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Negotiate Anything

Kwame Christian Esq., M.A.www.americannegotiationinstitute.com
Transform your relationships. Speak your truth. Get what you deserve—with Kwame Christian as your guide. With over 16 million downloads and more than 1,600 episodes, Negotiate Anything was the world’s leading negotiation podcast for nearly a decade, reaching listeners in more than 180 countries. But it’s about more than negotiation—it’s about confidence, connection, and creating outcomes that respect your values. About the Host: Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A. Kwame Christian the founder and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute. He's known for his viral TEDx Talk, “Finding Confidence in Conflict,” and is a bestselling author of two books: • How to Have Difficult Conversations About Race (2022) • Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life (2020) As a degrees in law, psychology, and public policy, Kwame brings a wealth of knowledge to every episode. He’s also a LinkedIn instructor with over 2.3 million learners, making complex negotiation concepts accessible to everyone. Why This Podcast? At the American Negotiation Institute, we believe that the best things in life are on the other side of difficult conversations. Our mission is to empower you to negotiate anything, anywhere. Whether you’re a seasoned negotiator or just starting, our podcast equips you with the tools and confidence to navigate any conversation. Tune in to Transform Your Life: Join millions of listeners who have already unlocked the power of negotiation. Subscribe now and start mastering the skills that will transform your professional and personal life. Watch our episodes on YouTube for more visual insights and tips. Connect with Us: • Website: American Negotiation Institute • Email: simon@negotiateanything.com • LinkedIn: Kwame Christian • YouTube: Negotiate Anything Produced by the American Negotiation Institute For ad inquiries, please reach out to: Network+NA@yapmedia.com
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Episodes

The Real Reason You Feel Unhappy at Work — and Why Quitting Won’t Fix It

If you feel stuck, changing jobs might not be the answer. In this powerful conversation with bestselling author and workplace strategist Elizabeth Lotardo, we uncover the real reason so many professionals feel unfulfilled at work… and what to do about it. Buy The Book: Leading Yourself: Find More Joy, Meaning, and Opportunities in the Job You Already Have (Despite Imperfect Bosses, Weird Economies, Lethargic Coworkers, Annoying Systems, and Too Many Deliverables You’ll learn: The mindset shift t...

Jul 28, 202550 min

Futurist Explains How to Lead When the Future’s Unwritten (And the System Fights Back)

The future you're building is scaring the people around you — and that's exactly why you feel stuck You're not stuck because you lack vision — you're stuck because the system fears the future you're trying to build. In this powerful conversation, futurist and strategist Hussein Hallak joins Kwame Christian to unpack what it really takes to lead when the future is uncertain, the past is pulling you back, and the system resists every step you take. We dive deep into: Why most people live according...

Jul 24, 202559 min

This New Confidence Hack Changes Everything | Fortune 100 Coach Jay Moon Fields

Your nervous system holds the key to real confidence. You know the moment—your chest tightens, your mind blanks, and you freeze… right when it matters most. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Jay Fields , somatic coach to Fortune 100 leaders and author of Teaching People Not Poses , to unpack the real reason we lose confidence under pressure—and how to stop it. Discover Jay’s powerful “Hey, Wait” method to interrupt emotional hijacks, stay grounded in tense conversations, and actual...

Jul 21, 202557 min

Don’t Wait to Be Noticed—Get Remembered. Advice from a Top Relationship Strategist.

You’ve done the work. You’ve checked every box. But somehow, promotions pass you by, your ideas go unheard, and less qualified people keep rising faster. Why? Because in today’s world, connection beats competence. In this episode, you’ll learn why being excellent isn’t enough—and how to start building the kind of strategic relationships that actually move careers forward. Our guest is a top relationship strategist who has coached leaders around the world on how to turn their network into a true ...

Jul 17, 202546 min

The Shocking Truth About Homelessness: It’s Not What You Think

What if everything you believe about homelessness is wrong? In this eye-opening episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Beth Silverman, co-founder of the Lotus Campaign, to reveal the hidden economic drivers behind America’s housing crisis — and why traditional charity models often do more harm than good. Discover how Beth has housed nearly 700 people for an average of $1,200 each by building radical partnerships with landlords, nonprofits, and governments. Learn how to overcome resistance, alig...

