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How to be SOFT and SHARP socially

New Views with Ariel Niu
Nov 11, 2023•13 min•Ep. 27
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Episode description

No inferiority, no superiority (they can feel what you feel on the inside), keep it eye-level.

 

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TIPS:

  • Soft and Sharp responses are only negatively experienced when imbalanced
  • Imbalances = feeling INFERIOR or SUPERIOR
  • INFERIORITY symptoms: people-pleasing, laughter-padding, white lies
  • SUPERIORITY symptoms: reactiveness, judgement over observation, attachment
  • YOUR ENERGY: what you embody inside and out - facial expressions, body language, tone, pitch, pace, words, intention, thoughts, emotions...

How to be SOFT and BALANCED:

  1. Be intentional
  2. Breathe
  3. Be eye-level with others
  4. Speak slower
  5. Lift/lighten your tone
  6. Ground your energy

How to be SHARP and BALANCED:

  1. Be intentional
  2. Breathe
  3. Be eye-level with others
  4. Be honest
  5. Be definitive and open at the same time
  6. Stay present and conscious

See my Instagram and TikTok for more examples on balanced Sharp vs Soft responses.

 

0:00 Introduction

0:35 Inferiority vs Superiority

2:39 Embodying Energy

3:45 How to be BALANCED SOFT

6:45 How to be BALANCED SHARP

11:23 Conclusion

 

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ABOUT:

My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on self and social interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share stories on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own energy to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.

 

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