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Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR Therapy, Trauma, PTSD, Healing Trauma, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship

Timothy Olson / Ruth Olson - Inspired by Brene Brown, Mel Robbins, Tony Robbinswww.facebook.com
***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Is your trauma consuming you? Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place! Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you! If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you! Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing! We’d love to connect with you over in our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/

Episodes

Ep 162 - Ruth Going Rogue: I Am Enough Pt2

Podcast Episode Title: "Beyond Acceptance: Ruth's Path to Empowerment and Advocacy" Episode Description: In this inspiring follow-up episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we continue the remarkable journey with Ruth, who last time captivated us with her heartfelt story of battling a genetic condition, overcoming self-doubt, and reaching a place of self-acceptance. "Beyond Acceptance: Ruth's Path to Empowerment and Advocacy" takes us further down her path, showcasing her evolution from accepting her...

Apr 11, 202419 min

Ep 161- Ruth Going Rogue: I Am Not Enough Pt 1.

In today’s captivating episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," join us on an unexpected journey as Ruth takes the helm and steers us into uncharted waters. What began as a routine recording session unfolded into a profound exploration of personal discovery and acceptance. Ruth courageously opens up about her battle with a genetic condition that profoundly impacted her self-esteem and instilled a deep-seated fear of judgment from those around her. This episode is not just a story; it’s a voyage from t...

Apr 09, 202415 min

Ep 160 - Trying to Save Others Who are Drowning Emotionally? : Safeguard Yourself So They Don't Pull You Under

In this impactful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the powerful analogy that likens emotional turmoil to drowning. We explore the instinctual fight for survival that those struggling emotionally undergo, akin to someone desperately trying to stay afloat. This discussion aims to shift perspectives, showing that actions born from deep emotional pain are not intended to pull others down, but are efforts to survive. Through expert insights and stories of resilience, we illuminate the...

Apr 03, 202416 min

159 - Pt 2. Balancing Act: Career & Motherhood with Erica Holmes

"Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" returns with the much-anticipated Part 2 of our series with Erica Holmes, LMFT, diving deeper into mastering the balance between demanding careers and motherhood. This episode builds on our foundational strategies, offering advanced insights for navigating the evolving challenges of work-life harmony. Inside This Episode: Evolving Balance: Adapting to changes in work and family life for sustained fulfillment. Setting Boundaries: Protecting your time and emotional well-bein...

Apr 02, 202426 min

Ep 158 - Pt 1 Erica Holmes Interview - Balancing High Stress Demanding Careers with Motherhood

Join us on a transformative journey in this episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we have the privilege of hosting Erica Holmes, a distinguished Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with a passion for supporting working mothers. Erica brings her expertise to the forefront, addressing the dual challenges of managing high-stress careers while embracing the pivotal role of motherhood. In today's fast-paced world, mothers are often caught in the whirlwind of professional ambition and fam...

Mar 27, 202427 min

Ep 157 - Pt 2: Are Negative Core Beliefs Holding You Back? - Identifying and Overcoming Them - with Lissa Figgins

Welcome back to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where our exploration into the realm of negative core beliefs and personal transformation takes a deeper dive in this riveting Part 2 with the insightful Lissa Figgins. After illuminating the landscape of negative core beliefs in our previous session, this episode shifts focus towards the path of healing and the transformative power of positive affirmations and actions. Join us as we continue our conversation with Lissa, uncovering the next steps in not ju...

Mar 26, 202431 min

Ep 156 - Are Negative Core Beliefs Holding You Back? - Identifying and Overcoming Them - with Lissa Figgins

"Breaking Free: Overcoming Negative Core Beliefs with Lissa Figgins on Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" Join us on a pivotal episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we, your hosts and experts in mental wellness, have the privilege of being interviewed by the insightful Lissa Figgins, a Christian Time Management Coach who hosts The Redeem Her Time Podcast. You can find all your amazing resources and connect with her over at https://redeemhertime.com/ Today's discussion centers on a topic close to our heart...

Mar 21, 202424 min

Ep 155 - Finding Light in Solitude: Tips to Combating Loneliness in Our Lives

Welcome to a profound episode of "Connections Found," where we tackle the silent epidemic of loneliness that affects countless lives around the globe. In "Beyond the Silence," we aim not only to understand loneliness but to offer concrete strategies to overcome it, emphasizing the importance of nurturing our mental and physical health through connection, self-discovery, and community engagement. In this episode, we delve into the profound effects loneliness can have on our well-being, illustrati...

Mar 19, 202426 min

Ep 154 - The Trauma of Loneliness Pt. 2

In the much-anticipated follow-up to our deep dive into loneliness, "Heart and Mind" returns with "Bridging the Gap: Nurturing Connections in a Lonely World - Part 2." Building on our exploration of loneliness's roots and repercussions, this episode shifts focus toward healing, resilience, and the power of community in combating the loneliness epidemic. Embark on a journey of discovery with us as we investigate innovative and traditional approaches to building and strengthening social bonds. Fro...

