Sathiya Sam discusses her approach to starting recovery from porn addiction. He emphasizes the importance of community and professional help, as well as the practices of journaling and self-care based on love languages. Sathiya also mentions a special promotion for his program and encourages listeners to book a call if interested. The episode concludes with reminders to support the podcast by leaving ratings and reviews, sharing with others, and subscribing for daily encouragement and insight in...
Jul 25, 2024•11 min•Ep. 631
Chris Borghese is the President and co-founder of Marriage Insights Institute. He is a Certified Marriage Relationship & Behavioral Consultant and ordained Pastor. Chris has a calling and a passion to see marriages transformed by applying a practical and revolutionary personality mentoring training. He has helped hundreds of individuals and couples get the freedom and transformation they desire. Chris resides in the Austin, Texas area with his beautiful bride Tara of 30 years and has 3 adult...
Jul 24, 2024•56 min•Ep. 630
Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of recognizing his season of life. He shares personal experiences and insights on knowing his season and offers guidance on how to determine it. Sathya emphasizes the significance of knowing his season to determine priorities and measure success. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 24, 2024•14 min•Ep. 629
Sathiya Sam discusses the challenge of navigating the abundance of resources available for personal growth and recovery. He compares it to a buffet or prefix menu approach, emphasizing the importance of starting with the buffet approach to explore different tools and techniques. After some time, she suggests transitioning to a more focused approach by identifying the most effective practices. Sathiya highlights the need to periodically reassess and adjust the approach, and concludes by emphasizi...
Jul 24, 2024•12 min•Ep. 628
Sathiya Sam discusses the concept of reconceptualization and its role in personal growth and recovery. He shares a personal example of how he reconceptualized a traumatic experience to find meaning and purpose. Sathiya expresses gratitude to listeners for their support and emphasizes the importance of ratings, reviews, and sharing the podcast to keep it ad-free and accessible. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 24, 2024•12 min•Ep. 627
Sathiya Sam discusses the concept of "less is more" and its relevance in various aspects of life. He shares personal experiences and insights on simplifying and consolidating one's life, both on a business and personal level. Sathiya mentions a book called "Ten X is Easier Than Two X" that explores achieving greater outcomes through strategic thinking. He highlights the countercultural nature of the concept, using social media as an example. The episode also features a guest who emphasizes the i...
Jul 24, 2024•15 min•Ep. 626
In this interview, the Sathiya Sam welcomes John Gordon, an author and positive psychology pioneer, to discuss his book "The One Truth." The book explores the concept of oneness with God and others as a way to overcome feelings of isolation, addiction, and anxiety. Gordon shares personal experiences, including his journey towards healing in his marriage, emphasizing the importance of honesty, community, and embracing the healing process. He encourages individuals to seek connection and truth, bo...
Jul 24, 2024•42 min•Ep. 625
Sathiya Sam discuss the importance of fatherhood and its connection to freedom. Sathya Sam shares his personal reflection on becoming a father and shaping his son's understanding of masculinity. They mention a recent expert call with Matt Boudreaux where they discussed education, manhood, and their intersection. The hosts emphasize the free resources available on their website to help individuals quit pornography, improve relationships, and find fulfillment. They delve into the importance of sta...
Jul 24, 2024•13 min•Ep. 624
Sathiya introduces the topic of the three lies that porn teaches and emphasises the importance of recognising these falsehoods to uncover the truth. He highlights the prevalence of porn as an emerging epidemic and discusses the concept of homoeostasis, drawing a parallel with conditioning through behaviours like late-night eating. The influence of porn on perceptions of sex, body image, and relationships is explored, revealing its distorted messages and unrealistic expectations. The connection b...
Jul 24, 2024•15 min•Ep. 623
Sathiya introduces the topic of whether porn addicts are capable of love and mentions his book "The Last Relapse." He discusses changes centred around the concept of time in their company and addresses a commonly searched question about sex addiction on Google. The episode explores the idea of whether sex and porn addicts are capable of love, challenging the notion that addicts are devoid of love. The recovery process is touched upon, emphasising that addiction is not an unchangeable identity. T...
