Dr. Carpenter and his spouse, Mary A. Carpenter, LMSW are the founders of Insight Counseling Services. Dr. Carpenter has a doctoral degree in Clinical Psychology from Forest Institute of Professional Psychology; earned a Master of Science in Counseling and Substance Abuse Rehabilitation from Pace University, and has an Associates of Arts in Theological Studies from Kent Christian College. In this episode Sathiya and Dr. Carpenter discuss: [04:05] The Definition of Sexual Abuse [08:32] The Comple...
Jul 24, 2024•52 min•Ep. 600
Join Sathiya Sam as he delves into the intricate interconnectedness of worry, anxiety, and fear, exploring their relationship with the concept of fake control. Discover how mastering these emotions fulfills his calling, establishes sexual integrity, and fosters meaningful connections, leading to a profound connection with the divine. Gain invaluable guidance and embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery, resilience, and spiritual enlightenment, cultivating inner peace and purpose Book...
Aug 04, 2023•14 min•Ep. 606
In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam talks about the importance of communicating needs in relationships. He shares his personal journey of learning to express emotions and needs effectively. Sathiya emphasizes the significance of providing context and asking for support rather than making demands. By improving communication, individuals can foster healthier relationships and emotional maturity. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Aug 02, 2023•15 min•Ep. 605
Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of him finding closure and seeking support during the recovery process. He emphasizes the significance of accountability partner transitions and provides practical guidance on how to handle them effectively. Sathiya also shares personal experiences and advises him to lean on his accountability partner and community for connection. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Aug 01, 2023•13 min•Ep. 604
In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the topic of handling plateaus in recovery and in life. He shares personal examples of plateaus in various areas and emphasizes that plateaus are a normal part of growth. He highlights the importance of being willing to try something new, having the perspective of an experimenter, and surrounding yourself with people who are further ahead in their journey. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Inst...
Jul 31, 2023•15 min•Ep. 603
In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the topic of finding a soulmate. He shares his personal belief that soulmates do not exist and instead suggests focusing on personal growth and becoming the right person. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of thinking long-term in relationships and prioritizing character over superficial qualities. He also highlights the need for alignment in callings and having early conversations about compatibility. Furthermore, Sathiya shares a personal anecdote ...
Jul 28, 2023•17 min•Ep. 602
Dr. Joe Martin is the founder and president of Real Men Connect, who is an award-winning international speaker, educator, and certified "man builder." His non-profit organization (Real Men Connect) helps Christian men win at what matters the most as husbands, fathers, and spiritual leaders. Real Men Connect provides help and hope to men in the hardest places of their lives. As an author, he's written or co-authored nine books, including Man Accomplished: 50 Challenges to Help You Become the Man ...
Jul 27, 2023•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 591
In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of understanding the roots of addiction and cyclical behavior. He introduces a framework consisting of 4-6 steps to help listeners gain clarity and identify their next steps. Sathiya emphasizes the need to reflect on past mistakes and identify common triggers. He also introduces the concept of asking "why" to gain deeper insights into behaviors and motivations. Additionally, Sathiya discusses the significance of predictability, trauma...
Jul 26, 2023•15 min•Ep. 601
Sathiya Sam discusses triggers and temptations and how to effectively handle them. They emphasize the importance of having a pre-set trigger plan that outlines specific actions to take when tempted or triggered. The host shares their personal experience with triggers and provides six potential components of a trigger plan. They also discuss the importance of understanding the underlying reasons behind triggers and finding solutions for sexual misbehavior.
Jul 25, 2023•16 min•Ep. 600
In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the link between reading the Bible and recovery from addiction. He shares his frustration with the generic advice to "read your Bible more" without specific guidance. Sathiya introduces a resource of scriptures that can aid in recovery and mentions a study that found reading the Bible four times a week reduces the likelihood of viewing pornography by 61%. He emphasizes the importance of reading the Bible with the intention of deepening his relations...