Mar 14, 202423 min

Ep 153 - The Trauma of Loneliness Pt. 1

In this thought-provoking episode of "Heart and Mind," we delve deep into the silent epidemic sweeping across our hyper-connected world: loneliness. Despite being more connected than ever before, loneliness has emerged as a profound challenge affecting millions, cutting across age, gender, and societal boundaries. But what makes us feel so isolated in an era of unprecedented connectivity? Join us as we explore the multifaceted nature of loneliness, from its psychological underpinnings to its une...

Mar 12, 202414 min

Ep 152 - Gifts of Love: Unwrapping the Meaning Behind the Receiving Gifts Love Language

In this heartwarming episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the captivating world of the Receiving Gifts love language, one of the five ways people express and experience love as identified by Dr. Gary Chapman. Far from being materialistic, the act of giving and receiving gifts is a powerful form of communication and a profound expression of love, care, and thoughtfulness. Join us as we explore the true essence of this love language, where the focus isn't on the monetary value but on t...

Mar 07, 202420 min

Ep 151 - The Language of Touch: Navigating Physical Touch as a Love Language

Take The Love Language Quiz! In this compelling episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the intimate world of Physical Touch, one of the fundamental love languages that shape our connections and relationships. Physical Touch goes beyond mere physical proximity or attraction; it's a profound communicator of love, comfort, and belonging. Join us as we explore the nuances of Physical Touch as a love language, uncovering how something as simple as a hug, a gentle caress, or a reassuring han...

Mar 05, 202419 min

Ep 150 -They just want YOU!: Unpacking the Love Language of Quality Time

Welcome to a new episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where today we dive deep into the heart of Quality Time, one of the five love languages that can transform the way we connect and deepen our relationships. Quality Time is all about giving your full, undivided attention to those you love, creating moments that are cherished and fostering an environment where every second together builds a stronger bond. In this episode, we explore the essence of Quality Time and why it stands out as a critical ...

Feb 29, 202422 min

Ep 149 - The Art of Serving: Exploring Acts of Service as a Love Language

Podcast Episode Title: "The Art of Giving: Exploring Acts of Service as a Love Language" Description: In this heartwarming episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the transformative power of Acts of Service, one of the core love languages identified by Dr. Gary Chapman. Acts of Service transcend the mundane tasks of daily life, embodying gestures of love that speak volumes to those who cherish this language above all. Join us as we uncover the essence of Acts of Service—where actions sp...

Feb 27, 202427 min

Ep 148 - The Power of Words: Mastering Words of Affirmation in Relationships

In this captivating episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we dive deep into the world of Words of Affirmation, one of the five love languages coined by Dr. Gary Chapman. This episode is dedicated to unraveling the nuances and profound impact that words can have on our relationships and emotional connections. Words of Affirmation go beyond simple compliments. They are the verbal expressions of love, appreciation, and validation that can significantly strengthen the bond between partners. We explore ...

Feb 22, 202417 min

Ep. 147 - Exploring the Language of Love: Understanding the 5 Love Languages

Welcome to another encouraging episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we delve into the fascinating world of love languages. In this episode, we're exploring the groundbreaking concept developed by Dr. Gary Chapman, which has transformed countless relationships around the globe. Love, often seen as a complex emotion, can be expressed and understood in many ways. Dr. Chapman categorizes these into five distinct love languages: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time...

Feb 20, 202419 min

Ep 146 - Reviving the Conversation: Daily Dialogue in Relationships

We're excited to re-release one of our most impactful episodes on "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," focusing on the art of Daily Dialogue in relationships. This episode dives into the power of three simple yet profound questions: "What did you appreciate about our relationship today?" "What didn't you appreciate about our relationship today?" and "How can I help you?" We explore how these questions can transform your relationship, fostering a deeper understanding, appreciation, and connection between part...

Feb 15, 202422 min

Ep 145 - Guarding Against Negative Influences: Protecting Your Kids' Circle

In this crucial episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we tackle a topic that's at the forefront of every parent's mind: the impact of negative influences on children from friends, family, and other sources. Understanding and addressing these influences is key to fostering a healthy environment for your child's growth and development. We delve into how friends and certain family members can sometimes lead to negative behaviors, attitudes, and beliefs in children. We'll discuss the signs to look out ...

Feb 13, 202420 min

Ep 144 - Why We Need to Talk: 10 Reasons to Discuss Sex with Your Kids

In this vital episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into a topic that many parents find challenging yet necessary: talking to your kids about sex. We outline 10 compelling reasons why having open and honest discussions about sex with your children is crucial in today’s world. From fostering a healthy understanding of sexuality and relationships to protecting them from misinformation and harmful influences, this episode sheds light on the importance of sex education in the family setting. W...

Feb 08, 202426 min

Ep 143 - Opening the Dialogue: Talking to Your Kids About Pornography

In this crucial episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we address a topic of growing importance in our digital age: discussing pornography with your children. As uncomfortable as it may seem, having open and honest conversations about pornography is essential in today’s world where access is easier than ever. We explore why it's important to talk about this sensitive subject, and how to approach it in an age-appropriate and constructive manner. We'll provide guidance on how to create a safe and non-...

