What's Up Real Ones! It's been almost two years since Covid has came in like a catastrophic storm and flipped our lives upside down. Unfortunately, a lot of couples have suffered from this devastating disease, that has lead to breakup and divorce. In this episode we wanting to discuss some of the factors contributing to the demise of relationships and how you can "vaccinate" your relationship to help during these difficult times.
Jan 12, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 40
What's Up Real Ones! Happy New Year! 2022 has arrived and everyone is excited for a new year, new start. In this episode we wanted to catch up with you guys and share our thoughts and goals for 2022!
Jan 05, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 39
What's Up Real Ones?! In this episode we wanted to share some of our own personal struggles with identifying and accepting each others parenting styles. We also dive into what we believe influenced our parenting styles and provide research based tips to help you if you are struggling to flourish in this area.
Dec 08, 2021•56 min•Ep. 38
What's Up Real Ones! In this episode we decided to break down a clip we saw on social media about "cheating respectfully". This topic got a lot of attention when we discussed it on one of our Instagram Live, so we wanted to circle back and share our point of views on why we believe this is such a toxic way of thinking.
Nov 18, 2021•47 min•Ep. 37
WELCOME BACK! What's Up Real Ones?! We've been gone for a minute but we are back and excited to talk to you all again! In this episode we discuss the reason why we took such a long hiatus. We are also dropping some very important gems that will help everyone leading into the holiday season and new year to become the best version of their self NOW!
Nov 11, 2021•54 min•Ep. 36
What's Up Real Ones?! In this episode we discuss how important it is to spend quality time with your partner after having a baby. Most couples experience some form of neglect in their relationship after having their first born because the relationship becomes child focused. This sometimes leads to separation or divorce if it's not properly addressed and fixed. Listen closely as we discuss how having our baby girl impacted our relationship and things we did to be intentional about being attuned w...
Aug 24, 2021•50 min•Ep. 35
What's Up Real Ones?! In this episode we had the opportunity to chat with author and speaker Micheal S. Sorensen about his book, I Hear You . Micheal breaks down the "Art of Validation" and how learning this method and be life changing in all areas of your life!
Jul 29, 2021•33 min•Ep. 34
What's Up Real Ones! Have you ever caught yourself arguing with your partner over something that happened months or even years ago? If so, you're not alone. In this episode we discuss why it's so important to resolve those issues (big or small) immediately. And how to set boundaries to avoid those same issues from reoccurring in the future.
Jul 21, 2021•41 min•Ep. 33
What's Up Real Ones! Nine years ago we decided to embark on our spiritual journey together and get baptized. We didn't know it then but that decision would be the best decision we made for our relationship. Shortly after we entered a storm so powerful that had we not laid our spiritual foundation when we did we wouldn't be where we are today. In this episode we share our testimony of how impactful it has been for us to build a relationship with God together and how it covered our union during th...
Jun 29, 2021•48 min•Ep. 32
What's Up Real Ones! In this episode we decided to take it back with a classic, after seeing a post on social media about a petition being signed to cancel Destiny's Child Cater 2 U song. We were so confused by the topic we had to break down the lyrics and share our thoughts!
Jun 15, 2021•46 min•Ep. 31
What's Up Real Ones! We are back and ready to fill you in on all the details of why we've been MIA! We appreciate all the love, support, and patience while we got ourselves together. So, we decided to dedicate this episode to our REAL ONES and answer a few of your questions that we thought would be helpful to so many individuals! Be sure to visit our site www.realationshipspodcast.com and check out our first custom piece from our REAL LOVE COLLECTION, our REAL LOVE DEFINED T-shirt!...
Jun 03, 2021•59 min•Ep. 30
What's Up Real Ones! Today we are celebrating our 5th year anniversary! So, we wanted to share with you the top five things we learned about ourselves and marriage in these last 5 years. Be sure to listen all the way through because we are definitely dropping gems that can help you and your marriage.
May 13, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 29
What's Up Real Ones! Have you ever noticed yourself comparing your relationship to others on social media and tv? Well if so, your not alone. So many individuals find themselves caught up in the fantasy of living up to someone else's reality. In this episode we discuss how harmful this action is to your relationship and how you should focus less on those around you and more on the person with you.
Apr 13, 2021•54 min•Ep. 28
What's Up Real Ones! Most of us have heard of the 5 Love Languages, and for those who haven't, you're in for a real treat! In this episode we had the pleasure to speak with the creator and author of the 5 Love Languages, Dr. Gary Chapman. We dive deep into what the 5 Love Languages mean and how having a clear understanding of them can transform not only your relationship but your personal life as well.
