Tolerate or Not Tolerate

It's never a good idea to tolerate abuse. No one wants to get yelled at or put down. It is up to you to decide what to do when someone is hurtful. You can leave the conversation, leave the home, or leave the relationship. You cannot change the other person, no matter how hard you try. They can change themselves. If they don't want to change themselves, they do not have to. It is their choice. If you don't want to stand and listen to someone yell at you, you can leave. You also have a choice. There are consequences to those choices. Only you and God and decide what decision is right for you.