, or lack thereof, that they were presented in their toxic religious environments. They also discuss the choices they wish they knew they had and the choices they have now. This discussion will be a multiple-episode discussion. -Friendly Reminder: This is a live radio show that is edited to better fit a podcast format-

Mar 09, 20221 hr 14 minEp. 9

Episode 8: The Integration of Christianity

In this episode Emerson and Aydan talk about some of the daily triggers that toxic religion has left them with as well as the integration of Christianity into daily society. They discuss how Christianity has become the "default" religion and how problematic that is. -Friendly Reminder: This is a live radio show that has been edited to better fit a podcast format-

Mar 09, 20221 hr 46 minEp. 8
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