You are trying to influence someone to change and improve their life. It will enhance every aspect of their life, BUT all you get is resistance. What is going on? How can you get others to accept worthwhile positive change that will benefit them? Where does this resistance come from? Let's explore this resistance and those common reasons why people may resist positive change. For more info about John visit his website here. Want to get others to want to change? Want to make change stick in your ...
Nov 22, 2023•20 min
Influencing and motivating children requires a different set of persuasion tools. Their brain is not fully developed until they are 25. This means you have to adapt to their way of thinking and adjust your influence tools to them. Why Do Teenagers Take More Risks Want more tips and techniques on How to Persuade Kids, Teenagers, And Those Without Frontal Lobes? Join me for this week's podcast, where you will discover the ten specific tools you can use to persuade those younger people, whether it ...
Nov 15, 2023•22 min
How do you build value so you don't have to fight on price? Only rookies fight on price. We all know you get what you pay for – so why is everyone fighting on price when only 6 percent of our purchases are based on price? If they say it is too expensive – you have blown your presentation. So, how do you create value or demonstrate the benefits of our product or service? Here are a few ways to get started on your path to sell value, not price. Do you build the value or vomit the features of your ...
Nov 08, 2023•21 min
I know you love to use Powerpoint. Those slides make everything so much easier, and you won't forget anything. You don't need as much preparation time, BUT your audience hates it, and it is not persuasive. Let's discuss the top 3 complaints about Powerpoint and how to fix them. So, Why Did Jeff Bezos Ban Powerpoint From His Meetings? Do you want to know more about the science of visuals and how to rock a presentation using PowerPoint and being persuasive? Death by PowerPoint Join me for this wee...
Nov 02, 2023•20 min
Have you noticed the dramatic changes in presentations, communication, and training? The focus used to be on education. The latest research reveals that we need to spend more time grabbing your audience's attention and maintaining their interest. Creating and delivering persuasive presentations can be challenging. Anyone can inform, but is it influential? Does your message have an impact? Is it too complicated? Join us for this week's podcast on Quickly Simplify Your Message - Davina Stanley Int...
Oct 26, 2023•23 min
Is silence overused and abused? Yes, but you still need to use. When it is used in the wrong way or with the wrong person, you can come across as unprofessional and create the wrong type of tension. The goal of silence is to indicate that you are approaching the end of the negotiation, and the silence is the signal to make a decision. Listen for a few keys to help you use (not misuse) silence to seal the deal. The 5 Core Skills Of Hostage Negotiators Want to know more about silence and other neg...
Oct 19, 2023•20 min
The thought of using the "dumb is smart" technique in persuasion and sales may seem counterintuitive because your prospect wants to deal with the expert. This strategy has two parts. This is the ability to simplify your message and simplify your presence. Sometimes, your presence with a prospect can be too complicated or arrogant. Believe your own lies Join me for this week's podcast on Dumb Is More Persuasive Than Smart - Dumb Is Smart. We will explore how to use this technique to bond with you...
Oct 11, 2023•20 min
I want to explore ways to resist another person's unethical persuasive attempt on this podcast. This is good to know for you as a person and as a persuader. As a person, this information will help you resist unwanted persuasive attempts. How to build a habit in 5 steps, according to science As a persuader, you will see some of this resistance or behavior in your prospects and need to adjust your presentation. So how do you resist persuasion or even manipulation? Join me for this week's podcast o...
Oct 04, 2023•21 min
Influential individuals have the ability to understand nonverbal cues. By learning to read body language, you can gain insights and adjust your approach accordingly. Look for clusters of these nonverbal signals, as one alone may not provide a complete picture. 8 Ways To Identify A Liar Why do people lie? Want to know how to spot a liar? Would it be beneficial to be able to detect deception? Discover additional ways to spot deception and leverage it during the persuasion process. Join me for this...
Sep 27, 2023•20 min
Join me for this week's podcast on How To Influence As The Underdog (Dark Horse) - The David And Goliath Effect. I will explain the David and Goliath Effect and how to leverage it to persuade with power. I will explain additional techniques on how to use these concepts to get more support and increase your sales. Coffee Cup Test Charisma is the 20% that gives you 80% of your results. Charisma is the skill that will give you the quickest return on your time and dramatically increase your success ...
