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Not As We Planned

Tash Gershfield,Carly Harrispodcasters.spotify.com

When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges faced as a single parent, coparenting, dating again in your 30s and everything in between. We love hearing from you about your stories, dilemmas, dating disasters, happy endings (both kinds) so email us on notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com


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Episodes

65. I Knew He Was Proposing

An email that has us disagreeing with the outcome, having someone leave you and blaming it on your weight, how to find hope on dating apps and a confession about a proposal!!! Producer: @TristanHehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more inform...

Nov 21, 202446 minSeason 1Ep. 65

64. You’ve been Exposed!!

We get a response from the woman who got cheated on by the man who wrote in to us a few weeks ago!!! We get such a warm felt update from an OG, we hear about a swinging holiday and someone’s feedback on taking our advice. Producer: @TristanHehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted o...

Nov 14, 202440 minSeason 1Ep. 64

63. Your Husband Gave You Chlamydia

We reflect on how far we have come in the last year, we have a sneaky peak of the new love honey calendar, when your husband gets caught with the other woman by your boss, and finding out you caught chlamydia from your cheating husband!! Producer: @TristanHehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-...

Nov 07, 202449 min

62. His Thumb Was Bigger Than His D***

We talk about if you would have kids with someone who only wants to have them for you not him, an update where he got two women pregnant at the SAME time and finding out you’re not only the other women once but TWICE! Producer: @TristanHehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Ac...

Oct 31, 202442 minSeason 1Ep. 62

61. Baby Loss Awareness Month

Trigger warning: we talk in detail about baby loss, having to deal with you partner going back to his ex in your darkest days and stalking your ex on social media Producer: @TristanHehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Oct 24, 202450 min

60. I’m One Of Those Men Who Cheated

We hear from the cheating man himself, we share the ultimate instagram hack, finding naked AI pictures of your friends on your partners phone and deciding whether to stay after he cheated or if it’s time to finally let go. Producer: @TristanHehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted ...

Oct 17, 202440 minSeason 1Ep. 60

59. Green Flag or Bare Minimum

Figuring out if it’s a green flag or just bare minimum, getting the inside scoop at a swingers club, seeing the repercussions of taking back that cheating ex husband and finding out you’re the other woman and his whole story was a lie! Producer: @TristanHehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd...

Oct 10, 202443 minSeason 1Ep. 59

58. I Fell In Love With My Friends Husband

We delve into the world of swinging, hotwifing and dogging, when you fall in love with your friends husband and hearing from someone who found out their husband was cheating today! Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more i...

Oct 03, 202446 min

57. What A Mistake I Made

Tash talks about Blake’s diagnosis, having your partner stop you going ahead with your planned ivf, having your ex breadcrumb you and the ultimate betrayal right under your nose!! Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more in...

Sep 26, 202449 minSeason 1Ep. 57

56. I Met HER

The first encounter meeting the new woman in your children’s’ life, an update about fuck buddy situation, a woman at rock bottom struggling with the worries of custody and divorce and a man who got two women pregnant…at the same time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 19, 202440 minSeason 1Ep. 56

55. He Had a Porn Addiction

Married to a porn addict with an ending we were not expecting, when he pretends his mental health is the reason for his shady behaviour, and a man’s story when his wife finds another one. Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for...

Sep 12, 202439 minSeason 1Ep. 55

54. A LOT happened this summer….

We are so happy to be back and with a new name and look! We have a big catch up to update you on what you’ve been missing, we hear from the ex husband of an email we’ve shared previously and seeing how he never changed because he’s gone and done it to the other woman!!! Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https:/...

Sep 05, 202450 minSeason 1Ep. 54

53. My Husband Had an Affair With a Lesbian

When he’s playing away from home with 3 different women, finding out your husband is having an affair with a lesbian, and the continued abuse from the ex wife. Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Jul 25, 202443 minSeason 1Ep. 53

52. Not Just Another One… Another 3

Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 18, 202440 minSeason 1Ep. 52

51. The Micro Penis Debate...

Learning that sometimes the news we dread is a blessing in disguise, finding love again but losing the naivety of forever, the coparenting dilemma and the micro penis scenario Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more inform...

