In today’s episode, Mark explores how strong relationships are key to effective parenting. He shares how modeling God’s love provides teens with guidance and highlights the importance of connection and trust. Speaking to parents and grandparents, Mark discusses their distinct but vital roles and the risks of neglecting relational bonds during formative years. For more advice from Mark on strengthening your relationship with your teen, ask him a question at markgregston.com. Parenting Today's Tee...
Dec 04, 2024•16 min•Ep. 1163
When you grow up with trauma or in a home full of conflict, that sense of chaos and turbulence can begin to feel like the norm. Before developing healthier coping skills, some teens will seek out chaos in order to deal with their struggles. In today's show, Mark sits down with two teens who reflect on why they came to Heartlight. Parker shares his struggle with drug use, dropping out of high school and confronting traumatic experiences, revealing how he tried to present a perfect image while dea...
Dec 03, 2024•25 min•Ep. 1162
In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into practical ways to cultivate leadership skills in teenagers. Mark outlines five key strategies to help teens grow through responsibility and maturity, offering age-appropriate ways to empower them. The conversation highlights the essential traits of a true teen leader and they respond to a heartfelt listener letter, sharing actionable advice for a mom looking to guide her teen in becoming a leader. To learn more about Heartlight Ministri...
Dec 02, 2024•15 min•Ep. 1161
In this episode, Mark Gregston tackles some of the most pressing questions from parents facing real-life challenges with their teens. From encouraging a 17-year-old to explore the Bible and addressing concerns over a young adult daughter's sexual activity, to overcoming communication barriers with college students, handling immaturity in twins and respecting stepchildren’s choices — Mark offers compassionate, faith-based guidance. Drawing on personal stories and a deep trust in God’s faithfulnes...
Nov 29, 2024•28 min•Ep. 1160
In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the real challenges of raising teens while sharing a powerful reminder: Gratitude can make all the difference. During tough times, they emphasize the importance of leaning on God, trusting in His guidance to see you through to brighter days. They encourage parents to find something they genuinely appreciate about their teen and express it. This small act of gratitude can help bridge the gap, bringing you closer to your teen and offering s...
Nov 28, 2024•19 min•Ep. 1159
In this episode, Mark Gregston reflects on 1 Thessalonians 5:18, exploring the transformative power of thankfulness in everyday life. He delves into the essential connections we share with family and friends and reveals how our expectations can sometimes prevent us from fully experiencing each moment. Mark reminds us that it’s okay not to have all the answers — embracing the mystery can deepen our appreciation for life’s beauty. Ultimately, he shows how contentment fosters a heart of gratitude, ...
Nov 27, 2024•10 min•Ep. 1158
Some teens act impulsively because they're seeking adventure — for others, it's a cry for help. In today's show, Mark and Courtney sit down with two teens from Heartlight who engaged in self-destructive behaviors because they weren't sure how to deal with the pain they were feeling. One teen, Katie, opens up about how her parents' divorce at a young age set off a chain of reckless behaviors and substance abuse, ultimately leading her to Heartlight where she found self-worth and motivation to tur...
Nov 26, 2024•25 min•Ep. 1157
In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the growing trend of self-medication among teens, often fueled by anxiety and depression. While many may think of self-medication as substance use, it can also involve other unhealthy coping behaviors. Mark and Wayne explain the reasons behind these choices and how you, as a parent, can offer support and guidance. They also share practical, hands-on advice you can start using today to help your teen find healthier ways to manage thei...
Nov 25, 2024•17 min•Ep. 1156
In this insightful Q&A episode, Mark Gregston addresses some of the most pressing concerns parents have about their teens on the cusp of adulthood. Covering a range of topics from managing disrespect and aggression to dealing with major depressive disorder and lack of motivation, Mark provides thoughtful advice and actionable steps for parents. Whether your child is struggling with independence, battling anxiety or simply lacking direction, this episode offers a wealth of wisdom to help you ...
Nov 22, 2024•27 min•Ep. 1155
In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepard speak directly to parents about the essential role they play in guiding their children through today’s challenging cultural landscape, especially regarding online content. With easy access to the internet, it's more important than ever for parents to proactively support and engage with their children. The conversation emphasizes teaching redemption, forgiveness, and healthy perspectives, while sharing practical advice for fostering open, honest...