Sep 20, 2023•20 min
Charismatic individuals and psychopaths have mastered the ability to influence others. Both have the tools and traits to get others to see their point of view. 10 insights into the mystery of charisma The Quality That Makes Some Psychopaths So Successful Those are the similarities, but there are also many differences. Join me for this week's podcast: Are You Charismatic Or A Psychopath? You will discover the differences Between Charisma and Psychopaths. We will also discuss how to know someone i...
Sep 13, 2023•21 min
Why do people tend to resist you? For some reason, the moment they sense you are trying to sell them or persuade them to do something – they go in the opposite direction. So why are you getting resistance? Are you causing it or is in coming from your prospect? Join me for this week's podcast on Selling through Resistance and Stigma - Interview With Franco Perez. You will discover how to deal with resistance, stigmas, objections, and the new form of communication. For more info about Franko visit...
Sep 06, 2023•22 min
Studies show how people use, react to, configure, and occupy the space around them. We all want our own space and feel uncomfortable when people violate our personal territory. While it may sound overly obvious, research shows that many persuaders get too familiar too fast. Disrespect for your audience's personal space—especially when you are first meeting them – you can't build rapport and cause resistance. Many persuaders don't know they are violating their audience's space. They may think, fo...
Aug 30, 2023•20 min
Selling is changing every day. This is due to advancements in technology, shifts in consumer trust, and evolving markets. You speaks to me - Effects of generic-you in creating resonance between people and ideas Join me for this week's podcast on The Trifecta (3 Traits) of a Perfect Sales Person. Now you know what has changed in the sales world – Discover the 3 traits and characteristics of a perfect salesperson. Find out the key area you can develop to change your sales success. OFFER OF THE WEE...
Aug 23, 2023•21 min
The Mum Effect refers to the phenomenon where individuals in a group or crowd are less likely to help a person in need when other people are present. This happens because individuals assume that someone else will take action, leading them to do nothing. The Mum Effect also occurs when you have food in your teeth or your zipper is down, and no one tells you. Praise for intelligence can undermine children's motivation and performance. How do you influence others to help you without getting stuck w...
Aug 16, 2023•21 min
Adapting your selling approach to customers who are high in Influencer (DISC) and have an Expressive type personality can be beneficial in building trust and increasing your chances of persuasion and influence. How do you know if a person is this personality type, and how do you adapt your persuasion? Baseball reveals that specialists excel after leaving comfort zones Constantly adjust your persuasion approach based on your prospect's style and needs. This will increase your chances of influence...
Aug 03, 2023•20 min
Adapting your selling approach to customers who are high in Steadiness (DISC) and have a C-type personality can be beneficial in building trust and increasing your chances of persuasion and influence. How do you know if a person is this personality type and how do you adapt your persuasion? The unconscious mind can detect a liar–even when the conscious mind fails Always adjust your persuasion approach based on your prospect's specific preferences and needs. This will increase your chances of inf...
Jul 27, 2023•20 min
Adapting your selling approach to customers who are high in Dominant (DISC) and have a Red (Color Code) personality can be beneficial in building trust and increasing your chances of influence. How do you know if a person is this type of personality? How to make self-affirmation work, based on science Always adjust your persuasion approach based on your prospect's specific preferences and needs. This will increase your chances of influence. Want to discover how to read, understand and adapt to t...
Jul 19, 2023•21 min
Adapting your selling approach to customers who are high in Conscientiousness (DISC) and have a white (Color Code) personality can be beneficial in building trust and increasing your chances of influence. How do you know if a person is this type of personality? The Psychological Study of Smiling Always adjust your persuasion approach based on your prospect's specific preferences and needs. This will increase your chance of influence. Want to discover how to read, understand and adapt to this per...
Jul 06, 2023•21 min
We already know you should adjust your influence and persuade people how they want to be persuaded. This is true for personality, culture, and especially age. So, do you know how to adapt to Baby Boomers, Generation X, Millennials, and Generation Z? Here is a quick reference guide of what to adjust for each generation. Cutting back on social media reduces anxiety, depression, loneliness Generational Differences in Workforce This is just the tip of the iceberg on how to adapt and persuade each ge...
