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Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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Narcissist Apocalypse is a Purple Ribbon Award-winning storytelling podcast that amplifies the voices of those who have experienced narcissistic abuse, coercive control, emotional abuse, domestic violence, family relationship abuse, and relationship trauma. Our guests share their stories of abuse survival, providing a source of validation, education, inspiration, and hope for those going through similar experiences. Join us and discover how you, too, can overcome the narcissist apocalypse.
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Episodes

Attachment Styles, Trauma Bonding, & Narcissist Abuse - Q&A With Taly Kadoch (LPC)

Brandon talks with Taly Kadoch (LPC) about attachment styles, trauma bonding, love, addiction, and abuse. Plus they discuss healing the the trauma bond and letting go. Book a session with Taly by clicking here. Taly's email is kadochtaly@gmail.com If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com Thank you to our sponsor CREDIT KARMA. Check your credit score on Credit Karma for free! Plus Credit Karma can find you loa...

Apr 29, 20221 hr 4 min

Shuri & The Bullying Mother - Physical Abuse, Narcissist Abuse, Trauma Eating, Emotional Abuse, BIPOC

Brandon talks with Shuri about the bullying she endured at the hands of her mother. It's a story of physical abuse, emotional eating, medical neglect, and wanting the mother you never had. Plus they discuss, enmeshment, financial abuse, the church community, conditional love, the trauma obesity connection, trauma cycles, cptsd, and much more. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com Thank you to our sponsor C...

Apr 25, 20221 hr 44 min

Real Love vs. Fake Love, Infidelity & Narcissistic Abuse - Q&A With Brandee Smith (LPC)

Brandon talks with Brandee Smith (LPC) about recognizing real love vs. fake love, infidelity, love bombing, boundaries, trusting your gut, & narcissistic abuse. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com You can reach Brandee Smith by clicking here. Thank you to our sponsor CREDIT KARMA. Check your credit score on Credit Karma for free! Plus Credit Karma can find you loan offers at creditkarma.com/loanoffer...

Apr 22, 202239 min

Brooke & The Abusive Peter Pan - Domestic Violence, Emotional Abuse, IPV, Narcissist Traits, Generational Trauma

Brandon talks with Brooke about her 10-year toxic relationship with an abusive Peter Pan and the generational trauma they endured in their childhoods. It's a story of survival, triangulation, stonewalling, physical abuse, & determination. Plus they discuss, gaslighting, nitpicking, depression, physical health issues, narcissistic behavior, push and pulls, street mentality, maturation, being a single mom, integrity, mixed messages, child abuse, identity issues, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARN...

Apr 18, 20222 hr 6 min

Personality Types That Attract a Narcissist & Is a Narcissist Capable of Love? - Q&A With Darlene Lancer

Brandon talks with Darlene Lancer (LMFT) about the personality types that attract a narcissist & if a narcissist is capable of love. Plus they discuss codependency, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, narcissist types, getting your needs met, regaining your sense of self after abuse, and much more. *** Please excuse the chimes in the background. It wasn't picked up until much later.*** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narci...

Apr 15, 202247 min

Chloe & The Narcissistic Rageful Mother - Narcissist Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Physical Abuse.

Brandon talks with Chloe about being raised by a narcissistic mother who saw Chloe as an extension of herself. It’s a story of rage, being good enough, interfering in relationships, fear, obligation, and guilt. Plus they discuss, physical abuse, manipulation, triangulation, smear campaigns, perfectionism, the fear of failure, nitpicking, backhanded compliments, vanity, keeping up appearances, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING - We do discuss physical abuse of a minor in this episode. *** If you...

Apr 11, 20221 hr 33 min

Abuse Trauma Responses & Health Issues - Q&A With Christine Patterson (LNP)

Brandon talks with Christine Patterson (Licensed Nurse Practitioner) about abuse trauma responses, abuse related health issues, and recovery in mind, body, & spirit. Plus they discuss, stress, long term health effects, hormones, survival mode, and much more. Christine's website can be found by clicking here. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online c...

Apr 08, 202253 min

Tallulah & The Adventuring Narcissistic Skipper - Domestic Violence, IPV, Emotional Abuse, Narcissist Abuse, Infidelity

Brandon talks with Tallulah about her six-year abusive relationship with a narcissistic sailor. It’s a story of adventure bribes, the fear of failure, the silent treatment, infidelity, and the loss of identity. Plus they discuss, gaslighting, physical abuse, long distance relationships, isolation, the Disneyfication of love, boundaries, competition, lies, manipulation, animal abuse, emotional abuse, the healing process, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING - This episode has graphic descriptions o...

