“You just need to ask for help!” Sure, sounds easy—until you actually try to do it. This week, we’re tackling the real reasons setting boundaries is hard and why the mental load still falls disproportionately on women. My guest, Dr. Kat Kaeni, is a perinatal mental health-certified psychologist and host of the podcast Mom & Mind . She’s here to break down how our conditioning keeps us stuck in burnout mode and what we can do to shift out of it. We talk about the mental weight of keeping ever...
Feb 05, 2025•48 min
“A lot of days it feels like standing in a pile of rubble and trying to figure it all out.” In this coaching session, I sit down with Lisa, a listener who’s grappling with self-abandonment and the exhaustion that comes from always putting others first. In fact, during this session you’ll hear me talk about how Lisa has “mastered the art of walking away from herself to shield from walking away from others”. Together, we unpack her struggles and explore how small, intentional steps can help her re...
Jan 29, 2025•1 hr 3 min
I’m thrilled to welcome Asha Frost, an indigenous medicine woman, bestselling author of You Are the Medicine , and creator of the newly released Animal Elders Oracle Deck . Asha and I dive into the transformative power of reconnecting with our roots, embracing the wisdom of the seasons, and learning to trust the medicine within ourselves. We talk about the beauty of slowing down, connecting with nature, and the magic of awe and wonder. As you listen, I hope you’ll be inspired to embrace your own...
Jan 22, 2025•45 min
As the new year kicks off, it can be helpful to spend some time reflecting, intention-setting, and embracing fresh opportunities for growth. In this minisode, we explore why celebrating small wins matters more than ever and how they can create a ripple effect of positivity and progress, even in challenging times. What you’ll hear in this episode: The Psychology of Small Wins: Learn how celebrating even the tiniest accomplishments activates your brain's reward system and fosters motivation. Momen...
Jan 17, 2025•21 min
I’m thrilled to welcome back Jessica Graham, an incredible author, trauma expert, and meditation teacher, to talk about their brand-new book, Being (Sick) Enough: Thoughts on Invisible Illness, Childhood Trauma, and Living Well When Surviving is Hard . If you’ve ever felt the weight of trauma, chronic illness, or just navigating life in a challenging world, Jessica’s wisdom will resonate deeply. In this conversation, we explore the complexities of healing, mindfulness, and finding balance in a w...
Jan 15, 2025•1 hr 9 min
Heather Chauvin is back, and we’re exploring what it really means to step into your power—especially when life feels overwhelming. As a leadership coach, Heather helps ‘successful’ women live, work, and parent with courage and authenticity, on their own terms. Through her podcast, Emotionally Uncomfortable , and her work, she offers practical tools and fresh perspectives on what it takes to not just survive, but truly thrive. We talk about what happens when you stop running from life’s storms an...
Jan 08, 2025•1 hr 3 min
In this minisode, we’re diving into a topic that hits close to home for so many of us (me too!): letting go of control and surrendering outcomes. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in the cycle of overthinking, micromanaging, or gripping too tightly to people or situations, this episode is for you. Together, we’ll explore why control can feel so comforting, yet so exhausting, and how we can begin to release it in ways that empower, rather than paralyze, us. Because this is an enormous topic for...
Jan 03, 2025•35 min
I have another coaching podcast episode for you based on chapter two in 52 Ways to Live a Kick-Ass Life —all about taking responsibility for your life! This episode asks the big question, “Am I on the right path?” Jenna joined me to discuss her journey and the challenges of staying committed to a path when self-doubt and competing ideas creep in. We’ve all felt that uncertainty about whether we’re heading in the right direction or second-guessed decisions we’ve made. Jenna’s experience is a remi...
Jan 01, 2025•58 min
I have a coaching podcast episode for you—based on chapter three in 52 Ways to Live a Kick-Ass Life – all on stepping out of your comfort zone. In this episode, Christina shares her journey of launching her business and the challenges she faces when it comes to putting herself out there. You might not struggle with the same thing as Christina, but pay attention and look for the universal parts of her story. We all get stuck in our heads, worrying about a problem that isn't the problem. Christina...
Dec 25, 2024•1 hr 3 min
Happy New Year 🥳 With the new year comes endless options for NEW YEAR, NEW YOU, am I right? It can feel a bit overwhelming, and then sometimes we might grab onto one particular ritual, get excited and then it falls apart. Things like setting new year's resolutions, starting a new fitness program, or if you’re like me, deciding you’re going to learn how to shuffle dance, realize it takes more work than you thought, then quit. For this last minisode of 2024, I thought I’d walk you through a simpl...