Jul 11, 202451 minSeason 1Ep. 51

50. All He’s Bringing To The Table Is Chlamydia

A man’s side of the story, the getaway escape, catching your partner paying for prostitutes and do you tell your friend their husband is cheatingProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Jul 04, 202444 minSeason 1Ep. 50

49. Can Women Really Have Casual Sex?

We discuss the coparenting holiday, the fuck buddy dilemma when dating a walking red flag, how many chances you should give before it’s time to leave and we talk about having a partner with an addiction problemProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See ...

Jun 27, 202444 minSeason 1Ep. 49

48. Control Your Hapiness

Talking about the challenges of co-parenting, seeing that therapy can make all the difference and infinitely doesn’t always ruin a relationshipProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Jun 20, 202440 minSeason 1Ep. 48

47. The Hunky Hot Fireman

Our theory on being ghosted, whether a rape fantasy is a red flag and a major breakthrough from a previous story.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 13, 202442 minSeason 1Ep. 47

46. He Left because I Got Too Fat

When you are to blame for your partner cheating, the 29 year old barmaid, and a dog shit blowj*bProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 06, 202448 minSeason 1Ep. 46

45. Gaslighting 101

Talking about getting the snip, when your partner cheats on you with his ex, working out if money can really buy you happiness and phone full of prostitutes.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

May 30, 202440 minSeason 1Ep. 45

44. What's That Around Your Ankle?

When you realise you’ve been dating a criminal, trying to catch your sister cheating on her husband and turning lesbian when you’re sick of men!Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

May 23, 202445 minSeason 1Ep. 44

43. I Want to Store You In My Basement In a Duffle Bag

TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Abuse and RapeWe talk about self sabotaging a good thing after dealing with a toxic relationship, the strangest messages you’ve received on dating apps and the sad reality of continuing to stay in a relationship where you see no change.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativec...

May 16, 202448 minSeason 1Ep. 43

42. A 3 Year Age Gap Between your Daughter and Mistress

When she finds out her partner is cheating on the other woman with another one, the cheating husband whose dating a 21year old when he has a 19 year old daughter, and sharing an experience that allows her to go no contactProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on ...

May 09, 202446 minSeason 1Ep. 42

41. The Home Wrecking Teenage Work Colleague

When your best friend of 25years starts having sleepovers with your baby daddy, your man finally changes but is it too late and the teenage work colleague who loves a country lane!Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more inf...

May 02, 202450 minSeason 1Ep. 41

40. The Live Podcast

Marking episode 40 with our first ever live podcast with an audience! We never would have dreamed we could get here and this quickly and that’s because of all our amazing listeners so thank you! We talk about the other woman meeting your kids, how to give a blowjob and being invited to a threesome you weren’t aware of. Here’s to the first of many live events!Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-...

Apr 25, 202444 minSeason 1Ep. 40

39. He's Literally a Walking Talking Red Flag

We talk about second chances and if they really work, befriending the ex girlfriend and girl boss energy vibes only.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 11, 202455 minSeason 1Ep. 39

38. One of the Confessions Is Mine!

It's another dating episode and this might be the most shocking one yet! The stories had us on the edge of our seats, in fits of laughter and then a surprise confession from one of the hosts! Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy ...

Apr 04, 202447 minSeason 1Ep. 38

37. Good Luck to the New Woman

We share your bad scenarios in your relationships which you found yourself in but still stayed! Normalising staying and it’s not always easy to leave. Witnessing Tash’s new glow and hearing from a now happy couple who took on our adviceProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/...

Mar 28, 202449 minSeason 1Ep. 37

36. You Make Your Bed, You Lay In It

For the first time we share some updates with you from previous stories we have shared and showing that there is light at the end of the tunnelProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Mar 21, 202449 minSeason 1Ep. 36
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