Nov 21, 2024•15 min•Ep. 1154
In this episode, Mark Gregston delves into how parents, even with the best intentions, can unintentionally place unrealistic expectations on their children, often leading to misunderstandings and frustration. Mark emphasizes that while striving for greatness is valuable, expecting perfection can create lasting harm for both parents and teens. Mark also reminds us of the gentle invitation from Matthew 11:28-30, where Jesus offers rest and relief from the burdens of perfectionism. You don't want t...
Nov 20, 2024•24 min•Ep. 1153
Teens struggling with depression may find it very hard to keep up with the pressures of life — they feel weighed down, and they're not sure how to talk about it. In today's show, Mark talks with two teens who both struggled with depression and suicidality. Ian, Heartlight’s first resident from Vermont, opens up about his struggle with anxiety and substance abuse. We hear how he found hope and purpose at Heartlight, and is now looking forward to a bright future, including attending college. Tune ...
Nov 19, 2024•29 min•Ep. 1152
Parenting teens often means pushing past our comfort zones to tackle tough moments with wisdom and resilience. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into why stepping outside of your parenting comfort zone is not just necessary ... but transformative. They discuss practical ways to meet your teen where they are, helping them navigate struggles that build maturity and resilience. Alongside listener letters, Mark and Wayne offer real-life advice to help you make meaningful connect...
Nov 18, 2024•14 min•Ep. 1151
In today’s episode, Mark Gregston reviews a variety of listener questions, tackling tough issues from teen anger and addictions to grief and the challenges of blended families. Mark shares powerful insights on fostering genuine connections, setting intentional boundaries and preparing our kids for real-world success. Tune in to learn the importance of allowing children to learn from natural consequences, adjusting parenting strategies as teens mature, and maintaining a balance between discipline...
Nov 15, 2024•34 min•Ep. 1150
In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the vital role grandparents play in a teenager's life. As teens face challenges, grandparents can offer wisdom and a safe space, providing a broader perspective. While it’s essential not to undermine parents, your support can strengthen family bonds and deepen your relationship with your grandkids. Join us to learn how to be a comforting and empowering presence in their lives. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting P...
Nov 14, 2024•16 min•Ep. 1149
In this episode, Mark reflects on Joel 1:3 and encourages parents to consider the legacy they leave behind. He asks, "What stories will your children share about you?" Mark distinguishes between wisdom and information in parenting teens, warning against shame-based comments that can harm relationships. As teens seek answers, Mark reminds us of the importance of parents sharing personal experiences and biblical insights, highlighting their vital role in connecting scripture to their teens' lives ...
Nov 13, 2024•28 min•Ep. 1148
It can be tough at ANY age to confront the "why" behind your behaviors. But as these teens show us in today's episode, being honest with yourself about what you're going through can lead to big changes. Mark and Courtney talk with two teens, including Jack, who admits his use of drugs and alcohol masked deeper issues, including trauma and anxiety. He shares how his stay at Heartlight has helped him confront his past and learn foundational tools to handle life's challenges without resorting to su...
Nov 12, 2024•28 min•Ep. 1147
Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd as they share five key ways to nurture your teen's soul. With insights on seeing behavior as a reflection of underlying challenges, they encourage viewing struggles as temporary. This episode offers practical guidance on fostering future-focused hope, offering steady love and support, praying consistently and expressing appreciation to uplift your teen. Tune in for heartfelt encouragement to strengthen your connection and support your adolescent's growth. To...
Nov 11, 2024•15 min•Ep. 1146
In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses some of the most complex challenges parents face, from managing frustration and anger with teens to navigating the sensitive topics of custody battles, gaming addiction and gender dysphoria. He offers practical advice and compassionate insights, including how divorced parents can find common ground and how grandparents can provide support and wisdom — listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a pa...
Nov 08, 2024•26 min•Ep. 1145
In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the unique challenges faced by kids whose parents are in ministry leadership. They discuss the high expectations and pressures these young people experience and emphasize just how essential nurturing a strong relationship with them is. They also highlight the importance of practicing grace in our interactions with our children, reminding us that love and understanding should always come first. For more advice from Mark including article...
