530 - Why You Keep Having the Same Fight : 3 Toxic Patterns that Keep Us Stuck

Today we're bringing back a popular episode on relationship conflict. We're talking about three different patterns that show up in conflicts, how to recognize which one is showing up for yourself, and discuss some ways to disrupt the pattern and create new choreography with your partner(s). Join Dedeker and Orit Krug for our polyamory somatic retreat in northern Spain (September 22-25, 2025) - sliding scale pricing available, use code MULTI when you apply at www.multiamory.com/retreat. Get 20% off your first order of the world's smartest cat litter at https://prettylitter.com/multiamory prettylitter.com/multiamory with promo code MULTIAMORY Join our amazing community of listeners at https://multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack. Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand https://joshandanand.bandcamp.com/music. Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/multiamory_podcast/ @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website https://www.multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the https://www.pleasurepodcasts.com/ Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices