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Negotiate Anything

Kwame Christian Esq., M.A.www.americannegotiationinstitute.com
Transform your relationships. Speak your truth. Get what you deserve—with Kwame Christian as your guide. With over 16 million downloads and more than 1,600 episodes, Negotiate Anything was the world’s leading negotiation podcast for nearly a decade, reaching listeners in more than 180 countries. But it’s about more than negotiation—it’s about confidence, connection, and creating outcomes that respect your values. About the Host: Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A. Kwame Christian the founder and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute. He's known for his viral TEDx Talk, “Finding Confidence in Conflict,” and is a bestselling author of two books: • How to Have Difficult Conversations About Race (2022) • Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life (2020) As a degrees in law, psychology, and public policy, Kwame brings a wealth of knowledge to every episode. He’s also a LinkedIn instructor with over 2.3 million learners, making complex negotiation concepts accessible to everyone. Why This Podcast? At the American Negotiation Institute, we believe that the best things in life are on the other side of difficult conversations. Our mission is to empower you to negotiate anything, anywhere. Whether you’re a seasoned negotiator or just starting, our podcast equips you with the tools and confidence to navigate any conversation. Tune in to Transform Your Life: Join millions of listeners who have already unlocked the power of negotiation. Subscribe now and start mastering the skills that will transform your professional and personal life. Watch our episodes on YouTube for more visual insights and tips. Connect with Us: • Website: American Negotiation Institute • Email: simon@negotiateanything.com • LinkedIn: Kwame Christian • YouTube: Negotiate Anything Produced by the American Negotiation Institute For ad inquiries, please reach out to: Network+NA@yapmedia.com
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Episodes

The Truth About Lies: A Masterclass on Deception in Negotiation

We think of deception as evil — but in negotiation, it’s often something else. It’s protection, survival, or strategy. In this masterclass on deception in negotiation , experts break down how lies actually work, why people distort the truth, and how to uncover what’s really being said beneath the surface. You’ll discover the psychology of manipulation, the signals of half-truths, and the emotional intelligence required to navigate gray zones without losing trust or power. This is not about spott...

Nov 05, 20251 hr 45 min

Fearless Negotiation: A Masterclass on Turning Anxiety into Power

Everyone feels fear before a negotiation — fear of rejection, failure, or not being good enough. In this 3-part masterclass, three powerful conversations reveal how to turn that fear into clarity, confidence, and control. You’ll learn how experts face internal resistance, imposter syndrome, and emotional pressure — and use those same fears to gain power at the table. Chapters include: Fear of being seen Fear of losing Fear of not being enough Watch till the end — your mindset about fear (and neg...

Nov 04, 20251 hr 41 min

The Right Way to Use AI in Negotiations (Most People Get It Wrong)

Most people use AI wrong — and that mistake is already costing them deals. In this episode, negotiation expert Keld Jensen reveals how to actually use artificial intelligence to gain an edge at the table — from preparation and simulation to emotional intelligence and trust-building. Discover how negotiators who embrace AI are not becoming less human, but more effective, faster, and more honest. Learn how AI can: Prepare you in seconds instead of hours Simulate your next negotiation before it hap...

Nov 03, 202550 min

Stop Waiting to Feel Ready: How Doug Bopst Proved Change Starts Small

People wait until they feel ready to change — but what if that moment never comes? In this powerful conversation, Doug Bopst shares how hitting rock bottom led him to rebuild his life, one small step at a time. From addiction and a prison sentence to becoming an award-winning trainer and author, Doug’s story is proof that transformation doesn’t start with confidence — it starts with action. Join Kwame Christian as they talk about discipline, self-worth, and the mindset that turns pain into purpo...

Oct 30, 202557 min

How to Heal, Lead, and Rise After Life Breaks You

When life shatters everything you thought was safe, what do you do next? In this powerful conversation, emotional recovery coach Louize Yafai shares how she rebuilt her life after losing everything — her marriage, her company, and her sense of self. From surviving financial and emotional abuse to helping others turn pain into strength, Louize reveals the mindset shifts and daily actions that transform suffering into resilience. You’ll learn: How to rebuild confidence when you’ve hit rock bottom ...

