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Petty AF ft. Kandie

Sep 28, 202141 min
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The always inspiring Kandie, AKA Jay Will, shares his incredible journey from being fired publicly from his day job, to going viral, being on Love and Hip Hop, and now Wild -n-Out. The table also takes a serious look at some of their pettiest moments. 

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Welcome to the Woman while our hack cacky guy Benoy. Yeah real, welcome to the Women While Out podcast. These guys would and out controls and ye show. Hello ladies, tonight we're gonna have the woman a while we know podcast on the car. All right, everybody, welcome back to another episode of Women of Wild and Out. I think

we're on our seventh episode. Yeah, we've been. We've been talking about a lot of things, pretty much anything we want to and I look forward to this episode because it's gonna be juicy and we have a juicy or guess. So before we get into the topic today, we want to introduce obviously everyone here. I'm Crystal Angelique and we have to be smeone and I'm your girl pretty c V. Let's get into it, all right. Do we have Do we have a pettious movement? What it is? Movement? It says,

I see the car. Tell me your experience being petty. I'm not really petty, but I've been through you know what's crazy? My boyfriend he's petty. Like if you say something like no she get one boyfriend before the boyfriend boom comment below. Man, you know who you are? I posted him on my page well on my stories, so people know him, but he's like you have those people that's like, oh, I don't want to do that, and

then later like okay, let's go do that. They're like, no, you said last week on Thursday Aries, I'm aries, he's an aquarious Okay, yeah, my mom's the question, Petty, She petty, give me an example. Um, like with my parents. You know, if my dad said something, she'd be like, I bit, yeah, he's gonna wash the dishes and the clothes, and yeah, I don't like that. Alright, So sleeping with your ex, um, sleeping with sleeping with that's hole. No, no, it's not

a hope being petty. So if I slept with my ex best friend, is that being pretty just to get back at him because he played with me? So I wanted to grab one of his homeboys and sleep with him. Because if that's being patty, that's being a whole being, that's being a hole. Sure. Oh yeah, so I didn't do that. I just wanted to petty hum petty huh yeah right, yeah, I just wanted to see how that work is at like a hole, just like I'm going to get you back you did that. I'm gonna ride

your friends. Yeah, catch that we not catch. I didn't know they do that, but never. I just wanted to see that right hand. Maybe I'm never gonna put this is how you know? It would be just like and you'll be like, put it on your mouth, put it on something. She'd be like, next question, I want to put it on nothing. I'm not on something. I'd be like, h um, literally, um. But for me, I don't m I think I'm not a petty person. I'm not like anybody done something petty to you. Um. Have I experienced

some one being petty to me? Um? All the time? I think people try to um, you know, people just you know, whole stuff in and don't really express. But then you know, I don't like that, right and then like tell another friend. Another friend tells me, you know, and then let's let's be very clear because this this episode is going to come out and again, um, nobody stops my blessings. You're feeling less. No one, no man does that. One thing I do I like to say too,

is I'm not aiming at anybody. I'm not talking about anybody. These are just this is my situation. Because I've talked about this story. Yeah, I've talked to the person about it, you know. Um, but you know, just people just understand too. You don't have to just be like, oh we get you back people actions when you today. And I want you all to know this too. If I introduce be to a friend of mine, right and they become cool, cool,

it's two great energies. Christmas, my friend, we hang out. Hey, I got a girl named b I want you to adda yadi with her y'ahi chop it up, you know. But then when you see them on Instagram and they're right out there hanging out with that without you and their adi yadi? Who was like do you get mad at that? Or you just like what is your mind not working? Bay? What's happening is like do we need to stop? Do we need to cut uh? We needed to cut back? What's going on? Story? I just want

to know. I'm just asking you guys, could you hear me saying hello? Hello? No? I can't hear you. You can maybe just for a prop just phone, but like, do you guys get mad at that when like friends link up without you or like about I know, but my thing is I'm saying for that though, like for me, Like, I just really feel like it just depend how stuff happens, like how the introduction is, like my thing is. I don't know, because I'm just weird about that. I'm just

weird about just certain things. And I'm just like, hey, well let's link. Let's but I feel like it's like the thirst mcerls. I'm never thirsty to hang out with under your friends, Like if your friends hit me up or anybody, like only one friend to hang out with, you know, that's what people's you know, my people's, so I just that's why I hang up. But if it's like a situation where it's just like okay, well you I couldn't even say that to me or whatever, I

don't know, it's just weird. I'm like any who, I just really feel like petty. That's messy, petty, messy, stilling ship. Take a ship and literally the whole from you know, they've been through some ships. I got like ten stories.

