Just The Guys - Relationship BEFORE Task
Today Dan is joined by Perry, Mark & Greg to discuss how relationship needs should come before tasks and solutions.
Mar 15, 2023•32 min
NeuroDiverse Christian Couples
Like all couples, NeuroDiverse (AS/NT) Christian couples face challenges with communication and connection. Those challenges are nuanced in a way that most couples, therapists, and clergy don't typically recognize. Often NeuroDiverse Couples have children on the spectrum (or or other differences), this podcast will dedicate topics to the NeuroDiverse Couple as well as issues that may arise in spectrum or special needs family systems. We invite you to learn about NeuroDiverse Christian couples to understand those aspects more fully.
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Episodes
Autism & The 3 Shoes Approach with Laura Nadine Dooley
Join Dr. Holmes as she interviews Laura Nadine Dooley. Our show today covers Laura's identification on the spectrum later in life, navigating the school system with a son on the spectrum, challenges autistic entrepreneurs to face in creating businesses, and her many works and contributions to advocacy and music. Laura Nadine understands firsthand the struggles and triumphs of living with autism. She has spent nearly 15 years advocating for a neurodiverse educational model after she and her son w...
Mar 13, 2023•59 min•Season 7Ep. 11
What you need to understand about Women on the Autism Spectrum with Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht
Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht, RP ND, is an autistic Registered Psychotherapist, Naturopathic Doctor, and an autism researcher with a Master of Science in Applied Psychology (cum laude). She is here on the show today to discuss women on the Autism Spectrum. Dr. Natalie was diagnosed at the age of 48 and is a co-founder of Embrace Autism based out of Canada. She serves as an advisor to Autism Ontario, a community-based organization founded to promote education and a better understanding of autism spect...
Mar 06, 2023•59 min•Season 7Ep. 10
Known for the Quote "When you Have Met One Person with Autism... " Dr. Stephen Shore
Dan joins Stephanie today on this ASR podcast and talks with guest Dr. Stephen Shore. Dr. Shore is the man behind the quote, "When you have met 1 person with Autism, you have met 1 person with Autism." Dan and Stephanie discuss Dr. Shores' diagnosis story and journey through education, as well as share Dr. Shores' expertise in Special Education on how to work with a child in a strengths based way. Work strategy, as well as relational understanding, are topics of today's show. About Dr. Shore: BI...
Feb 20, 2023•55 min•Season 7Ep. 8
Just The Guys Talk about Conflict
Dan, Greg, Mark, Perry, and Clay- Just the Guys- talk about conflict and different ways of processing conflict. The guys discuss risk/reward ratios and how they each may determine when to engage or disengage based on the status of the relationship. They recognize an increase in the ability to healthily engage in conflict matters when there is personal growth and less distance in the relationship. Some helpful podcasts that may go along with this one: Dr. Wilder's Escaping Enemy Mode https://www....
Feb 15, 2023•45 min
Ask an Intimacy Expert- Intimacy, Sexuality, Barriers to Connection with Andrew and Amanda Scott
Today for our Valentine's focused show, we are discussing intimacy, romance, sex, duty sex, and sexless marriage. We have as our guests today Andrew and Amanda Scott. While we usually discuss NeuroDiversity as the Autism Spectrum, Neurodiversity also includes ADHD. Andrew and Amanda are also NDCC! Andrew is an ordained minister with a Masters in Theology from Fuller Theological Seminary. Amanda holds an MA from Richmont Graduate University and is an MFT and Certified Sex Therapist. She sees clie...
Feb 13, 2023•1 hr 3 min•Season 7Ep. 7
Count it all Joy? Really?
Count it all Joy? Are you serious? Everything? How do you do that when there is low joy and high conflict or low connection relationships? My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. James 1:2-4. We will talk about this verse and also discuss another Dr. Wilder book, "Joy starts here." The brain craves joy! Attachment is bui...