Oct 27, 20251 hr 13 min

The Hidden Cost of Leadership: Why Doing the Right Thing Still Hurts

Mahesh Guruswamy — Chief Product and Technology Officer at Kickstarter and author of How to Deliver Bad News and Get Away with It — sits down with Kwame Christian to reveal the emotional side of leadership no one talks about. Buy the Book: How to Deliver Bad News and Get Away with It: A Manager's Guide by Mahesh Guruswamy ⁠ From earning $40,000 in his first tech job to leading global teams, Mahesh learned that success isn’t about titles or wealth — it’s about courage, gratitude, and making the r...

Oct 23, 202549 min

Lisa Bilyeu: How to Silence Self-Doubt and Build Unstoppable Confidence

Lisa Bilyeu shares the raw truth behind her journey — from shipping protein bars out of her living room to leading one of the most influential wellness brands in the world. Together with Kwame Christian, she unpacks what it really means to face failure, reprogram your inner critic, and choose your mission over your ego. If you’ve ever struggled with fear, insecurity, or the pressure to be perfect, this episode will remind you that confidence isn’t something you’re born with — it’s something you ...

Oct 20, 20251 hr 8 min

The Hidden Cost of Being “Too Nice”

In this enlightening episode of the Negotiate Anything podcast, host Kwame Christian sits down with self-esteem and relationship expert Natalie Lue. Natalie shares her personal journey of transformation from a chronic people pleaser to a boundary-setting advocate. This conversation dives deep into the intricacies of people pleasing, highlighting how it serves as a barrier to authentic relationships and self-worth. Listeners will gain valuable insights into identifying their own people-pleasing b...

Oct 16, 202547 min

The Unexpected Power of Admitting a Mistake - Reverse Interview by Lauren Sabo

In this engaging episode, Lauren Sabo takes the reins to explore negotiation strategies with challenging clients. The conversation delves into the intricacies of managing client expectations, recognizing the characteristics of difficult interactions, and setting effective boundaries in professional relationships. Drawing from both their experiences and professional backgrounds, Christian and Sabo provide listeners with practical insights that transcend the legal industry, applicable to anyone na...

Oct 13, 202556 min

They Said Vulnerability Was Weakness… But We Discovered Freedom Anyway

They told us that vulnerability was a flaw — a sign of weakness. But what if the truth is the opposite? In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Kwame Christian , bestselling author and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute, sits down with Jamie Librot , former Global Head of Executive Talent Management at JPMorgan and author of Find Your Gobi . Together, they flip the script on what real strength looks like — exploring why our greatest growth begins the moment we stop pretending to h...

Oct 09, 20251 hr 4 min

Morgan Housel: Why More Money Won’t Make You Happy

Money, happiness, and the elusive idea of “enough.” In this conversation, best-selling author Morgan Housel (The Psychology of Money, The Art of Spending Money) shares raw insights on why chasing more rarely leads to fulfillment—and how to rethink the way we use money as a tool for freedom and meaning. ⁠ Buy the book The Art of Spending Money . ⁠ Hosted by Kwame Christian , this interview dives deep into: Why more money won’t automatically make you happier The hidden cost of comparison and envy ...

Oct 06, 202556 min

How Subtle Biases Completely Change Your Choices

Every day, you make choices that feel completely your own — but what if they aren’t? In this episode, bestselling author Richard Shotton ( The Choice Factory, The Illusion of Choice ) reveals how small, almost invisible biases shape the way we think, buy, and negotiate. From the words we use to the way we frame decisions, Richard explains how psychology quietly steers our behavior — and how you can use this knowledge to persuade, influence, and connect more effectively. Whether you’re a negotiat...

Oct 02, 202559 min

Why Fear, Not Skill, Is Your Biggest Negotiation Problem - Kathryn Valentine

Fear, not skill, is what’s costing you opportunities at the negotiation table. In this powerful conversation, negotiation experts Kwame Christian and Kathryn Valentine expose the hidden reason most people fail to ask for what they deserve. It’s not a lack of strategies — it’s the fear of rejection, backlash, or simply starting the conversation. You’ll learn: The one simple question that can unlock raises, promotions, and perks instantly. How to turn a “no” into opportunity without burning bridge...

Sep 29, 202555 min

How Leading with Respect Becomes the Ultimate Power Move

Respect isn’t soft — it’s the sharpest power move in any negotiation. Buy The Book: Leading with Respect: Adventures of an Off-Price Fashion Pioneer: https://www.amazon.com/Leading-Respect-Boardroom-Marcy-Syms/dp/0806544813 Most people think negotiation is about leverage, contracts, and numbers. But Marcy Syms — former CEO of Syms clothing stores and author of Leading with Respect — knows the real power comes from something far deeper: respect. In this conversation, Marcy shares how being undere...