I don't have that many petty stories. People being petty ton petty person I'm like to get back, oh bitch, you did this bit cool, okay, especial on my story and you no, so like, personally, I'm not petty but I'm definitely when I'm driving so like I drive a first car, it's not it's just like I come from Jamaica, right, it's like you get you're trying to get somewhere, and I feel like in America it's a lot different people are just chilling distracted, like and so if you come

into my lane and driving like twenty miles, just sit on a horn. No, I'll just go around and then slow down. Fuck you, let them come onto the lane. But it is about hobbit that I need to get over people. It's crazy. And I don't trust people too in your circle because they are people to come back and tell you their business too. That's the hint too. When if you edit this out to know that any what a little friends and all that. Because we talked about petty, let me say something. I never been petty

to none of my close friends. I've probably been petty to people that like differences. I don't follow somebody that my chick don't like normal. So I'm gonna be petty and I'm following to excuse me? Is that petty? Right? That's that's not petty. That's no petty is not literally I that this guy was off from too that I didn't want to, like, I got on my nerves. I went on my phone and hey, I'm with whoever that you don't like, that's petty and I didn't. I did that.

I I did that one time, like, hey, I'm on South Beach like random guy, come here, Craig like whatever, just to get back at because he's getting on my nerves. I've done that too, But I've never been petting to my close friends. But I know what bitch has talk.

That's so crazy is I could laugh about this ship because it's gone because I sleep well at night, right, but when it comes when it comes up, when I heard petty or just like I just know who has lasted this industry when it comes to my piers, That's just what I gotta say. Cheers a fucking dumb I guess I was pretty stories. You have an petty stories comment in the comments below let us know something that happened to you that was super super petty. D ms

our instagrams. Just share your petty stories with us, but we have and also come below if any bitch in your socker has in petty, if you had a fake gass friend that too, um we have a guest coming up. J Will call me j Will Candy, um whatever. You know him as his characters and everything. He's a talented, talented UM cast member on While now and um you probably know him from Instagram. He will be up next. We're gonna get his petty moment because I know he's petty. Yeah,

you know he doesn't some panty ship her. He probably like, yeah, he probably got to hold so many petty stories. It's also too when you like you what you just said, You're like, oh, I hang out with people that you introduced me to, right, But it depends though, if I'm not dming your friends the next minute you see them. No no, no, no, I'm saying. But some people do that to me though. It's like, Hey, I'm gonna d

M Chardonnay. I know VS introduced me to chardon If I may hang out with Chardonnay, just see hey, what you're doing. But I didn't give you that leeway. I don't give you say why because I've been burnt before. What I didn't give you shot the name them for more because you know what you have to watch. You have to understand too, once you've been through something you're protected about everything that's around you, even your sucking socks. I don't want you but just wear my socks. That's

t talk, tie you talk. I was just wear my son. What's what I'm saying, It's just say it's just right. It's just it's just so weird. I'm like, how Scharnage gonna DM my people's and Shade asked me because she name it's the code name Chardonnaye, Brittany. I just went through that the day. Oh Chardonnaye said, if you gets some bite toimeth I just like, but why they shot it? Why do Shartonade just hit me? Why does she need

to do that? We are grown as hell all. If you introduced them, they can hang out being But no, it was I never did it though I never introduced. They just see me shot the person out on my page and everybody now, Oh, I like Karen, we just don't want nobody to be friends around you know. I'm just saying, it's just like, wow, why did you just do all that? No, it's not it. I feel like when I got burned before, I just got a protect

my friends, and that's just what it is. I just got over protected, over well, when I got played or when a hope was petty towards me, I just got very overprotected, overprotective of who I love, no facts, because it really bothered me and I and I said what I said, right, But I'm overprotective of people that I love. And if I'm like, oh no, we're not doing that. Loser Loser, double loser asked if whatever did the picture done? Yeah, we did it in Miami, Texas. Yeah, loser loser double