Jul 14, 202551 min

Inside the Mind of a Narcissist — and How to Outsmart Them

Narcissists don’t negotiate—they manipulate. In this episode, negotiation expert Kwame Christian interviews attorney and bestselling author Rebecca Zung to break down how narcissists think—and how to outsmart them in any negotiation. You’ll learn how to recognize narcissistic behavior, set strong boundaries, and protect yourself from manipulation. Rebecca shares her powerful S.L.A.Y. Method, designed to help you negotiate with high-conflict, toxic personalities at work, in relationships, and bey...

Jul 10, 202552 min

The FBI Method for Spotting Lies and Hidden Agendas

What if you could detect a lie without asking a single question? In this episode, we sit down with John R. "Jack" Schafer , a former FBI behavioral analyst and author of The Like Switch , to uncover the elite tools used by the FBI to detect deception—tools you can use in your everyday life. From the subtle power of elicitation to the science behind the word “well,” Dr. Schafer reveals how small signals can expose big lies. You’ll learn how to read nonverbal cues, handle omissions, and disarm dec...

Jul 07, 202556 min

Elite Negotiators Read Your Body Before You Speak — Here’s How

Think you’re in control of what you’re saying? Think again. Before you utter a single word, elite negotiators are already reading you — through your posture, your gestures, your tone, your tension. In this episode, Kwame sits down with The Master Negotiator Greg Williams, one of the world’s top experts in body language, to reveal the invisible signals that shape the outcome of every negotiation. You’ll learn how to spot the hidden meaning behind someone’s words, how to time your own message for ...

Jul 04, 202531 min

Why Deep Listening Is the Most Persuasive Thing You Can Do

What if the key to changing someone’s mind isn’t speaking louder—but listening deeper? Buy the Book: ⁠ Deep Listening: Transform Your Relationships with Family, Friends and Foes - by Emily Kasriel ⁠ In this episode, Kwame sits down with award-winning BBC journalist and executive coach Emily Kasriel, whose revolutionary eight-step framework for deep listening has trained over 1,000 leaders in 119 countries—from IBM executives to British army officers. Together, they dive into the uncomfortable tr...

Jul 03, 20251 hr 3 min

Vulnerability Can Destroy You… or Make You a Great Leader

Is vulnerability at work a strength… or a trap? In this eye-opening conversation, best-selling author and leadership expert Jacob Morgan challenges the modern myth of vulnerability in the workplace. Together with Kwame Christian, they unpack the difference between being vulnerable and leading with vulnerability—showing how one can build trust and the other can quietly ruin your credibility. Jacob shares the hard truths he uncovered after interviewing 100 CEOs and surveying over 14,000 employees,...

Jul 02, 202532 min

What It Actually Takes to Be the Leader People Remember

Most leaders focus on results. The best ones focus on people. In this powerful conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with legendary leadership expert Mark Miller — a man who spent over four decades building Chick-fil-A from the inside out — to uncover the truth about what actually makes someone worth following . Forget titles, tactics, and charisma. This episode dives into the five fundamentals of uncommon leadership — including the one thing most leaders ignore: the heart. You’ll learn: Why t...

Jul 01, 202534 min

How to Build Trust—Even with People Who Don’t Trust Anyone

What is trust, really? In this special LinkedIn Live edition of Negotiate Anything , Kwame Christian breaks down the psychology behind trust—and why it’s so easy to lose but so hard to rebuild. Drawing on research, real-life examples, and audience questions, Kwame explores how trust is more than a strategy—it’s a feeling, a positive bias, and a fragile emotional bank account. You’ll learn: Why respect, empathy, and safety are the foundations of trust What it means to make “deposits” into a relat...

Jun 30, 202538 min

What People Expect—But Never Tell You

Most conversations fail before they even begin—because nobody sets the rules. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Lewis VanLandingham from Sandler Training to uncover the hidden dynamics behind unmet expectations. Whether you're in sales, leadership, or just trying to have better conversations in life, this episode reveals why clarity up front changes everything. You’ll learn how to set clear agreements before the meeting even starts, how to create trust by giving people permission t...

