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Negotiate Anything

Kwame Christian Esq., M.A.www.americannegotiationinstitute.com
Transform your relationships. Speak your truth. Get what you deserve—with Kwame Christian as your guide. This is the #1 negotiation podcast in the world with over 15 million downloads, but it’s about so much more than that. This isn’t about manipulation or domination—it’s about showing up more powerfully, leading with authenticity, and speaking your truth with more clarity. Whether you’re leading a team, parenting through stress, or learning to speak up without fear, the skills you’ll build here will transform how you show up in every area of your life.  Kwame doesn’t just teach strategy—he teaches transformation, helping you become the kind of person who moves through life with more clarity, courage, and compassion. Every episode is rooted in empathy, psychology, and Kwame’s signature warmth, blending real-world stories, expert guests, and practical frameworks so you can break through the fears that have been holding you back.  Join millions of listeners who’ve discovered that the best things in life really are on the other side of difficult conversations.  Ready to level up at work and at home? About the Host: Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A. Kwame Christian the founder and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute. He's known for his viral TEDx Talk, “Finding Confidence in Conflict,” and is a bestselling author of two books: • How to Have Difficult Conversations About Race (2022) • Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life (2020) As a degrees in law, psychology, and public policy, Kwame brings a wealth of knowledge to every episode. He’s also a LinkedIn instructor with over 2.3 million learners, making complex negotiation concepts accessible to everyone. Why This Podcast? At the American Negotiation Institute, we believe that the best things in life are on the other side of difficult conversations. Our mission is to empower you to negotiate anything, anywhere. Whether you’re a seasoned negotiator or just starting, our podcast equips you with the tools and confidence to navigate any conversation. Tune in to Transform Your Life: Join millions of listeners who have already unlocked the power of negotiation. Subscribe now and start mastering the skills that will transform your professional and personal life. Watch our episodes on YouTube for more visual insights and tips. Connect with Us: • Website: American Negotiation Institute • Email: [email protected] • LinkedIn: Kwame Christian • YouTube: Negotiate Anything Produced by the American Negotiation Institute

Episodes

Every Bad Client Starts with One Missed Red Flag — #1 Sales Strategist Explains

The worst deals don’t break you later — they fool you early. In this episode, sales strategist Kim Orlesky reveals why bad-fit clients slip through your filter, how to recognize red flags before it's too late, and what it really means to sell from a place of power. From walking away from misaligned deals to reframing budget conversations and asserting value without pressure, this conversation is a blueprint for anyone who negotiates, sells, or wants to stop saying yes out of desperation. You’ll ...

May 26, 202533 min

You’re Leading Like a Doer — And It’s Holding Everyone Back

Why Doing Everything Right Still Leaves You Stuck? How to Finally Level Up? This episode is a masterclass in leadership evolution — raw, real, and exactly what high achievers need to hear when the next level feels just out of reach. Jade Davis, VP at the Port of Cleveland and advisor to the largest Black woman-owned public affairs firm in Ohio, joins Kwame to reveal the invisible shift that transforms good performers into true leaders. In this powerful conversation, Jade unpacks what it really m...

May 25, 202541 min

How Real Relationships (Not Networking) Lead to Success

What if your next life-changing opportunity came from a single conversation with a stranger? In this electrifying episode, Dr. Ruth Gotian returns to share the real secrets behind connecting with anyone—from Nobel Prize winners to NBA champions. Whether you're an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between, Ruth breaks down her proven approach to building authentic relationships that open doors, spark collaboration, and create lasting impact—no awkward small talk required. Kwame and Ruth dive ...

May 24, 202533 min

Your Weakness Might Be Your Greatest Persuasion Tool

What if the key to persuading someone wasn’t hiding your flaws—but revealing them? In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with behavioral science expert and bestselling author Richard Shotton (The Illusion of Choice) to uncover the hidden psychological levers behind trust, influence, and decision-making. From the Stolen Thunder effect to the surprising power of using precise numbers, you’ll learn how small shifts in language and strategy can drastically increase your credibility and impact a...

May 23, 202531 min

You Have No Idea What Authenticity Means — Until You Learn This

You think you’re being authentic. You’re not. In this powerful conversation, media expert, keynote speaker, and author Jeanne Sparrow breaks down the real meaning of authenticity — and it’s not what you think. Most people confuse authenticity with oversharing. Others stay silent, mistaking fear for integrity. Jeanne explains why true authenticity isn’t about saying everything — it’s about knowing who you are, what you bring to the table, and how to use that power with intention. You’ll learn: Wh...

