Guys, its that time. Time to wrap up this season of Menace to Sobriety but I will be back and better than ever for season 3. This episode is a round up of the last ten and giving you guys an explanation as to why we are stopping for a while. I tell you about the film that is in the works and how you guys can personally get involved. It will be back in the new year, so let me know what you guys have enjoyed, what you want more of and if there are any specific guests you would like coming on to th...
Nov 15, 2024•21 min•Season 4Ep. 10
Are you at a point where you are not sure if you have a drinking problem or not? Well this episode is a bit of a different one. In this video I will go through 15 different questions reflecting on your relationship with drinking and if it has a negative impact on your life. If you know you have an issue then this episode is good to refer back to reaffirm why you are on this path. This video is all about self discovery and if it is time to change your relationship with alcohol. And if you want to...
Nov 08, 2024•36 min•Season 4Ep. 9
Yes I know it is only the 1st of November but this episode is all about how to do the festive season sober. Christmas in my opinion is the hardest part of the year to get through sober. I mean I am an example of how difficult it can be, I was defeated at Christmas the first time I tried to go sober. To this day it doesn't get easier but I understand it more and more regarding the triggers and how to rewire my brain when correlating drinking/seshing to Christmas. Throughout the podcast I talk abo...
Nov 01, 2024•45 min•Season 4Ep. 8
Episode 7 is all about self esteem; working on the way you speak to yourself and the avatar inside of you that is your self esteem. This episode is perfect for anyone that is overly critical of themselves and ignores the positive qualities that you have. Someone that continuously focuses on their setbacks and thinking traits that lead to poor mental health and bad days. I'll be getting you to have a little think about who you are, how you feel and how to build your self esteem back up again. Joi...
Oct 25, 2024•39 min•Season 4Ep. 7
Guys, I did it. I celebrated 2 years sober at the weekend and this journey hasn't been easy but it has been so worth it. The road to reaching this milestone has taught me so much about perseverance and resilience. In this video I talk about how I got here and what breakthrough helped me connect my mental health with the addiction. Shelley makes a special appearance and to top off this incredible weekend off I invited a homeless man to the show and practically became my comedy sidekick. Thank you...
Oct 18, 2024•48 min•Season 4Ep. 6
Episode 5 guys is all about Sober firsts and how I dealt with them. Going sober is not easy and alongside that, you now have to experience moments that you would previously correlate a celebration with drinking and getting on it. From your first Christmas which is one of the hardest for me as first time going sober I cracked, to birthdays and holidays especially. I relay the heartbreak of my wedding and missing out on the girl's first few years. Through this podcast I will explain that they were...
Oct 11, 2024•46 min•Season 4Ep. 5
Episode 4 is the story of how I became an addict. Some of you may know about my past and what I have been through but for those of you that don't here is the story of my relationship with addiction. We start from the very beginning, looking at my childhood, through my teenage years, being cancelled, my dad dying and then into parenthood. I go through a self discovery within this podcast, looking at when I realised I had a problem or if I always had a problem and life just caught up with me. Watc...
Oct 04, 2024•43 min•Season 4Ep. 4
Here we go guys Episode 3. If you’re struggling with addiction or looking for ways to maintain your sobriety, this video will give you the 10 keys things that have helped me stay committed to sobriety.. From facing the truth about what your triggers are, to practicing accountability, and building a sober support network. I’ll walk you through what’s worked for me. Remember, this journey is about doing what’s best for YOU, not what pleases others. This journey is yours, and it starts with putting...
Sep 27, 2024•48 min•Season 4Ep. 3
Episode 2 here we go. It's an emotional one guys I'm not guna lie but it's all about dealing with things and realising how far I have come on this journey. This week's episode is all about not letting your thoughts become you and how to try not let them takeover. Thoughts can be very overpowering when it comes to sobriety and in this podcast I explain how I get through it when they occur. I had my first tour date in Wellingborough so I talk about how that went and there were definitely some char...
Sep 20, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 4Ep. 2
I'M BACK PEOPLE! Some of you may have thought I'd died or worse relapsed but you'd be wrong. It's been a rollercoaster of a 9 months but here we are, every Friday I'm here for you guys. I'm going to be talking stories, experiences, advice and how to love you. If you're struggling with sobriety or even just how to be happy in yourself then follow along on this podcast cause we're going to be talking about it all. During this Podcast I talk about how I've had a baby, how I felt closer than ever to...