Feb 06, 202422 min

Ep 142 - Guiding Our Children: Positive Social Media Practices - Part 2

In Part 2 of our in-depth series on children and social media, "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" continues to explore practical strategies for parents and guardians. This episode focuses on guiding and protecting our children in their digital engagements. In Segment 4: Parental Guidance and Monitoring, we delve into the crucial role parents play in setting healthy boundaries for social media use. We'll discuss effective methods for establishing limits and guidelines, and introduce various parental control ...

Jan 31, 202414 min

Ep 141 - Social Media and Our Children: Navigating the Digital Landscape - Part 1

Welcome to a pivotal episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we begin our deep dive into the complex world of children and social media. In Part 1 of this series, we explore the expanding presence of social media in children's lives and its accompanying risks and challenges. We start with an overview of how social media usage has grown among children and the potential impacts this has on their development and well-being. This introduction sets the stage for a comprehensive understanding of the ...

Jan 30, 202424 min

Ep 140 -Why You Shouldn't Have "The Talk" with Your Kids.

"The Talk" gets built up in peoples minds and they are terrified often time to breach the subject of sex to their kids. The truth is most of the time it is only awkward because we as parents make it awkward or we wait too long to bring up the subject. Talking about sex should not be a taboo subject. If you treat it like it is uncomfortable your kids will not come to you with questions or concerns. This is a conversation that should happen many times over their childhood. Join us today and remove...

Jan 25, 202422 min

Ep. 139 - Conquering Overwhelm: 10 Practical Tips - Part 2

Welcome back to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" for Part 2 of our special series on overcoming overwhelm. Building on our previous discussion, we continue to unravel practical and effective strategies to manage and reduce feelings of being overwhelmed. This episode covers the next five tips, each designed to bring you closer to a balanced and stress-free life. We'll explore the importance of setting achievable goals, understanding the power of saying 'no', and the role of self-care in combating overwhelm...

Jan 23, 202415 min

Ep 138 - Taming Overwhelm: Top 10 Strategies to Help You Correct Overwhelm Pt. 1

In this episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we address the crucial topic of managing overwhelm with our top five effective strategies. Discover how prioritization and breaking tasks into smaller steps can bring immediate relief and clarity. We discuss the importance of setting realistic goals and time management techniques to efficiently navigate your daily demands. Learn the art of delegation to share the load and the significance of self-care practices in maintaining mental and physical health....

Jan 18, 202422 min

Ep 137 - STOP Normalizing Overwhelm:7 Red Flags of Overwhelm

In this episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the often discussed topic of overwhelm and its wide-ranging effects. Overwhelm, more than just a state of being busy, can significantly impact both mental and physical health. We explore how chronic overwhelm leads to heightened stress levels, anxiety, and a decline in overall well-being. The episode also sheds light on how being overwhelmed affects decision-making, productivity, and personal relationships. By understanding these effects, ...

Jan 16, 202419 min

Ep 136 - Pt. 2 - Escaping Together: 7 Lessons Escape Rooms Teach Us About Relationships

Welcome to Part 2 of our two-part series on "Escaping Together: 7 Lessons Escape Rooms Teach Us About Relationships" In the last episode we learned lessons 1-3 and today we'll continue to explore lessons 4-7 that escape rooms can teach us about building and maintaining healthy relationships. Our first lesson today focuses on the importance of being bold, just as you would in an escape room challenge. We delve into how this concept applies to relationships, emphasizing the significance of shared ...

Jan 11, 202425 min

Ep 135 - Pt. 1 - Escaping Together: 7 Lessons Escape Rooms Teach Us About Relationships

Welcome to Part 1 of our two-part series on "Escaping Together: 7 Lessons Escape Rooms Teach Us About Relationships" We'll explore seven key lessons that escape rooms can teach us about building and maintaining healthy relationships. Our first lesson focuses on the importance of remembering your end goal, just as you would in an escape room challenge. We delve into how this concept applies to relationships, emphasizing the significance of shared objectives and long-term visions. Through this int...

Jan 09, 202419 min

Ep 134 - One Tip to Resolve Conflict Quicker

In this episode we explore the transformative approach of starting anew in the face of conflict. Conflict in relationships is inevitable, but how we handle it can make all the difference. We'll delve into the concept of using every opportunity within a conflict as a chance to reset and start over, turning potentially damaging disputes into constructive conversations. Discover the power of de-escalating tensions simply by walking into the room and seeing it as another opportunity to start new. Wh...

Jan 04, 202419 min

Ep 133 - New Year, New Approach: Resolutions and Your ’Word of the Year

Welcome to a fresh start in this exciting new episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we dive into the art of setting New Year's resolutions and choosing a powerful 'Word of the Year.' As we step into the new year, it's time to rethink how we approach our goals and aspirations. In this episode, we'll explore effective strategies for resolution success – from setting realistic and meaningful goals to creating actionable plans for achieving them. But we're taking it a step further. Discover the t...

Jan 02, 202416 min