May 22, 202556 min

What It Really Takes to Sell Homes in Beverly Hills

In a market where confidence is cheap and trust is everything — Nikko Santo Pietro delivers the real game. Selling real estate in Beverly Hills during the worst market in decades? That’s exactly what Nikko Santo Pietro is doing — and thriving. In this episode, Nikko breaks down how he closes multimillion-dollar deals by combining bold marketing, sharp pricing strategies, and next-level negotiation skills. You’ll learn how to win clients’ trust (even when they overvalue their homes), why wearing ...

May 21, 202532 min

The Secret to Winning People Over — Without Manipulation

Authenticity wins — but only if you know how to share your story. In this episode, Shaquille Alexander reveals the power of authentic storytelling in leadership, sharing how his journey from adversity to public service became his greatest asset. As a first-time candidate running for City Treasurer in Whitehall, Ohio, Shaq opens up about his upbringing, his commitment to the community that raised him, and how he transformed personal struggles into a narrative that connects with voters. But this c...

May 20, 202529 min

Stop Being Afraid to Ask: How to Finally Get the Raise You Deserve

Stop being afraid to ask — because staying silent is costing you. In this episode, Crystal Ware shares her powerful insights on why so many people, especially women, struggle to ask for what they deserve. Whether it’s negotiating your salary, setting boundaries, or simply speaking up, Crystal reveals how to overcome the fear of asking and finally own your worth. You’ll discover practical strategies to define your value, communicate it with confidence, and never leave money on the table again. If...

May 19, 202533 min

Secret Persuasion Tactics from CIA and FBI: Sell Like a Spy with Jeremy Hurewitz

Master the secret tactics spies use to win trust and uncover the truth. In this gripping episode, Jeremy Hurewitz, corporate intelligence expert and author of "Sell Like a Spy," reveals the secret persuasion tactics used by the CIA, FBI, and elite intelligence officers. Hurewitz draws on his years of experience working alongside former CIA case officers, FBI negotiators, and counterintelligence experts to share powerful strategies for winning trust, gathering intelligence, and persuading anyone ...

May 18, 202536 min

The Dangerous Lie About Win-Win Deals — Patrick Tinney Exposes the Truth

Stop chasing tactics — strategy is what wins big deals. In this episode, Patrick Tinney reveals the truth behind successful negotiations: it’s not about clever tricks or aggressive tactics — it’s about strategy. From navigating high-stakes deals to mastering leverage and risk management, Patrick shares the secrets that have helped him close hundreds of millions of dollars in deals. You’ll learn why most people fail in negotiations, how to avoid the “split the difference” trap, and how to build t...

May 17, 202534 min

Harvard’s William Ury: The Hidden Power of Going to the Balcony

In high-stakes conflict, the greatest power is knowing when to pause. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with William Ury, Harvard negotiation master, co-founder of the Harvard Program on Negotiation, and co-author of the global bestseller "Getting to Yes." But beyond the books and accolades, Ury reveals his most profound secret — "Going to the Balcony." William Ury shares the gripping story of how this simple yet transformative technique helped him navigate high-stakes conflicts, includ...

May 16, 20251 hr 11 min

Why Most People Fail to Achieve Their Goals — Raymont Harris on the Mindset That Changes Everything

Most people spend their lives chasing success — but they never realize they’re running in the wrong direction. In this episode, former NFL running back Raymont Harris reveals the shocking truth about mindset that transformed his life — from growing up in poverty and losing his mother at birth to achieving his dreams in professional sports and beyond. Raymont shares the secrets behind his elite mindset, why talent alone is never enough, and how the right beliefs can change everything. Whether you...

May 15, 202525 min

The Danger of Not Taking Risks

Why Most People Lose Big Without Noticing In this episode, Jeremy Delk reveals how his journey from a small town in Kentucky to Wall Street was shaped by the toughest negotiations of all — the ones with himself. Jeremy’s raw stories of losing millions, battling self-doubt, and building a multimillion-dollar venture capital firm expose the brutal truth most people miss: Success isn’t just about strategy — it’s about facing your own fears, mastering your mindset, and daring to take bold risks. Lis...

