In this throwback edition of Negotiations Ninja, we revisit a great episode with Molly Bloom. Molly spent years organizing high-stakes poker games for celebrities. It eventually led to a very public arrest and trial. If you haven't heard her story—and what she learned from her life choices—you're missing out. Check out this throwback to hear her provocative story and learn how to overcome adversity and persevere.
The biggest mistake that business owners make is that they don’t plan their exit from their business. People don’t think about the planning and preparation that goes into negotiating the sale of their business. Michelle Seiler Tucker—a mergers and acquisitions master intermediary, a senior business analyst, and the best-selling author of three books—outlines exactly what you need to do to get top dollar for your business in her book, “ Exit Rich .” Michelle covers much of that process in this ep...
In this Negotiations Ninja Throwback, we look back at episode #111 with Jeanette Nyden and Lawrence Kane—the authors of “The Contract Professional’s Playbook.” They wrote the book to guide new and seasoned procurement professionals to become better at their craft. In this episode, we talk about developing procurement talent, internal and external negotiation, performance-based outcomes, and much more. Don't miss this fascinating conversation!
If you don’t know how to negotiate, you won’t make a profit, right? You’ll just be giving things away. If you don’t negotiate well, you’re essentially giving away your paycheck and company profit. But because the western world is so unaccustomed to negotiating every single day, they struggle to close. In this special episode swap, Paul Watts has a conversation with Jeb Blount about crafting a powerful negotiation strategy. This episode is packed with information you can use to become a better ne...
In this throwback, we take a look back at episode #123 with international negotiator Mihai Isman. In this episode, we covered negotiating across cultures . Negotiating through culture and language differences adds a level of complexity that is often overlooked. Religious beliefs, mindsets, concepts, and even words and phrases can be understood differently. So what do you do? Mihai shares some advice and things to be mindful of when negotiating with a different culture. Don't miss this special re...
Do you seem to be saying all of the wrong things and struggling in your negotiations? What words and sentences should you use to get someone to move in your direction? In his book, Exactly What to Say: The Magic Words for Influence and Impact, Phil Jones gives us the script for exactly what you can say to influence people. Phil has spoken in 59 different countries on five different continents, helped over 800 different industries, written seven best-selling books, and he’s trained over 2 million...
In this Throwback Thursday episode of Negotiations Ninja, we take a look back at episode #112 with none other than crisis negotiator Mark Lowther. In this episode, he talks about his experience(s) in suicide intervention and the harsh realities crisis negotiators live through. A negative outcome isn't always something one might want to face—but it must be acknowledged because it will happen. Learn what you can do to cope with an unexpected outcome in this episode with Mark.
How do you manage multiparty negotiations? What should the preparation process look like? What kind of outcome do you strive for? Multiparty negotiations are a different beast. So how do you manage it? Mihai Isman joins me in this episode of Negotiations Ninja to share how he and his team tackle multiparty negotiations. Mihai is based in Cologne, Germany, where he heads up I&P Negotiation Consulting. They do commercial, political, and even union negotiations. Multiparty negotiations are thei...
In this throwback episode of Negotiations Ninja, we hop back to episode #142 with Dr. Jennifer Goldman-Wetzler. This episode is ALL about resolving conflict. From dealing with conflict avoidance to tactical advice on how to resolve conflict in the workplace—we've got it covered. Don't miss this replay!
How does the venture capital industry work? What do investors think about when they decide who and what to invest in? What is the framework they use? Tim Schigel—the founding and managing partner of Refinery Ventures—is all about investing in fast-growth companies. If you want to get inside the head of someone who runs a venture capitalist fund, this is the episode you need to listen to. Outline of This Episode [2:21] Tim’s background in venture capital [3:22] How the venture capital industry wo...
Welcome to the Negotiations Ninja version of Throwback Thursday! In this episode, we replay episode #97 with Roger Dooley. Roger explains how to practically apply neuroscience, behavior technology, and behavior research—i.e. neuromarketing—to negotiation. How can we use science to get better deals with our negotiations? How can procurement professionals use neuromarketing? How do we influence to help someone make decisions that are advantageous for us and helpful for them? Listen to learn more!...
How do you improve your social experiences? How do you improve your communication? How do you win friends, influence people, and leave them better off for having met you? In this episode of Negotiations Ninja, Chris Hadnagy—a professional social engineer—shares the framework he created to do just that. If you’re striving to use your influence for the good of others, this is a can’t-miss episode. Outline of This Episode [1:53] From adversarial simulator to human hacker [4:42] The apprehensiveness...
In this throwback edition of the Negotiations Ninja podcast, we jump back to episode #132 with Paul Watts. Paul believes that planning in negotiation is an element that is often forgotten yet utterly important. He notes that 80% of success comes from extensive planning. In this episode, we talk about negotiation through the lens of a salesperson, weigh the cost of inaction, and he shares techniques to improve your negotiation skills. Check it out!
How does web conferencing technology alter our ability to read body language and facial expressions in negotiations? What are the advantages and disadvantages? What can we change to master negotiations via web conferencing? Dr. David Matsumoto shares what we can do—and avoid—in this episode of Negotiations Ninja. David is a Professor of Psychology at San Francisco State University, where he’s been for 31 years. He conducts research on emotion, facial expressions, nonverbal behavior, and culture....