Sep 13, 2024•38 min•Season 4Ep. 1
This week Daniel is joined by Elliott Wald for a Christmas Special! They will be discussing Daniel’s journey from last Christmas to now, the struggles that people with addiction face over the holiday period; particularly from peer pressure, at work parties and the pressure to take part with friends & family. Daniel and Elliott will be reflecting on the year as it draws to an end and giving their advice to those that may need it over the festive holidays. Hi guys, I’m coming to a town near yo...
Dec 15, 2023•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 50
In this episode, Dan is joined by Hayley, a qualified associate psychological practitioner (see more here: https://pmac.uk/about-us/). With Hayley facing her own struggles over the years, suffering an eating disorder in her teens, losing her mum to alcohol 8 years ago and recently being diagnosed with severe ADHD. Hayley hasn’t touched alcohol in a year and a half after disliking the effects that alcohol has. Despite their struggles, Hayley and her partner have worked hard to start their busines...
Dec 08, 2023•57 min•Season 3Ep. 49
In this episode, Dan is joined by Ollie Ollerton, ex-alcoholic, former UK Special Forces operative and one of the founding Directing Staff on Channel 4’s SAS: Who Dares Wins; delving into all things mindset! Ollie discussed being attacked by a chimp as a child, before embarking on his career beginning in the Royal Marine Commandos aged 18, taking part in multiple tours and going on to join the Special Boat Service; undertaking a number of high-profile missions and piloting the Submersible Dive V...
Dec 01, 2023•1 hr 24 min•Season 3Ep. 48
Join Dan as he chats with Lorri Haines, entrepreneur and family man from Essex. Lorri is the CEO of mental health and well-being app ‘Shoorah’ which launched in 2023 and has run multiple successful business ventures since he was a teenager. Lorri also stars in an ITV show with his fiancée; Ferne McCann: My Family & Me. Lorri Haines delves into his past, growing up with an alcoholic mother, who went through many partners. This resulted in lots of different male figures in Lorri’s life; all of...
Nov 24, 2023•1 hr 7 min•Season 3Ep. 47
Dan chats with Terry Devine, discussing his journey from ‘hopeless, hope-to-die street level junkie’, to being 11 years clean and a life coach. Terry shares his experiences as an ex heroin user of 20 years, which included bouts of homelessness, sofa-surfing, eating out of bins & suicide attempts. After attempting numerous ways to get clean, Terry reached his spiritual rock bottom, until he found the 12-step process. Along with additional resources Terry has been clean and abstinent ever sinc...
Nov 17, 2023•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 46
Dan chats with Carl Crowley, ex-armed forces to up & coming motivational therapist, as he opens up about his childhood trauma, addictions and breakdown of relationships. Carl shares his story, dealing with the death of loved ones, the struggles of dealing with anxiety, depression & being overweight, along with his alcohol & drug addiction. Talking about his divorce, losing his children and attempting suicide on multiple occasions. By turning his life around & taking accountabilit...
Nov 10, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 45
Join Dan in this episode as he talks to Anna Jasper, a single mum sharing her journey within the throes of addiction, broken family, single parenting, the loss of a loved one and the realisation of the strength it's taken to get this far. Discussing the universal problem of addiction, the effects it can cause to the children of addicted parents and changing the narrative, to ensure people know that 'it's normal to not be normal' and that the most important thing we can do in life is TALK. Anna o...
Nov 03, 2023•56 min•Season 3Ep. 44
Join Dan in this episode as he talks to Patrick Fox, a life coach who helps men rethink their relationship with alcohol. They dive into the common misconceptions about drinking, how our minds can trick us into desiring alcohol, and tools to change our thinking and break free from dependency. Patrick shares his own journey to sobriety after one wild December made him realise he needed to stop. He provides insight into dealing with social pressures, overcoming triggers, and cultivating self-belief...
Oct 26, 2023•1 hr 13 min•Season 3Ep. 43
Dan is joined by Howa, a brave woman who shares her harrowing life story involving childhood sexual abuse, mental health struggles, and a battle with addiction spanning over 20 years. Despite multiple suicide attempts and ongoing relapses, Howa remains determined to beat her demons through creative outlets like writing poetry and pursuing a degree in forensic psychology. This raw, emotional episode provides insight into addiction's roots and the failings of the mental health system, while offeri...
Oct 19, 2023•47 min•Season 3Ep. 42
Dan O'Reilly celebrates an incredible milestone - one year sober! In this raw and emotional episode, Dan reflects on the highs and lows of his journey with producer John. They have an honest heart-to-heart, with Dan opening up about his addictions, sobriety struggles, and the taboos around addiction. John asks thoughtful questions to uncover Dan's authentic thoughts and we learn how Dan has found himself, saved his marriage, and reconnected with his purpose. An inspiring episode proving it's nev...