May 14, 202536 min

Why Smart Goals Are Setting You Up for Mediocrity – Caroline Miller Reveals How to Achieve the Impossible

Most people are failing at their goals because they’ve been taught the wrong way to set them. ⁠Buy Now: Big Goals: The Science of Setting Them, Achieving Them, and Creating Your Best Life by Caroline Miller⁠ In this transformative episode, Caroline Miller, a leading expert in goal setting and positive psychology, exposes the fatal flaws of the widely accepted SMART goals approach. Caroline reveals the difference between learning goals and performance goals, explains why most people are stuck wit...

May 13, 202558 min

The Problem with Being Too Nice: How to Reclaim Your Voice and Say NO

Saying "yes" when you mean "no" is a slow poison. ⁠Buy The Book Defy: The Power of No in a World That Demands Yes⁠ In this episode, Dr. Sunita Sah, a physician turned organizational psychologist, reveals the hidden costs of excessive compliance and how it silently destroys your self-worth. Learn why we mistake compliance for consent, how social conditioning traps you in silence, and the psychology of "insinuation anxiety"—the fear of offending others that keeps you stuck. Discover the true power...

May 12, 202543 min

The Leadership Mistake That’s Costing You Your Best People (Anne Chow)

Most leaders are blind to the biggest threat to their team’s success. In this episode, Anne Chow, former CEO of AT&T Business, reveals the hidden leadership myth that quietly undermines team performance and destroys trust. Drawing on decades of experience leading thousands, she exposes why even well-meaning leaders can fall into this trap — and how you can avoid it. Discover the critical shift you must make to lead with impact, build real connections, and unlock your team’s full potential. C...

May 11, 202543 min

How One Question Can Transform Your Negotiation Results

Trust is your most valuable currency in negotiation — and most professionals waste it. In this episode, Keld Jensen, a globally recognized negotiation expert and author of 26 books, reveals why trust is more powerful than any contract. He explains why negotiating without first aligning on how you will negotiate is a costly mistake, how to leverage behavioral economics to understand irrational human decisions, and how the world’s best companies are using Centers of Excellence to transform their n...

May 10, 202538 min

The One Thing to Do Before Signing Any Contract — Most People Skip It

Contracts don’t secure deals — trust does. In this episode, Courtney Kelly reveals the hidden truth behind successful negotiations in high-stakes construction: building strong relationships before a single document is signed. As a pioneering project manager in a male-dominated industry, Courtney shares how proactive trust-building, emotional intelligence, and strategic communication transform conflict into collaboration. Whether you’re managing multi-million dollar projects or everyday deals, th...

May 09, 202530 min

Your Ideas Aren’t the Problem — You’re Pitching Them Wrong (Vinnie Potestivo’s Creative Deal Strategies)

Most people play it safe — and that’s exactly why they stay stuck. In this episode, Emmy Award-winning media advisor Vinnie Potestivo reveals how bold creative decisions can turn ideas into empires. From discovering stars at MTV to helping creators monetize their talent, Vinnie shares his blueprint for transforming creativity into success. You’ll learn the mindset shifts, strategic moves, and untold stories that can turn rejection into opportunity and take your career to the next level. Don’t ju...

May 08, 202540 min

The Secret Strategy FBI Negotiators Use — And You Can Too (with Melissa Fortunato)

This isn’t theory—this is negotiation at the highest level. In this gripping episode, FBI negotiator Melissa Fortunato reveals the real tactics used in hostage crises—and how you can apply them to your toughest conversations at work and at home. From infiltrating criminal organizations undercover to de-escalating a 15-hour standoff, Melissa shares raw, behind-the-scenes stories that show why connection always beats force. You’ll learn why diversity makes teams more persuasive, how to show author...

May 07, 202540 min

Stop Saying Yes to Everything — How Strategic Boundaries Can Save Your Career

Saying yes too much is killing your career. In this episode, tech strategy expert and executive coach Tiffany Rosik reveals how the simple act of saying “no” can transform your reputation, your workload, and your entire career trajectory. Drawing from her upcoming book That's Not the Help I Need, Tiffany breaks down how to escape the people-pleaser trap — without guilt, without drama, and without burning bridges. You’ll learn how to pause high-pressure conversations, reframe your identity at wor...