Jul 24, 2023•16 min•Ep. 598
In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the topic of hearing God's voice. He shares personal experiences of testing and hearing God's voice, including a miraculous healing she witnessed during a prayer walk. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of having a personal relationship with God and being a good listener in our communication with Him. He also highlights the significance of testing and evaluating the messages we believe are from God, seeking trusted spiritual leadership for guidance, ...
Jul 21, 2023•17 min•Ep. 595
"Layton and Chelsea are a married couple who live in Northern Michigan and host the Liberator podcast. Liberator was created to remove the barriers of shame and embarrassment that stifle conversations and community around the effects of pornography. Their show is a discussion of pornography's hard truths through the lens of stories, science, and Scripture. Layton, Chelsea and Sathiya discuss: [06:34] Attempts at sobriety and addressing the issue of lust [:07:15] Coming clean and the courage to t...
Jul 20, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 586
This podcast episode of "Unleash the Man Within" Sathya Sam focuses on dealing with narcissists in relationships. Sathya Sam emphasizes that one cannot change a narcissist and cautions against diagnosing someone without professional input. He discusses how to handle interactions with narcissistic individuals, adjusting expectations, seeking professional help, and setting boundaries. Sathya acknowledges that dealing with narcissists is complicated and hopes that these insights will provide some g...
Jul 19, 2023•18 min•Ep. 594
In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the topic of narcissism and its impact on individuals and relationships. They share personal experiences and insights, and mention a previous interview with a therapist who provided clarity on the subject. Sathiya Sam emphasizes the importance of spreading awareness about narcissism and encourages listeners to share the podcast with others. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 18, 2023•12 min•Ep. 593
Sathiya Sam discusses the topic of multiple addictions and how men can overcome them. He addresses the controversy surrounding porn addiction and highlights other less obvious addictions such as sugar, phone and social media addiction, and addiction to busyness or chaos. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of addressing the root cause of addiction rather than just focusing on individual addictions. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 17, 2023•13 min•Ep. 592
In this podcast episode, the host, Sathiya Sam, discusses practical tips for long-term success in relationships. He emphasizes the importance of a weekly meeting between couples for intentional connection without distractions. He and his wife use this time to review their budget, clean the house, plan their week, and discuss any major issues. He also talks about the importance of praying together every day and seeking mentors for guidance. He shares insights from a conversation with his grandfat...
Jul 14, 2023•15 min•Ep. 590
Dr. Anthony Balduzzi, the founder and CEO of the Fit Father Project and Fit Mother Project, experienced a pivotal moment in his childhood when he watched his own father work relentlessly, only to succumb to illness and pass away at the young age of 42. Anthony was just 9 years old at the time. This life-changing event inspired him to dedicate his life to helping busy fathers and mothers aged 40 and above lose weight, build muscle, and improve their overall health for the well-being of their fami...
Jul 13, 2023•56 min•Ep. 585
In this podcast episode, host Sathiya Sam discusses the challenges of expressing opinions without offending others in today's sensitive society. He reflects on the diverse reactions he received to a reaction video about a pastor who supports the porn industry. Sathiya questions the societal expectation that only those with personal experience can have a valid opinion on a matter, arguing that morality should be based on objective standards. He encourages listeners to speak out against harmful ac...
Jul 12, 2023•14 min•Ep. 589
In this podcast episode, Sathiya discusses the issue of erectile dysfunction in men under 40, attributing it to the widespread use of pornography. Sathiya shares his personal experience and advises listeners to stay calm in such situations. He stresses the importance of quitting pornography and offer assistance for those seeking help. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 11, 2023•14 min•Ep. 588
In this episode, Sathiya Sam talks about the concept of "chore play" and its importance in cultivating a healthy sexual intimacy in a marriage. By engaging in non-physical acts of service and building intimacy through daily interactions, couples can maintain a fulfilling sexual relationship. The host encourages listeners to prioritize small gestures and regular deposits into their relationship's "intimacy jug" to enhance overall satisfaction. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resourc...
