Join us as we translate some common phrases amongst men and women to each other. This is similar to our "Why do men and women...?" episode but with a TWIST! We had fun with this one, so we hope y'all enjoy! Hookup The Cook Family Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! @lnsthepodcast Personal pages: @_neederz & @_organicdev
We've all heard it before--if he wanted to...he would. Is this necessarily true though? Join us as we dive into the phrase and decipher whether it's actually a good piece of advice or not. We also touch on where this has shown up in our own relationship before, so don't miss out. Enjoy! Hookup The Eagle (CLT) 2120 S Blvd Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! @lnsthepodcast Personal pages: @_neederz & @_organicdev...
You did the dishes after I asked you to...do you want a cookie??? In this episode we break down what the bare minimum in relationships look like, if you should praise your partner for doing it, how to go above the bare minimum, and some advice for those who may be receiving or giving the bare minimum. Enjoy! Hookup Zola Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! @lnsthepodcast Personal pages: @_neederz & @_organicdev...
"But if we hold hands...YOU MY GIRL!" Join us as we chat about part of Chris Rock's Netflix Special "Selective Outrage." Why is holding hands more intimate than intercourse and even kissing? Hookup jamonteogbon Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! lnsthepodcast Personal pages: @_neederz & @_organicdev...
What phase of dating are you in? If it identifies with, chilling, vibing, or hangin' out, you might just be in the talking phase. Join us as we chat about what the talking stage is, why it exists, how it's different from dating, and how we feel about it. Enjoy! The Hookup Pure Barre (search one near you) Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! @lnsthepodcast Personal pages: @_neederz & @_organicdev...
Join us as we break down an insightful thread we found on Twitter. We chat about how many times it’s not about the situation we’re upset over, it’s the deeper meaning/the narrative our brain is creating behind it. Stop Trippin’ and tune in for some mindfulness and healthy practices to better understand/work through your triggers. Enjoy!
So we heard the dating pool has pee in it...we had to see for ourselves. Tune into tonight's episode as we chat with our friend Jamie about what it's like in the dating world currently, what it's like to date in your 20's as a female, some common themes she's seen while dating, and some things she's learned about herself. Some gems were definitely dropped in this episode so we hope y'all enjoy!! Hookup Aloha Asheville Incredible Convo Podcast Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share th...
Life update: WE'RE ENGAGED!!!!! Tune into tonight's episode as we share some details from the proposal, behind the scenes of the day-of, and how we're currently feeling. We hope y'all enjoy!! Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! @lnsthepodcast
The most HONEST, OPEN AND WHOLESOME PODCAST IN THE WORLD is back and we're getting personal by answering some questions from the Black Love Cards. We discuss what we need from each other, family dynamics, throuples, and more. Hope y'all enjoy! The Hookup Black Love Cards Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! lnsthepodcast...
*It's the bigger love of the faaamilyyyy* In this episode we chat about family and how sometimes boundaries need to be set when it comes to certain family scenarios. We discuss bonds between you and your significant others' parents, reaching out to parents for relationship advice, starting your own family/holiday traditions, and protecting your partner at family gatherings. We stress that this is not an episode boycotting against family involvement in your relationship; we just want to remind y'...
No *EmOTionAl DAmAgE* over here! In this episode, we discuss what it means to have emotional intelligence in your relationships (romantic, platonic, etc). We cover controlling emotions, having empathy for others, motivation and having self awareness when it comes to how you react and treat others. Of course we like to leave y'all better off than when you came in, so we also give tips on how to work on your EQ. Hope y'all enjoy! The Hookup Freshwaters Buy Me a Coffee Be sure to stay plugged in wi...
Should you stay or should you go? In this episode, we get into signs that indicate it's probably time to exit a relationship. We cover what to do when you're the initiator in that type of situation, when your friends complain about their relationship but don't leave, if leaving is different for men and women, and what we would personally do if we were to go about leaving OUR OWN relationship. There are so many gems to take away from this episode, so we hope y'all enjoy! The Hookup On The Rocks B...
Do's and Don'ts...let's get into them!! In this episode, we discuss things we think are a go and things we think are a no on first dates. Some of these may be super obvious but others may be some helpful tips so we hope y'all take something away from this episode regardless (even if it's just a good laugh). Enjoy! The Hookup The Hause Collective CLT Buy Me a Coffee Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! @lnsthepodcast...
OoooOOOoooOooOOo! SppOOOoooOOooOKyyy! In this episode, we discuss all things ghosting. Why do people do it? What do we consider ghosting? Does it matter if both people aren't feeling the connection anyway? Mutual ghosting??? Join us to see where we stand on this dating issue and enjoy the episode! The Hookup @eatwingsover Support the pod Buy Me a Coffee Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! @lnsthepodcast...
FIND GOD. In this episode, we sit down with our good friend, Khalil Small, to talk about what it looks like to trust God as the main factor of your relationship. We cover what leadership looks like in a spirit led relationship, why it's important to HAVE a spirit led relationship, and even what it looks like to have 2 partners that are not on the same page with the way they practice their faith. Khalil also shares his journey of becoming a disciple with us. There's so much goodness in this episo...
When life hits, you do a spur of the moment podcast! Join us as we adjust to life's curveballs and cover stereotype questions, talk about what's going on in our lives, and ask each other a couple questions that have been on our minds lately :) The Hookup Smart Money Movin Holiday boxes Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! @lnsthepodcast...
