Dr Kirk Honda answers patron and member questions. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Dreams about PiS 09:04 Dr. Kirk's dyslexia journey 27:01 Strategically reading for graduate school 38:49 Seattle Freeze & generalizations 59:54 Understanding paranoid personality disorder Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/Psycholo...
Feb 05, 2025•1 hr 9 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda critiques cognitive processing therapy and other trauma therapies, along with talking about the This American Life episode that presented the therapy. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: htt...
Feb 04, 2025•15 min
Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Why do I have low libido? 05:47 Handling a surprise pregnancy 13:42 Bad therapists & sex work in clinical therapy 40:41 Intimacy in long distance relationships 48:35 Chappell Roan's rise and setting boundaries 1:04:37 Why do clients terminate? 1:19:05 What trainings are helpful as a new clinician? 1:29:09 How c...
Feb 03, 2025•1 hr 45 min
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What is the turning point in society for predators?02:55 Bill Cosby 11:18 Larry Nassar 18:26 Prompting the MeToo movement 21:52 Louis C.K. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www....
Jan 29, 2025•41 min
Did Elon Musk give the Nazi salute? We continue our deep dive into his psychology. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle ...
Jan 26, 2025•2 hr 7 min
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Allegation from Cindy Rueda 10:36 Kim Porter's death 18:55 Gina Huynh's allegations Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.ps...
Jan 24, 2025•39 min
[Rerun] What’s the difference between psychopathy and sociopathy? This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instagram: https:...
Jan 23, 2025•52 min
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Get Him to the Greek & questionable movie scenes 25:17 Changing his name to Swag Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.p...
Jan 22, 2025•29 min
[Rerun] Our legal system and society are broken and rape victims continue to be disbelieved, mistreated, and stigmatized. We review the new Netflix show Unbelievable. We also talk with Christy Forrester about her rape experience, her struggle with the legal system, and her path to advocacy and becoming a therapist. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRt...
Jan 21, 2025•2 hr 54 min
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Dating Jennifer Lopez & court history 03:12 1999 Nightclub shooting 22:14 Why did Mase retire in 1999? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact ...
Jan 20, 2025•28 min
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 East v. West coast feud 13:53 Theories around Tupac's death 17:45 Theories around Biggie's death Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: h...
Jan 17, 2025•27 min
[Rerun} Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Bob Goettle about a malpractice claim. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instagram:...
Jan 16, 2025•56 min
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Sean Combs childhood 12:17 Starting in the music industry 15:32 Renaming himself Puff Daddy and rise in the industry Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.co...
Jan 15, 2025•26 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Paulette Perhach talk about sexual attraction in therapy. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattl...
Jan 14, 2025•41 min
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Who is Sean Combs? 10:50 What are the allegations against him? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com...
Jan 13, 2025•31 min
Dr Kirk and Bob review a case in which a counselor is sued after a suicide. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing the case 09:32 A stalemate in therapy & losing perspective 20:35 Transference with BPD clients 39:04 How can you approach suicidal gestures? 49:44 Is having a safety plan enough? 55:14 Defining a gesture 59:20 Client suicide 1:02:19 Suing the counselor 1:04:07 Why are ethics cas...
Jan 10, 2025•1 hr 44 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Dr. Alexandra Stein about why people join cults. She talks about her own experience in a cult. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https...
Jan 09, 2025•1 hr
Dr Kirk lectures about empathy. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Empathy thread on Reddit 08:08 What definition of empathy is being used? 22:54 Do sadists have empathy? 25:13 Is empathy identification? 26:57 Dissecting Reddit's definitions of empathy 46:18 What does it mean to put yourself in someone else's shoes? 52:06 Why is understanding empathy important? 54:31 Misunderstanding empathy 59:01 Concl...
Jan 08, 2025•1 hr 1 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda provides a 4-hour training on the ethics of using social media. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seat...
Jan 07, 2025•12 min
Dr Kirk lectures about empathy. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 The types of empathy 02:01 Compassionate empathy 04:51 Sympathy 07:20 Emotional vicarious empathy 11:24 Somatic empathy 13:24 Phenomenological empathy 21:18 Rapport empathy 26:59 Cognitive empathy 33:22 Background empathy 43:36 Defining the groups of empathy 46:22 Emotional availability empathy 47:43 Attunement empathy 51:19 Delineating ...
Jan 06, 2025•1 hr 7 min
Dr Kirk Honda interviews a pedophile and father. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instagram: https://www.instagram.c...
Jan 03, 2025•1 hr 33 min
[Rerun] How can we refrain from destructive judgment? Bob presents another DBT skill with Dr. Kirk Honda. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores...
Jan 02, 2025•7 min
Dr Kirk Honda provides a lecture on borderline personality while livestreaming for HealthyGamer. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psycholo...
Jan 01, 2025•2 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda provides information and treatment guidelines on cutting, self-harm, and nonsuicidal self-injury. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teesp...
Dec 31, 2024•5 min
Dr Kirk Honda interviews Dr Alok Kanojia (“Dr K”) from HealthyGamer about his career, the many achievements of the HealthyGamer team, and Dr K’s license reprimand. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Dr. K from HealthyGamer 00:54 Dr. K's experience with UnitedHealthcare 05:38 Why did Dr. K become a psychiatrist? 11:54 Did Dr. K plan on becoming a content creator? 24:57 Reckful & Dr. K's r...
Dec 30, 2024•1 hr 16 min
Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails and talk about the recent United HealthCare debate. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Rebecca's poem04:35 Luigi Mangione 16:1 What needs to change? 22:59 Trauma and orgasm 30:13 TW: SA Uncoupling trauma 46:22 Rebecca's workshops & tarot deck 53:04 Rebecca's sex therapy certification 58:49 Maladaptive sexual behavior 1:01:28 Setting boundaries fo...
Dec 27, 2024•1 hr 8 min
[Rerun] Is it ever ok to date your therapist? Dr. Kirk Honda discusses the ethics and likely traumas. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psy...
Dec 26, 2024•35 min
Dr Kirk and Humberto answer emails regarding sex, including an email from a possible perpetrator. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Retroactive jealousy 12:10 Sexting boundaries 17:46 2023 OPP 19:24 Navigating libido 31:25 2023 OPP 32:15 TW SA Did I commit an evil act? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSea...
Dec 25, 2024•1 hr 27 min
[Rerun[ Dr. Kirk Honda talks about coping with Alzheimer's This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Instagram: https://www.i...
Dec 24, 2024•46 min
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Is it ethical to terminate for BPD symptoms? 23:03 2023 OPP 24:03 What is splitting? 32:32 Effective BPD treatment with comorbidities 41:44 NPD v. BPD v. Abuse Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psycho...
Dec 23, 2024•47 min