Jul 24, 2024•12 min•Ep. 622
Sathiya introduces the topic of "Your Brain On Porn" and mentions that he works on a course about rewiring the brain. He discusses the lack of recognition of porn addiction as a diagnosable condition in the DSM-5 and reference Dr. Gary Wilson's work on the detrimental effects of pornography. The podcast delves into how prolonged porn use alters the brain and the concept of desensitisation, using examples of sensory adaptation. They highlight numerous studies linking porn addiction to escalation ...
Jul 24, 2024•15 min•Ep. 621
Josh Khachadourian is a husband, father, leader, coach and the author of the breakout best seller, The Standard, Discovering Jesus as the Standard for Masculinity. He has spent the last 18 years ascending the corporate ladder in a Fortune 500 company, where he focused on building high-performing teams and developing best-in-class leaders. He is the founder of Standard59.com and he hosts a weekly podcast called ‘Raising The Standard. In this episode Josh Khachadourian and Sathiya discuss: [0:02] ...
Jul 24, 2024•47 min•Ep. 620
Sathiya discusses the topic of a key quality that ensures success and encourages listeners to leave reviews for podcast growth. He emphasises the value of reading reviews and how it contributes to their sense of purpose. The episode discusses the importance of reading books aligned with one's values, sharing examples from various subjects like parenting, marriage, and business. The significance of knowing the source of information is highlighted, with a cautionary tale about not always following...
Jul 24, 2024•15 min•Ep. 619
Sathiya explores the distinction between same-sex attraction and gay orientation. He introduces the topic, focusing on helping those dealing with same-sex attraction. The concept of sexual fluidity is discussed, citing researcher Lisa Diamond's work. It is clarified that orientation and attraction are separate aspects, with a reference to popular search keywords on porn websites. The podcast highlights the temptation faced by Jesus and how attraction and orientation differ. A well-known worship ...
Jul 24, 2024•15 min•Ep. 618
Sathiya Sam introduces himself, a porn addiction recovery coach who founded "Deeply In Coaching" to assist professional Christian men in overcoming pornography. The show emphasizes the impact of recovery on relationships and highlights how porn addiction is linked to intimacy issues. The core aspects of the addiction include a deficiency in meaningful relationships, isolation, dysfunction, and disconnection. The concept of intimacy is highlighted as the first pillar of recovery, implying its cru...
Jul 24, 2024•13 min•Ep. 617
Sathiya discusses the concept of protecting progress in the face of challenges like busyness, transitions, and trauma, emphasizing that progress is not safeguarded by merely focusing on it. The parable of the talents in Matthew 25 is used as an analogy, highlighting the importance of learning from others and being willing to try new things for growth. The key to protecting progress is seen in those who focus on furthering it rather than being fixated on safeguarding it. The advice cautions again...
Jul 24, 2024•12 min•Ep. 616
Dr. Eddie Capparucci is a licensed professional counselor certified in treating Problematic Sexual Behaviors. Eddie has worked with professional athletes and television personalities among his many clients. He is the creator of the Inner Child Model for treating Problematic Sexual Behaviors, a unique approach that focuses on identifying unresolved childhood pain points and teaching individuals how to process emotional distress in healthy ways. His treatment method has been endorsed by many leade...
Jul 24, 2024•51 min•Ep. 615
Sathiya Sam delves into the concept of focusing on midterm goals in addition to long-term objectives. Drawing inspiration from his own fitness journey and observations from coaching clients, he emphasizes the significance of acknowledging and achieving intermediate milestones. By setting and attaining midterm goals, individuals can enhance their confidence, validate their progress, and ultimately pave the way for the attainment of long-term aspirations. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more F...
Jul 24, 2024•14 min•Ep. 614
Sathiya Sam explores the theme of perpetual competition in life, drawing from his personal journey of striving for excellence. He relates this mindset to recovery, advocating for authenticity, acceptance, and progress, ultimately urging listeners to value their growth journey. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 24, 2024•13 min•Ep. 613
Sathiya addresses the theme of speed and its impact on personal and professional growth. They express gratitude to the listeners for contributing to the podcast's growth and discuss the challenges that come with rapid expansion. Sathiya explores the concept of the "speed demon" as one of the time assassins in an entrepreneur's life, emphasizing the importance of stillness as a spiritual discipline. The significance of the Sabbath being made for man, not the other way around, is discussed, highli...
