🎟️ NEW FREE TRAINING: RSVP for 5 Steps to Speak Like a Senior Leader happening July 16th at 3pm ET: https://melodywilding.com/training If you've been waiting to "feel more confident" before speaking up in meetings, asking for that promotion, or sharing your insights at higher levels, this episode will completely shift how you think about building authority and credibility at work. Melody surveyed hundreds of mid-to-senior level professionals. What she found were hidden patterns that keep even t...
Jul 09, 2025•38 min•Ep. 52
🎟️ NEW FREE TRAINING: RSVP for 5 Steps to Speak Like a Senior Leader happening July 16th at 3pm ET: https://melodywilding.com/training Ever walk out of a meeting wondering what your boss actually meant when they said "That's an interesting perspective" or "Let's circle back on this"? You're not imagining things – executives speak in code, and cracking it is essential for your career advancement. In this episode, Melody breaks down the diplomatic language that senior leaders use and reveals what...
Jul 02, 2025•35 min•Ep. 51
Learn how to quiet your racing mind and overcome chronic worry at work with clinical psychologist Nick Wignall. If you struggle with workplace anxiety, overthinking every email, or constantly second-guessing your decisions, this episode provides practical strategies to break free from the worry cycle. What You’ll Discover: The subtle, sneaky causes of anxiety that most people never notice at work How to tell the difference between a worry and worrying (and why it matters for your career) The mos...
Jun 25, 2025•44 min•Ep. 50
🚨Get on the free waitlist for Speak Like a Senior Leader™ , Melody’s new program to help you become a crisp, clear, confident communicator. Head to https://speaklikeaseniorleader.com . You can be highly competent and still not come across that way. You can be clear in your head and still unintentionally confuse, frustrate, or undersell yourself without even realizing it. In this episode, Melody gives you the behind-the-scenes look at how her brand-new program Speak Like a Senior Leader™ came to...
Jun 18, 2025•37 min•Ep. 49
Criticism at work only gets harsher and more frequent the higher you climb – not easier or less. That’s why in this episode Melody shares strategies to take feedback seriously without taking it personally (none of which requires superhuman zen). You'll learn how to handle difficult conversations in a way that both projects executive presence and safeguards your confidence. What You’ll Discover: How to decode what criticism reveals about workplace politics, power dynamics, and hidden agendas How ...
Jun 11, 2025•35 min•Ep. 48
Author Sabina Nawaz joins Melody to explore why pressure, not power, is what truly derails even the most well-intentioned leaders. They unpack simple tools like the Yes List and Multiple Meanings to help you lead with clarity, even when you’re overwhelmed. What You’ll Discover: Sneaky ways pressure warps your thinking, behavior, and relationships at work The first thing to do when you feel like you’re barely keeping your head above water How to build your “pressure capacity” so challenges don’t ...
Jun 04, 2025•36 min•Ep. 47
You're on top of your work, but part of you is always checking – did that land? Did my boss like it? In this episode, Melody explains how constantly seeking your boss's approval drains your confidence and what to do about it. In this episode, she gets into what happens when your focus shifts from doing your job to managing someone else’s reaction. What You’ll Discover: How to differentiate managing up from approval seeking Why your boss's approval never actually satisfies you The seemingly innoc...
May 28, 2025•30 min•Ep. 46
Most of us weren't taught how to handle workplace stress, difficult colleagues, or career setbacks. We just figure it out as we go—sometimes successfully, sometimes not. In this episode, clinical psychologist Dr. Emily Anhalt breaks down what she calls "emotional fitness" and why it matters in our work lives. Based on fifteen years of research with professionals across industries, her new book "Flex Your Feelings" offers a refreshingly practical approach to strengthening our emotional health. Dr...
May 21, 2025•35 min•Ep. 45
🚨 Enrollment is now open for the next cohort of Melody’s signature program RESILIENT. Secure your spot: https://melodywilding.com/resilient "I'm good at what I do." Imagine how it would feel to say those words out loud – and actually believe them. Today you’ll meet Grainne, who after decades of "emotional hangovers" and perfectionism, finally learned to trust her expertise through RESILIENT. She shares how she went from constantly questioning her value to confidently stating "I'm very good at w...
May 14, 2025•38 min•Ep. 44
🚨 Enrollment is now open for the next cohort of Melody’s signature program RESILIENT. Secure your spot: https://melodywilding.com/resilient Do you find yourself lying awake at night replaying work conversations in your head? Are you exhausted from feeling everything deeply while colleagues seem to effortlessly brush things off? In this eye-opening episode, Melody Wilding and her co-coach Wendy Cary, PCC unpack why you're stuck in a cycle of overwhelm, perfectionism, and self-doubt – despite you...
