Discover the damaging effects of keeping score in your marriage in this episode. We discuss the negative impact of tallying up wins and losses, and how it can erode trust, communication, and intimacy between partners. Gain a fresh perspective on why it's crucial to let go of the scoreboard mentality and embrace a more collaborative approach to resolving conflicts and sharing responsibilities. Don't let keeping score sabotage your relationship - watch this video to learn how to create a harmoniou...
Jun 01, 2023•49 min•Ep. 69
What's up Real Ones! In this episode we delve into the profound impact that trauma can have on one's perspective toward love and discuss the connection between past wounds and present-day experiences. We also discuss our thoughts on the Derrick Jackson scandal. Tune in now!
May 26, 2023•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 68
We are celebrating our 7 year anniversary! Tune in to discover the ultimate guide to overcoming the infamous "7-year itch" in marriage. From effective communication techniques to reigniting intimacy, we explore proven strategies and expert insights that pave the way for a strong and healthy lifelong partnership. Join us on this transformative journey towards a love that stands the test of time.
May 12, 2023•56 min•Ep. 67
What's Up Real Ones?! In this week's episode, we decided to get "Real" and share our experiences on how facing and overcoming trials in our relationship ultimately shifted our perspectives on what it means to make sacrifices in your marriage. This conversation leads us to "Is there an I in We?" Visit: www.realationshipspodcast.com Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/ebE6_i_CiLs Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook: Realationshipspodcast If you enjoyed this episode, please like and l...
May 02, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 66
What's Up Real Ones?! In this week's episode, we got a chance to sit down and discuss all things finance with Rasmey personality, Jade Warshaw. Listen as she shares her story of how she was able to pay off almost half a million dollars worth of debt and become debt free. She now coaches others alongside her husband to help them get out of debt and become financially free! Visit: www.realationshipspodcast.com Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/Y2Wiy2qfF5Q Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and...
Apr 24, 2023•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 65
What's Up Real Ones!? Do you and your spouse get tested for STD's? In this episode we discuss a multitude of things from testing while married, giving the ring back if you call off your proposal and if you prefer for your partner to have a clear vision or solid values? Visit: www.realationshipspodcast.com Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook: Realationshipspodcast If you enjoyed this episode, please like and leave a review!...
Apr 21, 2023•41 min•Ep. 64
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Apr 07, 2023•4 min
What's Up Real Ones?! In this week's episode we wanted to unpack a clip we saw on social media that stated "dating is practicing for divorce". This definitely caught our attention and opened our eyes to see that maybe our habits formed in previous relationships can determine if we stay married or get divorced. Visit: www.realationshipspodcast.com Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/gD8ULndPSt4 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook: Realationshipspodcast If you enjoyed this episode, p...
Apr 06, 2023•58 min•Ep. 63
What's Up Real Ones ?! Have you ever fallen victim to your partner giving you an ultimatum? In this episode, we unpack the dangers of demanding your partner to make a decision in your relationship and how doing so can ultimately lead to the demise of your relationship. Visit: www.realationshipspodcast.com Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/gZ1vMqqVanc Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook: Realationshipspodcast If you enjoyed this episode, please like and leave a review!...
Mar 30, 2023•54 min•Ep. 62
What's Up Real Ones?! After a controversial week of trending topics on social media, we decided to discuss The Culture's impact on relationships in today's society and share our thoughts on the matter. Visit: www.realationshipspodcast.com Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/hyyCRXPCjoI Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook: Realationshipspodcast If you enjoyed this episode, please like and leave a review!...
Mar 23, 2023•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 61
What's Up Real Ones! We're Back!!! In this episode, we wanted to unpack the trauma baggage many of us unknowingly carry throughout life. We decided to share our personal stories of how childhood trauma showed up in our relationship as adults. And discuss how you can identify if you are suffering from past trauma in your current relationship. Visit: www.realationshipspodcast.com Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/OF7YI3iwpTU Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook: Realationshipspodcas...
Mar 10, 2023•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 60
What's Up Real Ones! In this episode, we wanted to be extremely vulnerable and share a personal dark time that unfortunately so many people face. We hope that this episode will bring light to someone facing a dark time. And help them to see things can get better after the storm. Visit: www.realationshipspodcast.com Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/Azh7EeoFljM Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook: Realationshipspodcast If you enjoyed this episode, please like and leave a review!...
Oct 11, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 59
What's Up Real Ones! After the recent news of several celeb couples announcing their divorce this week, we decided to have an open discussion on our thoughts on divorce. And how we were able to navigate our relationship through the storms we endured to avoid having to file for divorce. Visit: www.realationshipspodcast.com Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/RVtYIePKPd8 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook: Realationshipspodcast If you enjoyed this episode, please like and leave a re...