May 06, 202530 min

How I Went from People Pleaser to Confident Negotiator

Most people lose negotiations before they even open their mouth — here’s how to change that. In this raw and eye-opening conversation, Kwame Christian reveals the mindset shift that transformed him from a people pleaser into a confident negotiator. You’ll learn why most people fail — not because they lack skill, but because they’re stuck in outdated mental habits. He breaks down the difference between skill and talent, shows you how to disarm conflict with curiosity, and shares the one mental sh...

May 05, 202542 min

The One Thing That Saves a Deal When Everything Goes Wrong

When the pressure's on and everything's falling apart, this one principle can still save the deal. The deal is about to fall apart. The founder just died. Clients are backing out. Competitors are circling. What do you do? In this gripping episode, real estate leader Andy Newton shares how he led his team through a sudden tragedy — and what he learned about negotiation, leadership, and holding deals together when everything goes wrong. You’ll hear how one principle — simple, powerful, and often f...

May 04, 202536 min

Why Status Beats Strategy — And How to Build It from Scratch

Everyone talks about strategy, but what if that’s not the real problem? In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Shaahin Cheyene, serial entrepreneur and creator of a billion-dollar company, to reveal the hidden power that decides most negotiations before they even begin: status. You’ll learn how status works, why it silently determines your influence, and how to build it from zero — even if no one knows your name yet. Whether you're selling, pitching, or just trying to be taken seriously...

May 03, 202539 min

You’re Not Bad at Negotiating — You’re Just Emotional

The real battle in negotiation happens in your head. In this episode, negotiation expert and author Moshe Cohen joins Kwame to reveal the uncomfortable truth: most failed negotiations aren’t about tactics — they’re about emotions. You’ll learn why your inner stories, unconscious triggers, and emotional reactions hijack your performance when it matters most — and how to take back control. Whether you're facing a high-stakes meeting or just struggling to speak up, this episode is your playbook for...

May 02, 202537 min

Why New CEOs Fail—And How to Survive Your First 6 Months in Power

Becoming CEO is a dream for many—but few understand just how emotionally turbulent and strategically complex that transition really is. In this powerful episode, Dr. Ty Wiggins, global head of the CEO and Executive Transition Practice at Russell Reynolds, reveals what most leaders get wrong in their first year, why being “smart” isn’t enough, and how to avoid the crash that hits so many executives around the 6-month mark. With clients ranging from first-time CEOs to seasoned global leaders, Ty b...

May 01, 202532 min

The Mindset That Makes People Instantly Trust You — With Former FBI Spy Recruiter Robin Dreeke

You can’t fake real connection — but you can learn how to create it. Robin Dreeke spent his career recruiting spies for the FBI, building trust with people trained to trust no one. In this unforgettable conversation, he reveals the mindset that transforms strangers into allies — and the key habits that turn everyday conversations into powerful relationships. Whether you're trying to lead a team, build influence, or just stop overthinking your social interactions, this episode will reset how you ...

Apr 30, 202536 min

Caught Off Guard? The Secret to Bouncing Back in Tough Negotiations

When a negotiation catches you off guard, the real battle isn't with the other person — it's with your own mind. ⁠Buy the Book Sharp 14 Simple Ways to Improve Your Life with Brain Science⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ In this eye-opening conversation, cognitive scientist Dr. Therese Huston joins Kwame Christian to reveal how to recover quickly, stay calm, and turn unexpected pressure into strategic advantage. Drawing on neuroscience and real-world stories, they break ...

Apr 29, 20251 hr 9 min

How to Work (and Negotiate) With People You Don’t Like — From the Man Who United South Africa’s Enemies

Most people think collaboration requires trust. Adam Kahane’s life work proves otherwise. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Adam Kahane, Director at Reos Partners, a pioneer in facilitating collaboration between fierce adversaries—from politicians and generals to guerrillas and activists. Adam shares the powerful story of how he helped leaders on both sides of apartheid South Africa work together toward democracy, and explains why understanding, not agreement, is the key to breakth...

Apr 28, 202541 min

How to Negotiate Like Your Career Depends On It — Insights from a Top Sports Agent

If you walk into a negotiation without leverage, you’re already losing — and NFL agent Henry Organ is here to make sure you never do. In this powerhouse episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian sits down with Henry Organ, founder of Disruptive Sports Agency and author of The Informational Interview Playbook. Henry pulls back the curtain on how real power is built — from branding yourself strategically to controlling the leverage in every deal. Whether you're closing million-dollar con...

Apr 27, 202526 min
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