Is Your Relationship Starting To Feel Boring? Here's Why (with Nicholas Velotta)
Jun 02, 2025•57 min
Episode description
Welcome back! Today we're joined by sexologist, relationship scientist, and head of relationship research at Arya, Nicholas Velotta.
what we talk about:
- why (and how) every couple should use Arya
- the 4 sexual personas and how to learn which one you are
- misaligned sex drives in relationships
- the problem with the 5 love languages
- the orgasm gap
- how to feel more sexy and confident
- why we crave the early days of a relationship
- why long term relationships can start to feel boring (and how to fix it)
& more
Find Nicholas on Instagram @mind_on_love and sign up for Arya to learn your sexual persona and start improving your sex life.
As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
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