losers as if whatever gets the peach. After this break, we will talk to day Will. I'm not upset. Ok Ja Will, come on out show your faith because you need to be in this conversation. Welcome, thank you for being here. You're so freaking handsome, no sense. We thought we didn't know if you want to come as Candy. I know that's right. You've been still killing this episode tonight, Yes, crazy, two amazing episodes to that. I know you killed you killing it. I was like, I killed what matters? How

are you feeling the otherwise? Who is jay Will? Before we get into because this question people really really know Candy on social media? Right, Um, I guess Jay Will is? You know it's myself Ultimately you know. Kenny's like, where more of the life of my creativity just gets expressed because I'm gonna be real chill, my little person. Um, Candy kind of forces me to get out of my character and create. He's like my muse such love fixing her up, dressing her and like the side of you.

You know, like you you'd be like, oh no, that's too crazy to do it. No, Canny's like, no, that's what I'm doing. Yeah, I don't know who this is. He is one of the best lyricists stuff on social media. As Canny. I actually was working on a project. I flew him to Atlanta to help me write. Right. I was like, I want to work on some rap stuff. An album. He we got in the studio and I never put none of it out. It was great music, but I went a different direction. Um covid head, I

went through lawsuits, are getting student ship. I was like, He's like you, I'm dealing with this book, this music. It is not about to drop. But um he doesn't. We got thank you to release it. It's probably never will be. It will be more leaning towards gospel. Come on. But um, I said all that to say, awesome lyricists, Um, do your own nail with your own makeup. I saw him over by the snack stuff with a sewing machine. Yeah, bundles on here like hollow about five minutes. So that's

so beautiful. You ain't gotta depend on nobody else. You just that's where it started. One man should makeup is always snatched, I told you, and I said, oh my god, this blonde wig is so listen. One of the wild and out girls today were just like, I need to know where she got his wigs? Here fire, so fire. I mean, like honestly, I started like doing computer graphics at thirteen, like coating my hand. I was like a

real nerd. So I was like always very creative. So it's like, you know, when it came time to be an artist, it was like, okay, I want to be out there. And then you know, as an artist, you got videos, you got you gotta edit them, you gotta do this, you gotta do this. I started as a server. I didn't have the money for it, literally, so it's just like you don't do it up for hospitality. Yes, I was an olive bard and cheese tap factory and yeah, so fast I was lost my name is churis serve

this evening? Can I get you started with the wine? Were bread out right away? And you remember goot the order and they'd be looking at you like, where's my burger? It's like I didn't like the kitchen. I'm so sorry we're backed up. Yes, yes, can I get you another refront on some complimentary bread? Complimentary complimentary because your burger is going to be another thirty bluddy like put it in. I was holding out my cat. I was looking at my couisters DELI. Oh, so did you you didn't have

to wait tables? He was at the drive through. No, I mean they came in eight to but do you just have to serve them or no? Yeah, just excellent diminishing the drop. You know, I'm just saying at the start, when you know it was to take them already. Then we would going to to the table. And I love when I used to leave me a tip and that was the name body tip on the table every time they put tips on the ground and they I said, I did mine. Oh my god, yeah, we're going with serving. Yes.

I started playing cheesecake factories, working my way up, got fired. Why moment somebody it was why did you know because you do not bite your tongue and you're very vocal, and everybody bargains and everybody argues that cheese at factory. Everybody it was bread. It was. It was. It was way worse about you know when I was working there, because this is before I like I had to realize you can't cuss everybody out. So it was it was

pretty long short. I was great at my job, amazing, but it was just like one manager who just she just she just ca yeah, she just I don't know what it is. She can take the tips. It was because I started kind of grinding and you know, he got to kind of call off. Sometimes you have to you she is either studio or it's no tea. So I had to do that one day, and she was just trying to be like real, like so why ain't you coming in, Like girl, you know I'm not coming