Feb 06, 2023•1 hr 14 min•Season 7Ep. 6
"Why is Sense of Safety Important?" with Dr. Johanna Lynch
Join Dr. Stephanie Holmes and Dr. Johanna Lynch as they talk about childhood traumatic events or adverse childhood events and their effects on development. Dr. Stephanie and Dr. Johanna will talk about the need for safety, and Dr. Johanna will define safety and safe attachments. She will distinguish Domestic Violence and Domestic Silence (neglect/emotional disconnection) and talk about the negative effects on either for children or adults. While today does not talk about NT or ND, this sets the ...
Jan 23, 2023•57 min•Season 7Ep. 4
Escaping Enemy Mode with Dr. Jim Wilder
Dan and Stephanie set this podcast up with their podcast on Jan 2nd. You will want to review this podcast before you hear today's podcast on escaping enemy mode. NDCC's are easily dragged into enemy mode- simple enemy mode, stupid enemy mode and intellectual enemy mode. Our brains can unite or divide us. Join us for this discuss with Dr. Jim Wilder. You will want to go back and hear our podcast "Are you in your right mind?" which sets the stage for this conversation. Today we will talk about how...
Jan 16, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Season 7Ep. 3
System Failures- We Need to Work Together w Dr. Brandon Clarke
Dr. Holmes interviews Dr. Clarke on working within systems. Listen in as Dr. Brandon Clarke focuses on the levers to behavior change and emphasizes the barriers to implementing educational and therapeutic interventions from an interdisciplinary perspective. Solutions for these barriers are discussed and recommendations are made to address these barriers when collaborating with other professionals. Brandon Clark is a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. He is the clinical director at Springbrook Beh...
Jan 09, 2023•41 min•Season 7Ep. 2
Are You in Your Right Mind?
In preparing for the interview coming up this month with neurotheologian, Dr. Jim Wilder, Dan and Stephanie walk through some foundational information that is necessary to grasp the material to be discussed with Dr. Wilder fully. In our discussion with Dr. Wilder, we will be discussing his new book, Escaping Enemy Mode. Today's podcast discusses two of his other books and what Dan and Stephanie are gleaning from them for ND Christian Couples. The books mentioned today are Rare Leadership & T...
Jan 02, 2023•59 min
Just The Guys: Discussing a Later-in-Life Autism Identification
Dan is back with Just the Guys, and he with Clay, Perry, and Mark talk about their different journeys to identification and acceptance of being on the Autism Spectrum. Each was diagnosed later in life and talk openly about this journey.
Dec 26, 2022•42 min
Becoming an Emotionally Safe Man with Andrew Bauman
Usually, Stephanie and Dan interview our guests together on NDCC, but today Dr. Holmes interviews Andrew J. Bauman on "Becoming a good and safe man." Andrew outlines points from his book with the same title on what to do if your spouse has come to you and said she feels abused or traumatized, or emotionally abandoned. We also speak about the damage porn does to the person struggling with porn use and the damage to the spouse and marriage. About Andrew: Andrew J. Bauman, Co-Founder & Director...
Dec 19, 2022•54 min
Jim Ball - Proactive Strategies for Positive Change
Join Dr. Homes as she interviews Dr. Ball. This show with Dr. James Ball will discuss the 7 evidence-based strategies described in his book, “Early Intervention: Real-Life Questions; Real Life Answers,” proven to be the most effective in teaching students and adults with an autism spectrum disorder. It will focus on the teaching of specific skills, reducing challenging behaviors, and building an effective program as outlined in the book “You Can’t Make Me: Proactive Strategies for Positive Behav...
Dec 12, 2022•45 min
Dan & Stephanie Talk Holidays and Gifts in NDCC's
Dan is celebrating a birthday this month, or maybe better said, having a birthday this month. Does Dan like to celebrate holidays? How do we see celebrations and gifts differently? Gifts and celebrations are a constant pain point in the NDCC. Listen in as Dan and Stephanie talk about December celebrations and what they learned about each other over the years when it comes to gifts and celebration times. Spoiler alert- Dan is not big on celebrations!