Apr 04, 20221 hr 59 min

The Irrational Beliefs We Learn From Narcissistic Parents & How We Hold Onto Them Subconsciously - Q&A With Debbie Tudor LPC

Brandon talks with Debbie Tudor (LPC SUPERVISOR) about the irrational beliefs we learn from narcissistic parents and how we hold onto them subconsciously. Plus they discuss, scapegoats, golden children, and take audience questions. *** There were sound issues with this recording *** Debbie Tudor's Website Can be found at https://rockwall-counseling.com Debbie Tudor's Email Address is info@Rockwall-Counseling.com You can buy Debbie's healing workbook 'It's Not You, It's Them: 30 Days of Hope and ...

Apr 01, 202250 min

Gazelle & The Entitled Stunted Narcissist - Emotional Abuse, Domestic Violence, Trauma, Depression

Brandon talks with Gazelle about her six year relationship with an entitled emotionally stunted narcissist. It’s a story of caretaking, trauma responses, facades, narcissistic injury, depression, and creating the space to heal. Plus they discuss, emotional abuse, physical abuse, victim playing, rage, belief systems, fear of failure, stress, suicidal ideation, erosion of self, walking on eggshells, hypocrisy, control, community, shame, guilt, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING - We mention physic...

Mar 28, 20221 hr 40 min

Narcissistic Mothers, Abandonment, & Forgiveness - Q&A With Diane Danvers Simmons

Brandon talks with Diane Danvers Simmons about her memoir 'My Mother Next Door' and the difficulty of working through abandonment issues, forgiveness, and reframing her experience. At the age of 16, Diane's mother moved into the house next door with three college-aged roommates and Diane was forced to navigate her life from there. Diane's story is painful, but it's also one of empowerment, as she shares with us her indomitable human spirit. To visit the 'Mothers and Daughters Unfiltered Podcast'...

Mar 25, 20221 hr 5 min

Janet, The Abusive Family, & The Predator - Domestic Violence, Child Abuse, Sexual Assault, Narcissist Abuse

Brandon talks with Janet about growing up in an abusive household, which eventually led her into the hands of a predator. It’s a story of trauma, addiction, grooming, physical & sexual abuse, suicidal ideation, identity, manipulation, gaslighting, sexual assault, IPV, emotional abuse, infidelity, healing, hope, and surviving it all. Plus we get an update on Malory's Story, from February 1st 2021. *** TRIGGER WARNING - This episode is not an easy listen and is very triggering. We discuss and ...

Mar 21, 20221 hr 29 min

Trusting Yourself & Others After an Abusive Relationship - Q&A With Avery Neal (LPC)

Brandon talks with Avery Neal (LPC) about trusting yourself & others after an abusive relationship and what healthy relationships look like. Plus they discuss, the life skills needed before entering a relationship, anger, being alone, listening, being able to apologize, taking responsibility, saying no, stress, money management, boundaries, balance, empathy, being seen, respect, real intimacy, patterns of behavior, and much more. You can reach Avery Neal at her website by clicking here and y...

Mar 18, 202258 min

Daphne & The Scapegoat Abuser - Domestic Violence, IPV, Emotional Abuse, Narcissist Abuse

Brandon talks with Daphne about her toxic relationship with a victim playing abuser. It’s a story of scapegoats, generational trauma, preying on guilt, and postpartum depression. Plus they discuss, infidelity, lying, physical abuse, financial abuse, stalking, narcissistic mothers, custody, stonewalling, disappearing acts, lack of responsibility, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING - This episode has a graphic description of physical abuse. *** Thank you to our sponsor BOMBAS. Go to Bombas.com/nap...

Mar 14, 20221 hr 31 min

The Characteristics of a Controlling Personality & Types of Controlling Behavior - Q&A With Rayna Guest

Brandon talks with Rayna Guest about the characteristics of a controlling personality, the signs of a possessive partner, and types of controlling behavior. Rayna also updates us on her life since her appearance on the survivor story podcast and tells a story about running into her abusive ex. You can listen to Rayna's story by clicking here. Thank you to our sponsor BOMBAS. Go to Bombas.com/nap and get 20% off your purchase of socks, underwear, and t-shirts. Bombas donates an item to a homeless...

Mar 11, 202254 min

Faith & The Charismatic Controlling Abuser - Narcissist Abuse, Domestic Violence, IPV, Emotional Abuse.