May 12, 2025•45 min•Ep. 43
🚨 Enrollment is now open for the next cohort of Melody’s signature program RESILIENT. Secure your spot: https://melodywilding.com/resilient In this episode, you’ll hear from recent RESILIENT alumni, Rebecca, who spent years being her team’s "spray foam" – filling every gap and putting everyone else's needs before her own. Rebecca reveals how she tripled her assertiveness score, advocated for a leadership position, and finally designed a role that honors her ambition and sensitivity. You'll hear...
May 08, 2025•53 min•Ep. 42
🚨 Enrollment is now open for the next cohort of Melody’s signature program RESILIENT. Secure your spot: https://melodywilding.com/resilient Are you the one who notices the tension in your manager's voice that no one else picked up on? Still replaying last week's conflict while your colleagues have moved on? In this episode, Melody challenges everything you've been told about being "too sensitive" at work. Discover why trying to "toughen up" is fighting a losing battle, but simply "embracing you...
May 06, 2025•25 min•Ep. 41
🚨Grab your spot for the FREE 3-Day Masterclass, Speak Up & Be Heard, happening May 6th, 7th, 8th: https://melodywilding.com/masterclass Speaking up in meetings shouldn't feel like a high-wire act. But for so many thoughtful professionals, it does. You’ve got great ideas, valuable insights, and the experience to back them up, yet the words don’t come out when it counts. The moment passes, and you’re left replaying what you could have said. In this episode, Melody tackles how to speak up in m...
Apr 30, 2025•23 min•Ep. 40
🚨Grab your spot for the FREE 3-Day Masterclass, Speak Up & Be Heard, happening May 6th, 7th, 8th: https://melodywilding.com/masterclass If you've ever found yourself overexplaining in emails, freezing up when you're put on the spot, or second-guessing your words long after a meeting ends, then this episode is for you. Melody reveals three habits of highly effective communicators – habits that help your ideas land, your voice carry weight, and your confidence show up before you even say a wo...
Apr 23, 2025•23 min•Ep. 39
Whether you've experienced a colleague who blames every mistake on someone else, work for a boss who can't take feedback, or you've caught yourself taking things too personally, this episode provides practical tools for breaking free from victim mindsets without denying real challenges. Renowned psychologist Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman joins Melody to discuss how our mindset expands or limits our options. You’ll discover: How to snap yourself out of a victim mindset with a simple word swap The uncom...
Apr 16, 2025•37 min•Ep. 38
Is your resume ready for today's job market? Former executive recruiter and resume expert Lisa Rangel reveals what actually makes hiring managers take notice in 2025. As the founder of Chameleon Resumes and creator of the M.E.T.A. job search process, Lisa has helped professionals in 88+ countries land their dream roles. She shares insider knowledge about what's changed in hiring, how to make your experience stand out (even when it doesn't seem like a perfect match), and practical strategies for ...
Apr 09, 2025•44 min•Ep. 37
Celebrating one month since Managing Up hit shelves, Melody shares the rarely-discussed struggles behind the book’s release. She pulls back the curtain on the messy reality of creating something meaningful – from crushing setbacks to unexpected breakthroughs and the mindsets, habits, and strategies that helped her along the way. You'll discover: The shocking job termination that became the foundation for Melody's managing up framework Why hundreds of thousands of words ended up in the trash – an...
Apr 02, 2025•52 min•Ep. 36
You work hard, get promoted, receive praise—but there’s still a part of you that feels like it’s all temporary, that maybe it happened by chance. In this episode, Melody reveals how imposter syndrome goes beyond simple self-doubt. It's about how we process positive experiences, often attributing success to luck while internalizing every small misstep as proof of inadequacy. She shares four actionable steps to help you shift your thinking What You’ll Discover: Why your successes often feel fleeti...
Mar 26, 2025•20 min•Ep. 35
In this episode, Jefferson Fisher, trial attorney and social media’s go-to expert on communication, shares practical, counterintuitive strategies to handle tough conversations with confidence. Jefferson’s short, no-nonsense videos have helped millions learn how to argue less, communicate more effectively, and stay in control under pressure. You’ll discover: ✔ How to sound strong and assertive without stepping on toes ✔ What to say when someone takes credit for your work ✔ Tactful ways to disagre...
Mar 19, 2025•43 min•Ep. 34
Tired of feeling powerless in your job search? HR insider and career coach, Madeline Mann, is here to flip the script on traditional job hunting. Madeline shares her revolutionary approach that transforms frustrated job seekers into confident job shoppers. Drawing from her experience in HR and recruiting at top companies, she breaks down exactly how to take control of your career journey and land roles at dream companies like Google, Amazon, and Microsoft. You’ll Discover: The psychology behind ...
