Tanja is back with Robert with candid coaching and dropping into a topic i hear many men deal with. The shame of desiring sex. How to be a good man and own your sexuality when your childhood and early teens programs didn't set you up well.
A brave listner of Men, Sex and Tantra takes Tanja up on being coached on the podcast. Robert has faced what a lot of good men are facing today... confusion around what women want and why when a man attempts to give them what they ask for, they are rejected.
Mathias and Tanja dive into the topic of vulnerability and it's most men's least favorite topic... we get it. Some men would say "OK vulnerability is not as important as authenticity. I think authenticity is important! But let's unpack this: in order to be authentic to yourself… First you have to know yourself. Second of all, you are an evolving being and so from one perspective "being authentic" you might be authentic to a way you existed before or a way of being… But in authentic in a way that...
Some people think about the truth : "you want the truth? You can't handle the truth!!" With a sense of happiness or duty... From a western standpoint, our mind is conditioned to think about things. Especially from a western scientific standpoint, we take things and slice and dice them into smaller and smaller quantities, analyze them, interpret our analysis, then extrapolate that interpretation of that analysis to put in a report to be a peer reviewed, for maximum competitive advantage... But if...
J Mathias and I get into the definition and idea of courage. It's my numer 1 value and I use it everyday to make decisions and stay in alignment with my integrity. Is courage a heroic act or something you are driven to by an impulsive action. "Courage is that which is in alignment with a particular value or goal" Mathias Do you have the courage to do what you need to do in your life? Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a N...
My new guest J Mathias Bennett brings a refreshing perspectve to things that make men stand out from the ordinary and become unforgettable. Our next 4 episodes dive into what seems like some familiar topics and yet we deep dive into questions and answers that will leave you rethinking things. It's what happens when spiritual meets strategy. Buckle in and learn to question everything. Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a N...
Enough of the BS that a masculine man needs a watered down woman. Most strong men I have met are not intimidated nor turned off my a strong woman. Oliver is a badass and his woman is a force of nature. When Oliver gets attacked by a wolf, it's a woman who saves him. Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach Oliver - TahoeWolfCenter.org - OliverTheWolfGuy.com (Merch) - YouTube (Oliver the Wolf Guy): h...
Olver Starr is still with us and we explore what can wolves show us about the potency of aging in a world obbsessed with youth. Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach Oliver- - TahoeWolfCenter.org - OliverTheWolfGuy.com (Merch) - YouTube (Oliver the Wolf Guy): https://www.youtube.com/@oliverthewolfguy - TikTok (Oliver the Wolf Guy): https://www.tiktok.com/@oliverthewolfguy - X (formerly Twitter) (...
Oliver expains why the females in the wolf family group are the glue which holds the pack together. We see the same experience in human family groups. Let's see if we gain some wolf wisdom for our own journey. Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach Oliver Starr TahoeWolfCenter.org - OliverTheWolfGuy.com (Merch) - YouTube (Oliver the Wolf Guy): https://www.youtube.com/@oliverthewolfguy - TikTok (Ol...
I have Olver Starr with me to talk about how we got it all wrong when it comes to what an Alpha is. And Oliver should know, he works with wolves and removes mama bears from under houses! In a world where a bunch of men on podcasts are giving you a bunch of BS about the Alpha male... come hear the real scoop. Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach Oliver Starr is a wolf conservationist, author, and...
Ever felt like you’re not getting a straight answer from a woman? Like her words are wrapped in layers of implication, energy, and mystery? In the realm of sex, intimacy, and tantra, what appears vague is often an invitation to go deeper. I explore why women communicate the way they do, what’s actually happening beneath the surface, and how men can meet that energy—not with frustration or force, but with curiosity and conscious leadership. This episode is a wake-up call for men who want to stop ...
Tanja is solo today talking about her work with couples... Couples don't communicate well and when it comes to sex it's usually even more tragic. Why you should read and watch what she does to ask better questions and stop making assumptions. Improve your sex life. Intro Coaching Session Here Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach...