Oct 12, 2023•51 min•Season 3Ep. 41
Dan hands the reins over to addiction specialist Elliot Wald in this episode. They delve into the changes in Dan's social circle, his mental resilience strategies like boxing, and how Dan's trust had to be rebuilt with his wife Shelley. Elliot administers an impulsivity test to Dan, scoring him at a sky-high 92! They also discuss why addiction is a form of "escapism," the importance of remembering your worst moments, and how to view compulsion versus repulsion. KEY TAKEAWAYS At 303 days sober, D...
Oct 05, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 40
Dan chats with Stewart Lee, author of "Me and My Addiction," about his journey with alcoholism and sobriety. Stewart shares his relatable story, from trying to fit in as an awkward teenager to hitting rock bottom and attempting suicide. He discusses getting and staying sober, including stints in rehab, relapsing at big life events, and finally committing to recovery. Stuart offers insights into addiction psychology and talks about finding purpose through new hobbies like boxing and dance. This r...
Sep 28, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 39
Dan chats with personal trainer Adam 'Lubbs' Lubbock about taking a stand against the fitness industry's silence on alcohol. Adam shares why he feels compelled to speak out, even if it means losing clients and followers. He provides insight into sobriety, discipline and the connections between mental and physical health. Listen as Adam inspires people in the fitness realm and beyond to have the courage to address society's unhealthy relationship with alcohol and prioritise true well-being, from ...
Sep 21, 2023•54 min•Ep. 38
Dan chats with inspirational speaker Lewis Raymond Taylor, who shares his unbelievable story of transforming from a violent criminal and diagnosed psychopath to a successful entrepreneur and life coach. They dive into Lewis' traumatic childhood, descent into alcoholism and addiction, multiple stints in jail, and eventual road to recovery. Lewis explains how rehab and self-development changed his life trajectory, leading him to build a massively successful coaching business. He offers honest insi...
Sep 14, 2023•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 37
This episode will challenge the way many of us think about drink, cocaine and the comedown. Dan is joined by Nicola Abraham to talk all about Cocaethylene and its role in suicide. They discuss the rise in male suicide, the lack of knowledge about this side effect of using and Nicola’s own tragic story. Nicola also talks about what she wants to achieve now she knows better and discusses the many barriers the foundation is trying to break down and the current help out there. Now Dan has learnt abo...
Sep 08, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 36
Get tickets for the next show! https://bigbellycomedy.club/livepodcasts/ Get ready for an unforgettable night of laughter, camaraderie, and open discussions as "Menace II Sobriety Live" takes the stage! Hosted by the dynamic trio of Daniel O’Reilly, Kirk Norcross, and Elliot Wald, this up-and-coming podcast comes to life in front of a live audience of 100 dedicated listeners. No topic is off-limits on this thought-provoking journey where humour meets real-life stories and the issues that resonat...
Sep 03, 2023•2 hr
Content Warning: Suicide In this episode, Dan wants to talk about a topic that is frequently intertwined with addiction, so much so that he sees it consistently in his mental health group and receives DMs about it daily: suicide in men. He is joined by John Connelly who talks about his own experience of almost taking his own life, what led him to that decision and what they both agree needs to change. KEY TAKEAWAYS On the outside everything appeared normal about John’s life. He had a loving fami...
Sep 01, 2023•53 min•Ep. 35
Kirk and Dan are joined by Eddie Cob, founder of ADAPT a charity which helps addicts seek recovery from addiction free of charge. Eddie started using drugs at a young age and shares in this episode her own experiences of addiction, recovery and life after drug addiction including life with her heroin-addicted partner. Eddie, Kurt and Dan explore the reasons behind addiction including the inability to deal with emotions, and feelings of shame but why ultimately it is always very complicated and d...
Aug 25, 2023•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 34
Dan is joined by Joe Sealey, ex-West Ham footballer who is currently starring in the Housewives of Cheshire. Joe is also the son of late Manchester United goalie Les Sealey, Joe lost his father and his football career at the same time which is what led him down the path of addiction. Joe talks to Dan in this episode about the role of his father and football in his life and addiction and how his wife helped him on the road to recovery. Joe opens up about what addiction and sobriety have been like...
Aug 18, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 33
Dan and Kirk discuss the topic of relapse in the context of sobriety. They share their personal experiences with relapse, highlighting the different ways it can manifest and the challenges it presents. Kirk opens up about his own relapses, detailing the triggers and emotions that led him back to substance use. He reflects on the disappointment and self-blame that accompanied his relapses, as well as the impact they had on his relationships and overall well-being. Kirk and Dan also touch on the i...
Aug 10, 2023•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 32