Mar 12, 2025•41 min•Ep. 33
In this candid episode, Melody shares the behind-the-scenes story of her bold new direction and introduces a brand new concept: your Professional Power Position. She opens up about the personal wake-up calls that led to this evolution, including why she stopped softening her message and what happened when she did. Through compelling examples and personal confessions, Melody shows why mastering both your own psychology AND others' is the key to getting the recognition, respect, and results you de...
Mar 07, 2025•32 min•Ep. 32
Today is a big day! Melody’s new book, Managing Up: How to Get What You Need from the People in Charge, is officially out in the world 🎉 To celebrate, you get exclusive first listen to the Introduction, where you’ll hear why managing up isn’t something you do for your boss—it’s something you do for yourself. Grab your copy at managingup.com . Your support on launch day will help bring this book to as many professionals as possible who need it. Audio courtesy of Penguin Random House Audio from M...
Mar 04, 2025•27 min•Ep. 31
In this exclusive segment from her recent Managing Up Mastery training, Melody reveals the final five conversations from her new book – the ones that help you build strategic relationships, make your work visible, and position yourself for the opportunities you deserve. 🚨 EXPIRES 3/4/25: Pre-order Melody’s new book, Managing Up: How to Get What You Need From the People in Charge. Get over $400 worth of bonuses at: https://managingup.com Connect with Melody: FREE GUIDE: Steal These Scripts for S...
Feb 26, 2025•17 min•Ep. 30
Think your hard work and careful preparation is enough to influence decisions at work? Think again. In this special episode, get an exclusive peek at the framework from Melody's new book "Managing Up" as she reveals the invisible workplace dynamics most professionals miss. Learn the first five essential conversations that transform how leaders see and treat you at work. From getting clear on priorities to setting boundaries that stick, discover exactly when and how to have the conversations that...
Feb 24, 2025•27 min•Ep. 29
🚨 Pre-order Melody’s new book, Managing Up: How to Get What You Need From the People in Charge. Get over $400 worth of bonuses at: https://managingup.com Join Melody as she reveals why everything you thought you knew about managing up is outdated and possibly sabotaging your success. Learn why this critical skill isn't about being a yes-person or surviving bad bosses, but about strategically positioning yourself for greater influence, autonomy, and impact. Whether you're an introvert who thinks...
Feb 19, 2025•24 min•Ep. 28
🚨 Pre-order Melody’s new book, Managing Up: How to Get What You Need From the People in Charge. Get over $400 worth of bonuses at: https://managingup.com In this episode, get a special peek into Melody’s recent training that will show you how to decode your boss's working style, understand what drives their behavior, and adapt your approach to get better results. Whether you're dealing with a micromanager, an indecisive boss, or someone who just doesn't seem to get you, this episode will give y...
Feb 17, 2025•46 min•Ep. 27
🚨 Pre-order Melody’s new book, Managing Up: How to Get What You Need From the People in Charge. Get over $400 worth of bonuses at: https://managingup.com "My boss is difficult" - how many times have you thought or said those words? In this episode, Melody shares an uncomfortable truth that might ruffle some feathers, but could completely change your career trajectory and take back your power. Connect with Melody: FREE GUIDE: Steal These Scripts for Saying No at Work FREE NEWSLETTER: Psychology ...
Feb 12, 2025•26 min•Ep. 26
Neuroscientist and former Google executive Anne-Laure Le Cunff challenges our linear idea of career success, introducing a new approach: tiny experiments. She shares how this experimental mindset transformed her own career trajectory and offers practical strategies for anyone looking to make more meaningful career choices. Whether you're feeling stuck in your current role or contemplating a bold career move, this conversation will reshape how you think about professional growth and decision-maki...
Feb 05, 2025•35 min•Ep. 25
🚨 Pre-order Melody’s new book, MANAGING UP, & get a FREE TICKET to the live event happening February 5th at 3pm ET: “Push Back & Protect Your Time (Even When Your Boss is Demanding, Deadlines are Tight, and Stakes are High).” https://managingup.com Feeling overwhelmed by all the "quick favors" and extra work that's landed on your plate? In this episode, Melody breaks down exactly when (and how) to say no to additional work without damaging relationships or appearing difficult. Connect w...
Jan 29, 2025•25 min•Ep. 24
Do you find yourself overwhelmed by emotions at work, struggling to maintain control? In this episode of Psychology at Work, Melody speaks with Jay Moon Fields, a leading embodiment educator and expert in emotion regulation. Discover how connecting with your body can transform your professional experience, enhancing your emotional intelligence and relationships. You’ll Discover: The role of embodiment in emotional regulation and why it's crucial for personal and professional success. Practical t...
Jan 22, 2025•45 min•Ep. 23