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Oh, That’s Just My Autism

Melissa Taciapodcasters.spotify.com
Join me (a woman in her 40’s) as I process the ins and outs of seeking, obtaining, and processing an autism diagnosis at the age of 41.
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Episodes

Ep 51: Waiting Mode & All the Fun Ways My Brain Processes Time

Ever get stuck in “waiting mode”? In this episode I talk about what waiting mode looks and feels like for me. Plus I talk about my hyper-awareness of time and how I have the opposite of time-blindness. If you want to reach out, you can find me on IG at @oh.thatsjustmyautism or email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com

Dec 10, 202124 minSeason 1Ep. 51

Ep 50: Am I Doing Feelings Correctly?

Hello friends! Today I’m talking a lot about feelings. Feeling too much or not enough or not knowing if I’m feeling the right thing or the right amount for the situation. Is this an autistic thing? A trauma thing? Also, I found a new therapist, which is exciting! If you want to reach out, you can email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism

Dec 02, 202124 minSeason 1Ep. 50

Ep 49: A Myriad of Topics and Ramblings

Welcome back! This week I talk about the food stress that accompanies the holiday season, the way being thrown off my routine affects me, the sensory struggles I have as a pet owner, and a myriad of other things! I guess I just needed to get some stuff out. Thanks for listening! As usual, you can reach out via email at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism

Nov 26, 202123 minSeason 1Ep. 49

Ep 48: My Name is Melissa and I’m a Serial Monogamist

In this episode I talk about my life as a person who prefers being in a relationship over being single, how I think it is linked to me being autistic, and the ways that my serial monogamy has benefited me. If you’re enjoying the podcast, please leave a rating or review if you’re able to! If you’d like to reach out, my email is ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism

Nov 12, 202127 minSeason 1Ep. 48

Ep 47: The Autism Stereotypes That DO Apply to Me

I wanted to talk about the flip side of the stereotypes/myths topic from last episode. Today I’m taking a moment to explore the autism stereotypes that totally apply to me! If you’re enjoying the show, take a moment to leave a rating or review on whatever platform you’re listening on. If you’d like to reach out, you can find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com

Nov 06, 202121 minSeason 1Ep. 47

Ep 46: Mythbusting My Autism

There are so many myths and stereotypes about autism. In this episode I talk about some of the big ones that don’t apply to me, and how that almost convinced me that I wasn’t actually autistic. If you’re enjoying the show, consider leaving a rating or review if you’re able to! If you’d like to reach out, you can contact me via email at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism

Nov 03, 202137 minSeason 1Ep. 46

Ep 45: Drugs & Alcohol - How They Affected My Life & Why I Eventually Chose Sobriety

The secret is out: I was kind of wild back in the day. On this episode I talk about my party-girl past, my years of using drugs and alcohol as social crutches, and why I eventually chose to stop altogether. As promised, here is the link to the Sarah Hendrickx video I mentioned: https://youtu.be/yKzWbDPisNk . You can reach out via email at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism

Oct 29, 202127 minSeason 1Ep. 45

Ep 44: Why Birthdays & Holidays Can Be Hard For Me As An Autistic Person

Hello again! I actually had to re-record this episode because the original one has somehow disappeared! Anyway, today I’m talking about birthdays and holidays and all the things about them that don’t mesh well with my neurodiverse brain. If you want to reach out you can email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or follow on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism

Oct 25, 202137 minSeason 1Ep. 44

Ep 43: SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT - New IG Account Dedicated to the Pod!

Hi all! I’ve decided to take the plunge and start an IG account solely dedicated to the podcast. I would LOVE it if you would go follow! @oh.thatsjustmyautism <—> also have a new email account ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com.

Oct 19, 20217 minSeason 1Ep. 43

Ep 42: My Superpower is Making Seemingly Simple Tasks Extremely Complicated

As my registration date for college approaches, I am reminded that my brain simply can’t make any decisions without massive amounts of analysis, which has made planning my spring semester classes into a very long and tedious process. The struggle is very real over here, guys. If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Oct 19, 202123 minSeason 1Ep. 42

Ep 41: My Personal Take on Empathy As An Autistic Person

It is a long held belief that autistic people don’t have empathy. I’m here to tell you, that’s not true. However, empathy (and emotions in general) are something I admittedly struggle with as an autistic person. If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Oct 13, 202123 minSeason 1Ep. 41

Ep 40: When You Realize You're Not Actually Autistic With Special Guest Megan Griffith

My first ever guest is here! The topic we are discussing today is an important one: what happens when your autism self-diagnosis is wrong? Megan opens up about her journey from diagnosing herself as autistic to then realizing that this diagnosis didn't actually fit as well as she thought it did. Even though I don't feel like this situation is super common, it certainly does happen, and I wanted to talk about this side of things because it needs to be highlighted that if you think you're autistic...

Oct 05, 202137 minSeason 1Ep. 40

Ep 39: When Your Special Interest Annoys You

Coming to you at half-capacity today because my brain kept me up all night thinking about one of my special interests. I love that my brain grabs onto things, but I also wish I could shut it off sometimes! Anyone else? If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Sep 30, 202118 minSeason 1Ep. 39

Ep 38: My Review of the Netflix Show ‘Love on the Spectrum’

Spoiler alert: I LOVE THIS SHOW! That being said, there are a few questions I have pertaining to things that might be problematic. I’m not always the greatest at knowing when I should be offended by something so the question is...should I be? If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Sep 24, 202117 minSeason 1Ep. 38

Ep 37: Interest Churn Part 2!