Jul 24, 2024•15 min•Ep. 612
Sathiya introduces the importance of personal development and growth, sharing personal experiences from growing up in conservative Christianity and being involved in a multi-level marketing company. The focus is on the significance of childhood upbringing and its impact on adult behavior and thinking. While childhood is considered essential, the episode warns against ascribing everything to childhood experiences, especially in the context of porn addiction and inner healing in church circles. Th...
Jul 24, 2024•13 min•Ep. 611
Crystal owns and operates Living on Purpose Coaching & Pastoral Counseling and is the founding director of SheRecovery.com, an online ministry helping women overcome porn addiction and other unwanted sexual behaviors. She is also a pastoral counselor, certified coach, author, podcast host, and speaker with over 15 years of experience working with women, couples, and teen girls. She holds a Master of Arts in Pastoral Counseling: Life Coaching from Liberty University and numerous certification...
Jul 24, 2024•54 min•Ep. 610
Sathiya introduces the concept of everyone being "blind," not in terms of physical vision but in terms of our focus and what we neglect. The inspiration for this topic comes from Jordan B Peterson's book "The 12 Rules for Life." We all have certain things we choose to focus on, which leads to neglecting other areas and creates blindness. An example of how cultural differences can highlight this blindness is given with a story about food customs. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of compensating ...
Jul 24, 2024•13 min•Ep. 609
Sathiya introduces the topic of "Demons, Trauma & Neurobiology." A story is shared about a man named Mark who was diagnosed with deep vein thrombosis. The importance of clearly articulating problems and seeking proper medical advice is emphasized. The episode discusses three areas where causal elements often exist: spiritual, psychological, and physical. These areas are explored as potential root elements affecting individuals. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check t...
Jul 24, 2024•14 min•Ep. 608
Sathiya welcomes the audience and shares a recap of his trip to Atlanta. The main topic of discussion is busyness, which is seen as a widespread issue related to porn addiction and other behaviors. Sathiya mentions a book called "The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry" by John Mark Comer, which has had a significant impact on his life. Busyness is described as a facade and not a real solution to life's challenges. It is linked to chaos and franticness and is viewed as a spiritual and discipleship iss...
Jul 24, 2024•13 min•Ep. 607
Sathiya delves into the role of faith in the recovery process for men seeking to fulfill their purpose and dreams. He emphasizes the importance of having a sense of purpose and values, regardless of one's religious beliefs. The impact of addiction on self-esteem and hopelessness is discussed, along with the significance of meaningful connections in fostering spiritual growth. Sathiya highlights that a spiritual life and a sense of connectedness to a higher power are vital for a profound recovery...
Jul 24, 2024•11 min•Ep. 606
Thomas R. Williams is an author, former NFL player, consultant, and speaker. He ignites and inspires people to embrace their own greatness. Thomas combines his natural infectious energy, inspiration, and openness to connect with audiences. He helps organizations become more productive and profitable by refocusing on a shared vision and embracing the principles of Positive Leadership. Thomas works with universities, organizations, adults and youth helping them get from where they are to where the...
Jul 24, 2024•45 min•Ep. 605
Sathiya Sam shares his personal journey of overcoming addiction to pornography. He discusses his background, the challenges he faced, and the methods he tried to break free from his addiction. Sathiya also talks about the root causes of his addiction and how his relationship with God and diving into the word helped him gain control over his urges. He shares his prayers, the transformation he experienced, and how he is now helping others through Deep Clean. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For mor...
Jul 24, 2024•21 min•Ep. 604
Sathiya explores the concept of social conformity and its impact on men striving to fulfill their purpose and dreams. He discusses an experiment conducted in a doctor's office with planted actors, illustrating how people tend to conform to the behavior of others around them. The dangers of bad company influencing good character are emphasized, and the importance of choosing positive and supportive communities is highlighted. Sathiya encourages listeners to be mindful of the people they surround ...
Jul 24, 2024•14 min•Ep. 603
Sathiya Sam discusses the difference between admission and confession for men seeking to fulfill their dreams and purpose. Confession is emphasized as a path to healing, with biblical elements like clarity, honesty, vulnerability, and community integrity. True confession involves remorse and seeks repentance, as indicated by the Greek word "metanoia." Sathiya shares personal challenges and asks for prayers for guidance. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Foll...
Jul 24, 2024•13 min•Ep. 602
