You wouldn’t believe how many people read every blog, watch every YouTube video, and follow every Facebook post I put out, and yet still say: “Yeah, Matt… I get it. But there’s this one guy that I really like…” And because they’re so head-over-heels for this man, all of the advice goes out of the window. In this episode, I’m about to reveal 2 simple words that will tell you everything you need to know about men and how to get the love you really deserve… --- Download our brand new guide on "How ...
Aug 05, 2022•5 min
Today Matt and the team answer a listener who asks what she can do about fear of abandonment. When you're scared of someone else leaving, it can make you bail at the first sign of an argument or problem. You make assumptions and think the worst any time you have a negative moment. If you've struggled with the insecurity of worrying someone else will leave, this episode will give you some tools and mindsets to help feel more secure and clear about your worth and be comfortable in your relationshi...
Aug 03, 2022•1 hr 15 min
In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward. I really wanted to make this because the tone you set in the beginning will serve you throughout your entire relationship, and the influence you can have on being taken seriously by someone is huge. It can determine whether your relations...
Aug 01, 2022•18 min
You may have at some point said to yourself: “I know a guy who acts really charming and friendly, but I have no idea if he actually LIKES me!” It’s annoying, right? Especially if the guy is a naturally charismatic guy anyway. How do you know if he has eyes for you, or if he’s just like that with every woman he meets? Taking the risk of putting yourself on the line for someone could mean embarrassment, rejection, or make things super-awkward between you both later on. You want to know when you ha...
Jul 29, 2022•4 min
If you truly feel like you had a once-in-a-lifetime connection, it can feel like you'll never get over a past relationship. Sometimes we can still idealize a relationship from years ago because we feel like we'll never replace that person. And then we get locked in a story: "I can never move on from this because that's the strongest chemistry I'll ever have". In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about how to change the story you tell yourself, what it takes to finally move on ...
Jul 27, 2022•1 hr 3 min
Over the years, have you found yourself repeatedly attracting: . . . people who appear to be emotionally unavailable? . . . selfish people who don’t respect you in both friendships and romantic relationships? . . . maybe even narcissists? Have you ever wondered why you seem to be a magnet for these kinds of toxic people? If any of this rings true, and you want to break this cycle, then this episode is for you. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount...
Jul 25, 2022•8 min
When it comes to attraction, it's not enough to just have visual chemistry. Deep attraction - that keeps someone interested well beyond a few weeks - requires 4 different stages you need to progress through. In this video I explain the 4 stages in a live coaching call and show how you should decide when to invest more or less in a budding relationship. --- Download our BRAND NEW guide on "How To Define The Relationship". Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now. --- Join our next Virtual ...
Jul 22, 2022•6 min
Commitment in 2022 can mean many different things. Typically it means a decision to either be exclusive, or commit to a future together, and a decision to take yourself off the dating market entirely. But many of us can get into situations where WE DON’T EVEN KNOW if we’re in a committed partnership or not. We never know where we stand because we make assumptions and forget to define the relationship. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson talk about some of the most common mistakes...
Jul 20, 2022•1 hr 1 min
Have you ever been with a guy you were certain would never settle down? The type who would declare to all his friends that he just “wasn’t made” for a relationship . . . only to one day announce he’s in a serious relationship or even getting married? When this happens, we think, “What did the woman he committed to do that I didn’t?!” What makes a man suddenly decide to commit? In this week’s video, I not only dive into the answer to this question, but I also give you 4 practical pieces of psycho...
Jul 18, 2022•12 min
Just because we've accepted it's over, it doesn't mean we've truly moved on. We can still obssess, think about past times, and romanticize someone in a way that stops us ever moving forward. If you're stuck right now, don't miss this message and take your power back! --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com...
Jul 15, 2022•8 min
We all like to think a great relationship is just about finding the right person. But it's not. It's also about how you communicate with that person. It's about the inner thoughts you share. The way you divide tasks. How you both share your worries. The time you schedule you together. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to talk through a recent New York Times article by Catherine Pearson that made the case for 7 essential check-in questions to ask your partner. --- Join o...
Jul 13, 2022•1 hr 9 min
I recently received this comment from one of my Love Life Club members, and I’m curious if you can relate: “I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable with the fact that I’m still single. I can’t help but wonder what’s wrong with me that I haven’t found something lasting yet . . .” This mindset is dangerous. Why? Because our anxiety about being single can lead us to make some really poor and damaging choices. It can turn our dating life into a game of musical chairs, where we scramble to find ANY...
Jul 11, 2022•16 min
We’ve all done it. We start to like someone and suddenly we’ve built a whole narrative around what our future could look like with them. They feel like a rare antidote we’ve stumbled across that will take us out of being single and into the relationship we so badly want. The issue is, in the process of doing this, we rob ourselves of the ability to enjoy the experience—too stuck in our heads to be in the moment. We also run the risk of self-sabotaging as we try to see danger where there isn’t an...
Jul 08, 2022•8 min
It's normal for us to date someone with a different attachment style from our own. But how do we know if someone is compatible with us longterm? And are there certain behaviours that tell us the relationship is ultimately doomed? In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss attachment styles, how we can communicate with someone who shows a behaviour that makes us unsure about them, and if your partner can ever change. --- Join Matt's FREE 2-hour "Dating With Results" live training at Dating...