Mar 19, 2021•31 min•Ep. 27
What's Up Real Ones! In this episode we had the opportunity to sit down with John and Julie Gottman and discuss the key principles of Dr. Gottman's book The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work. The gems they're dropping will surely help your marriage to not only survive but THRIVE!
Mar 14, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 26
What's Up Real Ones! I'm sure we have all heard about the tragic incident where a young lady thought it was a bright idea to put gorilla glue in her hair. Although we don't recommend using glue as a hair spray substitute, we thought this episode would be a great analogy of how you can use the word GLUE to keep your relationship strong and bonded. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast Follow us on Instagram: Podcast- https://www.instagram.com/reala...
Mar 05, 2021•54 min•Ep. 25
What's Up Real Ones! In this episode we decided to share our personal thoughts on the controversial topic of submission in marriage and how breaking down the biblical definition helped to change our opinion on the subject. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast Follow us on Instagram: Podcast- https://www.instagram.com/realationshipspodcast/?hl=en Asha- https://www.instagram.com/ashastill/?hl=en Devon- https://www.instagram.com/stillinthegame/?hl=e...
Feb 10, 2021•54 min•Ep. 24
What's up Real Ones! Do you find yourself being drawn to toxic individuals? In this we discuss why it is that so many people stay in toxic relationships and how they contribute to the toxicity without even knowing it. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast Follow us on Instagram: Podcast- https://www.instagram.com/realationshipspodcast/?hl=en Asha- https://www.instagram.com/ashastill/?hl=en Devon- https://www.instagram.com/stillinthegame/?hl=en...
Jan 26, 2021•52 min•Ep. 23
What's up Real Ones! After receiving a message from one of our Real Ones about this topic we thought it would be interesting to discuss and get your feedback on how long is too long to wait for marriage? Some people believe that 6 to 12 months is enough time to determine if you want to spend the rest of your life with your partner. In this episode we share our opinion of what is the "right" time and determining factors to pop the question, "Will You Marry Me". Join our Patreon for exclusive cont...
Jan 08, 2021•48 min•Ep. 22
2020 has been an emotional roller coaster for all of us. In this episode we recap all the highs and lows we experienced this year and discuss our goals for 2021! Click the link below to learn more about our patreon launching January 1st, 2021. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast
Dec 31, 2020•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 21
What's up Real Ones! We decided to dedicate this episode to you, as promised. We receive so many questions asking for advice on how to get over an ex, dealing with a long distance relationship, to how to spice up a dwindling relationship. After going through all those messages we figured it was only right to answer all those questions and more in this episode. So sit back, relax, and enjoy the bumpy ride! Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast...
Dec 22, 2020•50 min•Ep. 20
What's up Real Ones?! In this episode we are exploring one of the many principles we learned from reading, Dr. John Gottman's book "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work". We discuss the acts of turning towards or turning away from your partner and how catching your partner's "bid" can make or break your relationship. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast
Dec 09, 2020•51 min•Ep. 19
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Nov 26, 2020•52 min•Ep. 18
In this episode we discuss Dr. John Gottman's theory of the four horseman, after reading his book The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. We dive deep into what causes the four horseman to arise in your relationship and how you can resolve issues stemming from the four horseman to avoid separation or divorce. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast
Nov 17, 2020•53 min•Ep. 17
After taking a month long hiatus, we felt it was time to share our story of getting pregnant but unfortunately having a miscarriage. This is a very sensitive topic that so many women experience, which is why we decided to share our personal story to help us with our healing process. While also being able to resonate with any other woman or couple that has dealt or is currently dealing with this traumatic experience. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipsp...
Nov 09, 2020•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 16
After months of contemplating if we wanted to discuss this topic, we decided to put our pride to the side and talk about the impact cheating had on our relationship and how it almost ended our marriage. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast
Oct 03, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 15
It's hard to over look the fact that the world has been driven by double standards since the beginning of time. In this episode we thought it would be interesting to share our perspectives on some of the top double standards in relationships. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast
Sep 23, 2020•41 min•Ep. 14
In this episode we dive deep into a much needed discussion about blended families. We give our experience on the good, bad, and everything in between! Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast
Sep 15, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 13
Growing up our parents always told us not to shack up before marriage. However, we chose to do the complete opposite and moved in together dating for a year. In this episode we discuss our experience on living together before marriage and how it affected our relationship. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast
Aug 27, 2020•47 min•Ep. 12
How do you define a toxic relationship? In this episode we dive deep into what caused our relationship to become toxic. And we share the steps we took to resolve toxic learned behavior from our past, in order for us to have a loving and respectful relationship. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast
Aug 12, 2020•37 min•Ep. 11