Surprise! I’ll bet you didn’t know there would be a part 2 to this. Well guess what? Neither did I, but here we are. A lot has happened this week and I wanted to fill you guys in on some of the revelations I’ve been having. As promised, here is the link to the Rich Roll Podcast episode that I referenced in this episode (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-rich-roll-podcast/id582272991?i=1000535994005) and the link to the Sparketype test (www.sparketype.com). If you enjoy the pod and want m...

Sep 21, 202129 minSeason 1Ep. 37

Ep 36: Interest Churn: Why Can’t I Stick With Anything?!

I need to decide what I’m doing with my life, but how can I do that when in the past I’ve been unable to stick with anything long term? The struggle to sustain interest is REAL. Can you relate? If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Sep 14, 202118 minSeason 1Ep. 36

Ep 35: Disordered Eating + Emetophobia + Food/Exercise Obsession & How My Autism Has Contributed

Trigger Warning: Eating Disorders & Emetophobia. There’s a lot to unpack here and this is a particularly sensitive topic for myself and for many others out there, so I hope I’m doing it justice! I am no expert, and by no means speaking for all autistics (as usual), but I wanted to open up about my food struggles since I know eating disorders and autism commonly overlap. I hope some of you can relate and get something out of my story. If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want t...

Sep 07, 202142 minSeason 1Ep. 35

Ep 34: The Things You Learn While Traveling

Hi! I missed you guys! I went traveling for a week, and I just wanted to update you all on what’s happening in my life. I’ll talk a little bit about missing my routines while traveling, and about how I can find it hard to ask for what I need for fear of seeming selfish or rude. If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Sep 05, 202113 minSeason 1Ep. 34

Ep 33: Fashion on the Spectrum

Fashion is so tricky! Between sensory issues and decision fatigue and societal expectations (especially for women), it’s all too much. Do you feel the same? If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Aug 26, 202121 minSeason 1Ep. 33

Ep 32: Post Diagnosis Processing, How to “Come Out”, and My ADHD Realizations

Wow, what a week! My thoughts and emotions have settled and I feel happy. There’s still a lot to process, but I’m coming to terms with the fact that this could be a lifelong journey, and that’s ok. If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Aug 20, 202128 minSeason 1Ep. 32

Ep 31: My testing results...with an unexpected twist!

I love a good plot twist, don’t you? Listen to find out what the heck happened during my results appointment! If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Aug 17, 202115 minSeason 1Ep. 31

Ep 30: Navigating Invitations - How Do I Politely Decline?

Unwanted invitations are a nightmare. My people-pleasing self tries to make me say yes to everything, but I’m at a point where I’m not doing that anymore. But...what do I do instead? Help! If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Aug 16, 202122 minSeason 1Ep. 30

Ep 29: Parenting Challenges as Autistic Person

Being a parent is hard, but being on the spectrum adds some unique challenges. I’ll talk about those PLUS some of the positives about being an Autistic parent. If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Aug 13, 202145 minSeason 1Ep. 29

Ep 28: When Plans Change Last Minute

My plans got changed last minute this morning and it has really thrown me off! How do I recover from this and have a regular day? Can I? Hellllp. If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Aug 06, 202112 minSeason 1Ep. 28

Ep 27: Cyclothymia

Cyclothymia, or as my son referred to it: diet bipolar disorder - is a mood disorder that is relatively rare, but I wanted to talk about it because (whether I have this or not) the symptoms are very relatable. Mental health issues and diagnoses are important things to discuss, and I’m glad I have this outlet to verbally process all the things I’m questioning. If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at o...

Aug 04, 202115 minSeason 1Ep. 27

Ep 26: Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria

Let’s talk about RSD! This is a condition that often co-occurs with ADHD and Autism and guess what? I think I have it. Here are the links to the 2 articles that I sourced my info from: healthline.com/health/mental-health/rejection-sensitive-dysphoria AND additudemag.com/rejection-sensitive-Dysphoria-and-adhd/ If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Aug 04, 202138 minSeason 1Ep. 26

Ep 25: I had my 2nd assessment appointment!

Two down, one to go! In this episode I give a brief update on my evaluation/diagnosis process. Just two weeks to wait until I get my results! If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Aug 03, 202113 minSeason 1Ep. 25

Ep 24: “Coming Out” as Autistic and All the Feelings That I’m Having About That

Guys. My emotions. I didn’t know if I would publish this one. I mean, I cried and sniffled into the mic, so there’s that. Vulnerability is hard. This process is bumpy and full of uncertainty. Autism is all I’ve thought about for six months and I’m tired. I love this but I hate it. It will get easier, won’t it? If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Jul 29, 202125 minSeason 1Ep. 24

Ep 23: Did quarantine wreck my brain, or am I in Autistic burnout??

In this episode I talk about Autistic burnout. Is this what has been slowly creeping up on me over the past year? Am I in burnout? Thanks to Carole Jean from Mind Your Autistic Brain Podcast, I have a list of the 20 most common symptoms of Autistic burnout. Let’s discuss, shall we? I highly recommend Carole Jean’s podcast, by the way! She always has amazing guests and the most interesting conversations about being a late-diagnosed autistic. You can find her and get more info on burnout (and othe...

Jul 27, 202132 minSeason 1Ep. 23

Ep 22: I had my first assessment appointment! Also: is my autism getting worse??

All the details about my first (of three) autism evaluation appointments. I also ponder if my autism is getting worse? Because wow it seems like it. If you enjoy the pod and want more content, or just want to get in touch, find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or shoot me an email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com :-)

Jul 22, 202127 minSeason 1Ep. 22
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