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Ep 2 - participating & validation

Aug 19, 20211 hr 13 minEp. 2
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Episode description

Fresh from a break-up with my partner of two years, I break down two of the DBT skills I used in the midst of the hardest conversations with my now-former partner: participation & validation.  I go over how I used participation to be fully present in conversations with my partner, and how I practiced validating both my partner's experience and my own.

Helpful resources from this episode:DBT references

DBT Skills Training Handouts and Worksheets – online pdf version

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DBT handouts used in this episode

Mindfulness Handout 4 - Taking Hold of Your Mind: "What" Skills

  • Participate

Interpersonal Effectiveness Handout 6 - Guidelines for Relationship Effectiveness: Keeping the Relationship (GIVE)

  • V: Validate

Interpersonal Effectiveness Handout 6A - Expanding the V in GIVE: Levels of Validation

Interpersonal Effectiveness Handout 17 - Validation

Interpersonal Effectiveness Handout 18 - A "How To" Guide to Validation

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