Nov 07, 2024•12 min•Ep. 1144
In part one of his heartfelt two-part devotional, Mark delves into Matthew 7, offering insight into how we can balance our children's desires with their essential needs. He highlights the crucial role of creating a positive home environment and reveals three major cultural forces shaping today’s youth. Tune in for inspiration on how to engage more meaningfully with your children in a rapidly changing world. For more insights from Mark, check out his book What's Happening To My Teen at parentingt...
Nov 06, 2024•24 min•Ep. 1143
Adoption is a beautiful thing. But as adopted kids grow older, it's natural that many of them begin to have big questions about their biological parents. In today's show, Mark and Courtney talk with two young ladies who share their personal stories of growing up as adopted children, exploring the emotional struggles, feelings of abandonment and family conflicts that have shaped their lives. They reflect on the complexities of forming relationships with their adoptive parents while grappling with...
Nov 05, 2024•27 min•Ep. 1142
In this episode, Mark challenges parents to rethink their approach to raising teens by highlighting the dangers of over-involvement. He outlines four key consequences of doing too much for our kids, illustrating how it can hinder their development rather than help them. Mark emphasizes that teens are often more capable than we realize and advocates for fostering their independence. He urges parents to guide their teens toward maturity, empowering them to navigate life's challenges and grow into ...
Nov 04, 2024•18 min•Ep. 1141
In today’s Q&A episode, Mark Gregston dives deep into some of the most pressing questions sent in by listeners. From navigating sarcastic and moody behavior to dealing with bullying, anxiety and depression, he covers a broad spectrum of challenges parents face in today's world. Mark also discusses the intricate dynamics of parenting after divorce and addresses the tough issue of chronic lying. Tune in now for practical advice rooted in biblical principles! Have a question for Mark? Submit it...
Nov 01, 2024•24 min•Ep. 1140
In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how social media and today's digital culture are affecting teens' self-worth and views on modesty. They explore the troubling rise in early exposure to pornography among both boys and girls, highlighting the need for open, honest conversations with our kids. Tune in for actionable advice on connecting with your child, guiding them toward healthier choices, and reinforcing the values of modesty and self-respect in an overwhelming world. Fo...
Oct 31, 2024•15 min•Ep. 1139
In this heartfelt episode, Mark offers a personal devotion tailored specifically for grandparents, centered around Matthew 11:28-30. He shares his journey of building his home and ministry on the foundation of this powerful scripture. Mark emphasizes the vital role grandparents play in their families, reminding them they can create a sanctuary of rest and peace for their grandkids amid the chaos of today’s world. Tune in for inspiration and practical insights on nurturing this special bond! For ...
Oct 30, 2024•27 min•Ep. 1138
In some cases, family support and healthy relationships can truly have life-or-death importance for a struggling teen. When everything seems dark and hopeless, even one voice of hope matters so much. In today's show, Mark and Courtney talk with two teens with pasts full of anger, hurt and mental health challenges. One young lady, Miley, opens up about her tumultuous relationship with her parents, her battle with substance abuse and how the support at Heartlight helped her heal. Don't miss this o...
Oct 29, 2024•24 min•Ep. 1137
In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd delve into the crucial distinction between rule-making and ruling within the home. They emphasize that while setting clear guidelines is essential, doing so without fostering strong relationships can lead to rebellion. Alternatively, a home without rules equals chaos. Striking the balance is key! They also share practical recommendations for parents on how to establish and adjust expectations effectively. Check it out! For more on this topic, che...
Oct 28, 2024•20 min
In today's Q&A episode, Mark Gregston tackles some of the most pressing questions you've been asking about your teens. From dealing with anxiety and depression to addressing explosive anger and the complexities of teen relationships, Mark offers insightful advice grounded in years of experience. He also touches on the unique challenges of raising special needs teens and finding ways to encourage responsible behavior in young adults. Tune in for essential guidance on applying your core values...
Oct 25, 2024•29 min•Ep. 1135
Are you unintentionally overcontrolling your teen? In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the balance between guiding teens and giving them the independence they need to thrive. While it's important to prepare them for the future, too much control — often from good intentions — can hinder their growth. Tune in for practical tips and to learn how to create an environment that fosters independence and empowers teens to make their own decisions. To purchase Mark’s book, When Your...
Oct 24, 2024•15 min•Ep. 1134