Dec 05, 2022•44 min
Jeanetta Bryant
Join Dr. Stephanie Holmes as she talks to Jeanetta Bryant. Jeanetta Bryant is the Founder and Executive Director of Abilities Workshop, Inc. She is dedicated to helping special needs families find answers and children impacted by a special needs diagnosis be their best. Jeanetta is an author, developer, and advocate. As a mom of two children, one with ASD, she finds no greater joy than watching them develop and achieve their dreams. Her interests include family time at home or at a theme park, c...
Nov 28, 2022•41 min
Just the Guys: Talking about Priorities
Usually, you will hear Dan and Stephanie talking through issues and challenges of being an NDCC or sharing tips. But today, Dan with two guys from our NDCC Bible/book study join Dan (just the guys) to discuss how work influences home life. Dan, Perry, and Mark discuss priorities. How do you set your priorities? What has changed in your priorities throughout your marriage? Mark and his wife Kenda have contributed to our curriculum for couples and counselors and podcasts- you can hear more from co...
Nov 21, 2022•36 min
Dispelling Myths about Autism & Working with Medications
Join Stephanie and Dr. Matthew Fisher, MD (and therapy dog Jessie is present too) here to help professionals, parents, and educators better understand typical health, environmental, and behavioral myths that are common in the Autism population. Information challenging these myths along with tools on how to effectively deal with a person on the Autism spectrum will be presented from a psychiatrist’s perspective. Dr. Fisher will discuss medications and his philosophy of working with individuals on...
Nov 14, 2022•49 min
Theory of Mind and Relational Blind spots with Dr. Sean Hirt
Dr. Sean Hirt earned his master’s and Doctoral degrees in clinical psychology from Georgia School of Professional Psychology. He completed his pre-doctoral internship at Casa Pacifica Center for Children and Families in Camarillo, CA. He completed post- doctoral training at West Georgia Psychological Services in Douglasville, GA. Over the years, he has practiced in a variety of clinical settings, including residential treatment centers, school settings, and private practice. His areas of special...
Nov 07, 2022•56 min
Hope Overcomes with author Leisa Williams
Stephanie talks again with Leisa Williams. Previously we discussed her book Hope Wins! Now we discuss Hope Overcomes. We will discuss how a caring church community can come alongside a family with special needs and give HOPE! Having Other People Engage! About Leisa: Leisa is a Christian author who writes from her heart about her life experiences. Her views are tried and tested from many years of working to overcome adversity in her life as well as being founded on her Christian biblical faith, t...
Oct 31, 2022•48 min
Key Ingredients to God-honoring ND Marriages- Humility, Acceptance, Vulnerability, Teachability & Curiosity
Join Stephanie and Dan as they talk about what are the essential ingredients to a healthy, God-honoring marriage as an NDCC. Stephanie reads from a devotional called 50 Fruits of Pride. Have you thought of some of those as pride before/ Pride and entitlement are the opposite of humility? Are you teachable? Can you ask for help? Can you admit when you are wrong? Can you see the perspective of others? Today they talk through the differences between character issues and neurodiversity. The article ...
Oct 24, 2022•1 hr 6 min
An Autistic's Adventure in Corporate America: Neurodiversity in the Workplace
Join Dr. Holmes as she interviews Clay M. Westbrook about Neurodiversity in the workplace. Dr. Holmes wrote the forward for Clay's book, "Best Places To Work: An Autistic Adventure in Corporate America." About Clay: Clay M. Westbrook is a lifelong resident of the state of Georgia. He was born in Athens and attended the University of Georgia, earning a bachelor's degree in History and a law degree, with honors, from the University of Georgia School of Law. After graduation, he moved to Atlanta wi...
Oct 17, 2022•1 hr 13 min
One Man's Quest to be a Better Husband with author David Finch
Today Dan and Stephanie talk to the author of Journal of Best Practices, Dave Finch. About Dave: Dave Finch is a New York Times bestselling author on neurodiverse relationships. He is a studio owner, media host, and creative consultant to Netflix, Disney, and others. Dave’s work has appeared on ABC, CBS, NBC, CNN, NPR, SiriusXM, The New York Times, Rolling Stone, The Howard Stern Show, and the award-winning Netflix series, Atypical. Dave’s company, Elevated Studio, produces podcasts and other di...