Oct 06, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 58
What's Up Real Ones! After seeing a discussion on social media and hearing so many people having a negative perception of marriage, we thought it was critical to discuss the benefits of marriage in today's society and how you can potentially alter your opinion on marriage for the better!
Sep 21, 2022•49 min•Ep. 57
What's Up Real Ones! After seeing a post on social media about couples sleeping in separate rooms we wanted to dive deeper into the topic and determine if sleeping separately from your spouse contributes to marital/relationship dissatisfaction or satisfaction. We were surprised by our findings and think you all will be too!
Sep 15, 2022•33 min•Ep. 56
What's Up Real Ones! In this episode, we wanted to unpack what emotional availability looks like in a relationship. Why do some individuals seem emotionally unavailable? And things you can do if you or your partner is having a difficult time being emotionally available.
Aug 22, 2022•55 min•Ep. 55
What's Up Real Ones! This topic got rather heated in the comment section when we posted an article we came across on social media, that discussed the decrease in opportunities for men to date due to the rise of higher expectations of women. So, we decided to break down the article and research we came across and dive deep into why this controversial topic struck a flame with so many people.
Aug 12, 2022•42 min•Ep. 54
What's Up Real Ones! In this episode, we want to go back to the basics and discuss sex values. Most of us have a clear understanding of our values in life but have you ever asked yourself or your partner what are your sex values? We decided to share our take on the conversation that can be uncomfortable for some while sharing key questions to ask yourself or your partner to have a better understanding of how you value sex.
Aug 06, 2022•44 min•Ep. 53
What's Up Real Ones! So after hearing several conversations on social media, we thought it was necessary to run it back and break down the meaning of submission and how it relates to marriage. We decided to share two very different perspectives on the topic that we came across on Instagram while also giving the biblical definition of what it means to be a submissive wife.
Jul 16, 2022•57 min•Ep. 52
What's Up Real Ones! It's been some time since our last episode and most of you thought we left ya'll on "READ" for good. But we are back and with have some exciting news to share. In this episode catch up with us on the highs and lows we experienced over the past three months that kept us away for far too long.
Jul 07, 2022•30 min•Ep. 51
What's Up Real Ones! After so many discussions about the Oscars this week, we decided to share our thoughts on the matter and break down what it means to protect your woman and how a quick decision can drastically impact your life.
Mar 31, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 48
Imagine you are dating someone for a couple of months and everything is going great! Just when you think it's time to take things to the next level and make it official, the person you're dating decides they aren't ready for a relationship and call it quits. In this episode, we break down the truth behind some break-up statements that just don't make sense!
Mar 24, 2022•42 min•Ep. 47
What's Up Real Ones! Who said don't go to sleep mad? Is that really something that most of us can keep our word on? In this episode, we share some of our recent struggles of falling short of properly handling conflict even though we have all the tools and resources to effectively communicate and resolve conflict. Sometimes, challenges arise that set your relationship back but it doesn't have to stay there. We discuss how to acknowledge your faults and address the problem with love....
Mar 09, 2022•47 min•Ep. 46
What's Up Real Ones! In this episode, we wanted to touch on the importance of allowing men to be vulnerable and comfortable enough to speak their truth, without the fear of being judged as "soft". We unpack the history of this negative mentality and how we can set the tone for a better future for emotionally intelligent men!
Feb 24, 2022•53 min•Ep. 45
What's Up Real Ones! In this episode, we discuss the cause and effects of putting your children before your spouse and how detrimental it can be for your relationship. Sit back and relax while we unpack this very touchy topic.
Feb 09, 2022•41 min•Ep. 44
Feb 04, 2022•3 min
What's Up Real Ones! It's February and we are celebrating Black History Month and The Month of Love! In this episode we wanted to breakdown and discuss the importance of "fighting" for your relationship after seeing so many people on social media say, they are no longer fighting to make their relationship work. We wanted to clear the blurred lines of what it means to fight for your relationship (making a determined effort) and how to be intentional with you words, actions, and resources when you...
Feb 02, 2022•48 min•Ep. 43
What's Up Real Ones! When trust is broken in relationships, most couples suffer from Negative Sentiment Override (NSO). NSO is when you believe everything your partner does is negative or has a hidden agenda. In this quickie, we discuss some solutions that can help you turn those negative interactions into positive ones!
Jan 28, 2022•4 min
What's Up Real Ones?! In this episode, we wanted to open up a dialogue on a very controversial topic, "Should a woman take her man's last name when they get married "? After putting up a post on our social media platforms asking this question, we quickly realized that we needed to go more in-depth on this topic and share our perspectives.
Jan 27, 2022•48 min•Ep. 42
What's Up Real Ones?! We're back at it for another week in a row! This week wanted to dedicate to a few of our real ones and answer some very deep questions that was sent to us in hopes to salvage their relationships.
Jan 19, 2022•56 min•Ep. 41