Jun 29, 202542 min

Being Right Isn’t Enough. Learn Why They Ignore You

You’ve been there—armed with facts, logic, and the truth. And still, they shut down. They argue. They walk away. Why? In this episode, Kwame Christian speaks with Carlos Alvarenga, a persuasion expert who spent years decoding what Aristotle really meant when he said we’re persuaded by character, logic, and emotion. But this isn’t just theory. Carlos unveils a revolutionary way of understanding persuasion—as a kind of chemistry—with 21 elements you can actually use. You’ll learn why most people r...

Jun 28, 202534 min

Stop Building a Business—Start Building a Movement

Brian Gottlieb and Kwame Christian delve into the seamless integration of business strategy with community impact through innovative initiatives like "Windows for a Cause" and "Baths for the Brave." They explore how aligning a company's mission with genuine employee engagement fosters intrinsic motivation, resulting in improved productivity and job satisfaction. Brian discusses the pivotal role of authentic business culture in negotiating successful exits and business growth, emphasizing the imp...

Jun 27, 202533 min

The One Skill That Separates Good Salespeople from Great Negotiators

Most salespeople know how to pitch. Fewer know how to handle the moment everything shifts. In this episode, sales expert Lance Tyson joins Kwame Christian to reveal the exact skill that transforms average closers into elite negotiators. You'll learn: – How to recognize the hidden moment when a sale becomes a negotiation – Why objections aren't problems—they're opportunities – The deadly mistake most salespeople make when pressure shows up – And how to build guardrails that protect your profit wi...

Jun 26, 202530 min

Stop Networking. Start Building Real Relationships

You've been told to "network" to get ahead. But what if that’s actually holding you back? In this episode, Andy Lopata joins Kwame to challenge everything we think we know about networking. Discover why most professionals waste time with tactics instead of strategy—and how real business success is built on intentional, strategic relationships that nobody taught you to build. Connect with Andy andylopata.com Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Jun 25, 20251 hr 2 min

Think Being Honest Builds Trust? Not Always — Learn What Actually Works

What does it take to genuinely connect across cultures, identities, and worldviews? In this episode, we sit down with my friend Melisande Kingchatchaval Schifter to unpack the mindset and skillset behind powerful human connection. Having lived on multiple continents, worked across sectors, and spoken several languages, Melly brings a rare global lens to the art—and strategy—of bridging difference. We explore the essential skills behind meaningful connection—trust, curiosity, and communication—an...

Jun 24, 202539 min

What Kids Really Teach Us About Negotiation

Join me for an insightful LinkedIn Live session where we delve into the art of negotiating with kids and teens. Ever wondered how negotiation principles apply to children? Is it even feasible to negotiate with a teenager? We’ll be addressing all these questions and more. Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ negotiateanything.com ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Jun 23, 202539 min

The Salary Negotiation Skills No One Ever Taught You (But Should Have)

Your paycheck isn’t just a number — it’s a reflection of what you believe you deserve. But most of us were never taught how to ask for more. In this raw and practical episode, LinkedIn journalist and Gen Z voice Gianna Prudente joins Kwame Christian to expose the emotional barriers that keep people — especially young professionals — from negotiating their worth. You’ll learn how to reframe the conversation, build your career story, and walk into negotiations with confidence, even if you’re scare...

Jun 22, 202529 min

You Can’t Change Them—But You Can Outsmart Them: How to Deal With Stubborn People in Negotiation

They won’t listen. They won’t budge. And every argument feels like running into a wall. Sound familiar? In this episode, Kwame Christian breaks down exactly how to deal with stubborn people in negotiation—without losing your cool or wasting your time. You’ll learn why trying to “change” them never works, how your own ego might be making things worse, and the smarter strategies that actually move the conversation forward. Whether you're facing a tough client, a rigid boss, or just someone who ref...

Jun 21, 202527 min

They Won’t Take You Seriously Until You Do This — Jamé Jackson on Presence, Style, and Radical Self-Belief

What if the real reason people overlook you has nothing to do with your skills—and everything to do with how you show up? In this powerful episode, Kwame sits down with Jamé Jackson—storyteller, actor, fashion journalist, and LinkedIn’s resident voice for creatives—to uncover the brutal truth about presence, authenticity, and why faking confidence never works. Jamé shares how she went from feeling invisible to building a brand that speaks volumes before she says a word. From ancient Greek to fas...