Why is true curiosity so vital to a successful negotiation? How do you develop a curious and caring mind? How do you move beyond empathetic listening to helping your counterpart feel understood and valued? Dr. Mark Goulston joins me in this episode of Negotiations Ninja to share his valuable insight. This episode is jam-packed with actionable tips and strategies that you can employ today. Don’t miss it! Dr. Goulston is a former FBI and police hostage negotiation trainer. He’s also a psychiatrist...
How do you approach conflict-based situations? How does your core identity impact the negotiation? Daniel Shapiro believes that your relational identity comes into play in a negotiation. What does that mean? We have a deep conversation about identity, tribalism, and taboos in this episode of Negotiations Ninja . Daniel Shapiro currently runs the Harvard International Negotiation Program. He briefly got involved in a deal 30 years ago doing work in Eastern and Central Europe, helping them transit...
In this Throwback Thursday edition of the Negotiations Ninja podcast, we jump back to episode #135: Conflict Resolution in Negotiation. In this episode, we talk about Kwame Christian's newest book: Nobody Will Play With Me. Kwame dissects a psychological aspect of negotiation that is often overlooked, shares how to overcome fear to find confidence, and emphasizes how failure changes the game. If you missed it before, don't miss it now!
I Want to Be in Sales When I Grow Up! Is the title of the book John Barrows wrote to teach kids that sales is a legitimate profession—and one to be proud of. I read my boys this book, and they finally understand what I do. It forged a new connection that we’ve never had before. Not only does it serve an amazing educational purpose—but John’s book gives back. 100% of the profits go to the World Wildlife Fund to help them save animals. What other purpose does John hope this book serves? Will he be...
In this special Throwback Thursday episode of Negotiations Ninja, you’ll get a refresher on how to pitch anything. Oren Klaff—the Director of Capital Markets at Intersection Capital—digs deep into the concept of building power and leverage. If you want to be a more effective and efficient negotiator—operating at THE highest level—give it a listen!
Tim David started his career as a magician. He was traveling and doing up to 350 shows a year. But being a traveling magician and parenting a child wasn’t a great mix. So he sought a career change that could bring about some life balance. But he’d never had a real job—so how could he help people in their real jobs? He realized that the lessons that he’d learned from a life on stage could be transformed into an occupation. His lesson is simple: it’s all about human connection. It’s not about the ...
In this Throwback Thursday episode of the Negotiations Ninja podcast, we return to episode 131 with Banachek—a famed magician and mentalist. Banachek talks about keeping promises, building connection and trust, and what you can learn from TV Evangelists. Banachek thinks outside the box—listen to learn how you can too.
How do you develop the ability to close deals? According to Cody Lowry, it’s by developing good “schmooze” techniques. It isn’t about your creative strategy. It isn’t about how you can save someone millions of dollars. It all comes down to your ability to do THREE things. What are they? Find out in this episode of Negotiation Ninja ! Cody Lowry AKA “Mr. Schmooze” is a Tampa Bay native and the President of Intermark Automotive, based in Birmingham, AL. He recently released his book, “ Schmooze: W...
In this throwback edition of the Negotiations Ninja podcast, we jump back in time to episode #144 with Tim Kintz. We talk all things sales negotiation, including why car salesmen get a bad rap. We talk about negotiating from a place of inspiration—not desperation. Tim also shares how to avoid letting your emotions cloud the process, why you should lower your customer’s guard, and how to build-in removable objections. Don’t miss out on Tim’s genius negotiation tactics!
What are "garbage questions" and why are they so bad? How do you ask questions that deserve an answer? How do you keep your emotions in check when a negotiation escalates? Dan Oblinger answers all of these questions and so much more in this throwback of the Negotiations Ninja podcast. HINT: Curiosity is at the heart of good questions. Learn what it takes—listen now!
In this special throwback edition of Negotiations Ninja, we take a look back at episode #109 with David Meltzer. In this episode, we covered David's '"Guide to Negotiation", covering his secrets to successful negotiation. David touches on his abundance mindset, how to serve others and remove your ego from the equation, and the 5 things David seeks to fulfill in every negotiation. Don't miss this episode with an amazing business coach and entrepreneur!
How do you develop authentic listening skills? Why has listening become a lost art? What is the difference between hearing and truly listening? Dan Oblinger answers all of these questions and more in this Throwback Thursday episode of the Negotiations Ninja podcast. He shares a few of his active listening skills to master and how to build an organizational culture around listening. If you need to brush up on your listening skills, this is a can't-miss episode!
Sean is the Chief Visionary Officer + Co-Founder at UNBLINDED, a company focused on influence, process, and self-mastery. He is a successful attorney, speaker, entrepreneur, business coach, and the owner and President of Callagy Law. In this episode of Negotiations Ninja, he shares his four-step results formula to master the power of influence and communicating effectively—to take a “no” to a “yes” in an ethical, powerful way. Outline of This Episode [2:10] Sean Callagy’s background [4:01] Law s...
In this Thursday Throwback we jump to episode #108 with the amazing Dr. David Matsumoto. We talk about his astounding career and research. We take a deep-dive into micro-expressions and how to detect deception in someone's face. It's astounding that your face can give away everything someone needs to know . Dr. David Matsumoto shares how you can improve your observational skills and learn to read people's faces. He gives away so much in this informative episode. Do not miss it!