Brandon talks with Faith about her toxic relationship with a charismatic controlling abuser. It's a story of self-worth, emotional manipulation, hidden recorders, tracking devices, and figuring out 'why we stay.' Plus they discuss, financial abuse, manipulation tactics, codependency, love bombing, gaslighting, restraining orders, healing relationships with your children, guilt, shame, and much more. *** Trigger Warning - This episode does discuss and describe physical abuse. *** Thank you to our...

Mar 07, 20221 hr 26 min

Setting Boundaries in Healthy & Toxic Relationships - Q&A With Elizabeth Barre

Brandon talks with Elizabeth Barre (Body Oriented & Somatic Coach) about setting boundaries for healthy and toxic relationships, including the relationship with ourselves. Plus they discuss, codependency, self-love, self-care, narcissist abuse, coercive control, and much more. You can reach Elizabeth Barre at her website by clicking here or through her Instagram by clicking here. Thank you to our sponsor BOMBAS. Go to Bombas.com/nap and get 20% off your purchase of socks, underwear, and t-sh...

Mar 04, 20221 hr 3 min

Jemma & The Abuse From Crazy Betty - Physical Abuse, Sexual Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Narcissist Mother.

Brandon talks with Jemma about her scheming narcissistic mother. It’s a story of generational trauma, sexual abuse, running away, manipulation, obligation, and rising above it all. Plus they discuss, guilt, temper tantrums, selfishness, physical abuse, emotional abuse, codependency, bonding, opposites, grooming, playing the victim, fraud, trust, love, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING - We discuss physical and sexual abuse of a child in this episode. *** Thank you to our sponsor BOMBAS. Go to B...

Feb 28, 20221 hr 33 min

Kim Kardashian & the Post Separation Abuse Tactics of Kanye West - Q&A With Kaitlyn Jorgensen of Custody Peace

Brandon & Kaitlyn Jorgensen (Custody Peace) break down the post-separation abuse tactics of Kanye West, as he attempts to instill fear into the life of Kim Kardashian and sway public opinion to his side. We hope our discussion validates your post-relationship abuse experience. You are not alone. The website of Custody Peace can be found at https://www.custody-peace.org/ The Instagram of Custody Peace can be found by clicking here. Thank you to our sponsor BOMBAS. Go to Bombas.com/nap and get...

Feb 25, 20221 hr 8 min

River & The Disabled Abusive Drummer - Emotional Abuse, Domestic Violence, Narcissist Abuse

Brandon talks with River about her toxic relationship with a disabled, charismatic, and manipulative abuser. It’s a story of caretaking, jealousy, guilt, paranoia, and restraining orders. Plus they discuss, gaslighting, love bombing, mental health, isolation, codependency, financial abuse, drumming, control, walking on eggshells, victim playing, toxic family members, and much more. *** We used two different devices due to a power issue. The sounds are completely different toward the end of the e...

Feb 21, 20221 hr 42 min

The Disneyfication of Love & The Tinder Swindler - Q&A With Melissa Guest

Brandon talks with Melissa Guest about the Disneyfication of love in the Netflix documentary 'The Tinder Swindler.' Plus they give thanks and celebrate the three-year anniversary of Narcissist Apocalypse. *** We want to thank every guest, every listener, every member of our support group, and every single person who has helped us out along the way. *** Thank you to our sponsor BOMBAS. Go to Bombas.com/nap and get 20% off your purchase of socks, underwear, and t-shirts. Bombas donates an item to ...

Feb 18, 20221 hr 14 min

Kendall Ann, The Validating Neurologist, & A Dog Named Ozzy - Domestic Violence, Narcissist Abuse, IPV, Emotional Abuse, Sexual Abuse.

Brandon talks with Kendall Ann about her physically abusive relationship with a psychologically manipulative partner. It's a story of sexual coercion, isolation, family, gaslighting, a very observant neurologist, and a dog who saved Kendall's life. Plus they discuss, the support of friends, help from strangers, the healing process, Whitney Houston, love bombing, journaling, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING - This episode mentions sexual abuse and has graphic depictions of physical violence tha...

Feb 14, 20221 hr 37 min

Sibling Abuse, Trauma, Forgiveness, & The Grieving Process - Q&A With Amy B. Chesler (Author & Podcaster)

Brandon talks with Amy B. Chesler (Author & Podcaster) about trauma, forgiveness, and the grieving process due to the sibling abuse she endured and the tragic murder of her mother. Plus they discuss, enmeshment, divorce, legal abuse, and much more. *** Trigger Warning - This episode briefly mentions sexual abuse and the murder of Amy's mom. There is no graphic description. It's just mentioned. *** You can purchase Amy's book 'Working For Justice' by clicking here. Amy's podcast 'Good Grief W...

