If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “I’m so done with dating,” this video is for you. Dating burnout is real, and it’s easy to see the process of finding love as a chore. But what if there was a way to make dating fun again? That’s right. Going out, dating, finding a meaningful connection—this can be a rewarding part of your life, regardless of whether you’re looking for a committed relationship. So if you need a refresh for your brain right now, here are 7 powerful mindsets that will make dat...
Apr 14, 2025•18 min
Breakups are incredibly hard. And a split can be even more excruciating when your partner moves on while you’re still healing. It can leave you with all kinds of painful questions like: “Why wasn’t I good enough?” “What does that person have that I don’t have?” “Have I lost the love of my life to someone else?” It’s one of the worst types of pain there is. And if we don’t learn the right lessons from our breakup, it can create baggage in the form of insecurities and an unwillingness to open up t...
Apr 11, 2025•9 min
In this episode of the Love Life Podcast, Matthew, Audrey, Stephen, and producer David dive deep into one of the most common struggles in dating: flirting. So many people feel stuck when it comes to creating chemistry, worrying they'll come off as desperate, awkward, or get rejected. This episode breaks down how to define “flirting” rather than just talking, and gives some simple-but-powerful ways to do it in early attraction. 🎯 Topics include: Why people often lose their flirtatious spark when...
Apr 09, 2025•1 hr
If finding love feels harder than ever in 2025, it’s not just you. In today’s episode, I explore the cultural shifts and challenges that are fueling the “relationship recession.” Drawing inspiration from the Netflix series Adolescence , we’ll dive into the disillusionment many men are facing, the frustrations women are experiencing, and the hidden dynamics making connection feel so elusive. From surprising stats to the subtle mindsets that sabotage us before love even begins, this video connects...
Apr 07, 2025•25 min
Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away? It feels awful. You panic. You overthink every text message. You worry that losing this person could mean losing your chance at a real connection, or your dream of a relationship with someone truly special. I’ve found there are 3 common mistakes people make when they get into this panic mindset, and in today’s new video, I’ll show you the best strategy to give yourself the maximum chance of salvaging the relationshi...
Apr 04, 2025•14 min
In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey dive into the “box theory”—the idea that people get placed into one of three boxes when dating: "Want to date," "Just for fun," or "Not interested." But is it really that simple? And can you change boxes over time? We break down the psychology behind first impressions in dating, whether it's possible to shift from casual to committed, and what really makes someone decide we’re ‘relationship material’. Topics Covered: What is the “3 Box Theory” of dat...
Apr 02, 2025•1 hr 1 min
Why do so many people struggle with the idea of commitment—even when they want love? What fears do you have to confront? And what does it really take to feel ready? In this conversation, I interview newly-married bestselling author and entrepreneur Lewis Howes about managing the “storms” of life, avoiding the self-doubt trap, and what it means to give your heart fully to a relationship. But we don’t stop there. We also get into money—why it’s so emotionally charged, and how unhealed financial wo...
Apr 01, 2025•2 hr 7 min
We’ve all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry we’ll lose all our “power,” but if we show too little, they may not even realize we’re interested. In today’s Rewind episode, I share 5 tips on how to approach this in the early stages of dating so you can not only show the right amount of interest, but...
Mar 28, 2025•19 min
In this episode, we dive deep into the biggest challenges people face in dating — from rejection and insecurity to feeling like the odds are stacked against you. Whether you feel stuck due to age, lack of experience, body image, or financial worries, this episode is packed with reframes, real-life listener questions, and practical mindset shifts to help you get out of your own way and start moving forward with confidence. PLUS: A special interview with Lewis Howes on handling overwhelm, emotiona...
Mar 26, 2025•1 hr 17 min
You may have an idea of your perfect partner—the person who feels like the missing piece you’ve been searching for. When you finally meet someone who appears to tick all your boxes, you tell yourself, “This is it—the search is over!” But is that really what makes someone right for you? What if that person rejects you? In this episode, I show the TRUTH about compatibility in a relationship and what really makes someone “The One,” so that you never obsess over the wrong person again. --- ►► Order ...