Oct 10, 2022•1 hr 5 min
Issues Adults on the Spectrum may Face with Ron Sandison
Join Stephanie as she interviews Ron Sandison. There are many topics for discussion today, including Autism & transitioning into adulthood and issues young adults face like employment, developing relationships, dating, leaving the home, and healthcare. Ron speaks from experience as an adult on the spectrum. Ron and Stephanie will talk about the underemployment and unemployment of people on the spectrum. Ron said, "85% of people on the autism spectrum with advanced degrees in science, technol...
Oct 03, 2022•41 min
Just the Guys: How work Influences Home
Usually, you will hear Dan and Stephanie talking through issues and challenges of being an NDCC or sharing tips. But today, joining are two guys from our NDCC Bible/Book study, to discuss how work influences home life. Dan, Perry, and Greg discuss some things that translate to home and some that just do not. The guys talk about scripts and mimicking and expectations. To hear more from Perry, Perry has been a guest before on the podcast- check out his link here. https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnr...
Sep 26, 2022•38 min
Women on the Spectrum with Toni Boucher
About Toni Boucher: Toni has been working with folks on the spectrum for over 28 years. Her daughter was diagnosed with ASD at age 11. Toni's clients and people who know her well say Asperger's is the reason she "gets it". Her articles on sensory integration are referenced worldwide by families, psychologists, teachers, and therapists. She is often referred to as "The Autism Translator." Find out more at https://www.toniboucher.net/neurodiverse Disclaimer: When we have guests on the ASR podcast ...
Sep 19, 2022•56 min
Does Malachi 2:16 say, "God hates divorce?" with Thomas Pryde Part 2
Today Dan and Stephanie interview Thomas Pryde of the Psalm 82 Initiative. What is the Psalm 82 Initiative? Helping make churches safer for abuse victims. Psalm 82 also is Calling civil and religious leaders to recognize and respond to abuse more effectively. Today is a sensitive topic. We will discuss divorce and how the church has taught Malachi 2:16 that God hates divorce- for all reasons. What does Malachi 2:16 say about divorce? What about abuse? What are the types of abuse- psychological, ...
Sep 12, 2022•41 min
Complex Marriages: How to Stay and When to Leave with Barbara Grant
Join Stephanie and Barbara, who will talk about the pain of divorce and how NDCCs may find themselves needing to separate or divorce or live in separate spaces. Barbara has been a co-leader with Stephanie for NT Christian wives in AS marriage. We will also talk about the stigma often placed on people who divorce in the church community. Both Barbara and Stephanie believe in Covenant marriage and are pro-marriage and pro-NDCC. However, I like to quote my mentor Leslie Vernick, "I believe in the s...
Sep 05, 2022•1 hr 6 min
Does Malachi 2:16 say, "God hates divorce?" with Thomas Pryde
Today Dan and Stephanie interview Thomas Pryde of the Psalm 82 Initiative. What is the Psalm 82 Initiative? Helping make churches safer for abuse victims. Psalm 82 also is Calling civil and religious leaders to recognize and respond to abuse more effectively. Today is a sensitive topic. We will discuss divorce and how the church has taught Malachi 2:16 that God hates divorce- for all reasons. What does Malachi 2:16 say about divorce? What about abuse? What are the types of abuse- psychological, ...
Aug 29, 2022•34 min
Affinity Therapy: Finding Hidden Potential
Join Stephanie in her discussion with Ron Suskind on discovering potential and finding hope against all odds. As Ron shares his experience with his son Owen and Stephanie shares her experience with Sydney, both find found ways to enter their autistic child's inner world through scripting through their child's favorite Disney movies. Dr. Holmes' interviews Ron Suskind at the Converge Autism Summit held in SC. Ron and Stephanie refer to the movie Ron created about their journey, Life Animated. The...
Aug 22, 2022•1 hr
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