Sep 25, 202559 min

Gaslighting at Work: How to Spot Manipulation and Reclaim Your Power

Gaslighting isn’t just a relationship issue—it happens at work too. In this powerful conversation, psychotherapist and author Farah Harris opens up about her own painful experience with a toxic hire who weaponized her teachings, blurred boundaries, and tried to undermine her confidence as a leader. Buy The Book: The Color of Emotional Intelligence by Farah Harris Fara's website: www.workingwelldaily.com Together with Kwame Christian , Farah unpacks: The subtle red flags of manipulation and gasli...

Sep 22, 20251 hr 20 min

The Neuroscience of Stress: Train Your Brain for Success - with Rebecca Heiss

Everything you've been told about reducing stress is wrong—and it might be making things worse. In this episode, neuroscientist Rebecca Heiss reveals groundbreaking insights about why trying to eliminate stress at work often backfires. You'll learn the science-backed strategy to turn stress into your greatest professional advantage, how your beliefs about stress directly impact your health and performance, and practical tools you can start using immediately to transform workplace anxiety into la...

Sep 18, 202545 min

1 Hour Straight of Negotiation Gold with Kwame Christian and Codie Sanchez on The Big Deal Podcast

I was recently a guest on Codie’s show, The Big Deal Podcast , and the episode turned out great. Codie generously let us repost that episode here, so all of you get to hear our conversation about negotiation, deal-making, leadership, entrepreneurship — and yes, relationships too. I know you’re going to love it. Without further ado, here’s my guest appearance with Codie Sanchez on The Big Deal Podcast. If you’re ready to start owning businesses, escaping the rat race, and building your future, al...

Sep 15, 20251 hr 5 min

#1 Negotiation Guru Reveals the Secrets of Negotiation & Influence - with Giuseppe Conti

Most people fail in negotiations because they don’t prepare, confuse influence with persuasion, or push when they should pull—Giuseppe Conti, the world’s #1 Negotiation Guru, shows you how to avoid these mistakes. Buy the book Negotiation + Influence = Success: Quick Lessons to Help You Win in Corporate Life Connect with Giuseppe Giuseppe's Website ⁠Buy the book Negotiation + Influence = Success: Quick Lessons to Help You Win in Corporate Life⁠ Link to the book: https://www.amazon.com/Negotiatio...

Sep 11, 20251 hr 4 min

Why People-Pleasing Makes You Lose Yourself (And How to Get Back)

Why do we keep ending up in toxic relationships — even when we know better? ⁠ Buy the book Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back ⁠ In this powerful conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with psychologist and trauma therapist Dr. Ingrid Clayton to explore the hidden reason behind this pattern: the fawning trauma response. Ingrid shares how complex trauma rewires the nervous system, why simply “setting boundaries” often doesn’t work, and how shame ...

Sep 08, 20251 hr 10 min

The Future of Work Is Neurodivergent – Are You Ready?

The future of work is here — and it’s neurodivergent. In this powerful conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with disability lawyer and neurodiversity advocate Laura G. Anthony to explore why embracing neurodiversity is no longer optional — it’s a competitive advantage. You’ll discover: Why assumption is the risk when it comes to managing people How neurodiversity shapes communication, conflict resolution, and innovation The real reason some body language cues can be misleading — and how to av...

Sep 04, 202544 min

FBI Agent Reveals the Body Language of Power vs. Fear

What if your body is sabotaging your negotiation — and you don’t even know it? In this episode, legendary FBI agent and behavioral expert Joe Navarro reveals the subtle cues that expose confidence, weakness, and intent — long before words are spoken. With 25 years in the FBI, Joe shares stories from counterintelligence missions, elite spy-catching operations, and high-stakes negotiations where every movement mattered. You’ll learn: – The nonverbal mistake that ruins deals before they start – How...

Sep 02, 202556 min

Group Negotiation Secrets: How to Lead Without Losing Control

In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Colin M. Fisher , author of The Collective Edge: Unlocking the Secret Power of Groups , to explore the hidden psychology of group dynamics. From the dinner table to the boardroom, every group is a negotiation — balancing individual goals with collective success. You’ll learn: Why adding more brains to a meeting often creates more problems . The “Goldilocks rule” for group size (and why 4–5 people may be perfect). How psychological safety transforms...