Dec 20, 2024•20 min
Radical self-love and self-acceptance take center stage as writer and social media creator Heidi Clements shares her inspiring journey of reinvention in her 60s. Heidi uses her TikTok and Instagram platforms to connect with women of all ages, sharing stories, style, and the wisdom she's gained through her unique experiences. An advocate for more stories about women in their 50s, she challenges societal norms and celebrates the pursuit of happiness on your own terms. In this episode, Heidi opens ...
Dec 18, 2024•48 min
Terri Cole is back for her 7th appearance—yes, 7th—to dive into high-functioning codependency and boundaries. Her latest book, Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency , is a game-changer and I am thrilled to welcome Terri back to the show! Together we unpack the myth of what codependency is—especially for high-achieving women—and give us a clear picture of high-functioning codependency (HFC). We’re talking about things like auto advice-giving and running everyone...
Dec 11, 2024•55 min
I’m so glad you’re here for this second part of our mini-series on not taking things personally. A couple of weeks ago, in Episode 640 , we explored how taking things personally shows up in our lives—whether in work settings, relationships, or daily interactions. Today, we’re continuing the conversation with actionable strategies to help you shift your perspective and build emotional resilience. Think of these as tools for setting boundaries, reclaiming your narrative, and staying grounded when ...
Dec 06, 2024•26 min
I’m bringing back an amazing conversation with Jessica Graham, a spiritual and sexual activist, author, meditation teacher, and sex and intimacy guide. Jessica isn’t just a guest—I had the privilege of working with her as my coach during a deeply transformative chapter in my personal growth and healing. This episode highlights her dedication to helping others explore and heal their relationship with sexuality. In this episode, we talked about shame, the messaging we received as children about se...
Dec 04, 2024•1 hr 4 min
We’re diving into the art of creating deeper intimacy with guest Magda Kay! Magda is an intimacy expert, Tantra teacher, and conscious relating coach dedicated to helping people connect with their deepest desires and experience transformative intimacy. “Sex and intimacy are not the same,” Magda shares. For her, intimacy is about the depth of human experience—how fully you engage with yourself and the world around you. In this episode, we explore ways to connect with your inner self, honor your n...
Nov 27, 2024•57 min
Are the conversations you have with yourself empowering or defeating? We’re diving back into one of my favorite topics - the inner critic - with guest Joanna Kleinman. Joanna is a psychotherapist, leadership coach, and best-selling author who has dedicated her career to helping people unhook from the negative self-talk holding them back. Through her M.I.N.D Method™, she offers a clear path to recognize, dethrone, and ultimately transform your inner critic’s influence. Together, we explore how se...
Nov 20, 2024•55 min
Another minisode for you! This week, I’m diving into the habit of taking things personally—something I’ve covered in my book How to Stop Feeling Like Shit . This is part one of a two-part series, where I focus on how we tend to internalize feedback, silence, rejection, and even others’ successes as reflections of our own worth. Taking things personally can chip away at our self-worth and confidence over time and lead us down a path of shame. So in this episode, I talk about why awareness is the ...
Nov 15, 2024•26 min
We’re flipping the script this week! Past guest Hunter Clarke-Fields interviews me on how to develop shame resilience and break free from the shame-driven cycles we often pass on to our kids. Originally aired on The Mindful Parenting Podcast, this conversation dives into the work of handling shame, building self-compassion, and modeling emotional resilience for our children. We also touch on ways to create boundaries, make peace with people-pleasing, and teach kids to navigate their emotions wit...
Nov 13, 2024•54 min
We're re-airing an episode with one of my favorite guests - Charlie Gilkey! Charlie offers valuable insights that apply to anyone looking to get more done, whether you're a business owner or simply navigating the demands of everyday life. Who doesn’t want to be more productive? Am I right? As a sought-after advisor and speaker, Charlie shares his wisdom on overcoming overwhelm and overload, why we tend to neglect self-care, and practical time-blocking strategies to boost productivity. Listen in ...
Nov 06, 2024•53 min
Building self-trust can feel like a monumental task, especially if you’ve been second-guessing yourself or holding back from taking real action. In today’s episode, I’m sharing a simple, no-fluff process to strengthen your trust in yourself and create a foundation you can rely on. It’s about moving from self-doubt to solid self-belief, step by step. We’ll walk through five powerful practices to help you connect to your inner confidence and self-trust. I’m also breaking down the BRAVING acronym t...