in for about a reason, like just accept it. But she just kept so it's not a family thing, and I just stopped camping my girl. I gotta go. I'm getting with Like I hung up and it was like they had my papers. What is this? I don't know what that means? But no, no, no, was she I, Oh, yeah, yeah, so yeah, we definitely had a great exit. You know, I went in there, I signed my my papers like a real one. But I was so petty because as soon as I walked out, she walked past me. She smirked,

not being still in cheesecakes. Girl, that's girl, let ye ladders restaurants that I was going home with ship strawberry shortcakes. And so you know, I walked out after being fired and she walks past me. And this is how petty I was back then. I could have said whatever I wanted to to her, but I said, no, Mookie, we need the audience. I let her walk past me. She walked past me like like she thought she did something. I caught it in the front, I said, and I

talked to you. Yeah, I kind of let her have him. It was bad, let her know about her crater faces. The story had us on the edge of this, right. It was I said the stuff I said to her, I don't feel yeah, like in front of the whole line, the cooks, the servers and another thing. Bitch, it was bad. You create her face. Man, It was that petty moment was yeah, I'm going out, So you were fired? Yeah, I was fired, fired, so I was talking ship there didn't even give you two weeks, two hours, two minutes,

so signed evacuated. Cops are coming here. So we saw the cameras stilling the cheese. No they didn't because I had a system. Oh you figured it out though, you gotta beat the system, and you went around me in my room. I'm still from people from companies, stores, stores, but not people thought, um, so what was the cleaning

after cheesecap Um? I end up going to Olive Garden for a second, and that was like it was like a family, mean, but it was shortly lived because around there is when you kind of really started picking up. I didn't love hip hop at that time, so it was like I was calling on so much. At one point I was like, you know, you don't love a hip on that to the coins is low. So after I was in a filming, I was like calling back, like hey y'all and he was like, boys stopping were

watching you. Yeah, they're giving you haven't been here now long like we've we've been fired. Yeah, So after that, what was the plan? Momma hit the ground right now. It was the social media. Yeah. I was always scared to quit my job, and I think that kind of helped me back for a minute. And guy was just like I would have never quit because it didn't make sense, like, oh, you're gonna stop, just be but God was like no, stop, and I just was like, I'm never going back because

I just have something, you know. Yeah, that's security can really hold you on. But yeah, yeah, once you break through, it's like everything just falls into It just goes like a domino effect. So you started off on Instagram? Think, yeah, was it my Space? Was it Facebook? Was it Pinterest? Was it? You didn't go back? No? Seriously, so like where was that was the turning point? Like? What was

so fast? For a long story short, I've been rapping since I was fourteen, so I develop the scale around twenty. I don't know if this matters, but around twenty it did because it affected my artistry a lot um. Around twenty I kind of came out as bisexual. That's what I heard. Wow, so this is really the same age. Oh wow, I'm talking good? Well you know yeah? Um yeah, that's why I don't know. Um yeah. So once I kind of came out, it was myself really wasn't No

candy at this point, you know, and it flopped. You know. I don't think people were able to process things. I was able to say what we're saying and then um, I would say. Probably about two months later or something, I was like, let me try this one thing to randomly dress up for one scene, and the way people responded to it was crazy. The turning point for me in my career, honestly was, um my Popeye skit. I remember remember that like it was yesterday. I remember when

it was so funny. I was so fresh just being out. I told my mom, Yeah, I tell my mom, because my mom, you know, she she didn't really like the whole little coming out of things. So I was like, look, mom, I'm only post on Instagram. I won't post on Facebook, so your friends won't see it, girl, will not? I tell you post it. I posted popeyees on Instagram and I literally woke up the next day with millions of

you on Facebook. And I feel like that was the moment people like, this is what it is like, girl, So how do you how do you like to be addressed? We want to talk about pronouns. Okay, um, like today, what you did with just seeing it was fire, fire, fire, benouns. Are you super sexual? Yes, I feel like I've gotten more by sexual since I came out. I've gott like more. I am so Jesus, Jesus that I am needs to be killed. Thought it was going to be quiet, has

to be shot. That is disgusting. That was real. That was really just been spelling. Let she has, she does, she's a shot your ass like, but I guess what the do it? Don't you know? It's just it's a sound, It's just a sad All it is is a sound. Mouth. Don't let don't let the sound distract you from what's internal. Remember the cheers we did earlier. Adrink chlorophill every day there's no odor. I apologize. My stomach was you know, he was talking. I was just looking the way the