Like dang we're really whole a** adults out here! In this episode we get to dive into our friends', Nate and Aleysha, lives to see what it's like for a couple in their twenties to parent, be married, co-parent, be step parents, etc. We hope that some part of their story resonates with you because just like us, they're doing their best and doing it well! Tap in and enjoy! The Hookup Hygge Coworking Support the pod Buy Me a Coffee Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a ...
It's all about trust folks! In this episode we breakdown what trusting our partner in leading means to us and what actually goes into that trust. We discuss how men and women look at their partner as a leader different and how a good way to look at it is one is the neck and the other is the head: can't have one without the other. This is definitely an underrated topic so we hope you enjoy us getting to the bottom of it! The Hookup House of Fade Barbershop Buy Me a Coffee Be sure to stay plugged ...
Nuggets on nuggets on nuggetssss! In this episode we sit down with co-host, Eneida Rivera's, parents (Charles and Janet) to discuss generational differences in dating, marriage, raising kids, college, and careers. Through this conversation, we get an inside look on how baby boomers affected gen X, who then affected millennials right down on to gen z. The differences are so insightful and really give a good perspective on how the generation before us really affects the way we see the world and ma...
Yup, we're going there. In this episode we cover all things "nice guy." What makes a nice guy "nice?" Why do women say they want a nice guy when they really don't? Is there a happy medium between f-boys and nice guys? Do we stay nice or enter our villain era? HEEEELPPPPP! Grab a snack and listen to us chat about the infamous "Nice Guy." The Hookup Romeo's Vegan Burgers Book No More Mr. Nice Guy Buy Me a Coffee Coffee! Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! @ln...
IT'S OUR ANNIVERSSSAAARRYYYY! In this episode we take turns asking each other questions reflecting on the last 3 years. We talk about how things aren't exactly how we thought they'd be 3 years in, but how we're happy and grateful, nonetheless. Grab a snack and enjoy this sneak peek into the "deeper" side of our conversations. The Hookup Instax Bundle Instax Camera Instax Film Buy Me a Coffee Coffee! Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! @lnsthepodcast...
AND WE'RE BACK!!! In this episode we each share our thoughts on why we think men and women cheat. We state the importance of communicating lack of needs met in your relationship before stepping out to cheat as well as chat about unintentional cheating. We end the episode with a nice rhetorical question: would you like it to be done to you? -- making sure that you think about the other person's feelings before acting. That is all for now--enjoy! The Hookup Slingshot CLT Buy Me a Coffee Coffee! Cl...
LAST EPISODE!!! In this episode we cover the infamous 5 love languages. We talk about what each of them mean, the importance of selflessly loving your partner in their love language, how languages can change overtime, our own love languages, and the subjectivity of love. We also mention/link a book you can read to dive further into the languages on your own time. We hope y'all have enjoyed this season, and we can't wait to be back in two weeks! The Hookup @tracksidecrafts Book The 5 Love Languag...
In this episode we talk about all things goals! We chat about the importance of goal setting, the benefits of goal setting as a single and a partner, tips on the best ways to goal set, and SMART goals. We recommend some good books as well for our reading snackers. A new month is rolling in so what better way to kick it off by tuning into the pod and setting some new goals! Enjoy! The Hookup @marcgriffin_ Buy me a coffee https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lns Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG an...
In this episode we cover some common red flags and what we think makes them red flags to begin with. We chat with each other about what we think our own red flags are and the difference between red flags and "the ick." Our most important point made was that EVERYONE has red flags to some degree and that's OKAY. Find comfort in the fact that we are all going through the same thing, working on ourselves to become the version of ourselves we'd like to be, and be sure to keep an eye out for red flag...
In this episode, we answer some “Why do men/women…” questions asked by our fellow snackers. We clear up/provide insight on these stereotypes by sharing our points of view with each other. We also had some family chime in as our live audience which provided a fun touch to the episode. Enjoy! The Hookup: IG: @jaisonwade Podcast: lazywadepodcast Music: Jaison Wade (available on all platforms) Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share the page with a friend! @lnsthepodcast
"Why does love always feel like a battlleefiieeellddd?!!??" In this episode we chat about navigating through conflict in relationships. We cover how it's totally okay to agree to disagree, the importance of sticking with the goal of the conversation rather than trying to win an argument, and conflict and apology styles. We also discuss how it's crucial to remember that you and your partner are on the SAME TEAM--work together and play for the same team through the conflict. Enjoy! The Hookup Best...
In this episode, we have some quick and concise points about the importance of honesty in dating and relationships. We cover how being honest with the other person early on avoids long term secrets, tension, fights, miscommunication, etc. We also give some tips on how to create a space between two people for honesty to easily live and how important time and place and tone and delivery are to help get your point across. Enjoy! The Hookup: DeliSt Be sure to stay plugged in with us on IG and share ...
In this episode, we share some tips for keeping the spark alive in your relationship. We talk about the importance of continuously dating your partner and making an effort, being spontaneous, paying attention to details and interests, and our favorite-- THE DATE JAR :) If you're wanting to spice things up and keep things interesting in your relationship, tune in for some fun ideas! Enjoy! The Hookup: Pinky's Westside Grill Kid Cashew Charlotte Thrives On Plants Be sure to stay plugged in with us...
"Honey I'm hooooommmeeee!" In this episode we chat about the reality of moving in with your partner and how life looks different when you're living together. We cover the positives and negatives, the do's and don'ts, some helpful tips and the importance of COMPROMISE. We reflect on our living situation as well to give better context on our insight. Pack a bag, tune on in, and enjoy! The Hookup: Yesica Salas (Personal Trainer, Zumba Instructor, STRONG Instructor) @salasfitness_ salasfitness.com B...