Jul 10, 2023•14 min•Ep. 587
1 in 6 men experience(d) sexual abuse, and often in ways you would least expect. Today's episode explores why sexual abuse is not just overt behaviors like non-consenting sex or molestation, it can also be covert activities like an adult explosing a child to pornography, and how this can negatively impact our development. Making a full recovery means address all root issues – including any trauma or sexual abuse that may be part of your story. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of m...
Jul 07, 2023•14 min•Ep. 584
In this episode, Sathiya and Jazz discuss: [3:04] The link between porn addiction and sex trafficking. [9:16] We're here to bring gifts for the ladies. [12:11] Expanding the ministry to five cities. [20:55] Humanizing the women in strip clubs. [26:57] The story of a woman who quit stripping for God. [30:54] The difference between legal and illicit sex work. [33:22] What are you dreaming about in the next five to 10 years? [38:42] History of Strip Church Network. [41:33] The importance of having ...
Jul 06, 2023•52 min•Ep. 581
Victim thinking is the greatest inhibitor of growth – whether it is professional, personal or otherwise. Many struggle to recovery from sexual misbehavior because their victim thinking has kept them stuck. Using personal examples, today's episode will show you how a victim mindset can hold you back, how hurdling the victim mentality leads to breakthrough, and easy ways to identify a victim mentality in your life. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Re...
Jul 05, 2023•16 min•Ep. 583
Journaling is a fundamental building block of recovery. One of its greatest benefits is the privacy it offers while processing deeply personal items. Today's episode explains how others should be involved in your journaling process, if at all, and how to ensure your loved ones don't mistakenly stumble upon your journal. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 04, 2023•17 min•Ep. 582
Burnout is a common experience in today's world, especially among men. This episode aims to redefine burnout based on energy expenditure and priorities, offering insights on how to get out of burn out AND prevent burnout from happening again in the future. 83 - How The 5 Love Languages Are Helping Guys Get Free Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 03, 2023•17 min•Ep. 580
Some research suggests that a brain addicted to cocaine looks similar to a brain addicted to porn. Today's episode explores this correlation, identifying commonalities amongst both the cause and the solutions to most addictions. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jun 30, 2023•14 min•Ep. 579
Chris Wilson is a lifelong fitness and health advocate. With nearly 25 years of experience in the fitness industry, Chris has worked alongside and learned from leaders in the industry such as Charles Poliquin, mentor and friend Ben Prentiss, 3-time World Champion Powerlifter Lloyd Weinstein, 4x Mr. Olympia Jay Cutler, IFBB Pros Darrem Charles, Ben Pakulski, John Hansen, BIG Aaron Reed and his lifelong friend and Owner of Critical Bench, Mike Westerdal. In this episode, Sathiya and Chris discusse...
Jun 29, 2023•50 min•Ep. 575
The age old question is "does it count if it's only XYZ"? Today's episode explains why splitting hairs about what constitutes a relapse is never meant to be the focus in recovery. Rather, we want to celebrate progress, keep a long-term perspective, and ensure we are not justifying certain dysfunctional behavior in our lives simply because it is relatively minor. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jun 28, 2023•14 min•Ep. 578
This episode explains why keeping things hidden only makes the problem worse, and why bringing things to light is so liberating. Porn, and anything shameful in our lives, functions as a vampire: it can only operate in darkness. Once it's in the light, things will inevitable improve. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jun 27, 2023•15 min•Ep. 577
Today's episode explores the link between eating disorders and porn consumption in males, based on a recent study that shows a surprisingly strong correlation between the two. Porn consumption often causes body dysmorphia in men, and body dysmorphia is the basis of most eating disorders. If you have struggled with habits around fitness, food or health in general, while also struggling with porn, this episode will help you understand why. https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/health/health-problems/r...
Jun 26, 2023•13 min•Ep. 576
