Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 How important are goodbyes? 12:35 ACOA & butler syndrome fallibility 29:34 How do you know if a family is ready for couples therapy? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/cont...
Mar 19, 2025•46 min
[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda talks about the famous Stanford prison experiment of 1971. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle In...
Mar 18, 2025•1 hr 16 min
Dr Kirk Honda talks with Frances Schopick, JD, MSW about his license complaint and other legal matters. Disclaimers: This information in this presentation is for educational and informational purposes only. This presentation does not form an attorney/client relationship, or provide, constitute, or substitute for legal or clinical advice, advocacy, representation, supervision, or consultation. Do not form legal conclusions or policies based on this presentation. This information is not intended t...
Mar 17, 2025•2 hr
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Can therapists tell their clients they love them? 21:36 Why isn't my therapist challenging me in therapy? 28:49 Treating narcissistic clients 45:31 What is transference in therapy? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Ema...
Mar 14, 2025•1 hr 2 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk discusses past and present theory regarding grief and loss. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instag...
Mar 13, 2025•1 hr 25 min
Dr Kirk and Collin Miller review movies from 2024. 00:00 Calling in with Collin Miller 00:35 Second place films 24:11 Most controversial rankings 59:14 Movies at the bottom of the list 1:21:44 5 stars 1:27:11 6 stars 1:28:50 AI in films 1:42:21 7 stars 1:51:57 8 stars 2:04:24 Dr. Kirk's Number 1 2:07:25 Collin's Top 15 2:21:44 Collin's Number 1 2:26:38 Emilia Perez 2:30:05 The Tie-in Podcast (the_tie_in_podcast) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com...
Mar 12, 2025•2 hr 33 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk discusses past and present theory regarding grief and loss. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instag...
Mar 11, 2025•1 min
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Eagles Super Bowl win 02:35 Can clients question their therapist? 33:08 Dr. Kirk's pet peeve of discernment counseling 40:02 Is eye contact in therapy important? 43:44 Am I abandoning my clients if I'm not being paid? 51:44 Addressing tough topics in therapy Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2...
Mar 10, 2025•1 hr 1 min
Dr Kirk and Humberto respond to patrons and member emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Kink pressure 19:40 What songs accurately depict love? 34:58 Alignment chart and shopping carts 45:10 "Pedo" guy 47:5 Expressing shame in Spanish Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychol...
Mar 07, 2025•1 hr 34 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about how to counsel men. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instagram: https://www.insta...
Mar 06, 2025•43 min
Dr Kirk Honda responds to patrons and member emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Was he a pedophile or just immature? 21:37 Does Dr. Kirk validate falsehoods? 32:50 Where does Dr. Kirk draw the line? 36:39 AI Psychologists Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseatt...
Mar 05, 2025•56 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about repressed memories and the new Netflix documentary, The Keepers. (Intro) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stor...
Mar 04, 2025•6 min
Dr Kirk Honda rants and rages about climate change. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Does Dr. Kirk think that climate change is hopeless? 21:09 Predicted impacts of climate change 55:01 Lying & individual impact 1:05:23 Dr. Kirk's climate summary & hope Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Em...
Mar 03, 2025•1 hr 23 min
Dr Kirk Honda responds to patrons and member emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Are DDLG relationships potential treatment for MAPs? 26:12 Why is being an alpha male considered a good thing? 47:10 What do these bootcamps promise? 1:03:21 Could there be positive outcomes from these bootcamps? 1:28:18 Is family systems theory interchangeable with internal family systems? Become a member: https://w...
Feb 28, 2025•2 hr 7 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about how therapists fail their clients. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instagram: ht...
Feb 27, 2025•1 min
Dr Kirk and Humberto respond to patrons and member emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Is it normal to develop a kink in childhood? 22:41 Why are power fantasies appealing? 42:59 Is my affection towards my children appropriate? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyin...
Feb 26, 2025•1 hr 5 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about the new laws regarding duty to warn. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instagram: ...
Feb 25, 2025•4 min
Dr Kirk Honda answers patron and member emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Why am I embarrassed that I listen to PiS? 11:41 Are relationship retreats legit? 23:20 What is the difference between false memory syndrome and real traumatic events? 55:43 Is hypnosis legitimate? 59:51 Can false memories traumatize you? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Becom...
Feb 24, 2025•1 hr 9 min
Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Rebecca processes trauma 24:36 Merch for Rebecca 27:29 OPP 2023 29:22 How can I be a safe place for gender diverse students? 44:01 How can I help those that have been affected by a disaster? 51:23 Where can anti-zionist Jews meet in Seattle? 55:26 How can I stay connected with my family when they don't accept my par...
Feb 21, 2025•1 hr 22 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about the trauma therapy EMDR. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instagram: https://www....
Feb 20, 2025•57 min
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 How can I care for my partner's past disconnection? 19:41 Local delicacies 29:33 Why do some people become obsessed with murderers? 37:48 Does therapy change friendships? 51:50 Is there a way to ethically dump a friend? 55:38 Should a therapist disclose if they've cheated? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/U...
Feb 19, 2025•1 hr 14 min
[Rerun] [Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda does a deep dive on Salvador Minuchin and structural family therapy. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psych...
Feb 18, 2025•1 hr 21 min
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Pre-Superbowl football 04:05 Mindful parenting 10:03 A positive impact and work in therapy 15:03 Is redemption possible?32:38 PIS role models 34:57 Could I have avoided a friend breakup? 51:31 Will I always analyze my friends? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: h...
Feb 17, 2025•1 hr 2 min
Dr Kirk Honda answers patron and member questions. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 How can I be comfortable in a dirty space? 08:15 Is my friend respecting my boundaries? 25:35 Do anxious and avoidant attachment go together? 32:47 Can narcissists be victims? 39:03 Can therapy help me with loneliness? 44:55 Being the productivity scapegoat 1:03:43 Bathroom anxiety Become a member: https://www.youtube....
Feb 14, 2025•1 hr 18 min
Dr. Kirk Honda does a deep dive on Nagy and contextual family therapy. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instagram: h...
Feb 13, 2025•7 min
Dr Kirk Honda interviews Ewa Lichnowska ( www.pleasurematterstherapy.com ) about sexuality and sex therapy. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Ewa Lichnowska 04:48 Why did Ewa pursue sex therapy? 09:28 What is the orgasm gap? 31:08 The 5 gears of sex 42:50 Compassionate approaches to male sexuality 56:15 Myths about porn 1:17:06 PleasureMattersTherapy.com Become a member: https://www.youtube...
Feb 12, 2025•1 hr 20 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Bob Goettle talk about couples therapy. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instagram: https...
Feb 11, 2025•1 hr 37 min
Dr Kirk Honda answers patron and member questions. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What do nice sociopaths look like? 18:50 Emotional attunement in parenting 24:42 Should a therapist disclose a chronic condition? 32:01 Can children be influenced by a schizoid parent? 36:49 Why does my boyfriend watch Andrew Tate? 44:38 What is impatience? 52:23 Can therapy help clients that self-diagnose? 57:20 Dr. K...
Feb 10, 2025•1 hr 4 min
Dr Kirk and Humberto remember the work of David Lynch. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Overall best and worst David Lynch movies 20:58 OPP 2023 27:45 Humberto's birthday 42:27 OPP 2023 43:28 Twin Peaks 47:04 Rating the rest of David Lynch's movies Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://...
Feb 07, 2025•1 hr 17 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda reveals 15 amateurish things that therapists say. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instagram:...
Feb 06, 2025•41 min