Feb 11, 202259 min

Poncho & The Physically Abusive Spendthrift - Domestic Violence, IPV, Narcissist Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Child Sex Abuse

Brandon talks with Poncho about her physically abusive relationship with an impulsive spendthrift. It's a story of child sex abuse, caretaking, thinking you're the problem, and infidelity. Plus they discuss, ex wives, rage, gaslighting, death, trauma bonding, narcissistic mothers, neglect, healing, and much more. *** Trigger Warning - This episode discusses graphic discussion of child sex abuse and intimate partner violence. The child sex abuse is mentioned when Poncho is describing her upbringi...

Feb 07, 20221 hr 31 min

Divorce, Coparenting, & Narcissistic Abuse - Q&A With Shirin Peykar (LMFT)

On this episode from our archives, Brandon talks with Shirin Peykar (LMFT & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach) about divorce, coparenting, and toxic narcissist abuse. Plus they answer lots of questions sent in by the audience. It's a very informative episode. Shirin Peykar can be reached at https://www.talkwithshirin.com/ Thank you to our sponsor BOMBAS. Go to Bombas.com/nap and get 20% off your purchase of socks, underwear, and t-shirts. Bombas donates an item to a homeless shelter for ever...

Feb 04, 20221 hr 26 min

Roxy Goes No Contact With Marialand - Narcissist Abuse, Physical Abuse, Emotional Abuse, PTSD

Brandon talks with Roxy about growing up with a narcissistic mother who was a pathological liar. It's a story of caretaking, trauma, questioning reality, only child guilt, and letting go. Plus they discuss, validation, addiction, death, neglect, rage, the healing process, infidelity, security, fears, theft, fraud, jail, and much more. This episode may be a family story, but even if you're in a relationship, you'll feel what Roxy has to say. She's infectious in a good way. *** Trigger Warning - T...

Jan 31, 20221 hr 42 min

Transpersonal Psychology & Spiritual Abuse - Q&A with Elizabeth Barre (Relationship & Narcissist Abuse Recovery Coach)

On this episode from our archives, Brandon talks with Elizabeth Barre (Relationship & Narcissist Abuse Recovery Coach) about transpersonal psychology, using spirituality in the healing process, and spiritual abuse. Elizabeth Barre can be reached at https://relational-somatics.com/ Thank you to our sponsor HELLOFRESH. Go to HelloFresh.com/nap16 and use code nap16 for up to 16 free meals AND 3 free gifts! Enjoy America’s #1 Meal Kit today! Thank you to our sponsor Tru Niagen. Tru Niagen is a s...

Jan 28, 202257 min

Phoenix & The Abusive Cult Member - Narcissistic Abuse, IPV, Emotional Abuse, Domestic Violence

Brandon talks with Phoenix about her experience as a spiritual cult member and her marriage to a physically abusive husband. It's a story of manipulation, threats, fear, obligation, guilt, and shame in the aftermath of abuse. Plus they discuss, self esteem, family enmeshment, isolation, emotional abuse, gaslighting, trauma bonding, stockholm syndrome, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING - This episode has graphic description of strangulation. *** Thank you to our sponsor BOMBAS. Go to Bombas.com/...

Jan 24, 20221 hr 33 min

How to Differentiate the Overlapping Behaviors of ADHD & Narcissist Abuse - Q&A With Dr. Amelia Kelley

Brandon talks with Dr. Amelia Kelley (trauma informed therapist & author) about the overlapping behaviors of ADHD & Narcissism and how to recognize where Narcissistic Abuse begins. Plus they discuss, control, intentions, can't vs. won't, doing the work, comorbidity, weaponizing mental health issues, and much more. Dr Amelia Kelley's website is https://www.ameliakelley.com/ and you can purchase her book 'What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship' by clicking...

Jan 21, 202255 min

Macy & The Aware Disordered Abuser - Narcissist Abuse, Domestic Violence, Trauma, Child Abuse.

Brandon talks with Macy about her toxic relationship with an AWARE partner with mental health issues and abusive behaviors. It's a story of caretaking, jealousy, manipulation, paranoia, and not wanting to do the work. Plus they discuss, gaslighting, projection, narcissistic parents, child abuse, reactive abuse, push/pulls, the silent treatment, hoovering, discards, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING - This episode has graphic descriptions of physical child abuse. *** Thank you to our sponsor BOM...

Jan 17, 20221 hr 37 min
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