Jul 06, 2022•1 hr 11 min
When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself? Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out first on an app, or allowing yourself to “let go” whilst on a date, this fear is the very thing that will have you looking back wistfully and saying “What if?” years from now rather than saying “Why not?” in the moment. Of course, in a world where people are constantly trying to curate and filter their lives, it’s no wonder most of us find it scary to ...
Jul 04, 2022•12 min
If you’ve got someone in your life who’s either treated you carelessly or simply not investing, check this episode out because I’ll tell you what to do. May my voice of reason forever haunt you in your dreams. I don’t want to spend more time giving energy to these terms and phenomena that aren’t what you want in the first place, I’d rather give time to finding people who are serious in your life. If you want to stop over analysing things that don’t matter, and start actually pursuing things that...
Jul 01, 2022•8 min
Sometimes you're dating someone who gives you mixed signals. You feel you have amazing chemistry and he pays you lots of attention in person, but in between your dates it's like he's disappeared. Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk about what this could mean and how you can respond when there's a mismatch so you don't get stuck in limbo. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com - Offer e...
Jun 29, 2022•1 hr 9 min
Today's episode will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress. I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leaving is the right decision for you. I also break down a new model that will help you identify what to watch out for and the dangerous cocktail of certain traits we must avoid in someone . . . these are the traits that can make a relationship so toxic that over time, it will erode our confidence and identity to th...
Jun 27, 2022•25 min
Tired of being trapped in limbo when someone doesn't know what they really want? It's easy for people to not want to commit while STILL craving the comfort of keeping you around. If you're stuck in this trap, listen to this NOW . . . --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com - Offer ends July 6th. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at po...
Jun 24, 2022•6 min
You may have been dating a guy that seemed promising, until he said that ONE thing, or you saw ONE behaviour, and it totally turned you off. Or you've been together for 6 months, and your attraction has now turned to repulsion. This is "the ick", and in this episode, Matt, Stephen, and Audrey sit down to look at how this strange phenomenon occurs and what it says about attraction. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The...
Jun 22, 2022•1 hr 7 min
In this episode, I talk about some of the top questions I’ve been asked on the topic of keeping someone's interest and when to sleep together —the ones that cause people to reach out to me in SOS mode—including: • When to have sex with someone you’re dating. • How to have the conversation about sex before you sleep together (and as a bonus, I even provide a sample script you can adapt). • How to handle rejection and ghosting. I promise you won’t have to worry about “losing your power” ever again...
Jun 20, 2022•20 min
If you've ever expressed your needs to someone, or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you, and you were made to feel crazy, this video is for you. It's a horrible feeling when we are upset or anxious and we don't even know if what we are saying is reasonable or whether we are overreacting . . . That's why I'm so excited for you to see this - it's going to show you how to get your personal power back and make sense of the situation. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Yo...
Jun 17, 2022•8 min
“Where can I meet quality men?” I’ve probably been asked this question every day for the last 15 years. Between endless swiping on apps and being in the same friendship circles, many people struggle to even meet people they feel attracted to. But is there actually an untapped magical place teeming with single guys? Should you go to a Tough Mudder to find your (slightly-dirt-stained) person? In today’s episode, I get to the bottom of these questions and reveal how you can dramatically increase yo...
Jun 13, 2022•18 min
What’s the #1 sexiest thing a woman can do on a first date? Play footsie under the table? Wear a low-cut V-neck sweater? Whisper, “Hey handsome” in his ear when he gives you a hug? Nope. While those things won’t by any means hurt your chances, what really makes a guy want you depends on how you make him feel in your company. He needs to feel intrigued. He needs to feel attractive. He needs to feel a sense of fun . . . This week, I’m going to teach you 5 killer lines you can say to any guy to fil...
Jun 10, 2022•7 min
Do you worry about attracting the wrong people? Feel like you struggle to trust that a partner won’t betray you or turn out to be different than you predicted? In this episode, Matt talks about how you can overcome your fear of choosing the wrong person and build self-trust. --- Design Your North Star With Men & Be Confident in Every Decision. Claim Your Early Bird Discount for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch wi...
Jun 08, 2022•57 min
One of the biggest frustrations about red flags is that they can be filtered out by our rose-colored glasses, only allowing us to see them clearly in hindsight. But there are ways to appropriately respond to red flags in early dating (if you can spot them), and in this episode, I show you one way to “crack the code” . . . That is, of course, to always have a North Star. This week, I walk through what, exactly, a North Star is, why it’s so important to have in order to be successful in dating, an...
Jun 06, 2022•18 min
Don't "jump the gun" and get ahead of yourself just because you meet someone you like. If you fall hard for people too early, this message from Matt is for you... --- Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets...
Jun 03, 2022•7 min
Want to know what he's really thinking on a first date? What do men worry about when looking for love? Matt and Stephen asked thousands of men in our audience about their BIGGEST insecurities and the answers were pretty amazing. If you want a real eye-opening window into male fears and his psychology in dating, you're going to love this. --- Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASK...
Jun 01, 2022•1 hr 6 min
So, this wasn't the episode we planned to release this week. But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn't wait to talk about it. I asked men about their specific insecurities when it comes to early dating. And what we got back was more vulnerable and real than anyone expected. Not only that, but the women's responses to the men's candid comments were beautiful. The incredible responses also brough...
May 30, 2022•12 min
Ever felt let down from someone who promised to call but never did? Listen to this clip of Matt live coaching on how to move on when you feel disappointed from ghosting and build your confidence back today. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected] --- Join our Love.Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today. --- Fo...
May 27, 2022•9 min