Nov 01, 2024•35 min
I have another re-broadcast episode for you. It is one of my most listened-to episodes. Shannon Kaiser is the wisest, compassionate human - so I am not surprised! Sharon is the bestselling author of five books on the psychology of happiness and fulfillment, including the #1 bestseller, The Self-Love Experiment and Adventures for Your Soul . Her book, Joy Seeker: Let Go of What's Holding You Back So You Can Live the Life You Were Made For, is available this week! It is always a pleasure to talk t...
Oct 30, 2024•46 min
Ready to tap into your Big Energy and find out why it's the most important edge you have? Erin King, a motivational speaker, bestselling author, and expert in personal energy management, is back with actionable strategies to help you manage your energy and show up as your best self. With Erin's guidance, you'll learn how to power through less and power up more. “Energy never lies—it’s the last truth-teller we can trust.” In this episode, Erin shows us that Big Energy isn’t about being the loudes...
Oct 23, 2024•52 min
This week’s *Make Some Noise* minisode (#634) is a deep dive into rewiring our brains to help break free from negative self-talk. If you're ready to change how you see yourself and step into a more compassionate mindset, this episode is for you! Let’s take a look at the key takeaways: 🧠 Rewiring Your Brain to Get What You Want I start by breaking down how you can reshape your thought patterns and create new neural pathways to overcome self-doubt and self-criticism. 🚩 The Power of Self-Awarenes...
Oct 18, 2024•27 min
Ever wonder if you’re being gaslit by a partner, friend, or even a politician? Dr. Robin Stern is here to explain how to recognize the signs of gaslighting and take back control of your reality. Robin Stern, Ph.D. is the co-founder and senior advisor to the director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. With 30 years of experience as a licensed psychoanalyst, Robin is the leading expert on gaslighting. She’s also the author of The Gaslight Effect and The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide ....
Oct 16, 2024•48 min
Today, we’re rebroadcasting one of our most popular episodes featuring the amazing Kara Loewentheil! Kara is a Master Certified Coach who transitioned from a legal career to life coaching, using her expertise in feminist theory to help women break free from the patriarchy’s mental grip. She’s also the host of the podcast Unf* ck Your Brain and an all-around powerhouse. In this episode, we dive into the social messaging women receive and how it fuels our self-critical thoughts. Kara shares the tr...
Oct 09, 2024•47 min
This week, I’m rebroadcasting a minisode where I explore a powerful concept from relationship experts John and Julie Gottman. The Gottmans introduced the idea of The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse , and it has helped me personally in my relationships a great deal. In this minisode, I break down each Horseman, share real-life examples, and provide a resource to help you apply the antidotes to these common behaviors. It's simple but deeply impactful. Resources: Private Coaching with Andrea Articl...
Oct 04, 2024•20 min
We’re getting witchy and magical in today’s episode. I have no doubt you are going to love my guest, Michelle Tea! Michelle is the author of numerous books including the popular Modern Tarot and its follow-up, the new Modern Magic . She is a witch, a mom and the founder of Drag Queen Story Hour. In this episode, Michelle walks us through modern witchcraft and its power for personal growth. We explore how modern magic blends feminism with cultural traditions. She also shares the role of breathwor...
Oct 02, 2024•49 min
What if your deepest wounds aren’t just yours, but passed down through generations? Alyse Bacine, a trauma expert and breathwork facilitator, joins me for a conversation on how healing emotional trauma—especially from childhood or ancestral sources—can strengthen your self-trust and resilience. We dive into the ripple effects of emotionally unavailable parents as well as the ways abandonment wounds shape our lives. We also unpack how breathwork can help heal trauma and process suppressed emotion...
Sep 25, 2024•1 hr 1 min
Earlier this week I posted on both Instagram and TikTok for suicide prevention month. Because I only get 90 seconds there, I wanted to come here on the podcast and talk more at length about it. What you’ll hear in this minisode are the stories of three different occasions where I thought about taking my own life. The last time it happened, in the summer of 2023, which is where I spend the most time, especially those acute moments…when you don’t have anything to distract you and you’re alone with...
Sep 20, 2024•30 min
Ready to stop settling, set boundaries, and reclaim your personal power? Nakeia Homer’s wisdom in this episode will help guide you. Nakeia is a well-being educator, author, and the founder of Heal & Grow Daily —a community dedicated to helping people sustain their well-being and live in their brilliance. Nakeia’s mission? Empowering others to show up as the best versions of themselves, both in their lives and work. We dive into how to navigate healing and operate from a place of peace. You’l...
Sep 18, 2024•52 min