Jun 20, 202543 min

Stop Relying on Scripts. Start Using This Strategy

Most negotiation failures start before the conversation even begins In this episode, Kwame sits down with Seth Freeman — NYU and Columbia professor, corporate lawyer, and author of 15 Tools to Turn the Tide — to reveal the single most practical negotiation tool you’ve probably never heard of: the TTT Grid. Together, they break down: Why elite negotiators rely on checklists (and why you should too) How MasterCard’s top dealmakers use this 4-column framework The “Golden Minute” technique that inst...

Jun 19, 202540 min

Don’t Just Talk—Influence: Bill McGowan on Why Your Words Don’t Stick

You’re not being ignored because your ideas are bad — you’re being ignored because your delivery is forgettable. Buy the book: Speak, Memorably: The Art of Captivating an Audience by Bill McGowan In this episode, Emmy-winning journalist and communication coach Bill McGowan joins Kwame Christian to expose the hidden mistakes even smart professionals make when they speak. From meetings to pitches, presentations to interviews, you’re probably missing key moments to influence — and you don’t even re...

Jun 18, 202549 min

Mediocrity Is the Only Sin — Lessons from a Founder Who Said No to Google and Built Millions

That’s the rule Sharmin Ali lives by — even when it almost killed her. Buy now the book ⁠ Bitch, Stop! Please . . . : An Entrepreneur's Journey of Innovation, from Chaos to Clarity ⁠ by Sharmin Ali In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Sharmin reveals what it takes to walk away from Google, build two multi-million dollar companies across continents, and face the brutal cost of ambition. We go deep into the art of negotiating exits, building trust from scratch, and why most people fail — not b...

Jun 17, 202546 min

Harvard’s Sheila Heen Reveals Why We’re All Negotiating the Wrong Way

Blame is easy. But real power? That comes when you take responsibility for your part — and invite others to do the same. In this masterclass with Sheila Heen, we dismantle the blame game and show you the negotiation move that changes everything. Connect with Sheila Heen: ⁠Follow Sheila on LinkedIn⁠ Buy the Book: ⁠Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most ⁠ ⁠triadconsultinggroup.com ⁠ ⁠Help Yourself Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Jun 16, 202542 min

The Real Reason No One Follows Your Vision

If no one’s following you, it’s not your message — it’s your mindset. In this raw and revealing episode, change strategist Pam Marmon exposes the hidden forces that sabotage even the smartest visions: fear, control, passive resistance, and the lie we keep telling ourselves — that change is just “hard.” You’ll learn: Why employees resist you , not just the change The subtle ways leaders micromanage without realizing it How your need to “get it done” is killing your influence The three forms of re...

Jun 15, 202534 min

Empathy Isn’t Weak — It’s Your Most Dangerous Advantage

If you think empathy makes you soft, you’ve already lost the negotiation. In this masterclass, psychiatrist and bestselling author Dr. Judith Orloff dismantles the myth that empathy is a weakness — and reveals how it can become your sharpest strategic edge in business, leadership, and life. You’ll learn: Why emotionally detached “logic” leaders burn out — and how to fix it How to disarm aggression and navigate conflict with strength and clarity The difference between performing empathy and actua...

Jun 14, 202537 min

They’re Not Difficult — You’re Just Not Reading Them Right (Yet)

You don’t have a “difficult people” problem — you have a perception problem. Most of the tension you feel with others doesn’t come from who they are — it comes from how you’re reading them. In this masterclass episode, Kwame Christian breaks down the psychological patterns that make certain personalities seem “impossible” — and shows you how to turn frustration into collaboration using practical, repeatable strategies. You’ll learn: The 5 personality traits you must understand to lead and persua...

Jun 13, 20251 hr 6 min

You’re Not Bad at Negotiating — You’re Just Missing the Moment

Most people think they’re bad at negotiating. The truth? They’re just not noticing when the negotiation begins. In this episode, professor and global negotiation expert Suzanne de Janasz joins Kwame to reveal why missed moments — not missing skills — are what keep most people stuck. Whether it’s asking your partner for help, challenging unfair dynamics at work, or speaking up about the “small things” before they blow up, negotiation is happening everywhere… even if you don’t see it. You’ll learn...

Jun 12, 202537 min
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