way way I was looking at this man. I don't know what he's said for the past. I've been up here for three Can you start the story from the beginning. Let's take it back. You need to walk back into so Okay, interesting to know that you were, that you still are. Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, all right, I'm excused to know that I'm sorry. Okay, but it's not like a specific way you want to be like addressed. No, it's so funny, like I don't really I want to sound crazy, but you would say he or no, not

necessarily myself. Yes, yes, I personally identify as a man. Okay, I don't I love hair makeup the currntiest little thing man. Yeah, okay, yeah, you know it's really art. It's art like I like my kick out of Caddy that people see. It's like girl, like, how is this eyeshadow and his hair gonna correlate with these nails? And it's two pieces. It's dope though it comes in details and snails and it's so dope. I already stepped it up this time this season because yeah,

like I really that was that. You have seen the looks. It looks as amazing. I don't know what the hell I'm gonna say when I get up there, but I know I'm gonna look cute. I'm gonna be yeah, outfits the looks, the hair down to the nails. So that's that. It's a creator thing, creative thing. It's like Candy is my muse that decided to listen because I've always wanted to write for female like rappers artists. I was writing for females and like thirteen fourteen, it's crazy in high

school writing actual songs. I always wanted to be like a creative director. Canny just kind of came along and just like I'll listen, and then once I came out, I just became more comfortable on my skin to just not connect what I personally like or do or whatever

with my art. So Candy was just like took me so Candy, these things I would have never done if it wasn't like let me create, like, you know, just to go out in certain places to perform and be on certain stages like y what would never Kenny's like we got a book in Crazy, So yeah, it's it's

me personally identified, you know, it's a guy guy. I love my GBT community, my transistors, and I do make sure I put it on extra because a lot of people who don't understand the differences within the community, which is you know, quickly call me trans which is cool because that must mean look it, but that's not technically

yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you know. And I have another question too, because I think mental health is very important when you have two sides of you, like like you said the female and then j Will you know, Kenny j Will, how do you how's that a balance? Because I know sometimes people can accept, some people can't accept, and I know you've been in places that you probably felt like, Okay, I maybe want to give up or like,

let's talk about that the mind, the mental of everything. Well, Candy's first music video was shot up really literally yeah, like seriously, like around, come up with my grandmother house and in the exact words, to get this out of here? Wow? Wow? How long ago was that when I started Candy, Like Candy's first music videcause obviously was rappers in fourteen, So then it's like you came out. I was like okay, like you know, I was like, what am I going

to do with Kendy? You know? So I knew I had the potential to be funny, but it was like I rap, so let me just wrap with a wig on and then we're gonna feel that the funny stuff later. So I did a video a round the corner from my house and which is where it we're whoa you know, my confident one beach l A Watt's Inglewood b'ses. What's that was happening. Okay, okay, yeah, but yes, how I just had to kind of like just you just you can't.

You can't place your sanity in the hands of others. Yes, And I had to realize that, like, you know, I can go into a room and watch people process me now and just at first, you know that energy which is you know, throw you off, especially in my head, I'm Patty and then make huge blaa. But just older I get the more comments irrelevant. It's like you're dealing with that. I'm not, Like I dealt with that years ago. You're not the problem. I don't because Nicka is know

not to touch me. We're no wig. Then it turned into a whole another thing, okay, because you know, I was like, what's that from? Is that a fight? I was like, oh, what happened? Right? Here's that a fight? I was like, I'll be dog on it. But you know, so it's just the older I get. It's just you know, I've you know, not allowed people ignorance to affect me emotionally because it will send you up, it will send you down and see like everything can you know you

got it? What's us about? Too? It's a strong one to hear. Yeah, it's fine. It's yeah, but okay, yeah, I don't know the direct answer for it, but it's always just have to remind myself. That's one thing I love about whiling out Nick the family here. They are so welcoming. It's very they laugh, it's no homophobia, it's no, they laugh about the joke. They don't offending, nobody gets mad, you know, it's it's a beautiful place for people to be their selves. Yeah, that's one thing I will say.