People often wonder what happens in your life when you heal your past patterns and wounds and start to move into self care. Is it selffish to put yourself first? Farren joins me again and shares the successes on this journey to being true to youself. Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session...
In a world where good men don't want to be jerks, the idea of saying no to others can be hard. How can you be true to yourself and not hurt others. Learning to say no, without explanations will be the power you need to get back to living the truth of your life and stop putting yourself last. Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here l...
My guest today is Farren West, one of my friends and clients. He shares his path since his divorce 5 years ago and how he was stuck in the nice guy space and suffered unhappiness for many years. Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach...
What is the difference between addiction and strategies? Are your strategies working for you or hurting you. Alberto discusses his journey through different addictions. Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach...
Alberto is with me again and we are tackling the self love dilema. What actually is it and how do you make it happen? There are 4 pillars to self love, self commitement, self trust, self respect and self love. Explore the way to fall in love with yourself and why it matters. Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.c...
Meet Alberto Bercich who's becoming a Neo Tantra Certifued Coach in my Program. He reveals why he's doing it and what he has learned in the process. Lots of gems dropped in this episode Bandbbotanicals.com https://www.facebook.com/bandbbotanicals?mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfr Hiveholisticcenter.com https://www.facebook.com/hiveholistic?mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfr Theconnectioncoaches.com Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man w...
Hey lovebirds and laughter lovers! 🎙️ Tanja here, and boy, do I have a treat for you! In this episode, we dive into the wild ride of balancing dating, intimacy, and marriage. We chat about those hilarious six-minute comedy sets (yeah, I’m an amateur comedian now!), and the joys and challenges of setting outrageous goals like climbing the Empire State Building. Ever felt like your dreams were met with a chorus of “Are you crazy?” from friends and family? We get it. Join me as I break down all th...
Lukasz and Tanja discuss sexual empowerment and the poly world. Do you need to be sexually open to lots of sex and people to be liberated and sexually healthy? You might be surprised at what two very sex-positive people have to say about it. IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program...
Lukasz and Tanja tackle the real reason you are flagging in the sex department. How you are inadvertently tanking your testosterone and sex life and what to do about it. Phylates are a big culprit, along with soy and deodorant. IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program...
Lukasz and Tanja take a trip to fairyland. Fairyland is the new age blissed-out scene where spiritual seekers go to live in ungrounded unconditional love and high vibration. Is it a great place to hang out? Or should you avoid it at all costs? IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program...
Lukasz Darmosz is Tanja's new guest, and the conversation about tattoos, energy, hidden messages in water, and the intention you carry surprises them both. Lukasz can be found IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program...
Shibari is the ancient Japanese art of tying knots. Strider is a fan, and this episode has some twists and turns as Tanja weaves the episode into some other considerations when entering the kink world. To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program...
Energetic Ethics? What the heck is that when it comes to objectification? Strider has a 5-second rule of looking at someone, and Tanja gets into the nitty gritty of checking someone else out at the gym. To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program...
Erotic Authenticity - Strider and Tanja break down what this means. Tanja believes that just because it feels good doesn't mean you should do it—what does it mean to be erotically authentic? There is a lot of juice in this episode. To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program...
Join me and my new guest, Strider John Peterson, as we explore masculine containment. How to show up as a protective man and not be confused about what that means. Create safety when protecting. Reach Strider here https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program...
It seems straightforward that your family relationships impacted your intimacy abilities, but maybe you have never seen how. James D lets us in on how the relationship with his brother impacted his dating and sex life. A very candid and vulnerable share and interesting look into the complexity of relating. For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program...
Life doesn't always give you a break or even provide you with what you want. Dealing with challenges can leave you feeling angry and frustrated, blaming others for those feelings. The inability to deal with these negative feelings will impact your relationships and career. Rejection can be crippling, and we talk about strategies to make sure it doesn't stop you. For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program...
James D and Tanja dive into the idea of the Irish proverb, “ You don't give a man a weapon until you've taught him how to dance .” There are so many instances where this is applicable, and of course, sex is one of them. Do you use your penis as a weapon.?.. Learning to balance empty and full is the name of the game. For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program...