Mar 24, 2025•15 min
We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . . But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to keep someone interested, that often means we’re feeling anything but cool . . . and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected. Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our conversations and contorting ourselves to meet the other person’s needs so we don’t come off as needy or a nuisance, and little by little, we start to show t...
Mar 21, 2025•12 min
In this episode, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey have a candid conversation about whether dating your "type" is actually helping or hurting your chances of finding love. Topics include: Are you stuck dating your "type"? How being overly attached to your type can blind you to better matches The difference between chemistry, compatibility, and long-term happiness Why your “type” might be based on old patterns or insecurities The modern fear of commitment: How people get stuck in relationship “TV shows...
Mar 19, 2025•1 hr 12 min
Ever had that sinking feeling that something in your relationship isn’t quite right—but you push it aside because everything seems too good to be true? We’ve all been there. And no film captures this better than Anora , this year’s Best Picture winner at the Academy Awards. If you’ve ever rushed into commitment, been swept away by grand gestures, or felt like you’re in a one-sided relationship, then you need to watch today’s episode. I break down the 5 biggest red flags that signal your relation...
Mar 17, 2025•12 min
Have you ever dated someone who’s so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH they’re not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your distance? It’s like a drug . . . or the worst kind of junk food . . . even after you swear it off for good, your resolve crumbles the moment they reach out. When you’re in this vulnerable position, the hope that they may change and that things could be different is what drags you back in. And before you know it, you go right back to feeling powerless—...
Mar 14, 2025•15 min
Welcome to the new re-branded Love Life Podcast , where Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen bring you fresh relationship insights, answer your questions, and throw in a silly game or two every week! In this inaugural episode, we're flipping the script on dating talk—everyone loves to discuss red flags , but today, we're diving into green flags : the subtle but crucial signs that someone is truly relationship material. Topics Covered in This Episode: Why society is obsessed with red flags and how to shi...
Mar 12, 2025•1 hr 11 min
We tell ourselves we have high standards—but is that actually true? Or are we just prioritizing the wrong things? And what if we meet someone who’s perfect on paper, but there’s no spark? Can chemistry slowly grow, or is it something we either feel instantly . . . or never will? For today’s new episode, I sat down with Kristin Cavallari on her “Let’s Be Honest” podcast to talk about chemistry vs. compatibility, one of the biggest mistakes people make in dating, and what actually matters when you...
Mar 10, 2025•24 min
In today’s Rewind episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone you like. And remember, no one (including yourself!) should make you feel like you’re “not enough.” No matter who you’re dating, by investing in yourself, you can come into any situation feeling like an equal. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://...
Mar 07, 2025•13 min
In this episode, Matthew sits down once again with Yung Pueblo, the #1 New York Times bestselling author of " How To Love Better ", to explore deeper insights into love, relationships, and emotional growth. Topics Covered: How to cultivate emotional peace and avoid sabotaging relationships The challenge of maintaining non-attachment while desiring love Navigating dating anxiety and fear of loss How to balance personal happiness and the search for a relationship The role of mindfulness in long-te...
Mar 05, 2025•46 min
This week’s new video is an extra special one: the first half of my interview with poet, meditator, speaker, and bestselling author Yung Pueblo. We talk about specific signs that a relationship will last, the myth of “if it’s right, it will be easy,” how to stop toxic communication patterns, navigating the early stages of dating, and so much more. No matter which stage of a relationship you’re in, this interview is a must-watch. I can’t wait to hear what you think! --- ►► Order My New Book, "Lov...
Mar 03, 2025•43 min
This week’s video is about moving in together. But you should watch it even if you’re not at that stage with someone, because it contains a truth that is essential to understand when moving from one stage of a relationship to the next. If there is someone in your life you plan on getting more serious with, this is for you. I felt this video was especially relevant to these times where the term “turbo relationships” is on the rise. A “turbo relationship” is a relationship that is moving unnatural...