For Like when we be at workshops and ship were a big as circus. We all so them you need you know, I'll be sitting there in my heels about six uh six six six seven, like okay, well if I'm a tall one, but no, yeah, Like my best friend is a straight man, Like he straight straight, and if it wasn't for him, I probably would have had the courage to come out because he was the only

one who supported me. So I'm kind of used to like getting like that level of support from like you know, different like the homies, like you know, being there with like no shape. Like one of my favorite moment, probably my favorite moment for my first season was that moment with d C you know what I mean, because like you expect me to try to go at just let's pick up and kill. They didn't kill they didn't kill it. But he was so cool and just a yeah, let's

go do it, bro. Like you know, it didn't make me feel no type way uncomfortable. We was able to get up there do a joke that going to do about oh that's a man, and it's just it just it was very welcoming, especially for someone you know him, you know he so yeah, I don't know, you know, it's really been welcoming far as like me in the entertainment industry being uniquely me because you go to a lot of other situations and platforms and it's not that. Yeah, and Nick hypes you up a lot too, yea, and

he shows so much love, so he's dope. Yeah, shows so much love. And like be said, it's no like, oh you don't belong here, very welcoming. Everybody loves you down that's who you are, just making it to a joke front the yeah. Yeah, So I just I wanted to tap into the mind. I don't want to tap into the mental health part, because that is important. A lot of people who tap into that world, you know

and love the same sex. I know they have a lot of other things that it could be from trauma, could be from different things, And so honestly want to know, like you know how you guys cope with just getting you know, acceptance and just you know how you guys cope with those stuff. Yeah. My actually my direct coping is my art. That's why I was going to ask you, do you think that without Candy it would have been a whole completely different kind of person, like because you

use her to express yourself. Yeah, if I didn't do Canny, my whole just everything, but it would be different, not in a bad way, but that's how communit. I am took the art like I just be hard to live life. If you feel like what God patients earth to do, you're not getting to that. I know, God pacements earth to create, you know, so if you're using Candies, like,

come on, let's let's do it. You know. So like I had, like, for example, I haven't even I recently before I came here, I like went on this little break and I was like, grow your facial here because I haven't had my facial here since I started Candy. Literally like that's how much I've been feeling, like five years ago since I started. So it was like for me to have to schedule time and grow on my facial here. I'm like, without Candy, allot would be different,

like Carlos, right right? Yeah, I love your pativity though, So and your wigs be snatched, that's the guy. Yeah, I like to remove the lace from them. So it's just now lace in my wigs. It's just what lace? So? How many seasons have you been on? While now this is my third? That's really good. I know when it was my third pick up and killing stressed out trauma? Like you want to talk about trauma? I think you know.

Since it's like a heavier workload, I kind of finally feel how you used to feel because he used to always be like she stress and why she did? He? How's it going? Ain't you happy? I'm like, why are you talking to me? Are you not on this episode? He's like no, I'm like, yeah, Like move, I'm not good. What do you think about this? I'm still trying to

get money here. I can help you after I get mine. Yeah, I get it now because it gives that Yeah, so you've been killing man, your your wild style with Justina today, it was just like I was like, damn like everyone, Yeah, it was damn near a song. You don't need to record this ship. Me and her talked about that. I love her. She's so she's so talented and real life. You can tell when somebody fakes the ilusion. I love her like even the reason why I love I hate

it and I love it. The reason I love going against her sometimes because I'm mc like if you don't feel like you worthy in my bars, it's like I'm not thinking at the like, get out my face. It's wacky. But she like had me like hold on that girl. You know she's gonna come with something. Yeah, you got going up against your scendy like I can't sunk up. Yeah, because even if she sucks up, you never know. But if you sunk up, it's like what was that line?