Aug 28, 20251 hr 5 min

Energy Beats Strategy — Fortune 500 CEO REVEALS Burnout Myths

Energy beats strategy — and former Siemens & Alcoa CEO Klaus Kleinfeld reveals the playbook to end burnout, regain focus, and execute at the highest level. In this conversation, Klaus Kleinfeld breaks down why energy management —not tactics—separates elite leaders from exhausted teams. You’ll hear how to turn purpose into a “laser,” control emotions under pressure, win buy‑in without formal authority, and build routines that actually stick when life is chaotic. Connect with Klaus Kleinfeld: ...

Aug 25, 202559 min

The Skill AI Can’t Replace — Reading the Room (Bonnie Hammer)

AI can write, edit, even cast—but it still can’t do what made TV legend Bonnie Hammer unstoppable: read the room . In this candid conversation with Kwame Christian, Bonnie unpacks the human meta‑skill behind great leadership and negotiation—reading people and context in real time—and how it powered her “Blue Skies” era at USA & SYFY ( Monk, Psych, Burn Notice ). She shares why “fake it till you make it” fails (and what to do instead), how to hire for humility and team-first culture, why pres...

Aug 21, 20251 hr 1 min

This #1 Marketing Expert PROVES You’re Branding All Wrong!

Most people are doing branding completely backwards — and it’s killing their results. In this powerful conversation, global CEO and marketing thought leader Giuseppe Stigliano reveals why everything you thought you knew about branding is wrong, and what to do instead. You’ll discover: Why “pushing” your brand no longer works in today’s saturated market The shift from making people want things to making things people want How to apply marketing principles to your career, relationships, and person...

Aug 18, 202544 min

Stop Playing Nice: Make an Enemy, Build a Brand

Be nice, be invisible—brand leaders pick a strategic enemy and own the category. ⁠ Buy the book The Strategic Enemy - How To Build & Position a Brand Worth Fighting For. By Laura Ries⁠ In this episode, branding strategist Laura Ries (daughter of positioning pioneer Al Ries ) breaks down why playing it safe kills momentum, how to define a category you can own , and how the psychology of contrast turns brands into movements. We dig into visual hammers, multi-brand vs. line extensions, and the ...

Aug 14, 202554 min

End the People-Pleasing Cycle: 3 Tips That Actually Work

Are you tired of saying “yes” when you really want to say “no”? In this episode of Negotiate Anything , host Kwame Christian sits down with life coach and hypnotherapist Amy Green Smith to unpack the hidden costs of people-pleasing—and how to finally break free. Together, they explore the surprising ways emotional intelligence, self-advocacy, and societal expectations shape your ability to negotiate—whether in the office, at home, or in everyday life. Amy reveals the evolutionary roots of people...

Aug 10, 202539 min

Why Reducing Stress Never Works — Do This Instead (Backed by Neuroscience)

Everything you've been told about reducing stress is wrong—and it might be making things worse. In this episode, neuroscientist Rebecca Heiss reveals groundbreaking insights about why trying to eliminate stress at work often backfires. You'll learn the science-backed strategy to turn stress into your greatest professional advantage, how your beliefs about stress directly impact your health and performance, and practical tools you can start using immediately to transform workplace anxiety into la...

Aug 07, 202543 min

How Shoveling $h!t Built a $745 Million Startup (And What It Really Cost)

What does it really take to build a $745 million startup from the ground up? Hint: It’s messy, painful, and nothing like the glamorous success stories you’ve heard. In this raw, unfiltered conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with Cas and Mike Lazerow—the entrepreneurial power couple behind the massive success of Golf.com, which they sold to Time Warner for $745 million. But behind the impressive exit lies a story of relentless struggle, countless pivots, and emotional battles most founders n...

Aug 04, 20251 hr 9 min

1 Hour Straight of SOLID Negotiation Advice from the #1 Negotiation Trainer

Most people will never learn what you're about to hear... In this one-hour masterclass, Kwame Christian sits down with Mike Inman — the #1 negotiation trainer who has coached over 8,000 B2B negotiations and closed more than $1 billion in deals. Mike shares raw, practical, and battle-tested advice you can use immediately to transform the way you negotiate. No fluff. No theory. Just one straight hour of negotiation strategies that actually work. If you’ve ever wondered how world-class negotiators ...

Jul 31, 20251 hr 10 min
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