Jun 29, 2023•22 min
Overcoming the fear of failure is essential to unlocking one's potential for success. Understanding your EQ, anxiety, fear, and just getting stuck on your way to success. Join me for this week's podcast on Get Unstuck – How To Eliminate Fear, Anxiety, Worry In Your Life. I will interview a Psychologist on the skills needed to take your life and success to the next level. P.S. Lifetime membership to Gold Influence University 65% off your membership Influence University is the ...
Jun 22, 2023•21 min
You find yourself in a tense team meeting, striving to defend your stance on a significant project, but you begin to sense that you're losing ground. Your volume escalates, and you interrupt one of your colleagues to correct their perspective. Your Brain Is Hooked on Being Right How do we use brain chemicals to change minds? Join me for this week's podcast on Brain Chemicals That Help/Hurt Influence - Cortisol, Oxytocin, Dopamine, And Serotonin. I will reveal how to use these different brain che...
Jun 14, 2023•21 min
While it is essential to maintain ethical practices in persuasion, it's important to be aware of common deceptive techniques that some salespeople may employ. Understanding these tactics can help you recognize them and avoid falling victim to them. They are here to understand how they are used and not to use them. On being happy and gullible: Mood effects on skepticism and the detection of deception Want to know more about these tactics? Where are people crossing the line between persuasion and ...
Jun 06, 2023•21 min
Imagine a life where fear has no power over you. A life where you confront your fears head-on, just like the most successful individuals. It all starts with a crucial realization: unless you face your fears, how can you ever overcome them? Now, imagine unlocking the remaining steps to success. Envision programming your mind for the success and abundance you truly deserve. There's one crucial ingredient that most people overlook or postpone. Join me on this week's captivating podcast episode: "Th...
May 31, 2023•21 min
Let's talk about where negotiation fits into the world of persuasion and the difference between the two. Persuasion occurs when your ideas are so convincing that the other party adopts your viewpoint. With persuasion, there is no compromising as there is in negotiation. Negotiation, on the other hand, is a process of give and take. It's overcoming objections on both sides of an issue and ultimately reaching some common ground. The challenge for most people during a negotiation is what they are d...
May 24, 2023•21 min
It's the old "80/20 Rule." The most highly successful people expend 20 percent of the effort and get 80 percent of the results, while the less effective folks put out 80 percent of the effort only to get 20 percent. Sound unfair? Let me give you a tip for entering the world of 20 percent work/80 percent results. Great persuaders understand that time is more important than money. They are fanatically aware that while we can accumulate money, we cannot accumulate time. How Do You Use Your Limited ...
May 09, 2023•21 min
Are you tired of feeling like your success is just out of reach? It's time to unlock your full potential with the power of charisma! Charisma isn't just a trait that a lucky few are born with - it's a skill that can be learned and mastered by anyone. YES, anyone. Charismatic Leadership 16 Compliments You Didn't Realize Are Actually Pretty Insulting Revenue AI and Sales Trends Want to become more charismatic? Want to know the formula for instant influence? There are significant benefits to becomi...
May 03, 2023•20 min
AI has the potential to revolutionize the sales process and provide numerous benefits to salespeople. By leveraging AI tools to automate routine tasks, analyze data, and provide personalized messaging, salespeople can increase efficiency, improve customer service, and ultimately close more deals. However, it's important to note that AI should be used in conjunction with human expertise and judgment, not as a replacement for it. How to Respond to Rude or Inappropriate Remarks Pause…… How crazy is...
Apr 26, 2023•21 min
Have you ever found yourself scrolling through your social media feed, only to be captivated by a clickbait headline? You're not alone. Clickbait is here to stay. There's a scientific reason why you can't resist clicking on that link. We don't want to miss out on anything we could own. We want to get around any restrictions placed upon us. We feel uptight and want our freedom back. This causes tension and unrest. The Law of Scarcity not only pertains to physical products, but also to time, infor...
Apr 19, 2023•20 min
Have you ever met someone utterly clueless about their incompetence? Or worse, have you ever worked with someone who thinks they're a genius but can't seem to get anything right? If so, you may have encountered the Dunning-Kruger effect, a cognitive bias that causes people to overestimate their abilities and underestimate their weaknesses. We Are All Confident Idiots Dunning–Kruger effect Join me for this week's podcast on Do You Work With A Confident Idiot? How To Persuade Through The Dunning–K...
Apr 12, 2023•13 min