So I feel like what me and hurts me to Battle of Pians and freestling because I don't like freeing. I just cut the beat off. You need time to write, let me say it. But she's so quick on the dome and I love it. It's so beautiful. So we we're so happy that you stopped through and came in to came with us at the guy of course. But before you leave, you know, we want to hear some you know, affirmations from you, Inspirational inspirational quotes that you

say to yourself or that you recite. You know, it's something you want to leave us with. We always cheers and have the guests do at the end of the episode. Can you quote be something I wrote? Yes, inspiring? Okay, I put this in a song because it meant the world to me. Um, It's actually it was actually as J will recently. I think I showed you when we was down there. But the quote is, um, surrounded by angels there in the place I can't go, been telling

back and kept my hammot. Oh beautiful, I love that beautiful. I love You're too good. I can see you. Hello, Hello, Hello? Are you saying hello? Or she didn't know you're on the border? Is a pettier moment. I thought that my Eggs was cheating, and before I like fully fully broke up with him, I cleared on his whole entire account, started my hair company. Oh Patty, I would never do that. Good, Yeah, I was. I cleared it all. It's not like technically stealing.

He's a thief. Though we need to day I still can't get a paid okay, another name, but yeah, it was fine while I last, thank you, thank you so much. We are going to take a break and get j Will out of here. He finished his wine drinking slow. They don't want to thank you for that quote. Thank you so much, Jay Will, thank you. So did you think about that conversation with Kendy or j Will? Jill? I loved it. I've been doing very well, you know, I mean I like to just know what people be

going through. How you you know, how you got to that space in your life to um you know, as far as him, you know, being j Will and you know, having his up his creative side. But you know it's interesting to know. Yeah, it's interesting, you know. So I definitely think, you know, a lot of the people listening will actually be able to be comfortable with themselves just carrying it from him, his story and especially herring from j Will as opposed to candy perspective, as opposed to want.

So I really really like that because a lot of people, until they feel like they're not alone, it's almost they keep themselves in a box and So I really like when people express themselves, especially exactly, especially in some very sensitive topics, and you're confident enough to express that, it's really inspiring. And even seeing somebody like that, um, who is that confident that opened with being theirselves on such a platform as wilding Out, like you said, v being accepted.

And you know, you know a lot of straight man especially I'm gonna say it in in our culture, the urban community, but a lot of straight black men. You see a candy walking you uncomfortable, you don't want to make eye contact. In your head, you're not tapping them up, you ignore. You know, nobody does that on our set. And I love, love, love that about the men and women you know that are on our set and cast

members behind the scenes on the scenes are not. It's just very welcoming no matter what race you are, no matter what gender you are, your sexuality, people are people here. Yeah. I love that about wild Out and they may get a safe space, yeah, every for everybody. Yeah, you know, so I love it, you know, definitely. Okay, So who is doing the toast out of here? Because I did the intro good health chlorophyll, well, I didn't I didn't want yesterday, so busy. It's on me. I'm always down

for toast. I'll try it, I'll try let's do it alight on any goose a little something like this, Okay, So I couldn't stare at her and just wrote this one down. Never expose your next step, Just step, just step. You got to check somebody what you're about to do, because everybody is not for you. They're gonna everybody does not want to see you win. Don't expose your next step, baby girl, baby boy, just step step, Beloved King Prince Brand, because the problem is with your young folks, you'll like

to talk too much, your pity yappity scoop. Then when your blessing is getting us tangled up, you want to put out that negativity the world. You don't told your friend Kak, but kk didn't even want you to win. She didn't wants you to get that role, so as you taught she. That's a lot of personal stuff coming out on It's not this is some real life stuff that I've been taught from young zip it Zi. Yeah, because I don't know nothing about being until it's on Instagram.

Zip It Muty, I don't tell hers, so why I don't tell us so why because one thing? But what I've learned, I'm all about confirmation. I always want to know it's confirmed. We got what we need. The contract is sign now I could spread it because it's mine. When it's still in negotiation and contracts still being sorted out, I don't got it yet, So what's the means for me? But I still gotta make sures in the bucket. But you see how I just know. I'm just saying because

I get it. That's the quote? Was that though the quote was there? Take it back to the quote. Never what was the quote? What was my quote? Don't tell anybody where you never expose your next steps just steps, okay, just stept it pastor just step. I love, I love getting into it because people have to understand. I'm sorry if I'm wasting your time, but people have to understand, just step. We stepped just starting. We're stepping out of the podcast now, all right, you guys, we are out.

This is the Woman of Willing our podcast and I'm a girl pretty v cress Aelely and everyone. I need you to subscribe, like comment all that go follow us. It's about to be the biggest the biggest podcast one time in the world. Let's go let my later, SA

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