Feb 28, 2025•5 min
Are you struggling with heartbreak after falling for someone who says they can’t be with you? In this episode, Matthew unpacks what it really means when someone claims they “can’t” be in a relationship. Through the of a woman who gave everything to a man who wouldn’t commit, Matthew breaks down key insights that will help you regain clarity, self-worth, and the courage to move forward. Topics covered: The Difference Between "Right" and "Ready" – Why the perfect person for you isn't just about co...
Feb 26, 2025•18 min
Description: After a breakup, a lot of us know we should go “no contact,” but then all sorts of sneaky questions start to pop into our heads and everything becomes a “What if . . .” What if . . . • It’s their birthday? • They’re going through a hard time? • I run into them? • They reach out? • I find out they really miss me? • “No contact” isn’t possible? • I believe deep down that we’re meant to be together? In today’s new episode, I answer 7 of your top questions about going “no contact” so yo...
Feb 24, 2025•19 min
Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another. Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship. With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while wasting our most precious resource: time. Today’s Rewind episode could end up saving you months or even years of pain by providing you with the questi...
Feb 21, 2025•21 min
Heartbreak is never easy—especially around Valentine’s Day. In this episode, Matthew dives deep into the struggles of heartbreak, the emotional pain of moving on, and how to navigate feelings of loss, regret, and loneliness. And if you're struggling with heartbreak, don’t miss our free live event on February 25th, where he’ll guide you through the process of healing and moving forward. Sign up at LoveLifeTraining.com . Main Topics Covered: Why Valentine’s Day can be a painful reminder of heartbr...
Feb 20, 2025•57 min
In this episode, Matthew and Audrey tackle some of the toughest listener questions about love, rejection, and moving on. From rebuilding after heartbreak to recognizing red flags, they also break down the emotional roadblocks that keep people stuck and show you how to move forward. You'll hear: How to ungive up on dating in 2025 Why closure isn’t always about an explanation—sometimes, it’s just seeing the truth The surprising red flag that’s often overlooked when choosing a partner How to stop w...
Feb 19, 2025•49 min
There are 5 words no one wants to hear: “It’s not you, it’s me . . .” But the moment we hear that, we don’t believe it. We figure they just don’t want to tell us the real reason. We wonder: “Did they feel we had a lack of chemistry? Was it something I said? Were their friends pressuring them to break up with us?” Our mind starts to spiral and we analyze every single thing we might have done “wrong.” In today’s episode, I share 3 reasons why it truly isn’t about you (REALLY!) and how you can use ...
Feb 17, 2025•27 min
Are you one of those people who dreads Valentine's Day? Whether they're single or in a relationship, people have all kinds of reasons for wanting to skip February 14th: There’s too much pressure to be romantic. It’s all about money and gifts. Single people are made to feel like failures. It would be easy for me to say all the reasons Valentine’s isn’t worth the trouble. But I think we can all make this an event we actually enjoy instead of dread. First, you need to avoid some of the big mistakes...
Feb 14, 2025•7 min
When we’re heartbroken, it can feel like the pain will go on forever . . . we’re afraid and overwhelmed, and too often we fall into habits that actually make it harder to heal. In this new epsiode, you’ll learn about 4 behaviors that can keep people stuck in heartbreak , and give you a “heartbreak roadmap” so you can finally move forward and feel like yourself again. (And be sure to stay until the end for a brand-new tool that can help you move on!) ►► Join My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal From ...
Feb 10, 2025•31 min
It’s so easy in the early stages to confuse big gestures with real romance. In this clip, I’ll show you how being able to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential and save you SO much grief and time in relationships. You’ll also see how to communicate your needs if someone isn’t giving you real closeness and it feels like they are rushing forward while not showing real consistency. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.Ask...
Feb 07, 2025•18 min
In this episode, Matthew Hussey explores why we often delay moving forward, waiting for the "perfect" time to start fresh. What if that perfect time never comes? Drawing from a powerful conversation at a recent Love Life Club event, Matthew unpacks how we unintentionally put our lives on hold, whether in love, career, or personal growth. Matthew also talks about limiting beliefs and reshaping your mindset so you can stop waiting and start living—even in the messy, imperfect middle of life! Topic...
Feb 06, 2025•26 min
